Chapter 203 Before Marriage
Hua successfully captured the Mazu Islands.
Chen Yuanguang is far away from the front line, and it feels good just to read the news. As a Chinese, his recent actions are most in line with mainstream public opinion and can arouse the national pride of the vast majority of Chinese people.
Even the gods on the Internet will be excited to see Mazu taken back.
Not to mention Chen Yuanguang.
In the past, netizens would feel timid, but now all such voices have disappeared.
Because once you succeed, your previous timidity will no longer be timid. Even if you can't move, you will move like thunder.
You succeeded. All the forbearance before can be strategic determination.
Just like the ancient nomadic people who entered the customs, they were barbarians before entering the customs. After successfully entering the customs, you will become an orthodox dynasty, and you will have great Confucians to debate the scriptures for you.
“It’s so cool, it’s so cool, it makes me realize.” After taking down Mazu, he flew to Mianyang to see his son that night. Chen Qingzhi, who was waiting to celebrate the New Year with Chen Yuanguang, was so excited that he had to run away. Go to a nearby liquor store to buy a bottle of Wuliangye.
"Suddenly it was announced outside the sword that Jibei was being collected. When I first heard it, my clothes were filled with tears." Chen Qingzhi said: "I thought I had not forgotten to tell you about the family sacrifice, but I didn't expect to see this scene in my lifetime."
Chen Yuanguang Said: "Dad, how is it possible? You are only in your early fifties now. No matter what, you still have decades to live. No matter what, you can still see the 4v taken back."
Chen Qingzhi waved his hand: "No, no. No, strength and mentality are not the same thing. Before it is actually done, even if the probability is 99%, it has not happened yet, right?"
"No one dares to make a conclusion about something that has not happened. Not to mention our generation, although I believe that our military strength is much stronger than it was back then.
But no one is sure what will happen in a real fight."
Chen Yuanguang asked: "I can understand your mood, because I am also excited, but it is a bit exaggerated to describe it as "Shuhu Jibei" from outside the sword.
Isn't this just the Mazu Islands?
In terms of progress, 100% progress is not even 20%.”
Chen Qingzhi thought for a while, “Yuanguang, that’s not the truth. We have always had the strength to show off our swords. , what I was worried about before was that I didn’t have the courage and confidence to show my sword.
People have been criticizing that some people have a lot of assets in Amerikan, so they have been afraid to show their sword because they are at risk of being seized. >
Now that this doubt has been broken, the progress has been pushed to 100%, and it is only a matter of time before the level is cleared.
In other words, the initiative has changed hands now, do you understand?
On this issue before, Amerikan has always given us test papers to answer. Now it is our turn to give them test papers.
Do you want to move, how do you want to move, and what measures are you going to take in the future? You have ended up in two places, do you dare to end up in the third place.
In short, the situation has now reversed. The previous statement that I have the initiative is a propaganda slogan. No matter how confident the propaganda is, in the real world, others will still ask questions for you to answer.
After this time, the real initiative rests with me.
First Mazu, then Kinmen, then Penghu, one outer island after another is like pulling out a nail, what should you do?
If you dare to transport the equipment to Penghu, I will do it first, and the satellite will be watching from the sky.
This is the first time in history that such a reversal has occurred. "
Chen Qingzhi had already filled up his glass of wine, "After I take it all back, I will no longer drink Wuliangye, but Moutai. ”
After chatting with Chen Qingzhi for a few words, Chen Yuanguang briefly told Lin Jia about getting married.
After hearing this, Chen Qingzhi
“Are you getting married? Your age is just right, neither early nor late.
According to Lin Jia, he is a very nice person. As a college student The journey of love has been relatively simple, and there are far fewer factors involved in the relationship than you have now.
I think it’s pretty good.”
After hearing this, Chen Qingzhi nodded, then thought for a while and said: "You are now an adult and have made achievements that I couldn't even imagine before. This time I took back Mazu. I read the news reports and you also made it." A very crucial contribution.
Of course, even if you achieve nothing now, this is your freedom. As long as you don't spend my money, you can do whatever you want. We are adults and respect each other's personal space.
Whether you get married or not, or even if you want to become a monk in the mountains, I can't control you. The only thing I can't accept is txl, but I will respect you even if you are txl.
It's a bit far-fetched. Talking about marriage, my marriage failed from a secular perspective because I got divorced. From my perspective, it was very successful. It made me know what kind of person I am. What kind of person can you not find?
