Chapter 817 Five Years Later (Six) The Value of a Girl (Thanks for the monthly ticket that saves tears~)
Li Sanniang looked at Sun Chunlan with her head lowered in front of her, and she was in a visibly depressed mood, and felt a little sorry for her.
"You kid, why did you get into the horns again?"
Li Sanniang reached out and grabbed Sun Chunlan's hand, and held Sun Chunlan's hand with her warm palm. With cold fingertips, she first sighed softly, and then said softly to Sun Chunlan: "Look up, it's not your fault that you are sick, it's God's fault, what do you do?
Don’t be responsible for irrelevant mistakes. ”
"Sanniang, I"
Sun Chunlan looked at Li Sanniang's gentle and firm eyes, and she couldn't say what she wanted to say.
“You are your grandma’s treasure, you are lucky to be able to come to this world.
Didn’t you think too much in the early years?
< br>How can you fall into confusion because of other people’s words? ”
"Sanniang, I, I am. I."
Li Sanniang raised her hand to give Sun Chunlan a lick of hair beside her ears, then she smiled at Sun Chunlan and said, "You have been in my school for a long time. , do well in your studies, otherwise I wouldn’t recruit you to work in this obstetrics and gynecology hall.
Chunlan, a woman does not have to give birth to a child in this world.
< br>The value of a girl’s life is not only about having children!
Don’t you already know this? ”
Li Sanniang knew that Chunlan was just old, and she couldn't look at each other like other girls because of her physical illness. Finding a happy son-in-law was the most common and happiest thing in the world. Days of depression and depression in my heart.
Sun Chunlan was not sad that she could not find a son-in-law, she was sad that she had no choice.
This is like a situation in modern society. There is a difference between DINK families who actively choose not to have children and those who have to choose not to have children because of their own illnesses.
Subjective right to choose, this is the key!
“I can” and “I have to” are two completely different states.
"Chunlan, you are a female doctor at the Chang'an City Obstetrics and Gynecology Clinic, a girl who receives a monthly salary from the court. You support yourself on your own. What an amazing thing this is!
That's it! It's enough for you to stand in front of others with your head upright!"
Li Sanniang's words were powerful, and Sun Chunlan slowly raised her head because of these words.
“I know you are holding back grievances in your heart.
Chunlan, go away and think about it, you are still young and you will still have a good life in the next few decades. Have you been thinking about this every day?
There are so many other things that can be done in this life, and having children is by no means the only important thing.
Just like what your grandma said, in the future you save money and go to the Salesian Hospital to ask for a little girl to come to your home, raise her well, and experience being a grandma for once, except that you didn’t give birth to her. Besides, isn't it good that you raised her well?
Chunlan, in the days to come, do you still have many choices to make?
Why only think about this unchangeable point? "
After seeing that the confusion on Sun Chunlan's face was much lessened, Li Sanniang looked at her and asked, "Okay, think about what I said when you go back."
Now, I have to ask you, your grandma and grandma’s thoughts are their thoughts, so how do you think about it yourself?
Do you think Zhang Wulang is a good match for you?
Or do you think Zhang Wulang is not a good match for you?
Otherwise, do you think you need a good match now? "
Sun Chunlan was stunned by Li Sanniang's words. She looked at the air with unfocused eyes and murmured: "How do I feel?"
After Li Sanniang asked, she did not rush Sun Chunlan, who was obviously lost in her own thoughts. She waited silently.
After a while, maybe a stick of incense, Sun Chunlan came back to her senses.
"Sanniang, I don't know, I don't know what should I think?"
Li Sanniang reached out and patted the back of Sun Chunlan's hand twice, and said to her in a gentle voice: " It doesn't matter, if you don't know now, then you don't know.
Look back and think about it carefully and ask yourself, what do you want?
What can you accept between the pros and cons? Is there anything you can't accept? "
"Sanniang, how do you think I should choose? "You kid, what do I think of this?"
This is your lifelong event, and what you think is best is the most important thing.
Don’t care if it’s me, your grandma or your aunt. Our words can only be used as a reference. This is a major event in your life, and you will be the one who will live it in the future. Naturally, you have to be happy with it and do what you think is good. become. ”
"Third wife, please tell me, please tell me, I am very confused right now.
I both think grandma is right, and I also think grandma is right. I really don’t know what to do. What should I do?”
After thinking about it, Li Sanniang said to Sun Chunlan: “You have to think about it yourself and make a choice. No one else can do it for you. Decide.
But I think there must be some girls in your situation, and you can ask one of them to ask you for information about this. ”
When Sun Chunlan heard what Li Sanniang said, her eyes suddenly lit up.
"If you are willing to spend a few extra dollars, you can go to a store that specializes in selling information to buy information about this.
Go and see what other girls who cannot have children do?
What kind of life do those who marry a son-in-law live?
What are the conditions for finding a son-in-law?
What about those who don’t have a son-in-law? Just live like that? Or do you want to adopt a child?”
"Sanniang is still smart!
Yes, I might as well go and see how other people live, and then think about my own affairs!"
Li Sanniang stood up, "It's just Everyone's situation is different, their thoughts are different, and what they can afford is different.
Just remember that nothing in this world is perfect, and there must be some bad things about it. .
It just depends on you. ”
After talking to Sun Chunlan, Li Sanniang looked at Tianshi and knew that it would be too late if she didn't leave.
In this way, Li Sanniang patted Sun Chunlan on the shoulder and encouraged her: "No matter what, you still have to do your job well now.
This is what you want in this world. The foundation of one's life is not unimportant, but this is the most important."
Looking at Sun Chunlan's heavy nod, Li Sanniang turned around and walked out.
In the carriage back to the Imperial Medical Office, Song Fuling was very curious about what Sun Chunlan had whispered to Li Sanniang for so long?
"You, I can't tell you more about this matter.
In the future, if Chunlan is willing to talk to you, you will naturally know."
"Hehe, master, I’m just curious.
Okay, okay, I won’t ask anymore.”
On the other side, there are a lot of people gathering at the entrance of the alley where Sun Chunlan’s house is. When people came, it was because Zhang Wulang came to the door with Zhang Xiaolang and four gifts together with the matchmaker.
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What is reliable?
Parents? companion? Or children?
No, the most reliable one is yourself!
Even, when you are powerful enough, you will become the support of your parents, partner and children!
(End of this chapter)