Chapter 627: The Responsible Son-in-law
Due to the astonishing words of Tu Wa and Brother Li, the lights in the main hall of the Li family are really bright now.
Mother Li found two candlesticks from the side room and lit them, making the already bright main hall extremely bright.
This is not over yet. This is probably the first time in decades of living that she has encountered such a thing. For the first time, Mother Li took out money by herself after dinner. I bought sweet porridge and water from the shop that was still open on the street.
So, now, Li Sanniang is holding a bowl of red bean porridge and eating it every bite.
Li Sanniang was multitasking, eating porridge and listening to Brother Li explaining his thoughts to Father Li and Mother Li.
Brother Li has an upright and generous temperament. He finished the shallow bowl of red bean porridge in just three or four bites. After putting down the spoon, he stretched out the back of his hand to put it on his mouth. After wiping it, Brother Li spoke seriously to Father Li and Mother Li sitting above him, as well as Li Sanniang and Brother Li sitting opposite.
Oh, there is another person in the main hall of the Li family, Tu Wa, who is sitting next to Brother Li right now.
On the low floor of the side hall lay the little Ganoderma lucidum that had been soothed and fell asleep. Only then did Tuva sit peacefully in the main hall, eating porridge and water while talking to everyone.
There is another person in the main hall who can be said to have nothing to do with this matter. The only person sitting behind Li Sanniang is Qiuxiang.
However, it is hard to say that they are unrelated. After all, Qiuxiang and Li Sanniang have lived together for more than a year, and have saved Li Sanniang's life several times. Li Sanniang has long regarded Qiuxiang as a family member.
However, Qiu Xiang was not so cold-blooded. After listening to Brother Li’s words at the beginning, she intentionally retreated outside the door, but Brother Li waved his hand at Qiu Xiang and said : "It doesn't matter. Just like Sanniang, you are also the daughter of the Li family in this house. There is no need to avoid it."
In this way, Qiuxiang stayed.
However, Qiuxiang still adheres to the principle of talking less and doing more, hiding herself behind Li Sanniang, basically not interrupting, and just listening to everyone talking.
“Mei Niang and I didn’t think much about having children. After we had Da Lang and Er Lang, Mei Niang and I felt that we were fine.
Although it is good to have more children and more blessings, raising children is extremely troublesome. "
Brother Li looked at Father Li and Mother Li, and said with great emotion: "I have known since I was a child that I am not Aye's biological son. After all, when Aniang took me from the border to Chang'an, I Already almost two years old.
Although I don’t remember much, I still understand this.
But after my mother-in-law married Aye, Aye treated me no differently than his own son. Within a few months, I couldn’t remember the hard days with my mother-in-law at the border.
Only when you raise a child do you realize how kind your parents are. It was only after Mei Niang and I had a son that I realized how much Aye Aniang had given to me. ”
Speaking of this, Brother Li, a six-foot-tall strong man, even had a choked voice. Li Sanniang looked at Father Li and Mother Li above, and saw that Father Li, who rarely showed emotions, now had red eyes. .
“So, after we had Erlang, I discussed with Mei Niang that only these two sons were enough.
So far, we have been avoiding each other, but it has always been good.< br>
But who would have thought that this was an accident and we actually gave birth to Xiaoliu?
When I found out that Mei Niang was pregnant again at the beginning, I was naturally happy. Dalang went to the border, and Erlang had already stood up. Suddenly another child came, so I was very happy
However, who would have thought that this child almost harmed Mei Niang. "
"Brother! "
Li Sanniang directly interrupted and called Brother Li. Brother Li looked at Li Sanniang with surprise, who suddenly called him.
"Brother, let Sanniang interrupt.
This Korokuro is just a newborn baby. He never thought of harming his sister-in-law. Everything was just an accident.
Everything about this woman's pregnancy was random. Before the child was born, she was just a ball of flesh and blood in the womb. How could she actively harm others?
Brother, please don’t say this. Neither my sister-in-law nor Korokuro wants this. No one wants this. "
After Brother Li was stunned for a moment, he smiled helplessly, and nodded in agreement with what Li Sanniang said.
