Chapter 234: Lessons from the Assassination Team
"...Dr. He, this is the situation."
At the same time, in He Ming's private clinic in Dajing City.
Shang Chaotian finished telling the whole story, and then looked at He Ming carefully.
He Ming blinked after hearing this. There was no expression on his face, and it was impossible to tell what he was thinking.
This subtle atmosphere lasted for a few seconds. Just when Shang Chaotian tried to ask a question, He Ming finally responded:
"Well, that's it, Chairman Shang, I am a straight-tempered person and don't like to talk every day. These scenes are convoluted, so don’t mind it too much!”
Hearing He Ming’s “disclaimer”, Shang Chaotian’s heart sank slightly, and then he hurriedly responded:
“ It's okay, you just say it's okay."
He Ming raised his eyes and glanced at Shang Chaotian, and said slowly:
"To be honest, in my opinion, your student's situation is wrong...but it is very normal." "
Hearing He Ming's preliminary conclusion, Shang Chaotian's heart skipped a beat and subconsciously pursed his lips.
And He Ming continued to explain unhurriedly:
"Chairman Shang, I don't know much about your project, but I hear what you mean...that [Chess Master] is very, very important, right?" "
"It is... the most important domestic competition, with a prize of 1.3 million. It is also regarded as a symbol of being the best in the country. It is more important than a world championship. It is not an exaggeration to say that it is the most important individual competition for domestic chess players."
"Then...your student's mentality was unstable because of a star female player, and he lost the championship that he had a good chance of winning, right?"
"...Yes. "
"Well, it sounds like the main reason is actually his own unstable mentality."
He Ming said in a deep voice:
"But Chairman Shang, you need to know that when people face huge failures, they will always subconsciously look for excuses and emotional catharsis points for themselves. This is people's natural psychological protection mechanism.
"For this kind of For players who rely on their ability to make a living, star female players with a vase-shaped appearance are inherently looked down upon - even if they don't say it on the surface, they are somewhat in their hearts. Therefore, it is perfectly normal for your students to use it as an outlet for their emotions. "
At this point, Shang Chaotian already understood what the other party meant, and said in a deep voice:
"But his idea is wrong!
“I have formally apologized to him about this matter and also given him a lot of explanations!
"Rui Zhao did not do anything wrong, and the promotion of her star anchor player is also an important strategy of the entire chess agreement. Lei Qi should not be angry about this!"
"Apologise? Explanation? Explanation?"
Hearing these three words, He Ming chuckled.
“You don’t think that the things you are talking about are worth more than a million yuan in prize money and the most important personal competition championship, right?”
Shang Chaotianwen I was speechless for a moment and couldn't speak for a long time.
He Mingze continued:
“Chairman Shang, this is not a question of right or wrong.
“Of course I can say now that there is no problem with your handling of this matter, but you have to know... ...People are born with the desire to be favored and treated specially.
“You may think that you are focusing on the overall situation. But in the eyes of your students, you, the teacher, value a vase player more than the emotional appeal of his world champion. The value it brings.
“Not to mention that he just lost the championship he should have won, and when he looked back, he saw that his opinions were completely trampled on. How could you put him in a good mood? ”
Shang Chaotian was silent for a long time, and then said:
“But I said...it’s because he did something wrong!
“If his opinion is correct, then I will naturally adopt it. "
He Ming stared at Shang Chaotian for a while, and slowly asked a question:
"Chairman Shang, please allow me to ask you a question first: Can you bear the cost of losing this student? ? ”
"Eh?"
Shang Chaotian was stunned by this sharp question that suddenly appeared:
"You, what do you mean?"
"That is...he will never do it from now on. I won’t play Go anymore, or I may transfer to another country and play Go for another country.”
“How could it be!” Shang Chaotian stood up suddenly: “Lei Qi has always been very obedient, no. It’s possible to do such a thing!”
"Don't worry...I'll just make a hypothesis."
He Ming motioned Shang Chaotian to sit down:
"But please answer truthfully: can you accept such a result? "
"How can you accept it?" Shang Chaotian said immediately:
"He won the world championship at the age of seventeen and is recognized as the next generation leader in our professional Go world. We have to count on him to break the dominance of Ryu Se-hyun in South Korea!”
"This... is the problem."
Hearing this, He Ming raised his eyebrows and glanced at the Chairman of the Chess Association.
“Chairman Shang, I need to remind you:
“Of course you don’t care about an ordinary player’s opinions and feelings. After all, people speak softly, and he often has to compromise with reality - who calls him his own food?
