Chapter 260 She gritted her teeth and endured missing her, just for this day. . .
"One victim gave birth to two perpetrators"
"Really, a daughter can actually say calmly that her mother was 'brought here' by someone (shocked)."
"I can't imagine that the 'travel expenses' can be used on people (horror)."
"Is your mother the courier for your online shopping? (Ahhhhh!!)."
"My ghost daughter (grin)."
"She is not a daughter, she is a reflection (vomiting) of her father."
"I said abandonment over and over again, but GM didn't say a word (smile)."
"That's why the military advisor said angrily, 'She didn't abandon you, she just went home.'"
"Oh my God, this sentence really warms me up (I cry to death)."
"Really, my mother is also someone else's daughter. She is someone else's mother. She also has her own family (heartache)."
"I remember in a previous program, the host advised the mother who had been raped to go back to the mountains, saying that after all she had a child, it was for the sake of the child. I was speechless after watching it."
"The military advisor's words, 'She just went home,' sympathized with how many women in the world have been raped!"
Cry to death!
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Lin Feng: "Sister, you know what happened in our half-day chat just now... Of course, I understand it very much,
Because of your childhood living environment,
Including the psychological indoctrination and influence given to you by the adults in this environment, you have no way to change it,
So, until we talk to this moment, you may still not think that your mother is a victim, right? ”
The woman nodded: "Yes, I can only say that I can understand her, but I don't accept it."
Lin Feng: "Because you still think your mother was voluntary?"
Woman: "Yes!"
Lin Feng frowned helplessly.
Yu Huanshui next to him said with a cold smile: "Voluntarily abducted? This is probably the funniest joke I have heard this year."
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On the barrage.
"Voluntarily Abducted"
Depend on!
The stream flowed: "Grandma who turned to ashes, damn die, fan who didn't mention anything, mom who complained about being forced to give birth and escaped, - voluntarily abducted?! It made me laugh so late at night." ”
Stranger: "I am extremely suspicious now that this woman is not his father's daughter, but the daughter of his fan's wife. Such a perfect gene."
Xiao Wan: "Hasn't she ever thought that she shouldn't exist in the first place? (angry)."
Yaoyao: "She has been assimilated by the environment, it's terrifying."
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Lin Feng: "I can understand it, but I can't accept it, right?
good!
So let’s start with the small things first. After that, let’s talk about the big things. Let’s sort it out bit by bit. ”
Woman: "Okay."
Lin Feng: "Let's start with your brother. Your brother hopes that your mother will stay in your hometown, cook for him, and remain a nominal parent.
Purpose,
It was to make it easier for my younger brother to find a wife.
Your mother refused and wanted to return to her hometown.
It's an action you can't understand, and neither can your brother.
You may even interpret this action as your mother abandoning you again.
Then I will tell you very seriously now.
Your mother is not wrong.
There was nothing wrong with what she did.
Why?
First, as I just said, she is not abandoning you, she is just going home.
As for you,
It's not a home for her, it's a den.
Do you understand what a den is?
It’s a fanzui place.
Second, since it was a den, she later escaped, whether through self-rescue or help from other departments.
You can't just accept her fate and live in pain for the rest of her life just because she gave birth to a child or you. Do you understand what I mean?
It's good that she is a mother, but she is herself first, she is a victim, she is just saving herself from fire and water.
Third, she escaped so easily, why does she still go back to see you and your brother every few years?
Because she misses you
Because she knew her baby was still there.
Although it was the place that left the most shadow and fear in her life, she still had to endure the huge inner fear and pain to visit you every few years.
Why?
She clearly knew that as soon as she got close to it, those painful scenes and memories would emerge.
Why come back?
It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.
If I know that a place is hurting me, if I have a chance to escape, I will definitely stay away without looking back.
Why does she want to come back?
Because she misses you and loves you. ”
The woman was silent.
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
Damn it!
I burst into tears! !
"Really, her mother had an absolute reason not to look back after she left, but she didn't. This mother was absolutely kind. It's a pity that the children born with bad people are still bad people. Her father ruined the first half of her mother's life. He and The younger brother also wants to ruin the rest of her mother’s life without knowing it (angry)”
"Oh my god, normal people hate this place and won't come back. It's not because of the two children (crying to death)."
"Yes, most people won't come back. If they go back and can't leave, it would be a nightmare."
"So this mother really loves her children."
"Who said a daughter empathizes with her mother (smile)."
"She said she understood, but she couldn't accept it. No, she didn't understand her mother at all."
"Yes, if I understand, I will escape with my mother."
"At least she won't be resentful. She just feels that her mother should be bound after she gave birth to them."
"The person who stabbed this mother in the back was actually her dearest person (crying to death)."
"I've got a super inferior gene (grin)."
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Lin Feng: "I haven't finished speaking yet. Fourth, do you know why your brother knelt down and your mother still left without looking back?
Because I feel so cold! ! ”
Women don't know what it means.
Lin Feng: "In the past, people used her as a tool to make money, and your father used her as a tool to give birth to children,
Why did this woman even have a divorce before?
