Chapter 51: Hope Your Father Will Be a Successful Man in Management
Xu Xuejun looked at his son who was sitting in a golden position and was speechless for a long time.
Like an inflated balloon deflating.
Xu Xuejun's back was slightly rickety and he slowly sat down.
He stared blankly at the tea cup on the coffee table.
"dad."
There is no directness, sharpness and ruthlessness just now.
The stormy and progressive questioning just now turned into a gentle and gentle call after sitting down.
Xu Xuejun has never seen such a son.
To be honest, he was confused.
Ever since Xu Qingshan went to Longjiang Experimental School to study, father and son have spent less time together and more separation. They only have two and a half weeks off throughout the year and only spend time together during major holidays.
Xu Xuejun also likes to drink and is not often at home.
When at home, he likes to preach.
There is no hatred between father and son, but they are definitely not familiar with each other.
"I'm not asking you these questions to ask you to give me answers."
Xu Qingshan spoke eloquently.
He softened his tone as much as possible and restrained his aggression.
"I'm 17. After my birthday at the end of December, I will be an adult."
"I didn't want to take care of it before, it's not that I didn't know."
When Xu Qingshan said this, he paused.
He changed the subject.
"Dad, they say that a dragon begets a dragon, a phoenix begets a phoenix, and the son of a mouse can dig holes."
"Think about who Xu Xuejun is? With your ability, talent, brain, and appearance, how can the son you gave birth to be any worse?"
"Just what I learned from you is enough for me to get ahead."
Three or two sentences of praise and praise.
Xu Xuejun raised his head a little.
"But you just said"
"I just said something to you, didn't I?"
Xu Qingshan asked rhetorically.
Xu Xuejun was speechless.
If you think about it carefully, there really isn't.
"Although Dad doesn't spend much time with me, in my heart, you are the backbone of our family and the God of my mother and me. Although I sometimes talk back to you, that's not disrespecting you, quite the contrary. "
Xu Qingshan is good at tempting.
"It's because I respect you too much and care too much about your evaluation and opinion of me, that's why I have a verbal conflict with you."
"Later I understood that to be recognized by a real man like you, what is needed is not words, but real actions and real achievements to prove everything. The results are there, and the process does not need to be said. Bar?"
"That's true."
Xu Qingshan's pursuit of Xu Xuejun between the lines made Xu Xuejun's expression gradually soften.
It seemed that he felt a heart-to-heart connection between father and son. He felt that his son finally understood his father's hard work and was highly recognized by his son.
Xu Xuejun felt that his son was on his side.
He was just about to put on the airs of being a father again.
Another turning point.
"However, Dad, now our family and our family, judging from the results you mentioned, it doesn't seem to be very good."
Xu Qingshan's words made the atmosphere cool down again.
What Xu Xuejun wanted to say was stuck in his throat again.
It's like a lump in the throat, so uncomfortable.
"You see, you often tell me how many children in your unit have passed the exams. Who went to Ludao University, Rongcheng University, and who went to Aurora University."
"My current score is 645. According to the ranking by year, Aurora still needs to work hard, but Ludao is easy. Even if you are in the accounting department or economics department, which you talk about and are called Xiao Huaqing, there will be no problem. of."
"If other people's children can do it, I can do it."
Xu Qingshan filled the tea for Xu Xuejun and continued to ask.
"What about you?"
"The pornographic bureau in your unit is also quite famous in Yunzhang. The family obeys his arrangements. He takes good care of the family and cares about his wife and children. Do you also have to learn and surpass?"
Xu Xuejun stopped talking.
He is not a person who is good at arguing, and he doesn't like to talk too much. Otherwise, when he accused Lin Yuehua, he wouldn't just point out the words over and over again.
"How do you think you are worse than your Huang Bureau?"
"In terms of looks, wouldn't you, a handsome old guy like you, be more eye-catching than him when he comes on stage?"
"You need talent, don't brag, don't talk about it. Let alone Yunzhang, I can't count the people in Longjiang who are more talented than you." "You need ability. You have rich experience in front-line work, and you often go to the party school for further study. "Are you any less capable than him? No, I think it's more than enough for you to be the director of the provincial bureau."
