Chapter 582: Jealousy
From the perspective of being responsible for their daughter, Professor Lan’s family cannot be blamed for being wary of Ning Weimin.
After all, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.
Although divorce has been mentioned in this era, no one cares about this second choice opportunity.
Of course the same goes for Huo Xin’s parents.
When they unexpectedly saw a strange young man like Ning Weimin pushing his daughter's bicycle.
The attention, doubts, curiosity, and worry caused by this are all normal reactions.
How could we let him go if we didn't ask him clearly?
On the other hand, if they just let nature take its course without asking anything, that would be abnormal.
In short, worrying about the marriage of adult children can be said to be a common problem of all parents in the world, and it is out of the instinct of care and love.
As parents, we always hope that our experience can help our children choose the best spouse.
I hope that my young and inexperienced children can avoid making mistakes on this important issue that affects their happiness in the rest of their lives.
Even though this is no longer the era of "parents' orders", parents know that this kind of thing is thankless, but they still can't help but take care of it.
How else can I express my pity for the hearts of parents in the world.
Like Ning Weimin’s neighbor Aunt Bian, she was very worried about Bian Jiangong’s marriage.
To be honest, in the past year, she, as a mother, has really worried about her youngest son's marriage and worked hard to arrange it, but unfortunately it was all in vain.
To put it simply, whether the person she found for her son was suitable or not, the key was that Bian Jiangong was like eating a weight, and his determination disappeared.
Bian Jiangong had already identified this "Mu Guiying" and took this girl home again and again.
As for Aunt Bian, she doesn’t like her no matter how she looks at her.
For no other reason than that, she is the director of the neighborhood committee.
It's up to her to carry out the tasks coming down the street.
The residents of Shan'er Hutong always rely on her to mediate conflicts when they arise.
How can she do anything if she doesn't feel comfortable doing things?
Especially in dealing with people, he is the most proficient.
So, what she disliked the most about this girl was her vague and inconsistent temperament.
In the eyes of Aunt Bian, this "Mu Guiying" was just babbling and heartless in everything she did, and even seemed to have no understanding of the world.
For example, when serving dinner, Aunt Bian once saw this girl not eating meat.
I thought she was too shy to pick up the food, so in order to serve the guests, I kindly took the initiative to help the girl pick up the food.
Who would have thought that this girl would actually give all the mutton fried with green onions to Bian Jiangong in the bowl.
Then he smiled and spoke frankly.
"Aunt, I don't eat mutton. I can't stand the smell. Please, please don't serve me any more vegetables. You don't know what I like to eat and what I don't like..."
As a result, Aunt Bian blushed.
Another time, it was a Sunday afternoon.
This "Mu Guiying" rode to Bian's house to look for Jiangong. They agreed that they would go to the movies together after dinner at home in the evening.
But when Aunt Bian sent them out, she looked at the girl's bicycle strangely.
Because there is actually a cotton shoe on the rear bracket of the bicycle.
At that time, she couldn't help but speak curiously.
"Hey, why is there a shoe on the back seat of your car? Who put it there? Is it weird?"
The "Mu Guiying" looked back and was confused. .
Unexpectedly, just a moment later, she burst out laughing again, and the answer she revealed was even more incredible.
She actually claimed that they were the shoes she had left hanging on the back rack of her bicycle during the day.
When I came out, it was dark, so I was careless and didn’t look, so I just rode on and left.
As a result, we rode all the way to Bian’s house.
Isn't there only one left...
Looking at "Mu Guiying" standing in the alley, she said "hahaha" in embarrassment.
He even showed off his driving skills to Bian Jiangong, who was holding back his laughter.
Aunt Bian is so embarrassed.
Fortunately the street lights were not on and it was cold, so there were few acquaintances in the alley.
Otherwise, let acquaintances see it and know that her son has such a "250" girlfriend.
Where can I put this old face of hers...
Even on an important day like today, it's the same.
It is said that Aunt Bian is an old man who is very particular about good luck. She values Lao Ling'er very much and knows that she should never get angry on New Year's Eve.
But this "Mu Guiying" is her inner demon.
Aunt Bian is afraid that she will never be able to be calm when dealing with her.
Speaking of which, just now, the mother and son of the Bian family were busy in the kitchen preparing today’s New Year’s Eve dinner.
Since Bian Jianjun and Li Xiuzhi haven't come back yet, Bian Jiangong has to help the family with the cold dishes. The main task is to open the lunch meat and canned quail eggs he brought back from the "Polar Bear".
And Aunt Bian was frying rice on the fire to prepare rice noodles and meat for New Year’s Eve.
These days, there are no ready-made rice noodles for sale in the capital, so you have to roll and fry them yourself.
Unexpectedly, this "Mu Guiying" didn't watch TV well in the room, so she actually came out on her own initiative, and Zhang Luo came to help.
