Chapter 1235: Bloodline Suppression
As the saying goes, an uncle can be tolerated, but an aunt cannot.
In order to protect Ning Weimin, Director Taniguchi really blushed and taught him a lesson.
"What are you talking about, you two young people! Why are you so rude! You can also say these things!" Director Taniguchi pointed out the other party's mistakes.
"Damn it! What are you talking about! You old guy!" the pudgy man subconsciously retorted.
"You two self-righteous guys! You should be ashamed of interrupting us for no reason!"
"Hey, I said, use your brain! We are helping you, are you being deceived? Don’t you care?”
The tall and lanky guy actually provoked me.
However, Director Taniguchi was unmoved.
"You guys are so annoying! Stop teasing! I also kindly remind you that you represent the image of your company, please stop it in moderation!"
"Haha, there must be something wrong with your head! Are you mistaken? What is your identity? How dare you speak to us like this!" The short and fat man continued to mock.
"You guys are so bad, don't you blush at all? The only thing you should do now is to shut up and apologize!" Director Taniguchi said righteously.
"It turns out you are really an idiot. You are not in your right mind, old fool! Go see a doctor quickly!" The tall and thin man couldn't help but curse.
"Did you only use swear words in the end? That's too bad! You guys are such waste!"
"Damn it, old man, your money will be defrauded! We are here I’ll wake you up!”
"This is unreasonable! You should learn to be polite! You are simply embarrassing your parents!" Director Taniguchi used the old man's routine.
It's a pity that the other party is not incompetent, and he simply acted like a gangster.
"Haha, what are you talking about? Stop being so funny, okay! Can you go and look in the mirror first? Your nose hairs are all exposed!"...
It should be said that this is the case in Japan. In a society that emphasizes suppressing oneself and conforming to the group culture.
When most people encounter any unpleasant things in common life situations, they will tolerate it as long as they can and try their best to suppress themselves.
If you have a dispute or even a quarrel with the people around you, it will be considered very impolite and abnormal.
This is the main reason why it is rare to see Japanese people angry, and it makes people feel that the quality of Japanese people is generally relatively high.
But to be honest, this is actually just an illusion.
The real situation is that the Japanese still care about everything, and they also bully the weak and fear the strong.
Under at least two conditions, Japanese people will completely indulge themselves and reveal their negative emotions without scruples.
The first is between superiors and subordinates who have an absolute level difference.
The larger the company, the more rude and arrogant the superiors' attitude towards subordinates, and the more casual and unbridled they are. It is not an exaggeration to say that they do not treat people as human beings.
It is perfectly normal to point your nose at your subordinates and scold them until they are bloody. As a subordinate, you should even be grateful for this.
As long as your boss doesn’t put your head in a hot pot and cook it.
With the servility of the Japanese, it is completely acceptable.
Because this at least shows that you are still a human being in the eyes of your boss. If your boss gets angry with you, you can still be saved.
Real bullying is cold violence in the workplace.
When you make too many mistakes in the company, or are not recognized, or offend the leader, and are directly isolated from the people around you, then it is not a human sin, and it is more deserving than being scolded.
So even an honest person like Director Taniguchi, when he met Ning Weimin for the first time, thought that he was a low-ranking subordinate in the same company and dared to act arrogantly out of instinct.
The other is that you can express your dissatisfaction as you like with strangers' behavior that violates public customs in strange situations, or things that affect you.
Anyway, no one else knows me, so I just vent my stress for the sake of my mental health.
For example, at a station or platform, when something unpleasant happens to you, Japanese people will directly scold you.
Especially every night after drinking, two half-drunk social animals bump into each other on the street. No one will give in, and they will definitely start fighting each other on the street.
At this time, there is no need to worry about any face issues, and you and I will often scold each other one by one.
It will take at least twenty minutes, until you feel your mouth is dry and you are exhausted.
But don't look at this kind of quarrel, both parties are very energetic, and they seem to be scolding fiercely.
However, the Japanese people are very aware of the rule of law. As long as they are not taking drugs or drinking enough alcohol, they will not take action.
Whoever strikes first loses.
So this also explains why in the Internet age, the Japanese are the most terrifying in cyber violence than any other in Asia.
The Japanese are good at disguise, one thing on the surface and another behind the scenes.
They will not restrain themselves out of kindness, but will unleash corresponding evil once there is no legal risk.
