Chapter 167: People are jealous
“No, Lao Dou said he was going but didn’t go, he was lying.”
Tianxiu threw his schoolbag directly onto the sofa and faced his mother The son accused the second brother of what he had done. The second guy who followed him through the door argued, "Where did I lie to you? Didn't I come back with you?"
"Come back together? You promised me to go to school, not to come with you. Come back. And I only met you when I arrived at the door." Tianxiu said aggrievedly, his eyes already a little wet.
The second brother picked up the big and small bags in his hands and explained: "Oh, I'm going to buy milk powder for your sister. You are the same. It's okay if you have Uncle Yao to accompany you. There are so many requirements. ." After saying that, he took the things and entered the room.
Mom touched Tianxiu's head and consoled her: "Everyone is busy, adults. How can I have time to watch your performance? Your uncle is the only one who is free. It's okay if someone represents you." Tu still looked unhappy, "Everyone used to go to see my performance."
My mother smiled and said, "There was no BB before."
"BB is amazing. . "If you don't mention BB, I'll forget about you. When BB is mentioned, Tiantu becomes even more angry.
When it was time to eat in the evening, Xianglan’s mother came out to eat with everyone while Tianyou was asleep. As a result, she had to go back to see Tianyou after just two bites. No matter how hard she tried to persuade her, she couldn’t stop her, so she had to let her go. She has to go. Not long after she walked out of the dining room, she heard an exclamation of "Oh, this is incredible."
"What's wrong?" Everyone came to the sister-in-law's room. "Tianyou is missing." Xianglan's mother said anxiously.
"Gone? Impossible." Everyone looked quickly and saw that the child was indeed gone in the crib. "Everyone split up and search separately. Split up and search quickly." Lao Dou quickly ordered.
"By the way, second brother, go back and see if Siyu is in the room." Kang Qirui reminded the second brother that Si Qi is there and Zhu Wanling is still holding her.
As soon as the second guy heard this, he immediately ran back to the room. "It's gone, and Siyu is gone too." Soon the second brother's excited voice came, and the second sister-in-law fainted when she heard the voice. Diana and Sachiko hurriedly helped their second sister-in-law up and sat down beside Xianglan's bed to let her calm down.
"Both children are missing. I suggest calling the police immediately." Lao Dou was relatively calm. Azu immediately took out his phone and was about to call 110. Ayao quickly held him down and said, "Don't call me yet. What if it's a kidnapping? The police will call the police and they'll tear up the ticket in minutes." Xianglan and Ersao heard that the ticket was being called. I almost fainted again at the word.
"Wait a minute, there seems to be a sound." Kang Qirui didn't hide it from everyone at this time, and said directly: "Everyone, please stop making noise, have you heard BB's voice?" He asked everyone to quiet down, Listening carefully, I heard the baby crying.
"Attic." Boss Guang was the first to hear the voice coming from the attic, and everyone ran up in a swarm after hearing the words. In the attic room, everyone saw Tianxiu coaxing the two children to stop crying. Xianglan quickly hugged Tianyou into her arms, and the second sister-in-law also immediately hugged Siyu.
"Azu, Azu, why did I ask you to find you?" Mom scolded Azu. In fact, she didn't blame Azu. Since the Kang family's big house was merged and opened, the attic has been gone. People were living there, so when everyone was looking for the children just now, they didn’t look up there.
The second guy pointed at Tianxiu and said angrily: "You must be the one who brought your brothers and sisters up, right?" Tianxiu certainly didn't admit it, but the fact was right in front of him, and it was not his turn to deny it. . "You bad boy, you don't play with so many things, why do you play with this? I almost killed your mother and I. You really didn't beat me enough." The second sister-in-law was also very angry, and she was about to come up as she spoke. Beat Tianpu.
“Forget it, just find it.” The mother stopped the second brother and the second sister-in-law, but she also educated Tianxiu: “Tianxiu, let me tell you, from now on you Don't do this again."
"What about the future? I will throw you on the street and let the kidnappers pick you up." The second sister-in-law threatened Tianxiu.
"He's the one who's going to be thrown into the street." Tianxiu pointed at Tianyou in Xianglan's arms, "He doesn't look like our Kang family. Look at him. His eyes are small, his nose is flat, his chin is short, and he's fat. "He's short. Dad and Mommy usually say he doesn't look like an uncle, like that Brother Niu." Tianxiu didn't know what to say in private.
"What, I mean like Dalogong." The second sister-in-law also subconsciously corrected Tianxiu's words as if she had been pregnant for three years. After the second sister-in-law said it, she remembered that it was not her fault. They were chatting in the room and quickly covered their mouths. At this time, Xianglan and the boss looked very ugly.
The second brother immediately distanced himself and cursed at the second sister-in-law: "What nonsense are you talking about, you idiot?"
"What are you talking about, you loser?" The second sister-in-law also immediately threw the blame back to Tianxiu. They were indeed a married couple.
The second guy just held down Tianxiu and wanted to beat him severely. Kang Qirui quickly stopped the second brother who was about to get angry, and said angrily: "What does he know as a child? You didn't say those things yourself, how can he make it up?"
Kang Qirui asked Ayao and Azu to take everyone down to the living room, while he and Tianxiu stayed in the attic. After they all left, Kang Qirui pulled Tianxiu and sat beside the bed and said, "Yuzai, let's talk to Uncle Yao, what do you think?"
"I hate them, as soon as they were born in the family People treat them like treasures and treat me like nothing. They all hate me." Tianxiu cried and complained about the behavior of his family members. "In the past, they would give me whatever was delicious and useful. Everyone in the family will go to see me. Now? Just because there is a baby in the family, no one cares about me, not even my father and mother." Kang Qirui touched Tianxiu's head and sighed: " They are indeed wrong."