"If I had known that this child could cause Mei Niang to suffer so much, The difficulty was that he should have beaten the child directly in the first place. "
Seeing the disapproval on the faces of Mother Li and Li Sanniang, Brother Li had to quickly add: "I know, I know, and I will never say this in front of Mei Niang and Xiaoliu in the future.
But Mei Niang's appearance this time really scared me.
Mei Niang and I will live together until old age, and I will be buried with Mei Niang in the future. How can I bear to see her suffer like this?
So, Aye, give me some medicine. As long as I can’t give birth, Mei Niang won’t have to suffer anymore. That's what I think, Mei Niang and I already have three sons, which is enough.
We can see each other when Da Lang comes back next year. In a few years, Mei Niang and I will be grandma.
So very good. "
Brother Li's words can be said to be heartbreaking.
Li Sanniang originally thought that Brother Li was a rare and good man, but now Li Sanniang felt in her heart, Brother Li is a perfect score. Such a responsible, willing and willing man is rare in modern society, let alone the Tang Dynasty at this time.
How many men are willing to voluntarily choose sterilization in order to avoid suffering for their wives?
Yes, but it would be good to have a few out of a hundred.
"What do you think?
You have to know that the big man is like this because he has three sons. You only have a little girl now. If you drink medicine like the big man, what will happen in the future?
If you regret it in the future, I can't let you get pregnant again.
Have you really thought about it carefully? "
Father Li? He looked at Tuva who was sitting next to Brother Li very seriously and asked. However, after seeing that Tuva was stunned for a moment, he was still very determined and handed over to Li's father.
"Excuse me, Dr. Li, I have really figured it out.
Due to the war in my tribe, apart from Di Li in the building, I am the only one left.
I also had many half-brothers, but they all died, and I was the only one who survived.
I followed the troupe to Chang'an, and met Qiuniang again. , I married Qiuniang, and I will live in Chang'an from now on.
As the eldest brother of the Li family said, Qiuniang is the only person closest to me, and I will live with Qiuniang for the rest of my life. .
This time Qiuniang's appearance really scared me. I didn't want her to leave me because of the childbirth and make me lonely again.
I don’t want to find another woman, I just want to live with Qiuniang.
I know that you Han people can find ways for your daughter to find a son-in-law to keep her family.
I thought, that’s it, I just need to find a son-in-law for my Ganoderma lucidum to marry into my family.
So, what else is there to be afraid of?
A girl is more reassuring than a son. Even if Qiuniang and I get old, it will be good to have Ganoderma by our side. ”
Why should male ligation be advocated?
Although female fallopian tube ligation is a simple and beneficial birth control measure, compared with it, male vasectomy is simpler and more convenient. , safe and reliable.
Those who think that male sterilization will greatly damage the vitality and the family cannot be supported by "men" are wrong.
It is because of this idea that most women are sterilized in our country. It's not because female sterilization is better than male sterilization.
Therefore, we must establish a scientific point of view and promote male sterilization.
First of all, vas deferens is a simple operation. It is located under the skin of the scrotum and is superficial. It is easy to be hooked and the possibility of accidental ligation is small;
Furthermore, there are no important organs, blood vessels, or other organs next to the vas deferens. Nerves are not easily injured accidentally.
In addition, the incision is small, does not enter the abdominal cavity, there is no obvious pain and bleeding, and there are few or no need for stitches.
You can go home after one hour of rest, and you can work as usual the next day.
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According to the China Health Statistics Yearbook (Volume 2020), in 2019, the number of fallopian tube ligation was 237,489, and the number of vasectomy was There are only 4742, and the male to female ratio is about 2:100.
Vasectomy is a method of achieving contraception through surgery. The contraceptive failure rate (0.15%) is lower than condoms (21% for women and 13% for men) and oral contraceptives ( 7%) and tubal ligation (0.5%), etc. [2], but it is still not zero failure.
——The above comes from the Internet
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