Chapter 165 Because I like you, I am willing to accept any stupid tricks
"What happened to the monthly salary of five thousand?
No longer alive?
Not worthy of marriage?
He is only 24 years old!
How much do you think he can earn at this age?
Have you done too much Douyin and think that the average monthly income per capita should start at 100,000?
Brothers,
Every time I face this kind of connection, I feel helpless.
Why are you helpless?
Because there is no problem in the relationship between the two people, and the time to talk is not short,
The two of them went all the way, but then their relationship broke down due to practical problems and poverty.
Then when you were with him, didn't you know his monthly income?
If you value material conditions so much and want to find someone who can make money, then don’t start with someone else!
As for you on the public screen,
Stop worrying about other people's affairs.
When people are doing well, their monthly income is 10,000 to 20,000, and when things are not going well, they still have a monthly income of 5,000.
Don't feel sorry for others, feel sorry for yourself more.
A poor and humble couple suffers from everything.
I'm really convinced too.
You cannot deny the entire society just because you have chosen the wrong person.
First of all, you have to ask yourselves when you thought you chose love.
But is that really love?
If you don't have the ability to recognize people, and at the same time you don't have the ability to live independently from your family of origin, then you are a bit petty.
Then it is inevitable that you will have a bad life.
And you think the other way round.
Even if you didn't choose him at first, you chose material things.
Are you sure you can live a good life?
I saw someone on the public screen saying that those who lived well in the end were those who chose material things in the first place.
I also said that my best friends lived happily in the end.
Think with your toes,
Who is a good person who would make his or her sufferings and grievances in marriage public?
When you see others living happily, is it possible that others are trying to fill the shortcomings in their hearts with their own expensive cars and mansions?
Just like a person drinking water, he knows whether it is warm or cold.
When young people, especially girls, are led astray by such concepts and thoughts, you are walking into an abyss.
Remember,
Taking material conditions as the only reference standard, you will have to spend the rest of your life and body to repay,
If you don’t want to be a good wife and mother, try it,
If you don’t want to be an obedient housewife, try it,
If you don't want to give him a child, why don't you try?
Let me put it simply,
You are married,
Three years later,
When you come home from get off work and see someone you don't love, you are so annoyed that you can't eat, you don't want to go to bed, and you don't want to say anything. Will you regret that you listened to your family too much?
Still married,
Or three years later,
When you come home from get off work, you see that the person you were willing to marry is very bored with you. He only plays games and doesn’t bother to talk to you.
Look at the mess in the house, the noisy children, the unwashed dishes, and he is not even willing to go home. Do you regret disobeying your family?
Brothers,
Life is a multiple-choice question, no matter what you choose, there will be regrets.
Don’t keep glorifying the path you never took.
Still the same sentence.
If you are confused and unable to make a decision.
Then refer to the marriage formula.
If you have strong personal abilities, you can choose by yourself.
Because I have my own backing.
Even if the outcome is poor, you have a self-protection.
But if you are not capable personally, you can only cooperate and listen to the arrangements of your family, because you have no right to choose.
After Lin Feng finished speaking, he didn't bother with Gongping.
Directly start the next round of continuous wheat.
No way,
This topic is so controversial.
It's a problem for society as a whole.
It's not like he could explain it clearly in just one or two sentences.
Others are even less likely to change their opinions because of one or two words from him.
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor!"
It's a boy.
Lin Feng: "Hello, buddy, have you encountered any emotional problems?"
"Military Advisor, I am 26, and the target is 22. She is in my hometown and I am in another city, but the two cities are not far away for an hour, and the high-speed train is only an hour."
Lin Feng: "How did you meet? How long have you been together?"
"We were introduced by friends. We have known each other for a month. I confessed my love to her last week. I invited her to my home and I gave her gifts and flowers to express my love."
Lin Feng: "We are already in a relationship, right?"
"Yes!"
Raymond Lam: "Have you had any intimate relations since you confessed your love?"
"Just holding hands and hugging, nothing else."
Lin Feng nodded: "You continue."
"Then the next day I invited her to my house again. We chatted for a while, and she took the initiative to tell me that she had an ex-boyfriend she had been with for two years and why they broke up.
Then she talked about her personality, and she said it’s still too late for you to regret it,
But I definitely didn’t say anything, so I just said we could continue talking. ”
Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard and said, "No, buddy, tell me clearly. What kind of personality did she tell you about her character?"
"She said she has an avoidant attachment personality."
After Lin Feng heard this, he was very happy.
"Brother, you made me laugh. Do you know what I mean?"
The boy shook his head blankly: "What do you mean?"
Lin Feng: "Brother, they are giving you vaccinations.
The general meaning of this sentence,
That’s just me, I’m easy to get upset about,
When I encounter a problem, it is not easy for me to solve it,
If the problem cannot be solved, then I will solve it for you. ”
Well. .
. . . .
"Can't solve the problem" "I will solve it for you"
I'm a good boy,
It's so scary.
"I'm different. If I can't solve the problem, I will solve the person who raised the problem (the dog head)."
Hahaha.
"It has to be you."
"Fire sign: I may not be good at solving problems, but I must be good at solving people."