I would venture to guess that because I gave birth to three daughters in the countryside, my in-laws were dissatisfied, my husband was dissatisfied, and I was treated as a tool for giving birth to sons.
Because she couldn't give birth to a son, she was forced to divorce.
It can be said that this woman has been used as a tool for the first half of her life.
And now, your brother is begging her to stay, not because he can't enjoy maternal love, but because he wants her to cook for him so that he can find a wife, and even take care of his grandson and daughter-in-law.
Your brother is using her as a cooking tool, a wife-making tool, a tool to take care of his grandson and his daughter-in-law.
This poor woman has been used as a tool her whole life.
No one really loves her.
She was heartbroken when she saw this, so even though your brother knelt down, she still left without looking back.
I want to say that your mother was not carried away by family affection. I want to give this brave mother a thumbs up! ! ”
Lin Feng's voice was deafening and resounded throughout the live broadcast room.
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"This poor woman has been used as a tool her whole life" "No one really loves her"
Damn it!
Make me cry to death! !
"I heard the military counselor say that this mother's previous divorce was probably because her ex-husband saw that he could not give birth to a son. She was so pitiful. I felt so sad."
""Voluntary", "Fucked Wife", "Transportation Expenses", "Can't Understand" Does she really regard her mother as a human being?!!"
"To put it bluntly, I just wanted to find someone to hate, but my father and my brother are men, the mainstay, and family heirlooms, so I found the weakest mother to hate."
"In a distorted environment, the concept of growing up is distorted. I hate my poor mother, but I don't hate the father who caused it."
"Any male military advisor can sympathize with this mother, but her daughter cannot."
"What a mother gives birth to is not a child, but a sharp knife stabbing herself!!"
"So in the original Journey to the West, Sun Wukong directly killed the yellow-robed monster and the princess's two children, so that the princess could truly escape and start her life again. It was really advanced."
"Brother Monkey is so nice!"
"The best saint in the world."
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Lin Feng: "It's not fair, sister. She was objectified by her fans, by your father, and even by your siblings, but she didn't regard you as a burden. Even if she successfully escaped, she still missed her children every night.
And what about you?
What did you do again?
Every time I visit you, you don't recognize her, stay away from her, and maybe even beat and scold her.
Your relationship is extremely unequal.
One party is extremely objectified towards the other party, while the other party maintains absolute maternal love for you
To be honest, I think it is best not to have any contact with each other in this situation, because the more we have contact, the sadder it becomes.
The deduction has come to this point,
I can even imagine with my heels how many times your mother has experienced the despair and complete sadness in so many years,
Maybe she has no culture or ideas, but as a person, she also has a heart,
She can feel the warmth and coldness of human feelings,
So she was sad.
And she must have been sad and left, but in your eyes, she was a cruel mother, a heartless mother, a mother who didn't want children. ”
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On the barrage.
"Maybe she has no culture" "But she is a person and she also has a heart"
Damn it!
Military advisor, stop talking.
It’s too sharp! Woohoo! !
"My mother is so kind. She gave birth to them against her will. After she ran away, she still kept thinking about them. They are her own flesh and blood. Hey! I hope Auntie can be more open-minded. Everyone has their own destiny and I don't owe them anything. ”
"My heart hurts so much when I hear that my mother endured painful memories and was beaten, scolded and alienated by her children."
"The military advisor is right. The relationship between them is extremely unequal. They objectify their mother, but their mother has family affection for them (crying to death)."
"As a daughter, I know clearly that my mother was raped here. Shouldn't I let my mother run away and let my mother come (angry and angry)?"
"I don’t know how many times my mother has been hurt. It hurts so much!!"
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Lin Feng: "Going back to the topic at the beginning, you said at the beginning that your mother is looking for you and you don't know what to do?"
Woman: "Yes!"
Lin Feng: "So when did this happen?"
Woman: "Just last week, because I am no longer in my hometown, I bought a house in Shanghai. I am living very well now. At that time, she suddenly came to see me,
When I saw her for the first time, I almost didn't recognize her. She was living such a hard life, her clothes were so torn, her hair was so white, and her overall mental state felt like she had been living a hard life. I didn't want her to She entered my house. ”
Lin Feng narrowed his eyes and said in a deep voice: "Are you fucking laughing?!"
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Her life is so hard" "Her clothes are so torn" "Her hair is so white" "Her whole mental state is that she has been living a hard life"
Depend on!
I also felt that she was saying it with a smile.
"I thought that after she said this, the last sentence was distressed, but the result was disgust (anger and anger)."
"'I don’t want her to enter my house' ahhhh!! What is this daughter saying!! (Damn it)."
"It's not just disgust, it also feels like, look, how miserable she was when she left us (can't understand)."
"How can there be such a daughter? Even if she is a stranger, she will sympathize with her. As a daughter, she does not feel sorry for her mother's tragic experience at all. She is simply not a human being."
"My mother lives like this, she would cry when she sleeps at night (woo woo)."
“I want to scold you so much, I’m so angry!!”