"You need connections, education, and ideas. Think about it for yourself. In what way are you worse than others?"
Xu Qingshan counted them one by one.
His look of indignation.
It seems that I am the biggest in the world.
This allowed Xu Xuejun to swallow the bite that was stuck in his throat smoothly.
My son still understands me.
"But dad, do you know why you can't get promoted and make progress?"
Xu Qingshan suddenly became serious.
Xu Xuejun looked at his son, but he didn't care much.
Even though Xu Qingshan had already pointed out so many things to Xu Xuejun, in Xu Xuejun's eyes, he was still a child.
However, he should be considered a relatively mature older child now.
But Xu Qingshan's next words made Xu Xuejun sit up straight.
"Experience should be learned from those above."
"The organization's evaluation is not only based on your ability, but also your personal image and social impact."
"Family is an important part of the organizational inspection. A stable and harmonious family structure determines whether you can have no worries and devote yourself wholeheartedly to the work assigned to you by the organization."
"The mass base and social influence are also extremely important. Then if you are an upright national civil servant, you don't even have the right to speak out, you have no independent opinions, your wrists are weak, and you have to listen to a woman's instructions for everything. Do you think this kind of thing should be done by everyone? If you pass too many rumors, what will the following think of you, and what will the higher level think of you?”
"What's more, my eldest aunt and you are uncle and sister-in-law. I know that you are innocent. Do others know? Will your competitors let this opportunity pass?"
"People's words are scary, Lao Xu."
Xu Qingshan patted Xu Xuejun's hand on his knee sincerely.
He had noticed Xu Xuejun's body sitting up straight and his expression changing.
"If you want to make progress, you must be strict with yourself."
"If you want to make progress, you must not only focus on the leaders, but also on the masses."
"The lower foundation determines the superstructure, and the structure of power is from the bottom up, not from the top down."
"You taught me these."
If the young Xu Qingshan said the above words, he seemed unconvincing.
But the last sentence defeated Xu Xuejun's army.
"So, will you be angry, entangled, or quarreling over these things today? Or is it because you don't have enough say?"
"In the final analysis, you are not making progress."
"If you are strong enough and your status is high enough."
"Today's brother-in-law's matter can be solved with just one sentence. Tomorrow's second aunt's matter, you don't need to discuss it. It can be settled with a wave of hands. My mother still has to applaud and say yes. Do you think anyone will have any objections to our little family's matter? ”
"Just like me, the one I admire most is you. If you say one, I will never say two. If you say go east, I will never go west."
Xu Qingshan's words were full of seductive magic.
Little by little, Xu Xuejun's ambitions that had been buried by time and years were wiped away.
"But I'm too old to mention it again."
"I am an old man who has great ambitions. Our Zhu Wanli from Yunzhang was only promoted at the age of 53. He has been promoted all the way in the past few years, and now he is working as the deputy secretary-general of the province."
"Are you worse than him?"
Xu Qingshan asked again.
"How can it be compared?"
Although Xu Xuejun has been praised for a long time, he lacks confidence.
Civil servants on the front lines of counties and towns are still at the stock level even after reaching 43 years old. This is because their government is too shallow, their means are insufficient, and their background is insufficient.
In his previous life, Xu Qingshan had met many powerful officials by disguising his identity. He could also speak briefly about the topic of the system.
However, he didn't really want Xu Xuejun to achieve anything and hope his father would become a successful man.
He just wanted to divert Xu Xuejun's attention.
"Not bad at all!"
"Dad, you are only 43 years old this year, it is time for progress."
"Shut up, I expect you to be at least the director of our Longjiang City Bureau. Don't let me, your son, down."
"Think about it for yourself and be more confident."
"You should take a look at that information first and make your own judgment. I will come out later."
Xu Qingshan drank the tea in one gulp.
He put the tea cup on the tea tray, stood up and left the living room, leaving space for Xu Xuejun himself to digest the heart-to-heart talk between father and son that caught him off guard.
(End of chapter)