"What to do with two fire signs (grin)?"
"Both men have been dealt with."
Ha ha ha ha.
"Is the fire sign awesome? Let's talk about the earth sign (dog head)."
"Disagree."
"Why don't you agree (sunglasses)"
"Want me to die?"
"As a fire sign, I admit that earth signs are very attractive, but my experience tells me that I can't help but run (hum)"
"If you don't run, you will be caught in a trap (laughing to death)"
"She fooled me out of my wits with just an A. (Crying)."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . Boy: "Actually, when we first met, we chatted every day, quite a lot. Even after we confirmed our relationship, she would send me messages, but not as frequently as before."
Lin Feng: "Brother, have you ever thought about the possibility that her avoidant attachment is true, but she avoids you and is attached to others?"
Well. .
. . . . .
On the barrage.
Confirmed.
"I just avoid you, hahahaha."
"Let's make things right, avoid anything."
"How can we fall in love even if we avoid it? Isn't it bad to live alone forever?"
"Who can take down avoidance? It's probably God."
"Don't be an avoidant type. If an avoidant type offends you? I will take the blame for you every day."
Well. .
. . . . .
Boy: "I don't know because I have never been in love."
Lin Feng: "Brother, you are 26 years old and you still have your first love?"
"Yeah."
Awesome!
Lin Feng: "Come on, let's talk about your current situation."
"Now we are chatting normally every day, but she is preparing to take the public exam in December, so she goes to the library every day,
I was thinking about meeting up on the weekend,
She agreed and said she would come.
But you won’t come to my place for two days. You still have to take time to go to the library. ”
Lin Feng nodded: "No problem, I didn't hear anything wrong."
Boy: "I just want to know if we can continue talking under this situation?"
Lin Feng: "No, buddy, why are you so anxious?"
How many days have you established your relationship?
If you really can't wait, don't let her come to you all the time. You should take the initiative to find her,
Increase the time two people spend together and find ways to enhance the sweetness of their love.
They will get along naturally.
Boy: "I used to pick her up and bring her to my home."
Lin Feng: "No, buddy, there is no other place for your date except your home?"
Boy: "Military advisor, you don't know, it's too hot here, it's over 40 degrees outside."
Dude,
You really made me laugh.
Lin Feng: "There are curbs outside your house? There are no shopping malls or cafes?
You must be hot sitting in the hot sun.
Tell the truth,
Why do you always let people come to your house?
In addition to air conditioning, does your home also have a bed? ”
Well. . .
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"In addition to the air conditioner, does your home also have a bed?"
Military Advisor: I have seen through everything (sunglasses).
Ha ha ha ha.
"Whose nice guy dates at home every day?"
"This kid is up to no good."
"The monkey is anxious (laughing to death)."
"I'm not a monkey, I just want to try the new mattress (dog head) at home."
Hahaha.
"What a nice home, and you can save money quickly."
"No money spent?"
Tsk tsk,
"What a fucking meanie, drink cold water."
"Marry a wife with short legs?"
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Lin Feng: "Brother, I finally know why she avoids you. You invite people to your house every day. She is scared."
Well. .
Lin Feng: "People will wonder in their hearts, does this guy like me or is he greedy for my body?
Even that girl has a good impression of you and doesn't think too badly of you.
Home,
It's a private place.
It must be with the person closest to you.
You said you had only been in a relationship for a few days, but you brought the girl home every day.
Girls have a mentality,
I’m here,
Does it make me look casual?
Especially when I just confessed to you that I had a two-year relationship.
Your flirtatious behavior will make other girls wary and wary of you.
It feels like you are just playing tricks on others.
Do you understand what I mean, man? ”
After listening to this, the boy suddenly realized: "Damn it! Brother, what you said is so good, I really didn't expect this.
It was indeed my fault that I didn't think about this issue from the other person's perspective.
I told her why every time I asked her to come to my house, she hesitated and was not very willing.
So that’s it! ”
Lin Feng: "It's not too late to understand now. This girl must have a crush on you, otherwise she wouldn't have gone to your house so many times,
Now,
This girl feels that you always invite her to your house, and she starts to feel a little wary.
The other is that they are preparing for the public examination and really don’t have time.
So buddy, now is your chance to perform well. ”
Boy: "Military advisor, can you teach me a few more tricks?"
Lin Feng: "I'm not a buddy, do you still want me to teach you how to fall in love? How about you give me your girlfriend and I can help you talk about it?"
Well. .
Boy: "Military advisor, this is really my first love. I don't know those skills very well."
Lin Feng smiled and shook his head: "Brother, you are wrong. There are no skills in falling in love. You only need skills when chasing girls. You are already lovers now.
You like her and she acknowledges you.
At this time, you just need to show your sincerity.
Remember,
She is the one you like,
Also the person you want to protect and love,
How to love her,
Do you still need me to teach you?
If you don't understand, ask her.
If you don't know, ask her.
If you can't figure it out, ask her.
Let her feel your sincerity and enthusiasm. ”
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[Military Advisor’s Remarks: If you really like me, don’t learn about me from others.
Because I like you, so. . No matter how stupid the routine is, I am willing to eat it】
(End of chapter)