Chapter 144 The best gift is a lifetime of accommodation
Lin Feng: "Sister, your marriage should not be unequal."
Girl: "But he doesn't think so."
Lin Feng: "The only possibility is that the other person's parents earn a lot and the other person's family background is good."
"Yes."
Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard: "So this is the problem."
In the nature of this marriage, both of you have given something.
But the other person relies on his family background to be better than yours, and thinks you are clinging to him.
He and his family have a condescending attitude,
So,
During this relationship, the other person often behaves in an extreme manner by throwing things.
Or accuse and abuse you for no reason.
Because he feels in his bones that you are a climbing posture,
He dislikes you,
That's why we will sanction you.
Even if you do a lot of things to please him, he still takes it for granted. ”
Girl: "Maybe, he thinks I took a big advantage by marrying him."
Lin Feng: "Sister, you didn't emphasize your contribution here,
You have to tell him,
Didn't I pay?
Am I not at work?
I know you have contributed, but you can't deny my contribution.
I admit that your family’s conditions are better than ours, but we two live together,
I’m not saying that I have to be you in this life. If you do this to me again, accuse and suppress me inexplicably,
No one can live with you. ”
Girl: "I understand, but military advisor, there is another problem now, that is, he wants to buy a house. I said 100,000, but he said no, at least 150,000 and up."
Lin Feng: "How much is the bride price? Let me find out first."
"200,000!"
Lin Feng: "Then this 200,000 yuan has always been in your savings?"
"Yes."
Lin Feng: "Then what he means is to use the gift to buy a house."
"Yes, but I think the money is a guarantee for me. I said the maximum is 130,000, no more, and then he got angry again."
Wait a moment.
Lin Feng tapped on the small blackboard.
"You said before that you bought a house before marriage, and you paid 100,000. Now you are buying a house again, and you are asked to pay 15. I'm a little confused. Are these two houses, or one house?"
Girl: "One."
Depend on!
Two mentally ill people!
Lin Feng tapped on the small blackboard.
"Come on, sister, tell me why you don't want to use the gift to buy a house?"
Girl: "I want to give myself a guarantee."
Lin Feng: "I think you are mentally retarded."
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Lin Feng: "Do you still think you are in love? Sister, you have been married for two years. You are husband and wife. You are a couple.
You lack the awareness that a marriage is a joint venture between the couple,
Now it feels like two families are fighting,
But sister,
In fact, you two are a family.
You have not lived your life as your own,
As long as you have the awareness of running your own family in marriage and the two of you have a common goal, you won't have these things,
Maybe many girls in the live broadcast room will be opposed to what I am going to say next,
But you have to think about a question,
After buying a house, the house is also the joint property of the husband and wife,
You can't say that the bride price is your personal property, and your husband has to pay for the house alone.
Then doesn't he have a problem with you?
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"I'm a woman. I personally feel that if two people are married, their property is shared. There is nothing wrong with using the bride price to buy a house."
"Don't say I'm a woman. Just say what you think. Why don't you add your gender?"
"That's right, after I got married, I also used the betrothal gift to pay for the down payment. In the end, we got divorced. He said that he paid off the mortgage, so why should he give me half of it? It disgusted me to death."
"In the face of personal interests, you, even his father, can't do anything. Morality, character, education, and face, you will find that they are worthless."
Holy shit!
"Getting married is comparable to taking the Tsinghua University exam." Xiaohe flowed: "Calm down and just go through the legal process. It's not his final decision."
Ordered.
. . . . .
Girl: "So I should take out all the bride price, is that right?"
Lin Feng: "I only analyze emotional issues, how to make your decision."
All I can say is,
Legally,
The bride price is the woman's personal property.
You don’t have to take it out, because it’s your own money.
But don't forget that you are a couple.
If one is giving, the other is unwilling to give.
So what's the point of getting married?
Of course,
If you finally decide to take out the bride price.
Before doing this, you must make it clear to the other party.
Let's spend our days together. I can take out the gift money because you are my lover,
I hope we can have a good life,
But don't think that I always want something for you.
This is something you need to tell your husband clearly.
At the same time, you must have a tougher attitude when the other person is angry with you and loses your temper in the future.
Talk about what you have given to your family.
Don't let him always feel like you're clinging to them.
Okay,
That’s all I have to say,
I will carry you down, sister.
"Thank you, military advisor."
. . . . .
The wheat is hung up,
Lin Feng smiled and shook his head at the live broadcast room.
I said that the more I listened to it, the more something was wrong.
I was almost disturbed by her subjective narration.
Fortunately, I had a good grasp of the general direction, otherwise she would have gotten me involved.
At first I thought they were buying a house before marriage, and the woman’s family offered 100,000, which I thought was pretty good.
The result is to buy a house after marriage,
This thing is a home shared by two people,
Shouldn't both of them try their best?
Why is there still yours in here? mine?
Even if you get divorced one day, this is still the common property of the marriage.
I was almost fooled by her.
But then again.
Her husband's accusations and pressure in the relationship, including losing his temper and throwing things, are indeed wrong.
Brothers, don't be like this.
. . . .
On the barrage.
"Just throw it. It's great for labor and management. I especially love throwing bowls. Who knows the sound."
"I used to look down on people who threw things, but then I got angry and discovered that throwing things can really shock me. After that, no one in my family dared to make me angry. (laughing and crying)"
"I like to throw my cell phone. I used to feel bad when I dropped a phone that cost more than 10,000 yuan. Then I changed the phone to one with less than 3,000 yuan. Then I got angry and threw it again, and I didn't feel bad anymore."
"It's not cheap for you to pay more than three thousand. I was so happy in 1999 and 1899."
"Being hung up on the phone, beaten coldly, or thrown down, the main thing is a pleasure."
"I just broke the remote control (dog head)"
Hahahahaha.
Attached
[Military Advisor’s Remarks: A man’s best betrothal gift is a lifetime’s accommodation, and a woman’s best dowry is a lifetime’s understanding.
In fact, no matter who you are with, you will always quarrel and break up.
It's better to leave this life to that person who has argued many times and divided it many times,
But still don’t want to leave! 】
(End of chapter)