Ding Min occasionally heard her own mother talking about this, and she felt guilty. Not just anyone can be a matchmaker, so she wondered if the matchmaker understood.
You don’t need to think about it. Just the girl here in the compound, my in-laws and aunts will not consider it. It’s so clear.
Besides, the girls here in the compound will probably ignore you if they know what you are doing. That's not really how it works.
It’s a pity that my own mother was so hot and possessed that she had to fall in love with that teacher, saying he was really good.
Ding Min doesn’t know how his own mother met such a good girl. What is certain is that if she is not someone she usually walks around with, that means she doesn’t know her well enough, so she should be careful.
Ding Min advised her mother: "Let's just leave this matter alone. I heard that my in-laws prefer that the mistress marry a girl from the county. We have to consider the mistress's opinion. Besides, that teacher is really good, isn't that right? Are you happy?”
Ding Min’s mother: “Why aren’t you happy? I look at that girl. You don’t know, I heard that girl scolding someone in school that day, and she was very reasonable. Saying that you don’t have a job doesn’t mean anything. You can’t be snobbish about what’s wrong with country people. What a good person you are.”
Ding Min nodded. If he really said that, his thoughts would be quite extraordinary: "She said that, but she didn't necessarily do it. Are you a little naive?"
Ding Min's mother was unwilling to listen. In order to prove that she was not naive, she had to facilitate this marriage. Whenever she gets things done, the old man and her daughter will know how good her vision is. People are not surprised that they are no longer with these two men.
So when Lu Xiaosan came to visit my mother and father in the twelfth lunar month, I met the legendary blind date.
No need to ask, it was all facilitated by Ding Min’s mother. Not to mention that Lu Xiaosan was embarrassed, even Mrs. Lu was nervous. No preparation in advance.
I watched two girls walking from a distance. They were both pretty, but one of them had a slightly darker complexion.
Then Ding Min’s mother introduced Lu Xiaosan to the fair-skinned girl. This girl was so provocative that even Mrs. Lu felt she didn't dare to reach high.
Lu Xiaosan is embarrassed. This is the legendary blind date! In panic, under the arrangement of Ding Min's mother, he went to pave the road with another girl.
Mother Lu was at a loss: "Are you a mother-in-law? My son has no job and his family is in the countryside. This girl looks extraordinary."
Ding Min's mother was proud, "Can I introduce an ordinary girl to the mistress?" I have to be worthy of my mother-in-law’s pig.
Mrs. Lu really didn’t hide anything when she spoke. The girl who accompanied me on the blind date just listened to two truths.
Although he didn't speak, he looked at Mrs. Lu in surprise. Then I sat next to him. I really don’t have to say a word more.
Ding Min’s mother felt very confident: “Don’t worry, mother-in-law, this girl is really nice and not vulgar, she is not someone who values these things. I saw this girl scolding someone on the roadside that day, and she said something very nice. ."
Then he turned to look at the girl accompanying them: "Is this a girl? You, my friend, have no character."
The girl who was accompanying the old lady here laughed when she heard this: "Auntie, just call me Hongye." As for what kind of friend she is, she doesn't express an opinion at all.
Following Mrs. Lu, she said: "Auntie did hear my friend scolding someone that day. I happened to be on a blind date that day. The man's words were a bit unpleasant, so my friend scolded him. He said he couldn't look down on country people. "
Listening to the meaning of the words, Mrs. Lu felt distressed that the girl failed in the blind date: "My dear, I think you are very good, don't think too much about it." The girl smiled and didn't explain anything. The two old ladies looked nice, but they didn't have any friendship. There is another one who looks a little weird.
Ding Min's mother's eyes lit up: "You heard it, didn't you? I just said, that girl is not wrong. I asked specifically, what does that girl usually say? He is also soft-spoken and has a good reputation.”
Hongye pursed her lips and smiled, thinking to herself, this aunt is so naive. According to the man's conditions, this marriage is probably quite awkward. It's better to say less.
Ding Min's mother felt that she had done this well: "I asked the girl at that time. She was very nice and spoke politely to me. She said that it depends on fate when looking for a partner, and my parents-in-law are easy to get along with. As long as the young man is reliable, it doesn’t matter if he has a job.”
Hongye nodded, that’s what she said, but what about her friend’s vision? She was speaking to Ding Min’s mother. That's because of Ding Min's mother's style, which makes her family's conditions comparable.
Besides, there is no job without a job. If the young man has good conditions, his friends will consider him. This is what this friend said when Hongye advised him to think carefully.
Let Hongye say, this matter is very unreliable today. Can the old lady I met on the street introduce someone to me and go on a blind date casually?
Now it seems that this aunt was naive at that time. You can't talk too much.
Ms. Lu: "That's for sure. The girl my mother-in-law likes is not bad." But I really don't feel very comfortable about the marriage. Why do people like their own sons?
Mother Lu pulled Hongye over: "Girl, your family is from the countryside, and mine is from the countryside too. Oh, I feel kind to you when I look at you, but I'm afraid that your words will reveal your cowardice and embarrass my mother-in-law. Let's They are all from the countryside, girl, don’t laugh at me.”
Hongye pursed her lips and smiled, and the aunt spoke in a down-to-earth manner: “That’s not possible. We can only respect you for being such an honest elder. Well, if the elders in the family are kind, that’s the girl’s blessing.”
As for the other things, the girl doesn’t know these two people, so she can’t say anything wrong.
Mrs. Lu has rarely seen such a talkative girl. She is also a teacher. How can she be so good: "You are such a talkative child. It's really rare."
Ding Min's mother was proud: "That's right. People are divided into groups, and this girl's friend is better. "The girl in front of me is good, and the side proves that the girl she introduced to Lu Xiaosan is good. Beier has face.
Hongye smiled when he looked at the two old ladies. At least he could tell that they were not liars. It's quite cold here waiting for someone to go on a date.
Hongye looked around: "I am accompanying auntie and this..."
It is rare for Mrs. Lu to hear something. She knows that other girls don't know how to call themselves, so she speaks quickly. : "You call me Aunt Lu."
Hongye: "Okay, I'll accompany Auntie and Auntie Lu to go shopping in the department store. It's very cold for us to wait for them here. Don't let you two get cold."
The girl is also thoughtful, There are many people in the department store, so if you are a trafficker, your safety is guaranteed. He can also hold two people as hostages and get his friends back.
Ding Min’s mother approved of this proposal very much. If the mistress can talk to the girl, she can talk more: "This is a good idea."