Chapter 444 Relax
Ma Ludao, "You know, I once met a person. He was a sociologist, but his brain was a little abnormal. He wanted to create a world where everyone is equal and friendly. The world.
“But the problem is that the world itself is a five-nut mooncake that has been put together for eight hundred years and has green hair on it. You can’t remove the green hair on it because it is part of the mooncake. There is no way. segmentation.
“The Internet is the same. If you pay attention to the Internet, you will find that it is becoming more and more violent and divided. Just like our world, even if you do nothing online, you will Being attacked because of your gender or just because you are from a different province or because you like different things. "In fact, online violence is nothing new. Every year, people become victims of online violence, and more and more people become victims of it. The more, but even if the country comes forward, there is nothing good to do about this kind of thing.
"Catching a few typical examples may have been useful at the time, but it cannot change this trend. This is the result of the combined effects of multiple factors such as changes in the world economy, geopolitics, and the increasingly faster pace of life."< br>
“So I think for ordinary people, it doesn’t make much sense to worry about how to make the Internet more peaceful and friendly. All you can do is adjust your own mood.
"If you really see a comment on the Internet that makes you very angry, just retort it back. If you want to judge others based on a few words, go ahead and judge others, because you will be judged out of context anyway, well, this does not count. It's fair in a sense.
“From billionaires to ordinary civilians, they will all be subject to rumors and online violence without discrimination.”
“But wouldn’t the Internet be full of quarrels?” Yi Xiaxia's eyes widened and she couldn't understand.
"Believe me, even if you choose to be a good person, the quarrels on the Internet will never diminish."
Ma Ludao, "You should not be too harsh on yourself. Within the scope of the law, within the scope of the law, It’s not a big deal to check your mood points online.”
“Brother Ma, are you a pessimist?”
Ma Lu shrugged, “You’re not the first person to say that. But on the contrary, I am a very optimistic person. I am the kind of person who will still live happily through today if the world is destroyed tomorrow, because I will not waste my efforts on things that cannot be changed."
“Most of human suffering comes from harsh criticism of ourselves and the world.”
"You always hope that you and the world will become better. Naturally, it is easy to feel frustrated and disappointed because you and the world are not good enough."
"But you have to understand that both people and the world are not good enough." It’s impossible not to make mistakes.
“Like I said before, the world is a giant hairy five-nut mooncake, but other than those pesky green hairs, hey, don’t forget it’s also a mooncake. , has a very delicious puff pastry, even if you don’t completely like five kernels, there are always one or two kernels that you like in the five kernels, and that’s enough.
"The Internet is the same. In addition to becoming more and more confrontational and divided, with all kinds of abuse and random rumors, there will also be some very cool mods made by Dalao himself, which are very cool things. Share it, and some enthusiastic netizens will answer your questions and teach you how to repair your washing machine and air conditioner.
"The singer you mentioned who died of depression was criticized and misunderstood as a creator. It is inevitable, but apart from those accusations and assumptions, he must have also received a lot of praise and sincere love from people after becoming a singer.
"These compliments and love must have supported him on the road of being a singer for a long time. So if he was asked to choose again, he might still choose to become a singer." "In the end, it is inevitable for people to be scolded and criticized by netizens while they are alive. Scolding, scolding by bosses, scolding by family members, some people will use these scoldings as motivation to push themselves forward, but after all, there is a limit to a person's psychological endurance
" If the limit is exceeded, bad things will happen, especially for those who have mental illness or who feel that they are in a bad mood for a long time.
“The most important thing for you is not to reflect and correct, but to find a way to block the voices from the outside world, reduce the pressure you are under, and don’t let those curses hurt yourself anymore.
< "If you really feel pain about it, it will only make those who criticize you happy, because they actually attacked you, especially don't take extreme actions.
"Even if you are framed by rumors and false accusations, choosing to commit suicide will not make those bastards feel guilty at all. Believe me, most people on the Internet just make a few casual comments and vent their emotions. They don't really care how much Liuzi has eaten. A bowl of powder."
"I... don't understand it completely, but I feel a lot better after hearing what you said. It's not that uncomfortable anymore," Yi Xiaxia said.
"Lowering your sense of morality a little bit and occasionally dishing out food will make your life much happier." Ma Lu said, "The stew is about to get cold, so eat it quickly."
"Well..." Yi Xiaxia picked up the chopsticks, picked up a piece of wolf camel meat from the bowl, put it to her mouth, and then stopped, "Brother Ma, thank you for being willing to chat with me and enlighten me."
“You’re welcome, we are destined to meet each other, and besides, you are not a bad person,” Ma Lu said, “Although I don’t mind quarreling with people, and I even outsourced my account to do so, it is undeniable that the quality of It’s still more comfortable to be together with tall people.”
"But my high quality is only because of my good family background. Everyone I have met since I was very polite to me. If it weren't for my parents, I might not be as good as ordinary people." Yi Xiaxia said.
"Hey, Canglin knows the etiquette if he is honest, and he knows the honor and disgrace if he has enough food and clothing. This is not a shameful thing." Ma Lu said, "Don't listen to the nonsense of those big trolls. No matter what the reason, you can It was already very difficult not to criticize anyone in the previous game."
"Yes." Yi Xiaxia also nodded heavily, as if to encourage herself, just like what Ma Lu said. She tried hard to forget about other people's comments before eating the meat in the bowl.
As soon as I took one bite, I was shocked, "Oh my god, this is so delicious! Brother Ma, did you make this?"
"No, it was Lao Wang who made it. Yes, he is my roommate and partner and the chef of the restaurant.”
"What's the name of your restaurant?" Yi Xiaxia was so preoccupied when she walked in that she didn't bother to read the sign at the door.
“Universe Infinite Canteen.”
“Ah, so this is the Universe Infinite Canteen? I heard from my classmates that there is a small restaurant that sells very expensive food, but it opens every day. There was a long queue in front of the restaurant. I was thinking that the food here must be delicious, but it turned out to be a hundred times better than I imagined. ”
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