"Looking at how ragged her clothes are, she actually feels happy about getting revenge!!"
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Maybe he saw the anger of everyone on the barrage.
The woman explained: "I didn't laugh. I finally let her in and she made me a meal of dumplings."
Lin Feng: "Did you eat the dumplings with her?"
Woman: "...No, she finished making dumplings, and when she saw that I didn't speak, she dragged her luggage and left."
Lin Feng frowned.
He opened his mouth several times and swallowed it again.
In the end it just turned into a sigh,
Why!
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On the barrage.
"Her mother even made dumplings for her, but her daughter didn't keep her and left sadly, dragging her luggage..."
"My heart hurts so much. Mom may really have only this child to rely on, but in the end she pushed him away (woo woo woo)."
"My mother's clothes are very shabby and her life is not good. Maybe her children there won't be too kind to her. When the children there were young, their grandparents and father might tell them that your mother ran away with someone else and they don't want you anymore." , this mother has endured so much, it’s so difficult (crying to death)”
"It's not her fault that she couldn't take care of both sides and suffered a life of torture!!"
"It's so pitiful, I almost cry just thinking about it (woo woo)."
"The whole family is harming this mother (crying to death)."
"This mother is still very kind. Maybe she feels guilty that she has failed the children on both sides."
Damn it!
Stop talking, brother!
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Woman: "You all say bad things about me and say I am unfilial, but do you know how I have lived these years?"
Lin Feng sighed softly: "Yes, we are not you, let's put ourselves in your shoes,
If we lived in your original family and were brainwashed by our father, grandparents, and even the whole village every day, maybe we would become just like you.
But sister, we have come out now, haven’t we?
You got out of that environment through your own efforts, right?
You came to the magic city,
This is a highly developed and tolerant city.
People from all over the world gather here, and you can even see faces with many different skin colors.
Everyone is free here.
It doesn’t matter if he is a senior executive in a company or a waiter collecting dishes and washing dishes in a restaurant.
They all have their own freedom, and no one can interfere with them.
Shouldn't you understand your mother better? ”
The woman was silent.
Lin Feng continued: "I know what you are laughing at. You may think that you are successful, rich, and can buy a house in Shanghai. Your mother came to you to provide for you in your old age.
Do you think that when you were little, she wouldn’t stay even if you begged her, but now that you’re done, she’ll come back to you.
Why do you think so? ”
Woman: "Yes!"
Lin Feng: "But sister, have you ever thought that she couldn't stay before because she didn't dare, she was afraid!
Because that place left her with too much pain and suffering, and there were even many people who had done harm to her.
She is going to the magic city to find you now because you have left her hometown and those who have hurt her, so she dares to drag her luggage to find you.
You might also say, wasn't it selfish of her to leave you alone in the first place? Aren't you afraid?
But sister,
Tiger poison does not eat its seeds,
You are that man's child, he will not hurt you, he will only hurt your mother.
Your mother must have been sure that they would not harm you and your brother, so she left alone.
Why don't you leave with me?
Because she is incapable!
And she will leave with you, those people will not let her go.
So she can only do it every once in a while, and then leave again.
Why?
Because she is waiting.
She gritted her teeth and endured the longing.
What are you waiting for?
Waiting for you to grow up quickly and leave that place.
Only in this way can she come to you openly!
It’s just that she didn’t expect it,
This day she has finally waited for,
But the child didn't recognize her.
But don't worry, even if you despise her, hate her, look at her shabby clothes and her white hair with contempt.
Even when she was about to step into the door of your house, you stared at her worn-out shoes and ankles full of wrinkles and cracks with a look of disgust.
Don't worry, she won't blame you.
She will only blame herself for being useless.
He blamed himself for embarrassing his daughter by wearing rags.
I blame myself for not being able to take you away with me, and not being able to give you a childhood full of maternal love.
But now she sees that you are doing well and is very satisfied.
She was grateful that God had the last mercy on her so that her children could live a good material life.
With joy and excitement, I will make you a pot of dumplings.
I'm afraid to sit down for fear of making you unhappy.
So he dragged his luggage away with his back bent.
Maybe when you look at her leaving figure, you will feel very old, even humble.
But my mother must be relieved and completely relieved.
Because she saw it with her own eyes, her daughter grew up and lived very well!
Sister,
Maybe ten or twenty years later, or three or five years later, you will receive a call.
She left,
Left this world.
You were still reluctant at that time, but out of dignity, you still went to her funeral and the place where she once lived.
In the corner of the room, you saw a shabby but somewhat familiar suitcase.
The zipper of the box is broken, leaving a gap, and you can see a piece of clothes in the gap.
Very familiar.
Curious, you stepped forward and opened the suitcase, which was full of clothes and toys.
You are curious why there is no clothes of her own in her suitcase, but only the clothes of a half-year-old child.
There are boys and girls,
And those old toys,
Gradually, memories came to mind. Those were the toys and clothes you and your brother had played with when you were young! !
In an instant,
You seem to understand everything,
When you turned around and wanted to call your mother, you found that the room was empty. . . . ”
(End of chapter)