Chapter 281 Things are hard to do
Going abroad was an attractive term in the 1980s.
University is also a term that makes people yearn for infinitely.
No matter which one of these two things is displayed, it is enviable and worthy of showing off.
It is conceivable that if the two are combined into one and become "study abroad", how tempting it will be for people of this era?
I'm afraid it's hard for anyone to refuse.
So after returning from Jinmen, Mi Xiaoran's mood was completely different.
After receiving Wang Dadong's promise to support her study abroad, she could no longer return to the repetitive life of the past and continue living the three-point, one-line life.
But he suddenly fell into a huge emotional conflict, both longing and fearing.
Every day I think and weigh over and over again about my future.
This mentality is not surprising at all.
Because Mi Xiaoran had never had such thoughts in the past, not because she didn’t desire it, but because it was unrealistic.
You know, in our country, there has always been no personal choice about going abroad.
Candidates to go abroad must be selected and arranged by the organization. They must be politically reliable before they can get the opportunity to be sent abroad by public servants.
Even if the "Interim Regulations on Self-financed Study Abroad" were promulgated last year, it is still the same. Nothing can be changed in a short time.
After all, our country's economic level is too backward.
The cheapest connecting ticket to the United States these days costs more than one thousand Hong Kong dollars, nearly five hundred yuan.
How many people in China can afford this money?
The same goes for going to college. It is of course a good thing to resume the college entrance examination.
But so many educated youths only had three opportunities to take the college entrance examination from 1977 to 1979.
Since 1980, the university has been completely closed to non-fresh graduates.
Mi Xiaoran, who had participated twice but failed due to low scores, gave up because of this and thought that he would never be able to attend university in his life.
How could she have imagined that Wang Dadong, like an angel, had re-opened a wider door for her to study.
How could she not be excited? Not excited? Not eager?
But behind this temptation, there are also many worries.
After all, if she makes this choice, she will have to stay away from home and face a strange country.
Are her parents really willing to let her go? Will they feel relieved?
If she really goes, can she endure the loneliness of wandering alone?
After all, this also means that she has to give up her stable job and life to face unknown challenges.
That is a capitalist society, with many traps and many bad people.
Can she adapt to life abroad? Can you really keep up with your studies and graduate successfully?
Is it unsafe? What should I do if I get sick or encounter difficulties?
The key is that she went out entirely with Mr. Wang's financial support. What if he changed his mind halfway?
Foreigners don't seem to pay much attention to loyalty and affection, and businessmen are very likely to be mercenary...
This is Mi Xiaoran's troubles, all these difficult problems are It's bothering her.
If she didn't think carefully about what to do, she wouldn't have been able to take this crucial step.
And in the end, she was able to muster up the courage, make up her mind, and make up her mind to go out and have a try.
This was because she had a detailed interview with Wang Dadong about studying abroad.
I once again received positive encouragement, enlightenment and firm assurance from the other party, and felt that they were indeed sincere and wanted to help me.
At the same time, she also learned that Wang Dadong had confirmed a cooperation unit with Jinmen and was about to sign a $300,000 joint venture contract with Jinmen Light Industry Import and Export Company.
Mi Xiaoran really didn't expect that they would make such great progress just a week after they came back.
Wang Dadong even gave the name of the fast food restaurant.
Named, "Orchid", the Chinese name is Orchid, which is the national flower of Singapore. Wang Dadong also said that as soon as the store location is determined, kitchen equipment will be imported from the United States and the investment plan will be officially put into action.
This naturally made Mi Xiaoran feel more at ease. As the saying goes, you can run away from the monk, but you can't run away from the temple.
After all, Wang Dadong wanted to do business in the Republic, and he couldn't just abandon a business that he had invested so much in.
If you can find him somewhere, why should you be afraid?
As for the end, there is an additional reason that Mi Xiaoran's heart was also moved by Zhao Hanyu's infatuation.
After Ganqing came back from fighting, in order for Mi Xiaoran to make up his mind to go abroad as soon as possible.
Zhao Hanyu always chased her, trying his best to introduce the benefits of studying in the United States and the superiority of American life.
Moreover, he patted his chest and promised that even if Mi Xiaoran was never willing to date him, they could only be ordinary friends from now on.
He will also do his best to take good care of Mi Xiaoran, help her adapt to life abroad, and support her forever.
This allowed Mi Xiaoran to immediately see the shining points of Zhao Hanyu - enthusiasm, frankness, persistence, romance...
To be honest, in the past, Mi Xiaoran and Zhao Hanyu deliberately maintained a relationship distance.
In addition to the fact that there is someone in his heart that he cannot let go, there is also the reason that Zhao Hanyu is an American,
Mi Xiaoran clearly knew that Zhao Hanyu would leave the capital one day and return to his own country.
Wouldn’t it be foolish for her to have feelings for someone who is destined to leave?
But it is different now. She can also go abroad, and the relationship between them has the possibility of long-term development.
Besides, she really wanted to go. Of course she longed for someone who truly cared about her abroad, so she naturally had a great impression of Zhao Hanyu.
In short, as their relationship began to heat up, they became increasingly close.
For Mi Xiaoran, there will soon be nothing to hesitate about studying abroad.
She knew that this might be her only chance to see the world in her life.
If you miss it, you will never have it again.
She can only stay in the country, get married, have children, and live an ordinary life like most people.
Only when he started to go through the relevant procedures did Mi Xiaoran realize that going abroad was not that simple.
She was surprised to find that there were still many gaps before she could turn this ideal into reality.
First of all, administrative agencies are places where "things are difficult to do and faces are ugly".
Because many procedures require the person going abroad to go to the administrative agency with documents in person to complete them.
Just submitting the application was enough for her, and she ran for many days without making any progress.
I just hit the wall again and again, I feel frustrated and there is nothing I can do.
It was so difficult to even get started. She really couldn't imagine how much effort it would take to go through all the procedures and finally get the complete set of procedures.
Secondly, after the parents learned about this incident, the family's reaction to the incident was also extremely contradictory.
On the one hand, Master Mi and Aunt Mi certainly know that it is a good thing to study abroad.
Even if you can’t learn anything, it’s still good to get some home appliance indicators.
But on the other hand, they were more worried about Mi Xiaoran's own safety than Mi Xiaoran. They thought that a girl running to a foreign country without anyone to rely on was just trying to go to Longtan alone.
Especially Aunt Mi, whose ideas are rather old-fashioned, she wishes her daughter could be as inactive as she is, as long as she is safe and stays at home.
To put it bluntly, as people get older, of course they are most afraid of the desolate and lonely evening scene below their knees.
So this matter was really at a stalemate for a while.
Mi Xiaoran was worried about how to complete the procedures for going abroad, and she also didn’t know how to get support from her parents.
But what made her even more unbelievable was when she expressed her distress to Zhao Hanyu.
I actually got a pretty effective idea from Zhao Hanyu, but it was just very absurd.
Zhao Hanyu actually said to her, "Why don't you marry me? As long as we get married, these problems will be solved..."
(End of this chapter)