Chapter 198 Zhizi
In the first week of May, Sachiko gave birth to a daughter in the hospital and named her Yasuko, who made Ayao so happy that she could not see her teeth for several days. It's just that after Xingzi came back to Kang's house from the hospital, the weather was too hot and she wasn't used to the confinement situation in Guangfu. Finally, Ayao helped her find a confinement center and let her go to the confinement center. .
Kang Zhizi ranks fifth in the third generation of the Kang family, and Diana is also pregnant, which shows that the Kang family is prosperous. After Diana became pregnant, she went back to the beautiful country to raise her baby, mainly because she could get the nationality of the beautiful country if she was born there.
Among the third generations of the Kang family, Tianxiu is the eldest, Siqi is the second, Tianyou is the third, Siyu is the fourth, and Zhizi is the fifth. In addition to being quite different in age from Tianxiu, In addition, the other four are relatively similar in age, but the name Kang Zhizi has also caused a lot of criticism within the Kang family.
“I can’t afford a lot of names. What’s the name Zhizi? If you tell me, no one will know that she and Siqi Siyu are sisters.” Lao Dou is the one who has the biggest objection. He is obsessed with the ranking of names. All the sons are prefixed with the prefix "prayer", among the grandchildren, the prefix "tian" is prefixed to the male and the prefix "si" is prefixed to the granddaughter.
"That's right, Zhi Zhi Zhi Zi. If you tell me, people will think you are from the country of Little Days next door." The boss said it bluntly, and his words got to the core. The names of Sachiko and his maiden family are indeed very similar to that of the little country next door. Both Sachiko and Yumi prefer that country's name.
A Yao disagreed, he smiled and said: "What does it matter, as long as it is Kang. When people hear that her surname is Kang, don't they know that she is a descendant of our Kang family? "
"That's right, Mr. Dou, you are really rare and strange." The second brother, who had once thought about changing Tianxiu's name and surname, agreed very much with Ayao's idea. I think as long as parents like it, it’s okay to name their children whatever they want.
Kang Qirui also nodded, "How can there be so much attention nowadays? It's nice to call her Zhizi, Sachiko Zhizi. People will know that this is Asan and Sachiko's child as soon as they hear it."< br>
"Arui is right. Why is the name Zhizi bad? How good and recognizable. You don't even need to look at the household registration book. Just by hearing the name, you know she is me. It’s the seed of Xingzi.” Ayao patted Kang Qirui on the shoulder and said with a smile.
"I'm too lazy to care about you." Lao Dou said depressedly as he was speechless.
Seeing him like this, Kang Qirui quickly changed the subject and asked his second brother and second sister-in-law: "It's been a month since Tianxiu went to the new school. How is he lately?"
When he asked this question, Old Dou’s mother also looked at the second brother and second sister-in-law. Speaking of this, the second brother was also very happy. He said: "It's very good. The results have risen linearly, so a famous brand is a famous brand, and aristocrats are aristocrats. They are expensive for their own reasons."
"That's right, we don't know how to be obedient now, our Tianxiu. And in this aristocratic school, we don't have to worry about having male-female relations in our teens." The second sister-in-law said about Tianxiu. I am also very satisfied with the changes in the month.
The whole family was very happy when they heard that Tianxiu’s grades had improved significantly. They were sincerely happy. Everyone has a lot of affection for Tianxiu. However, Zhu Wanling frowned and said worriedly: "But when Tianxiu came home during the past two weeks, I found that he was not very happy, and he was not as lively as before."
Zhu Wanling used to be a nurse. In the past year, she returned home and became a full-time mother. She is a very careful person. She had long since discovered that Tianxiu's state was not quite the same as before. Now that she was talking about Tianxiu, she shared her observations.
It's a pity that the second brother and the second sister-in-law didn't pay much attention to it. The second brother said with a smile: "This is because he is sensible now. He was so naughty before and was lawless at home. Now that he is sensible, he will naturally I feel that he is not as lively as before, and it is okay. This is good, how good he is now."
"That's right, you don't know. Now Yuzai doesn't know how to wake up in the morning. He's so positive, but he can't even scream like before. And now he can fold the quilt by himself after getting up." Speaking of her son's changes, the second sister-in-law looked happy and didn't pay much attention to Zhu Wanling's words.
Zhu Wanling nodded and stopped talking. After all, she was just an aunt, and she had no evidence, so she couldn't say anything else. She could only hope in her heart that Tianxiu had really just become good, and that she wasn't unhappy because she was hiding something from her family.
The next day is Sunday, Tianxiu will leave Kang's house and go back to school. The second sister-in-law got up early to prepare and stewed the tonic all afternoon. "Young man, come out quickly and eat stewed pig brains." But she called Tiantu several times and didn't come out.
The mother was surprised. She said doubtfully: "What happened to him today? He usually doesn't need to be called. He runs out when he has something to eat."
