Chapter 169 Go and grind
Lin Feng: "Brother, you can go and persuade your mother."
"But where is your mother?
Either they will deny it and tell you to leave it alone.
Or they would say that she had her own reasons for doing this.
But no matter what she says, you just need to persuade.
Just need to fulfill the obligation of reminding,
After the reminder, do not get involved in your parents' affairs.
Don't get too involved in your mother's emotions or emotional state.
Don't agree with anything she tells you about the situation with your dad,
What you need to do is set an emotional boundary with your parents.
Remember one sentence,
They are them and you are you.
You just need to do what you should do and try not to be affected by them.
Your parents are both adults, and they have their own ways of dealing with things and their own consequences.
As a child, you cannot interfere with their cause and effect, nor can you decide their marriage.
This is not your responsibility, and you don't have the ability.
Not because you are only 17 years old.
It's because as children we don't have this ability. ”
. . . .
On the barrage.
"Yes, parents' love is really powerless."
"Maybe she is not a good wife, but she is a good mother. We not only do not have the ability, nor the qualifications and position to preach."
"If you persist for another year, maybe your father will leave your mother, because he is waiting for you to become an adult and wait for you to go to college."
"Your words about waiting for you to grow up made me burst into tears."
"There are really many parents who are waiting for their children to take the college entrance examination to end their marriage."
well!
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Lin Feng: "The relationship between parents may be due to the background of the times, or it may be due to the way they have gotten along with each other for decades.
Don't treat your parents as great heroes, we have to admit that everyone has flaws and a bad side,
In fact, there are many problems that parents need to face. Don't always take your parents' problems on yourself.
Remember,
You have your own issues to focus on. ”
"Thank you, Strategist, I understand."
The boy left.
The wheat is hung up,
Lin Feng went to the live broadcast room and said:
"Brothers,
The military advisor is helpless on this issue.
The love of our fathers,
Many of them are words from matchmakers and orders from parents.
In the earliest days, it was marriage first and love second.
So what if there is something wrong with their relationship here?
Brave people choose divorce,
Those who are not brave choose to compromise and turn a blind eye for the rest of their lives.
We can only alert ourselves through the unfortunate marriages of our parents,
In the next relationship, you must choose a person to love.
So as not to repeat the mistakes of my parents.
This is also the reason why I often try to persuade people to break up rather than make peace in the live broadcast room.
Because after decades of marriage, who is nothing but a piece of cake?
If there is no support from love,
It is very easy for problems to occur.
When the time comes, you won’t be the only ones who will be hurt, it will probably be two or even three generations.
Okay,
This topic is too heavy,
There can be no further discussion.
Popularity just reached 13,000,
Just kill two thousand people for me.
grass!
Next next.
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor."
It's a boy.
Lin Feng: "Hello buddy, do you have any emotional problems?"
"Military advisor, I am 28 years old and she is 27 years old. We have broken up now, but I just can't figure it out."
Lin Feng: "How long have you been together?"
"Almost three years."
Raymond Lam: "What was the reason for the breakup?"
"There is no reason, just break up."
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Lin Feng: "Brother, what else is there to analyze about this thing? If someone doesn't even want to think of an excuse to break up with you, then it means he doesn't love you anymore."
"But I feel that we still have feelings, otherwise we wouldn't have been together for three years. She especially likes to break up. We have broken up more than ten times in the past three years."
Lin Feng smiled: "Brother, do you think that the other person looks back after breaking up because he can't let you go and can't live without you?
But is it possible that the other party has been shopping around for a few times and hasn't found anything better, so they can only make do with you? ”
The boy was silent.
. . . . .
On the barrage. Damn it!
"My ex-girlfriend also broke up with me several times and then came back to me. Isn't she just trying to get along with me?"
"Brother, remember, no one comes back to love you again."
"Then if the abandoned person comes back, will he come back and love you well?"
"No, here to take revenge (dog head)."
ah?
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Boy: "Military advisor, let me tell you, we have been together for three years. It was love at first sight at first, and then we got together.
She doesn't have a job, so it's me who supports her.
There were several quarrels in the middle, and we got back together again, but the separation time was not too long,
Sometimes a week, sometimes half a month, the longest time we broke up was almost three months,
Later I found out that it was her family who suddenly introduced her to a blind date.
She had been with that person for three months, but she felt it was inappropriate and broke up. ”
Lin Feng was speechless.
"Brother, people in relationships cannot be described as mean, because people who take relationships seriously are noble.
But you can’t be alone and come back to you after breaking up more than a dozen times. Are you still going to agree?
Not buddy,
Tell me the truth,
When we broke up, did she steal your original Apple data cable? ”
Well. .
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Apple Original Data Cable"
“I’ve been working on it for a long time because I want to get my data cable back.”
Damn me
I laughed so hard!
Ha ha ha ha.
"You are taking this as a joke, my ex-boyfriend really took away my original Apple data cable (grin)."
“They also took away my charging head (crying).”
It's quite expensive.
"Hahaha I'm sorry."
"I'll do the opposite to you. After we broke up, I stole his original charger and earphones (sunglasses) from him."
"My ex-girlfriend took away 3 watches from me and my hamster (angry)."
unbelievable!
Ha ha ha ha.
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Lin Feng: "Come on, buddy, let's stop inking. We broke up more than a dozen times in three years. I really want you to finish talking about it one by one. It's already fucking dawn. Let's just talk about breaking up for the last time."
Boy: "The last time, we agreed not to break up easily. We were rushing to get married, and then we bought rings and took wedding photos and so on.
Is it because my home is abroad?
My family felt that they wanted us to go abroad.
But she has three dogs, so it would be troublesome to go out together.
I just said I would leave first, and when I arrive, I would arrange for you all to come over.
On New Year’s Eve,
We are still spending New Year's Eve together.
The day after New Year's Eve, she suddenly told me to break up with me.
I was also deleted conveniently.
I think about it and forget it.
It is also accepting the reality.
But less than half a month later, she suddenly called me and told me the specific situation,
It turned out that two days after New Year's Eve, she met a friend whom she had met only once 10 years ago. Suddenly he joined her and asked her out for dinner.
After that, they went out to eat together, and they were together that night.
She told me that she had a sudden fever and didn’t know what she was doing.
She also said that she had no money now and she couldn’t bear to spend that person’s money, so I transferred some money to her,
Then she sent me that little expression.
She said she didn’t mean anyone’s money can be spent, she meant she can spend my money,
I felt a little better. ”
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I feel so good about you, uncle! !
Lin Feng: "You're just a fucking donkey, you're so skinny."
When she is with you, she rides you to find a horse,
After I separated from you, I still let you work hard.
You're just a fucking working ass.
You are a bitch,
Forget it,
Don’t say anything anymore,
Go grind it out! ”
(End of chapter)