As soon as she saw her, Aunt Bian's heart clicked, and the boss felt uncomfortable.
The old lady didn't even raise her head, turning the rice vigorously with the spatula while trying to send her away perfunctorily.
"Um...Xiao Mu, the kitchen is too crowded, there can't be room for three people...Don't move, go back and watch TV. You are a guest..." If it were an ordinary person, of course he would be able to tell by observing his words and expressions. I understand what Aunt Bian means.
But this guy, yes, he really didn’t have that string in his mind, so he couldn’t think of this at all.
How does “Mu Guiying” know what euphemism is?
So Aunt Bian’s mistake was that she fell in love with “Mu Guiying”.
As a result, because her hands were a little slow, the rice smelled like paste and floated out. This "Mu Guiying" not only did not return to the house, but ran over in a hurry, shouting at the top of her voice.
"Aunt Bian, it doesn't taste right! Sprinkle some vinegar in it! Hurry up!"
Just this voice made Aunt Bian panic. , the shovel in his hand suddenly became useless, and the smell of paste was naturally greater.
As for "Mu Guiying", her bluffing wasn't enough. She actually stuck her head into the kitchen and kept urging her to do something good.
"Why are you just watching the fun? Get some vinegar for auntie."
Jiangong really listened to her, and immediately threw away the household items in his hand, picked up the vinegar bottle next to him, and opened it. The bottle cap is about to pour vinegar into the pot.
Well, Aunt Bian was so angry that she wished she could beat this "Yang Zongbao" with a spatula on the spot.
She quickly stopped her son's hand, then turned around and stared at "Mu Guiying" in disgust.
I thought that the more uninitiated I am, the more I dare to speak out. Is there anyone so nosy?
However, "Mu Guiying" was not aware of Aunt Bian's dislike for her at all, and instead continued to urge her to be jealous.
She also definitely means well.
Then "Yang Zongbao" stopped moving his hand again.
A splash of vinegar and just poured it in.
Aunt Bian never expected that this would happen, and she finally couldn't bear it and screamed.
"Why are you coming up with such nonsense! Pouring vinegar can't relieve the smell. You have to add wine and minced chili pepper!"
"And you, you bastard, you really listen to her What a bad idea, pour it in! Get out of here!”
Just like that, Aunt Bian simply chased her son and “Mu Guiying” out, and they were all driven away.
Who knew that by disturbing others and causing such serious consequences, "Mu Guiying" was completely unaware of her own fault.
She is still laughing and joking with Bian Jiangong as if nothing has happened. This is so irritating!
There is nowhere to vent her dissatisfaction, and Aunt Bian can no longer cook.
I walked around the yard twice, took off my apron, threw it on the side, and went straight to my old man's house.
At this time, Uncle Bian was lying down in the room listening to the closing ceremony.
The "door" slammed open, startling him.
When I saw that my wife had come in, I didn’t have time to ask, so I listened to the auntie angrily confiding in herself.
"What has happened? Ah, that bastard's soul has been taken away. He actually listens to her so much! He listens to any bastard's ideas? Do you have no brains? Let me tell you, old man, as long as our family makes meritorious deeds, He is definitely a white-eyed wolf with a magpie's tail. He only recognizes his wife and not his mother. If he really marries this 'Mu Guiying', he won't even dare to fart in front of his wife."
< br>After finally figuring out what was going on, Uncle Bian was not as angry as Aunt Bian.
Probably because habits have come naturally, he has adapted to it long ago. Instead, he advised his wife not to get angry and to be more tolerant to other girls.
"Don't say it, it's been a long time here. I think this girl has a good personality. I used to think she was frizzy, what the hell. But she has a straight temper, not so many twists and turns, and is quite generous. Look, how many times have you looked down on her? Besides, the kid has good intentions and wants to help you."
"Hey, why is it so easy for you? Rebellion? Good intentions can lead to bad things! What a waste of help! I can't understand how such a big girl can't be disciplined."
"You'll get used to it just by looking at it. You, don't worry about it so much. Things will get old, and children will grow up. When choosing a partner for your son, the most important thing is a person's character. I think in this regard, There is nothing wrong with this girl. Since she is compatible with our son, let them go."
"What, you are so irresponsible. Then she must not bully my son to death! This is also the case. If you just listen to her now, what will you do next? No, I will never agree to this."
Then, Aunt Bian became more and more arrogant and could not be persuaded no matter how hard she tried.
Uncle Bian is also impatient.
"Don't agree? If your son is willing, how can you control it? From ancient times to the present, few people have succeeded in beating mandarin ducks. Even if it barely goes as you want, you are doomed to complain for the rest of your life. From now on, there will be no successful marriage. I’m a little unhappy, isn’t it all your fault?”