"But players who are truly as important as the mainstay are extremely irreplaceable. It can be said that... they are born with certain privileges.
"This kind of privilege overrides right and wrong - even the emotions of key players. Stability is the biggest correctness in competitive sports.
“Of course, coaches and management teams can indeed choose not to respect this privilege for the sake of team atmosphere and discipline. But correspondingly, they must also be prepared to bear the corresponding consequences.
"Just to give you a typical example: The Texas San Antonio Spurs of the US NBA had a lot of unpleasantness with a signature star they had personally trained in the past few years. There were many different opinions on the process, and it's hard to say who was right or wrong.
“But...at this point, right or wrong is no longer important.
"No matter whether the Texas San Antonio Spurs acted right or wrong during this process, in the end result, this iconic star felt that he did not get enough respect, so he directly chose to force his home team to switch to another team, and he won another championship the next year; < br>
“And this powerful team that has made it to the playoffs for twenty consecutive years has since turned from prosperity to decline, and it has not yet been able to complete its reconstruction.
"After listening to this example, you should understand what I mean, right?"
To be honest, Shang Chaotian, who does not watch basketball, has never paid attention to this example He Ming gave.
But the words "Forcing the palace's mother team and switching to another family" made Shang Chaotian's nerves tremble.
You know, due to some historical reasons, there have been cases in the history of China where outstanding chess players traveled abroad!
Of course, those are old things now.
But it is precisely because it is an old thing, so if this kind of thing happened now, it would be completely unimaginable!
Imagine: If Lei Qi, the only post-2005 world champion in the world today, moves to South Korea or the Japanese Chess Academy to compete, and defeats Chinese chess players in a future competition to win the championship...
Shang Chaotian already doesn’t dare to think anymore!
Seeing Shang Chaotian's expression at this time, He Ming's words became more serious:
"Chairman Shang, I just saw you look like this, you really care about your student.
< br>"But I feel that maybe because you raised him from a young age, you have a habitual illusion of his obedience. I feel that you can always demand and control him, ignoring that he is an independent individual who is about to become an adult and has his own thoughts and demands. What's more, in my opinion, some of his psychological reactions after a huge failure are really normal.
“Of course, I’m not saying that he must agree to his request. But if he is indeed an extremely important athlete, then he must be extremely careful in handling his emotions, and even report to the General Administration for arrangements when necessary. It’s not an exaggeration to say that it can be solved by personnel.
“But…with all due respect.
"After what happened, you simply rejected his request to vent his emotions. You actually questioned his professional attitude when he was affected and his competitive level fluctuated...
" Operation, do you really think that the accumulation of negative emotions in his heart is not enough? ”
At this point, Shang Chaotian’s face was already wrong.
He suddenly realized that after the fifth game of the chess holy war, his series of reactions were still too casual and stupid. !
And the reason... is indeed what He Ming said.
He has become accustomed to Lei Qi's obedience and obedience, and subconsciously believes that his students will definitely obey his arrangements! And I didn't think about the possible impact on Lei Qi's psychology at all.
"Then, Doctor He, what should we do about this matter?" Shang Chaotian asked anxiously.
He Ming immediately gave advice:
"Chairman Shang, please call your student first and send him birthday wishes. Also apologize for the previous doubts about him!
“As for other things, we have to look at the specific situation. If possible, please ask him to return to Dajing as soon as possible and then come to me, and I will have a good chat with him. ”
"Okay, I'll contact him right now!"
After Shang Chaotian responded, he immediately took out his mobile phone and prepared to call his adult student, but suddenly found that the mobile phone he had just muted now already has it. Four missed calls!
All from Qin Xiaoxue!
Seeing these four missed calls, Shang Chaotian had a very bad feeling for a moment.
He unlocked his phone and was about to call Qin Xiaoxue, but found that Qin Xiaoxue had already sent him a WeChat message:
[Qin Xiaoxue]: Chairman Shang, has something happened to our Lei Qi recently?
[Qin Xiaoxue]: Just after he came back from taking a walk outside, he suddenly told us that he no longer wanted to be a student. Do you know what happened? !
Thanks to [A Fat Orange Cat] [Desperate Braised Fish] [Jiang Chuan Huo Du Ming] for your monthly votes and recommendation votes!
Thank you [Tai Shang Hongmeng Patriarch] [Little Piggy Cute] [Fast Hands] [Da Qin Mother Star Observer 12345] [Book Friends 20230209598904] [Mizola] [Remnant Night? 】【opass60】Waiting for the recommendation votes from the big guys!
(End of this chapter)