Chapter 4926 The Second Nannan
The old lady said goodbye to Grandma Li.
The smile on the face of the old lady who turned around slowly disappeared.
She thought about Nan Nan again.
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This incident made a deep impression on her.
Because from Nan Nan...
She vaguely saw the shadow of her grandson.
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So day by day, the grandson's condition did not improve at all...
She still couldn't make up her mind to take her child to see a psychiatrist.
She is scared...
Lele became the second Nannan.
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She gave the child repeated orders not to mention his parents outside.
I am just worried that my child will say something strange and make others suspicious.
Although she has a reason, just like what she told the teacher today...
The child has not yet accepted the departure of his parents...
Basically everyone understands and feels sorry for what their children are going through.
It's just that continuing like this is not a long-term solution.
The teacher also said...
Two years...
The child has not yet gotten over the accident that year...
They should take measures.
They should take their children to see a psychiatrist.
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But...
She is really scared...
She didn't want others to know about the child's abnormality.
I am afraid that my children will live under prejudiced eyes from now on.
Fear of children being excluded, alienated, isolated...
This will make the child even more inseparable from the fantasy that mom and dad are still around.
She believes that as long as they stay with their children, their children's friends will always stay with their children...
One day, the child will accept the truth.
Just as time passes day by day...
She wasn't sure anymore.
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Will that day really happen?
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"Do you think we should take our kids to a psychiatrist?"
The old lady looked at Xiao Xiao.
At this time, she felt a little sick and urgently sought medical treatment.
When she met a young man who helped her a lot, she couldn't help but seek his advice.
Maybe...
The young man could help her one more time.
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"Should."
Xiao Xiao nodded.
Avoiding will not solve the problem.
"Two years..."
"You know it too."
"Your approach has two results."
"One result is that as you expected, as children grow older and expand their cognition, they gradually realize that they have been living in their own imaginations."
"I walked out on my own."
"Another result is..."
"He was convinced of the illusion he had created."
"Because of long-term self-hypnosis..."
"There's no way he can get out of it."
"This result is too serious."
Xiao Xiao believed that the two old men could not afford to gamble and there was no need to gamble.
"You are worried that your child's situation will be known to people around you and spread widely..."
"Affecting children's normal life..."
"You can go to a hospital farther away."
"There is no need to give up eating because of choking."
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The two old men looked at each other.
really.
This young man also recommended that they take their children to see a psychiatrist.
They actually somewhat guessed it.
Two years...
Their hearts are becoming more and more shaken...
The old lady once tried to tell this story to others, and of course she used the universal beginning: I have a friend...
The replies she got were all asking her friends to take their children to see a psychiatrist as soon as possible.
Don't harm the child.
This problem becomes more serious the longer it goes on.
When it becomes irreversible later, there is no point in regretting.
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How is a child's reputation as important as the child's health?
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The old lady pursed her lips.
Two villains were tugging fiercely in my mind. ……
"Okay."
The old man spoke.
The old lady looked at the old man.
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"We took him to see a psychiatrist."
The old man made up his mind.
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The old lady opened her mouth but stopped talking.
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The old man looked at the old lady and said, "Two years..."
"We gave him two years..."
"Are you going to endure this life?"
Are you going to tolerate your children living a life where playing house is a reality?
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The old lady was silent.
The first time she saw her child calling out mom and dad, her whole body froze.
The brighter the child's smile, the colder her limbs become.
What parents?
The child’s parents lost their lives in a car accident a month ago…
What is this kid talking about?
The old lady turned her head and looked around subconsciously.
There was no one else in the house except her, the old man, and the child.
……
The old lady hugged the child.
Eyes burning.
Tears flowed.
She knew that the child had not yet been able to accept the fact that he had become an orphan without a father or a mother.
But don't do this...
His parents are gone, but he still has his grandparents.
She and the old man will take good care of this child and raise him.
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Both the old lady and the old man thought that the departure of parents was too irritating to the child. The child's brain activated its self-defense system and refused to accept this fact...
They pity the children.
Occasionally cooperate with the child and pretend that the child's parents are indeed still with them.
But as time went by, they realized that they could not continue like this...
They began to try to explain the situation to their children.
Lele’s parents have already gone to heaven.
They will watch Lele in heaven.
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However, the child did not believe it.
Every time he looks at them with his eyes open and innocently, saying that his parents are by his side to accompany him...
Why do grandparents say that mom and dad have gone to heaven?
His parents are obviously by his side.
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Looking at such children, they feel like goosebumps are rising all over their bodies.
A few times, they even got angry.
Yell at your kids.
He even said something very outrageous.
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But it's no use.
The child cried so hard that his whole body shook.
Like a cramp.
Since the car accident, except for crying once in the hospital, every time the child cried after that, he cried very... restrainedly.
It hurts so much to see them.
They couldn't bear it.
And every time they lose their temper, the child becomes more and more dependent on their imaginary parent.
This is not good.
The two old men finally reacted.
They talked to their children again.
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The results are clear.
It's of no use at all.
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The two old men almost felt numb every time they watched the child talking to himself like a one-man show.
But of course they can't really be numb.
They did not give up their efforts.
It's a pity.
After all, their capabilities are limited.
Maybe it's time to seek help from a psychiatrist.
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After a few seconds of silence, the old lady slowly shook her head.
Of course she didn't want to endure this kind of life anymore.
She is just afraid...
Things get worse after seeing a psychiatrist...
Then she... will also go crazy.
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Just maintain the status quo...
She thought she was used to it...
Get used to children talking to themselves...
Children who are used to it are treated as normal...
(End of chapter)