"Hurry up, hurry up." After waiting for a while, I saw the second brother pushing Tianxi out of the living room, "I just praised you yesterday and I praised you so much. Eat quickly. After you finish eating, I will drive you back to school."
< br>Tianxiu sat down with a dull expression. When he took the spoon handed over by his second sister-in-law, his hands were shaking. As soon as he took a bite, he couldn't hold the spoon and dropped the spoon into the stew pot.
"What's wrong with you, Yuzi? Are you feeling uncomfortable?" Mom asked nervously as soon as she saw it. The second sister-in-law also touched Tianxiu's head nervously to see if he had a fever, "What's wrong with you? Why are you trembling all over?"
After asking Tianxiu, the second sister-in-law said to him again The second guy said angrily: "Did you scold him again?" The second guy yelled, "How could I not scold him? I just said something to him and you heard it. It can't be me who said it." Is he so scared? Is Kang Tianxiu so afraid of me?"
“Grandma, can I not study in that school?” Tianxiu stopped hiding it from everyone and cried as she fell into her mother’s arms.
"What's wrong?" Hearing the eldest grandson's cry, the mother immediately felt distressed. She asked while wiping his tears.
“Those people always bully me.” He cried to everyone and told everyone about the situation at school. “Those people pinch me when they are upset, and pinch me every day, and it hurts me every time. "
"Then why didn't you tell the teacher?" asked the second sister-in-law.
"I'm afraid those people will hit me." Tianxiu cried and replied, "Those people are all bigger than me. If I tell the teacher, the teacher won't do anything to them. At most, he will just criticize them. They You don’t have to take revenge on me when you come back.”
The teacher’s role in the school bullying incident is actually very small, and Kang Qirui understands that. Nowadays, students cannot be hit or scolded, so the deterrent effect that teachers can bring to children has become very small. Teachers cannot provide enough deterrence. What kind of help can teachers provide in the face of school bullying? It's nothing more than calling the children's parents to educate their children.
Oral education is of no use to these children. If verbal education were useful, these children would not be violent.
"Husband, what should we do?" The second sister-in-law asked the second brother to make up his mind with a distressed look on his face. The second guy looked at Kang Qirui and asked: "Arui, you are a teacher, what do you think you should do if this kind of thing happens?"
"To be honest, the teacher is serious about such things. There is nothing you can do. Tell the teacher, what can the teacher do? They are children, and they cannot be beaten or scolded, let alone expelled from school. "Kang Qirui has no good solution," Tianxiu said worriedly. It is indeed a fact.”
Kang Qirui believes that those who say that you should not hide something and tell the teacher boldly are just standing and talking without back pain. You tell the teacher to tell the school and there's absolutely nothing they can do. Their verbal education will only make those people intensify their revenge.
The so-called calling the police is even more useless. Nine years of compulsory education and legal regulations such as minors being exempted from criminal liability make the police powerless. Even with a few words of education, they will eventually have to go back to school. After being taught a few words, will they retaliate or will they restrain themselves from now on? The problem of school bullying is still a very serious and difficult problem 20 years later.
"Let's forget it then? I haven't beaten him like this since I was a child, but I was beaten like this by someone at school. What should I do?" The second sister-in-law was so distressed that tears fell down.
"Okay, okay, what's the big deal. If you don't go, I won't go." The second brother scolded the second sister-in-law, and then said to Kang Qirui: "Arui, can you help me ask? Let’s see if we can transfer Yuzai back to his original school?”
“Go back to his original school?” Kang Qirui asked.
"Yes, you have also seen how that school treats you. You also said that there is no good solution to this kind of thing. If we can't afford to offend, we can't afford to hide." The second guy sighed.
Zhu Wanling looked at Tianxiu's pitiful look and said helpfully: "Well, it would be nice to go back to the original school. Xiuzai has been studying there for so many years. He knows so many classmates and has a good relationship. His grades are good. If not, the best thing to do is hire a tutor. Husband, just help them."
The second sister-in-law wiped her tears and leaned against Zhu Wanling and said, "Yes, Uncle Yao, you are also in the education field. , you must know someone who can help Yu Zai transfer to another school. We were doing it before so that his grades would be better, but we didn’t expect it to be like this.”
Kang Qirui waved his hand, thought for a while and nodded: "It should be no problem to transfer to another school. I have a senior brother who is in the Education Bureau. If I ask for his help, I should be able to transfer back. But you have to think carefully. If you transfer this time, you won't be able to transfer again."
The second brother and the second sister-in-law looked at each other and nodded firmly, "I would rather my boy have poor academic performance than be bullied every day at school. I am reluctant to go home only once a week. You said it wouldn't matter if everything goes well, but it turns out like this. Anyway, it's troublesome for you, Uncle Yao," said the second sister-in-law, hugging Yuzi.
"Okay, let me make a call." Kang Qirui picked up the phone and called his teacher Mr. Huang, and made an appointment for dinner that evening.
(End of this chapter)