Both of these points should be regarded as the bad nature of the Japanese.
The situation that Ning Weimin encountered today should fall into the second category.
Although it was a wedding occasion, when the other party was extremely arrogant and had no scruples, they were treated as strangers who were simply disliked.
And I really have to admit that these two young people are definitely not good at quarreling. They are more experienced in quarreling than Taniguchi star.
Even though Director Taniguchi had the moral high ground, he couldn't stand up to the other party's shamelessness and lack of martial ethics, so he was still at a disadvantage.
Especially the last sentence. It was the ultimate kill, and Director Taniguchi was so angry that he almost burst a blood vessel.
Under this situation, Ning Weimin could no longer sit back and watch Director Taniguchi be humiliated, nor did he want this disgraceful dispute to continue to escalate, attracting the attention of more guests, or even ruining the atmosphere of the entire wedding banquet. It was natural to take action.
Actions are actions. There is no doubt that when there is a conflict with others, the person who yells and loses his temper during the quarrel is often not the winner.
Being able to calmly watch the other party lose their temper and respond calmly is a sign of maturity and stability.
So in view of this, of course Ning Weimin would not directly scold him like Director Taniguchi, which would be tantamount to adding fuel to the fire.
He does not want to continue to participate in this scolding war and become the second person in direct conflict with the other party. On the contrary, since the ultimate goal is not to quarrel, but to end the unpleasant experience with dignity as quickly as possible.
So what he should do is not to be affected by the other party's emotions, let alone be led astray by the other party's rhythm.
It is best not to get entangled, end it all quickly, and stay away from the bastard who caused this embarrassment. This is the most ideal result.
So in order to control the development of the situation, he must find a way to appease the emotions of both parties first.
Director Taniguchi is easy to talk to, but how can he appease the other person's emotions?
Here’s the trick. The first step is to figure out what happened, find the reason for the initial conflict, and then approach the conversation from the perspective of the other party’s non-resistance, so that you have the opportunity to express your own opinions. , and will not allow the emotional conflict between the two parties to continue to worsen.
To put it bluntly, you have to be able to compliment people.
If you set up a fight with the other party first, his temper will be much smoother, and then you will have the opportunity to resolve the dispute and end the quarrel in a relatively peaceful way.
"Okay, please stop arguing. I just understood it a little bit. You two seem to be investment experts from Taisho Insurance, right? So the opinions you give are based on a professional perspective? You are both firmly optimistic about NTT. Only if you have a better performance in the future will you be intolerant of the conversation we just had, is that true?”
This is indeed effective. After all, everyone loves a high-ranking person and everyone likes to hear good words.
Although judging from the age of the two people, they are at most ordinary members of the Taisho Insurance investment team, they themselves will not deny the title of "master".
As a result, the sharpest emotional edge was suddenly relieved, and unknowingly he became a "yangzi" in the eyes of people in the capital.
The short and fat man nodded immediately, "Yes, that's right. It seems that you are not hopeless and you finally figured it out. NTT's stock is a stock recommended to the public by the Ministry of Finance , this is the welfare of all Japanese people, how can it drop significantly! This is the opinion of our professionals. Now do you know how stupid your words are?”
The tall and lanky one went to make fun of Director Taniguchi, "Hey, take a good look, your companions have understood. You are the only one who doesn't know your own stupidity. No wonder you are so easily convinced, even NTT doesn't like it." Don't be stupid, we are professional investors, and we will never tolerate your stupid arguments. You should give up this idea now, apologize immediately, and thank us..."
This is very important to Taniguchi. Director is nothing less than a greater humiliation.
However, Ning Weimin did not want to get entangled in this. He continued to change the subject and asked, "Since the two of you can work at Dazheng Insurance and be responsible for investment business for such a famous large enterprise. It must be a famous university, finance Are you top students in related majors? "I wonder which prestigious school you two graduated from? "
Logically speaking, the other party can not answer this question, but Ning Weimin's question is exactly what they like to show off. Meat, so it was difficult for the two little devils, the fat one and the thin one, to resist the temptation to answer the questions.
On the contrary, he was even more proud and announced his family name without thinking twice.
"Of course it's a prestigious university. We are from Keio University. But our major is not finance. I majored in science and engineering, and he graduated in sociology."
"Hey, he didn't graduate in finance. Are you alive? Then how can you do investment-related work in an insurance company?" Ning Weimin asked pretending to be surprised.