Your mother and I divorced peacefully. We didn’t have any financial or emotional disputes. We all lived well after the divorce. Okay, we have educated you very well. I have to pay less and your mother has to pay more.
So I consider my marriage a success.
So from the perspective of someone who has experienced it, let me give you some advice. Marriage is just marriage. Don’t add too much meaning to it from a secular perspective.
It’s a transaction, it’s a match, it’s a business, it’s no longer two people but two families, they need to be considerate of each other and so on.
These are the meanings that society imposes on marriage and the shackles that society tries to impose on individuals.
Essentially, marriage is a stronger relationship. It is stronger than falling in love because the law gives it more support. It's as simple as that, if the relationship makes you unacceptably uncomfortable, it's time to break up or score.
No matter how this relationship changes, whether in the ambiguous stage, the love stage, or the marriage stage, you should give priority to your feelings and me, rather than considering other people's feelings.
Even if there is a next generation in the future, your own subjective feelings must come before your children’s feelings.
This is my perception, and it may not be correct, but after so many years, the final result of my method is always not bad. "
After Chen Qingzhi finished speaking, Chen Yuanguang knew that this was the other person's life principle, and he would do this all his life, "Okay, I will think about it carefully. ”
"Marriage requires mutual understanding from both parties and must be managed well. It is completely different from falling in love." Chen's mother was also very happy after hearing this.
Her career is almost over. She is now a senior executive in a state-owned enterprise because others know her identity, and her position is far more important than management in a place like this.
Others knew her identity, which made her work too easy, giving Chen's mother the illusion of early retirement.
So in her opinion, getting married is good, and it would be even better if she has grandchildren to take care of her.
“Marriage is not like falling in love, it’s just a matter between the two of you, it”
On the surface, Chen Yuanguang was smiling and listening attentively, but in his heart he was already complaining crazily. No wonder his parents divorced. The two people's concepts are simply incompatible. It would be weird not to divorce.
The two have completely opposite views on marriage.
Mother Chen’s views are very secular, similar to those of the public.
After Chen Yuanguang finished chatting with his parents, he complained to Lin Jia on the phone.
Lin Jia said: "This is normal. Your parents and I have met. My uncle is the kind of person who is extremely self-centered and all his emotions are shown on his face.
The aunt is the kind of character who has great ability to observe people's emotions and handles interpersonal relationships flawlessly. They were actually compatible in the early stage.
Because the aunt's character determines that she can tolerate her uncle during the love stage, but human nature determines that the closer a person is to someone, the less tolerant they are.
This also led to the fact that after getting married, the aunt couldn't stand the uncle. "
Lin Jia continued: "But this is not the point. "
Chen Yuanguang asked: "What is the point? ”
"The point is that neither of them expressed any objection to our marriage.
Yuan Guang, although I said before that I will be responsible for the marriage, there are still many links that require your cooperation.
For example, who should be invited, their contact information, a brief introduction, etc.
I will send you the things you need to cooperate with by email. Please remember to send the form or. Fill out the text and reply to me.”
Chen Yuanguang was speechless: “Why can’t the email be sent directly via WeChat?”
Lin Jia said: "Because I have found a wedding company, I communicate with them by email. I can forward some content directly to them without editing.
It is easy to send files back and forth on WeChat without knowing which one. The version is correct.”
Because both parties are celebrities, they have to invite too many people to get married, and the news cannot be kept secret at all.
"Dad, what about it? Do you want to invite so many people?
This counts as a hundred tables. I'm afraid that Yuan Guang can't even support a hundred tables of toasts or even drinking water. Not coming down.
What’s more important is that with a hundred tables and a thousand people, even security cannot handle this scale.
Can we make it simple and just invite ten tables and invite those we have good connections with? "Lin Jia felt his scalp numb when he saw the guest list in the Excel spreadsheet.
Lin Qinghua said: "You just want to get married this time, with Yuan Guang. If you don't do something special, others will think we are doing underground work. .
I have already considered security and have not set up running tables. As long as I am willing to spend money, security is not a problem. I will definitely find the best and most professional company in the industry to do the security.
I know that Yuan Guang is very critical now. You can rest assured that I will fully communicate with the relevant parties.
I have deleted this list several times before deleting it.
You can think about whether the witness will be looking for Mr. Lei or Mr. Ma from Ali.
Or maybe it’s the big boss from Shen Hai. ”
(End of this chapter)