Chapter 54 A flash marriage is a flash divorce
“As soon as we got the marriage certificate, he was transferred to work at the Kyoto headquarters. A week later, he went home and told her mother and grandma about us getting the certificate.
Their reaction was particularly explosive, saying that they had committed a sin in their previous life and gave birth to such a son.
Because he had been pampered since he was a child and had never suffered anything like this before, he immediately fell in love with his family. ”
Lin Feng: "Nonsense, who the hell has experienced this since childhood?"
Mom's baby, just say Mom's baby.
Fuck these bastards.
Well. . .
………
Little Danny: "My partner is my mama's boy, but I'm not afraid. I can defeat a group of them by myself."
Yan Yan: "Niubi, sisters, please give me a tutorial."
Yaoyao: "Please enlighten me!"
Little Danny: "Beat magic with magic."
What does it mean?
He is a mama's boy, but I am a mama's girl.
ah?
Hehe, in fact, I am not only my mother’s daughter, I am also my father’s daughter.
Damn it!
Double BUFF stacking!
No wonder.
Hahahahaha.
………
"Anyway...he stopped contacting me very much after that. He was cold and violent and didn't even communicate.
Then I was very anxious, I wanted to say this is what happened,
A week later, he met me when he came back from Kyoto,
Then all WeChat text messages on the mobile phone were rejected.
I went to the company to find him and asked him why he was hiding and why he didn’t dare to face me,
If you want a divorce, just say it openly, I won’t pester you,
He just kept arguing, saying that I didn't, I didn't want a divorce. ”
Wait for the girl to finish,
Lin Feng then said, "I won't repeat the matter of getting married and sharing rooms. You can find out when you go to their work unit after this is over.
What I am going to say next is only for your emotional problems,
Sisters, listen carefully.
You and your family are the main reasons for this situation. ”
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The girl had a question mark on her face, she was clearly the victim.
Then I heard Lin Feng say: "This kind of man is really disgusting, but sister, you are a solo, because you have never been in love, so you don't know what love should be like in a relationship? What is a normal relationship with a boy? What does it look like?
So you skipped the whole dating thing and got into weighing the pros and cons,
Do you think the man has a good family background and a good job..."
Just as the girl was about to retort, Lin Feng picked up the small blackboard on the table, knocked on it and said, "These are all what I recorded in your description just now."
Everyone looked at the small blackboard and saw it marked with a marker: "The leaders like him very much", "Promising job", "Kyoto headquarters", "Dividing rooms", "Solving spouse's job"...
"This is all the information I heard about the man in your description just now. The balance of interests is obvious."
"In a relationship, I haven't heard anything about whether the man is good to you, whether the three views are compatible, and whether he has the same hobbies. It's all about his job, income, and house."
"So sisters, now you should know what the problem is, right?"
"The problem is that in this relationship, all your trade-offs are based on family circumstances and interests.
But there is only one thing that is ignored, and this thing is called the temperature of feelings.
Sister, do you know what you just said a lot about, what is my biggest feeling?
It's all your romantic relationships and each other's families that make me feel like you are feudal people.
Very old.
You met your parents after only two months of dating. At this time, the man said he wanted to marry you. He was not marrying you, sister. He was marrying a good wife and mother.
This person can be you or someone else.
What will this lead to?
As a result, after you get married, you discover that your marriage does not end with just a certificate.
It still needs to be managed, maintained, and taken care of each other's emotions and efforts.
This is when the problem comes.
The man’s family’s sense of superiority looks down upon you, and feels that you should serve his family and his marriage,
And you clearly didn't meet their requirements. At this point he gave up his game.
All the problems are because you have not established an emotional foundation or sufficient understanding in the process of contacting this person,
It is caused by not having a grasp of this person's character, character, and outlook on life.
Remember one sentence, a flash marriage is a flash divorce.
What you marry is not love, you marry material things. ”
………
On the barrage.
"A flash marriage is a flash divorce"
The military advisor is absolutely right.
Many of my friends who had flash marriages got divorced.
Liuliumei: "The military advisor hit the nail on the head: He married a good wife and mother. He married a kind of person, not you."
Draining in the Rain: "Girls are too stupid, and all signs indicate that they are inappropriate."
Hongxiu: "Old ideas, small horizons, and anxiety at old age."
Same thing: "What do you mean you're too stupid? Didn't you read the military advisor's blackboard?"
Youyou: "Yes, she is not stupid, she is greedy."
Little Rabbit: "Weigh the pros and cons."
Yaoyao: "She weighed something, but she got a big deal."
Hahahahaha.
Footprint: "The girls' parents didn't take good care of them, and they made a mistake."
Oops: "Don't talk about her parents. As an outsider, I feel anxious when I hear this. The elders over there are like this and they dare to marry their daughter off."
Hexi: "The woman's family was gambling. After the gambling was forced to obtain the certificate, the man's family would compromise. As a result, they lost the bet. I didn't expect the man's family to be so cruel."
Yeyou: "The old man is helpless. Who can let the man know how to act affectionately? If it were my daughter, I wouldn't be able to beat the mandarin duck!"
Alas,
It’s really hard to comment!
Backpacker: "My words are unpleasant, so I will withdraw first."
Lost: "Let's finish talking and then leave."
Stranger: "You can leave, but leave your words behind."
Hahahahaha.
………
The girl was silent, and there was a faint choking sound.
Lin Feng sighed and said: "Emotional analysis can only help you so far. Whether this marriage can continue in the future depends on whether you two have the determination and courage to go on together.
If you want to get out in time, it is recommended that you consult a professional divorce lawyer. ”
"Thank you, Strategist, I understand."
The girl hung up the microphone and left the room.
"@strategist, I think you are a bit extreme when you say that a flash marriage is a flash divorce. My best friend and her husband had a flash marriage. They have been together for two years and their relationship is still very good."
Lin Feng smiled and said: "Congratulations to your best friend for marrying love."
"But I hope my family will remember that not everyone is so lucky."
Because when two people first come into contact, they must only show their good side,
This is human nature,
It can also be understood as the behavior of a peacock spreading its tail.
But once they are really together, their shortcomings will be exposed.
Even those advantages are partly disguised.
At this time, whether you can tolerate each other's shortcomings is the only criterion for testing love.
In fact,
Many people,
They all fell to this step.
Don't think too great of yourself.
Because human tolerance and patience are limited. ”
(End of chapter)