After saying these words, Aunt Bian felt aggrieved, and the old lady quit.
"Who am I doing for? Am I not doing it for your old Bian family? You are all against me! I am the only one who is not a good person, am I?"
While talking, My heart felt so painful that I burst into tears.
Seeing his wife like this, Uncle Bian couldn't help but sigh and patiently comforted him.
“I know you are doing it for your son’s good. You want to choose a girl for him who is perfect in all aspects. But the problem is whether the shoes are comfortable or not. Only your feet know. It’s your job as a mother. It’s hard, but it’s useless to worry about your son. No matter how good you feel, it’s all in vain if your son doesn’t like it.”
"I think our Jiangong is serious about this girl, because after such a long time, he has never thought about the possibility of changing someone else. Since he will live with this girl from now on. Then as long as he knows the person he has chosen, What's wrong? It's enough to know what kind of responsibilities you have to bear."
"Besides, you have to look at the actual situation to judge it. You want your son to marry a Seventh Fairy? But is it realistic? This kind of thing requires both parties to agree. If your demands are too high, our son will be a bachelor!"
It's okay, Aunt Bian has been listening carefully. .
But with this last sentence, the old lady was unhappy again.
"Nonsense! Why am I unrealistic? Who is my son worse than? I want Jiangong to find someone better, so why is it unrealistic? In terms of work, character, appearance? My son can do it well? When it comes to family, we are no worse than anyone else. Now I am..."
"Okay, don't talk about the sewing club again. Stop it!"
Seeing Aunt Bian start to snarl again, Uncle Bian stopped her in time.
"I'm not talking about you, you are really arrogant and lack some self-awareness. You can't always look at the things in front of you. You have to look at the society as a whole."
"What is the situation in society now? There are too many big men and big women, and they are all eager to start a family. Which one is not of marriageable age? For the older ones, the third generation of them are all thirty-four. For the younger ones, , twenty-six or seven.”
“There are also young people who have just graduated from school and entered the society. To put it bluntly, it is like "window paper" everywhere, and everyone is doing it randomly. A bunch of people, so anxious that they just don’t know where to ‘poke’.”
At this point, the old man's image metaphor had already amused Aunt Bian.
But the words that followed were like a ladle of cold water pouring down, forcing Aunt Bian to look at the problem calmly again.
"Are you still laughing? I mean, can you wait in this situation? Isn't it just a matter of quick hands and slow hands? Take a good look, there are so many greenhouses and furniture being built now. People. Don’t you have any pressure? If you are not married, you will have fewer choices.”
“How old is Xiaomu?” , If the girl dumps Jiangong, she can still talk to someone else, and it won’t be too late to get married in a few years. But can Jiangong wait? I also tell you, it’s good for your son to find a girl he likes now. The window paper is correct. It’s not just a matter of trying to catch up with who is who.”
“Secondly, it’s not easy to get married. You have to be rich. Nowadays, the society is changing every year. Everything is changing. Like this year, the Skoda bread is no longer available on the streets, and the police uniforms have become green. We no longer have to buy them at fixed food stations. I heard that the industrial coupons are about to be cancelled. The three-turn-one ring is no longer popular. Nowadays, people pay attention to three new items when getting married, including color TVs, refrigerators, and washing machines. Some girls even want gold jewelry. Did the girl in Jiangong Xiangzhong mention it once? She didn’t even test it, right? So it seems that our son is quite discerning.”
"In the end, the more important thing is the house. If you are short of people, you can still find it slowly. If you are short of money, you can still save it slowly. If you don't have enough food and buy simple things, you can live on. But if you are short of a house, you can still survive. There is no difference at all. Since this girl is in the same company as Jiangong, and they are both working, wouldn't the company be able to provide them with a house? Is your son looking for a house? "
"So I say, after all, no one is perfect. You can't look at other girls and keep looking at things you don't like. Your son is not the guard next door. Min, there are so many beautiful girls around, it’s up to him to choose. If you hadn’t been in the Luo family, wouldn’t Guang Liang be in better condition than Jiangong? But wouldn’t he be single now? Xiaoran, we watched the yellow-haired girl grow up, but did Pan Gaozhi go abroad? Don't be too high-spirited. If you ask me, we are better than the superiors and more than the inferiors. Plus my son is happy, that's enough. . Just stop looking for trouble..."
Aunt Bian was obviously touched by these words, and she was speechless for a long time.
Seeing that her expression softened obviously, this was a sign that the old lady had calmed down.
However, just when the uncle was relieved, he was interrupted by his wife's words.
"Hey, you said it would be great if this guard could be our son! He is excellent in everything, so I don't have to worry about it..."
"Bullshit! What are you talking about? Do you think that boy is good? If you have such an outstanding son and spends time in flowers every day, you still have to worry about finding a girlfriend..."
(End of this chapter)