Tian'u asked: "So Uncle Yao, you think I'm right, right?"
"No, you are wrong Tian'u. "Kang Qirui shook his head and explained to the puzzled Tianxiu: "Just because they did something wrong doesn't mean you can make fun of your younger siblings. Do you understand? It's like you can get angry if the fat kid in your school bullies you. He can even bully her back when he's angry, but you can't bully Fatty's sister just because he bullied you."
"Uncle Yao, do you mean that the harm will not affect the family?" Tianxiu thought for a while and came up with a word he saw in the Hong Kong movie "People in the Jianghu".
Kang Qirui tapped Tianxiu's forehead with his finger and said angrily: "That's about it. Let me tell you, you can watch that kind of movie, but don't imitate it, otherwise Even Uncle Yao can't save you."
Tian Tuo nodded, he now thinks Uncle Yao is the best. During this period of time, only Uncle Yao still treated him the same as before and had not changed, so he cherished his relationship with Kang Qirui now. Kang Qirui added: "So now you know what you did was wrong? Let's go downstairs and apologize to everyone."
Tianxiu looked reluctant, but he was afraid that he would not even return the favor if he refused to apologize. There are no relatives who are good to me anymore. He had to reluctantly follow Kang Qirui downstairs to the living room, and said to everyone: "Grandpa, grandpa, uncle, mommy, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have secretly carried my brothers and sisters to the attic. , I made everyone worried and sad, please forgive me for once.”
Tianxiu really knows how to speak. After hearing this, the mother was moved. She pulled Tianxiu and patted her back gently, saying: "Okay, okay, just know that you are wrong. Children, don't worry about it." The last sentence was addressed to the adults. What Lao Guang and Xiang Lan said.
Xianglan was also soft-hearted, so she immediately expressed her position: "Tianxiu, it's okay." The boss wanted to say something else, but Xianglan held him down.
"Okay, Tianxiu's matter is finished. Let's talk about everyone's matter." Seeing that Tianxiu's apology was accepted by everyone, Kang Qirui started the next topic.
"What do we need?" The second guy just pretended to be stupid.
Kang Qirui looked at the second brother speechlessly and said: "Since the second brother asked, let's start with the second brother and his sister-in-law." The second brother and his sister-in-law looked at each other, and Kang Qirui continued Said: "First of all, I arranged the big brother and sister-in-law in private. I won't repeat those words. Secondly, when you have the second son, you don't care about the boss."
The second brother and the second sister-in-law also wanted to defend themselves, but Kang Qirui directly stopped them from talking. , "Don't quibble, don't say you're busy and don't have time. Let me ask you, before Siyu existed, you didn't go to the school event in Tianxiang? What? You weren't busy before? A lot of time?"
In the past, the second brother and second sister-in-law would rather keep the stall open than go to participate in various activities in Tianxiu. The so-called "busy and no time" is just an excuse, and it's a problem that you don't pay attention to. "Two-child families, especially those like Tianxiu who have been an only child for so many years, are very sensitive. Rejection is a normal instinctive reaction. As parents, we should allow our children to express their rejection appropriately and guide them to choose rational ways of venting."
Kang Qirui can understand Tianxiu carrying Tianyou Siyu into the attic. In psychology, there is a special term for his behavior: "sibling competition." That is, feelings of resentment or competitive behavior toward younger siblings. For example, competing with younger siblings for the love and companionship of parents/elders, and showing vandalism or aggressive behavior towards them. In fact, it's not that he really doesn't like his younger siblings, nor is he really selfish, he is just afraid.
His understanding of his identity and the responsibilities he needs to bear require a learning process and time to adapt. At this time, the attention and education of parents/elders are very important. The behavior of the second brother and second sister-in-law who ignores him and shouts and beats him at every turn will only aggravate his anxiety and lead to more serious things.
After teaching the second brother and his sister-in-law a lesson, Kang Qirui looked at the boss Guang Xianglan again, "Boss and sister-in-law, don't take it to heart what the second brother and his sister-in-law say. This is how they talk without thinking. ." Then he changed the topic, "But I have to say something to you, especially the boss. I understand your nervousness about having a baby son in your forties.
“But, be afraid of extremes in everything. Mom, Xianglan, and the others are so experienced. The two parents have raised more children than they can count on two hands. Why don't you trust them? Weren't you and my sister-in-law also brought up by them? How could you lead your precious son to evil? ”
"Isn't it funny that the family has to take medicine before they have a baby? Does the family still look like a family?" Kang Qirui's words were serious. Zhu Wanling next to him kept giving him winks, but he pretended not to notice.
He really felt that this home was becoming less and less like home. He said earnestly: "Logically speaking, I am the youngest in the family, and I am not qualified to stand here and teach everyone. But what? As a member of the Kang family, when I find a problem, I have the responsibility to ask questions, analyze the problem, and solve the problem. "In fact, it is easy to solve it." Although Kang Qirui thinks these problems are quite serious, they can be solved. It's not difficult. He called out by name: "Second Brother and Second Sister-in-law." The Second Brother and Second Sister-in-law looked at him obediently. They had now woken up and realized that they were indeed ignoring Tianxiu at this time. "Treat everyone equally and fully participate. What does that mean? It means treating two children equally. You can't just care about one and ignore the other. The second thing is to let Tianxiu fully participate in the process of taking care of his sister, so that he can feel that he also has certain rights. Responsibility."
"As for the boss and his sister-in-law, it's simple, three words: normality." Kang Qirui looked at the boss Guang and Xianglan again.
After finishing speaking, he led Zhu Wanling back to the room. Being taught a lesson by the youngest brother in the family, both the eldest brother Guang and the second brother need some space to adapt.
(End of this chapter)