“Haha, your question is even stupider. Japanese financial companies only like to recruit people with good brains and do not need corresponding majors. It is enough for us to graduate from Keio University. What the hell are you doing? Have you ever been to college? How could you ask such an ignorant question?"
When he said these words, the skinny man's nostrils were about to go up, and his eyes were full of disdain.
However, this time, he fell into Ning Weimin's language trap. This was what he wanted.
"I'm sorry, I'm a foreigner, and I don't know enough about many situations in Japan. It's true that I only learned today that Japan's financial industry does not select employees based on professionalism. This is different from Wall Street. But that's not the case. It's not surprising, after all, Japan's financial opening has only been a few years, and the lack of professionalism is understandable. However, I still have to say that different opinions should be allowed to exist on many things. It's also a kind of ability, isn't it? In fact, I have many financial issues that I would like to discuss with someone, but I'm sorry, my Japanese level is limited, and I can only express some professional words in English. If you are willing, we can use English. Come and talk. If you agree, we will communicate in English. What do you think?”
At the end of these words, Ning Weimin immediately started talking about Oxford.
This time, they really used their strengths to avoid their weaknesses. They completely blinded the two little devils and were completely caught off guard.
Ning Weimin’s subtext is, don’t you look down on people, and aren’t you proud of being a top student from a prestigious school, and being an employee of a big company?
Don’t you two, little Karami, pride yourself on being professional financial authorities? Then you should be able to speak a few words in English, right?
But you know, how can the Japanese’s English proficiency be put on the table?
Most Japanese people don’t speak English, and even if they do, their pronunciation is weird.
Because for the Japanese tongue, which can only produce fifty falsetto sounds, standard English pronunciation is a natural problem.
In fact, it was 2022, before Ning Weimin traveled back in time, and the Japanese’s English ability was still classified as low proficiency, ranking at the bottom of Asia, far behind at 78th .
Not to mention compared with China, it even lags behind countries such as Nepal and Vietnam.
Think about it, this is true in the information age with the most abundant learning channels, let alone this non-information age.
So don’t look at these two brats who are worth 258,000 yuan. They are from Keio University. They probably don’t speak English at all, but they are in front of Ning Weimin’s fluent English expression. Still not enough to watch.
God knows how scared they were, afraid of being laughed at by Ning Weimin because of their accent.
As a result, even the ability to speak a few words was lost in Java.
The arrogance and domineering feeling just now were all gone, and now all that was left was the hesitant rolling of the eyes, and the extremely ugly dumbfounded look.
Even an awkward smile can't be squeezed out.
To put it bluntly, this is natural bloodline suppression.
Ning Weimin has long discovered that the Japanese are actually particularly fond of foreigners.
Although they look down upon people who cannot speak Japanese well, when they meet people who communicate with them in English, they have a different look.
Guarantee that the service quality will be improved immediately, and you can do tricks even with a grass plug on your butt.
Therefore, when Ning Weimin is in Japan, he often speaks English when he is not with acquaintances.
Thus you can get super-national treatment.
As a result, this move is of great use today. This is the trump card.
Who told these to be the words of their foreign father!
Of course, Ning Weimin speaks Japanese very well, which is also a reason, it is too confusing.
The two little devils who graduated from Qingda University were unaware that Ning Weimin was a foreigner, so he successfully attacked them in one fell swoop.
Going on, of course there is nothing to say.
In order to protect the face of the bride and groom, Ning Weimin would not deliberately make things difficult for these two unfortunates.
Only before leaving, he deliberately pointed out the bad words and scolded Director Taniguchi in Japanese.
"Taniguchi-san, I can’t completely believe what you said. Didn’t you say that the education level in your country is very high? The famous universities are all in line with international standards. It’s a pity. From my perspective, I’m afraid the actual situation is still the same. There is a certain gap in your imagination, but I can still understand it. This is probably due to your strong patriotism, and it is the future you hope to see as soon as possible..."
Director Taniguchi is not a bad person either. Although he can leave calmly at this time.
But he did not forget to turn his head and say to the two people with contempt - "Qingying? Tsk! I am really ashamed of you!"
And this time, the two The brat, who had been so arrogant just now, faced Director Taniguchi's blatant contempt, and no one dared to show his teeth again.
I have to say that being slapped in the face feels good for a while, but without those two brushes, it will be very uncomfortable to hit hard.