Chapter 4460 Grandpa is gone
The child's problem has reached an impasse.
The child's family gradually became numb to the child's condition and even became impatient.
The child came to the hospital alone.
Just like the child in front of me.
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Such a young child...
Let him come alone, face his own fantasies, his own fears...
His family couldn't relate.
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Later, some families were unwilling to pay this expenditure that seemed to have no end or effect in sight, so they stopped their children's treatment.
As a doctor, all she can do is try her best to communicate with the patient's family.
If the other party is resolute...
There was nothing she could do.
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There were failures and successes in her communication.
For her patients, she is willing to do her best every time.
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The doctor asked the child to ask his parents to come with him next time.
Just say that she was looking for them and that she had something to tell them.
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The child's parents are here.
This time, the doctor asked the child to stay alone in the house.
She went to another house with the child's parents.
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The child's parents were a little confused and a little excited.
They thought the child's problem was solved...
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The doctor shook his head.
If it was really solved, why would she avoid her children and tell them?
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The light in the eyes of the child's parents dimmed instantly.
They became more and more confused.
So what do doctors do with them?
They were a little angry.
They are very busy.
If there is nothing important...
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The doctor got straight to the point.
I asked the child’s parents directly why they haven’t picked up or dropped off their children recently?
Let such a young child come to the hospital alone to see a doctor...
Don’t you think it’s too difficult for your children?
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The child's parents looked at each other.
It's because of this...
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They don't feel like they did anything wrong.
My kids have been here many times.
Fully capable of doing it yourself.
In this case, why do so many people come together every time to mobilize troops?
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The doctor looked at the child's parents.
There doesn't seem to be anything wrong with their words.
But...
Why did Lele come to the hospital?
Because of nightmares.
Because of nightmares, the child is always in a state of anxiety even during the day.
It is a state of great need for the company of family members.
The behavior of the child’s parents...
It is simply letting the child be in the whirlpool of nightmare.
Watch with cold eyes.
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The child has been suffering from nightmares.
As a parent, even if you feel like you can't do anything, you can always provide companionship and encouragement.
But the child told her that his parents were very busy.
They don't talk to him much.
They didn't like him mentioning the man-eating sheep.
Will be very angry.
They never asked him again about the nightmare.
And what we talked about with the doctor when we went to the hospital...
The child's parents seemed to ignore the child's problem.
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The expressions of the child's parents became a little unnatural.
The doctor's tone was gentle, without any hint of accusation.
But the meaning behind the words was obvious.
The doctors felt they cared less about the children.
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"...We are too busy..."
The child's mother murmured.
"We can't help much with the children..."
"Didn't we ask him to come and talk to the doctor?"
"Doctor, please worry more."
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"Doctor, has Lele's condition improved?" the child's father asked.
"Do I still need to come to the hospital all the time?"
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"Yeah."
The child's mother nodded.
"It's been so long..."
"It cost so much..."
“It can’t have no effect at all, right?”
"Doctor, you also know the situation of our family."
“My father and I are both working men.”
"Not much money."
"This child is about to go to school, and there will be a lot of money to spend in the future..."
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The doctor frowned slightly.
"Since you want him to get well soon, you should pay more attention to him."
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"Don't we care about him yet?"
The child's mother cried out for them, "Let him be well fed and clothed warmly."
"Let him come and see the doctor."
"Besides, isn't it the doctor's responsibility to cure him?"
“What can we do?”
"We gave him all the care he deserved."
"We are not such jaded parents."
"I can talk a lot verbally."
"He is our child."
"How could we not care about him?"
The child’s mother found the doctor’s words strange and funny.
As an outsider, you accuse them as parents of not caring enough about their children?
They don't care about children. Who else cares about children?
That's their child.
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Looking at the angry parents of the child, the doctor was silent.
"...Just think I'm talking too much."
"I hope at least one of you can accompany your child to the hospital next time."
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"We try our best."
This is what the child's parents said to the doctor at the time.
It's a pity...
Their best effort was to never appear in front of a doctor again.
Every time after that, only the child came by himself.
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Although the doctor felt sorry for the child, there was nothing he could do.
How could she, an outsider, interfere in other people's family affairs?
What's more, it's not that the children's parents don't care about their children, but they don't care that much about their children.
They may prefer that their children become independent as soon as possible.
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The doctor was somewhat surprised to receive a call from the child.
This was also the first time the child called her.
This kid actually knows her phone number?
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She later learned that the child had seen her phone number from the business card she gave to the child's parents.
The child called to reschedule his next visit to the hospital.
The child is going back to his hometown in the countryside.
Because the child’s grandfather is gone...
There is no way for the child to come over the day after tomorrow...
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Hearing the cry in the child's voice, the doctor comforted the child warmly.
But he felt increasingly dissatisfied that the child's parents actually asked the child to make this call in person.
Logically speaking, this phone call should be from the child's parents.
He said that the child was going back to attend his grandfather’s funeral, that he couldn’t come at the agreed time, and that he wanted to change the time of meeting…
That's how it should be, isn't it?
Rather than asking such a young child to explain to others that he wants to make another appointment to meet because his dear grandfather is gone...
Wouldn't it be too cruel?
No buffer time is given to the children.
Let the child clearly know the fact that grandpa has left him...
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The doctor told the child not to worry about coming to the hospital.
Wait for the child to come back from the country and call her.
They make an appointment to meet again.
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The faint smile on the child's face disappeared when he hung up the phone.
Grandpa...
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At first, the parents told the child that grandpa was gone, and the child looked confused.
"Go?"
"Where to go?"
"Has grandpa gone out to play?"
The child asked innocently.
Even a little envious.
He also wants to go out and play.
(End of chapter)