In mid-November, after Chen Tan left.
Grandpa went from Louwang Villa to the Bund Community alone to look for him.
My grandfather, who is over eighty years old, has experienced everything, from the earliest Japanese invaders entering the village to several years of civil war
That era was full of wars.
Not to mention eating well, even being able to live in peace is a luxury.
In 1949, New China was founded.
The war is finally over, and everyone is looking to the east to thank the great man.
The following days went through one era after another.
"Grandpa, you are not here specifically to talk about history, are you?"
"Of course not, I just want you to understand something."
Grandpa's vicissitudes of life revealed a plain tone, "Everyone in your father's generation was proud to marry a poor peasant. It was different in the 1970s. What everyone liked most was to marry with a diploma. In the 1980s, they married with a visa. Countless people I dreamed of going abroad, but in the 1990s, everyone who was in good condition wanted to marry a rich man.
“When I first got married, I believed that there is strength in numbers, so there is strength in numbers. Every family is struggling to have children, and when it comes to your cousin Chen Tan's generation, family planning is the most stringent.
“The family has reduced from five or six children to one or two. With fewer children, we will naturally enjoy more love from our parents.”
Chen Pingsheng understood that his grandfather I came to persuade him.
It’s not that I’m trying to persuade him about Chen Tan, but I’m just asking him to understand those people from the perspective of his relatives.
Just like the second aunt and the second uncle, they are all uneducated people.
What about Chen Tan? They don’t have the ability to teach him well.
After Chen Tan and the others arrived in the Magic City, Chen Pingsheng provided them with material enjoyment that was extremely inconsistent with their abilities.
I used to ride bicycles, but suddenly I started riding Rolls-Royces when I arrived in Shanghai.
It is inevitable that there will be a process in which the mentality cannot be changed.
The younger generation does not have much social experience, let alone the ability to control money.
This is like a three-year-old child who suddenly holds a sum of 100,000 in cash. What he can think of is not to hide it at home, but to show it off to his peers.
To put it bluntly, he still lacks a certain amount of patience when it comes to dealing with these relatives.
Grandpa knows that he has many things to do, so he won’t blame him.
But he has to understand this himself.
We cannot allow them to suddenly become rich while at the same time having strict requirements and not allowing them to make mistakes.
Think about the time when he, Chen Pingsheng, was naughty and causing trouble all day long.
The third uncle, the second uncle, and the sister-in-law all helped him first without asking the reason.
And now, until he has the ability.
But he has no patience when it comes to relatives. He should give these people more time or give them more help.
This help is not just about money, but also about patience.
The younger generation of Chen, Song, Peng and Liu basically arrived in the Magic City. Because of the large number of people, Chen Pingsheng also adopted an almost ruthless attitude and used an elimination system.
This is not the right choice for Grandpa. The older generation still has a strong concept of family affection.
In addition to helping each other, relatives should also be able to stop him in time when he goes astray.
Chen Pingsheng sent his grandfather back alone. After he arrived at Lou Wang's villa, he didn't go anywhere.
Instead, he looked at the people inside, who were busy doing their own business in a slightly bored manner.
The year he was born, it happened to coincide with family planning, but it was not too strict at that time.
You can still give birth secretly in the countryside, but it’s the younger sister Chen Qi who is the best at catching them. From the younger sister Chen Qi onwards, there are basically only two in a family.
For example, the third uncle is Chen Fan.
In addition to Chen Tan, the second uncle also has Chen Tan's sister Chen Sai, who has a child who is only a little over three years old.
This child is obviously related to Erpiya, but he doesn’t dare to play with her. Every time he comes in front of Erpiya, he still asks her mother about this and that.
For example, mom, can I play with Sister Erya?
Mom, Sister Erya doesn’t like playing with me anymore. Am I stupid?
Not only Chen Tan’s sister Chen Sai is like this, but her children are also the same.
And Peng Yu, who sells sexy underwear, is obviously a very lively and cheerful person, but he doesn't even dare to say anything in front of him.
My sister-in-law's son Yang Kang and his own cousins are actually a little afraid of him now.
Unconsciously, although more and more people live in this big villa, it is not as lively as in the countryside.
In the final analysis, all of this is still because of himself.
Perhaps as grandpa said, it was his patience that led to everything.
Although the Magic City is a prosperous and realistic city, there must still be warmth between these relatives.
And he himself should also adjust the way he does things.
After Chen Pingsheng returned home, Song Yanxi was not found.
Only after I called her did I find out that she had gone to the Shuiyunjian headquarters.
Chen Pingsheng drove to find his wife. If anything happened, he was still accustomed to discussing it with his wife before making a decision.
Shuiyunjian is completely an army of women, all of whom are rural girls.
But the current conditions of these girls are pretty good.
At least it's much better than their relatives who just came to Shanghai.
Song Yanxi’s office is still very unique. The floor-to-ceiling window overlooks the Huangpu River. Sitting here drinking a cup of tea and talking about work. It would be false to say that life is not pleasant.
“Husband, is this why you came here?”
"Absolutely. In the morning, grandpa went to see me alone, and I went to Lou Wang's villa again. Although the environment inside is luxurious, it really lacks some of the rural warmth that relatives should have."
Song Yanxi blinked her beautiful eyes, "Husband, you have been using the method of managing a business to restrain these relatives who are of the same generation as us. When their parents know about it, they will definitely be nervous and afraid that they will be kicked out by you for making mistakes. When I go back to my hometown in the countryside, there will naturally be no warmth in such a situation."
Chen Pingsheng understood that his wife had already discovered this problem and never mentioned it.
The key is that Song Yanxi doesn’t think there is anything wrong with this.
Isn’t that what society is like?
For their family to achieve this, it is already considered very good.
It is normal for some people to not be able to adapt to leaving.
Chen Pingsheng said: "It is still inappropriate to treat family ties the same way you treat a business, and it can easily make some elders sad.
"I don't want you to introduce them to them in the future. Let them find a rich partner on their own. There are some people you introduce to them, but they can’t understand it and don’t dare to refuse, which is not a good thing.
“In addition, you cannot apply for the entrepreneurial fund casually. You must meet certain conditions, such as working in Shanghai for a year or two and doing well.”
The reason why there are restrictions is mainly because some people's experience cannot even handle two million.
We must first let them truly understand the city and integrate into it, and then give them money when they really have a business idea.
This is obviously more reasonable.
(End of this chapter)