The boy left in despair.
Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette: "When I was young, my family was poor, but I still didn't know how to make progress. I was playful and missed school, and I lacked ambition.
I place my feelings on the mountains and rivers,
Indulge in the love between men and women,
A wasted life,
More than thirty.
For many years, he worked in various directions and traveled here and there. .
Looking back on my youth again,
Goodbye has been said.
However, he had not yet married and had children, so he couldn't help but burst into tears. .
However, flowers will bloom again, and people will never be young again! ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
Damn it!
What is he doing?
Did he make a poem? ?
"Send Dongyang Ma Sheng Xu (dog head)."
"Oh my God, the military advisor is so amazing (I love it so much)."
"When I first read the preface to sending horses to Dongyang, I felt it was obscure and difficult to understand, and I didn't know its meaning. Now when I heard the military counselor's words, I felt a sense of sadness."
"Really, this is the first time in 30 years that I understand all the ancient Chinese (ah)."
"Every sentence does not mention me, every sentence is me (crying to death)."
"However, flowers bloom again, and people are no longer young...Yes, I am 28 this year, and I already regret it. I am thinking that my life is really a mess (crying)."
"Hey! I am only in my 20s and have been a rich second generation for more than 20 years (sunglasses)."
"Ahhh! I will fight with you rich second generation!!"
"What are you fighting for? Do you work hard for others? (Grinning)"
Damn it!
It’s so heartbreaking!
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . . .
Lin Feng: "The soul of a 20-year-old should be hot and free,
You can't keep your head full of love between men and women all day long.
You have to be positive!
While you are young,
You should go see the mountains and lakes,
Go see the stars and the sea,
To pursue poetry and distance,
Go and blow the wind of freedom,
When you go to find the other self in your soul.
You cannot indulge in your own selfish desires and cannot extricate yourself.
Isn’t it brothers. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Summary: go see mountains, go see water, go find living beings, go find yourself (dog head)."
"As expected of the class representative (thumbs up)."
"Oh my god, it's so beautiful. I really like this feeling (I'm in love)."
"At most I have only been to the provincial capital. When will I be able to see all the mountains and rivers? (Envy)"
"I hate nightclubs and drinking in bars. I want to see mountains and rivers, and the sun shines on golden mountains. What I want is real love and real life."
"The world is so big, I want to see it!"
"I know, I know, I'm already writing an application for dropping out of school (dog head)."
? ?
"Back off again, back off again, don't rush (sunglasses)."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Raymond Lam: "Don't ask how much money you have in your pocket, ask how many years of youth you have left.
You guys are laughing and joking every day, but there will be times when you regret it. ”
Okay,
Next one!
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor."
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Hello sister, do you have any questions?"
"Today...I broke up with my boyfriend of eight years."
Eight years?
What the hell is the difference between this and the death of a relative?
Lin Feng shook his head and said: "Tell me, what was the reason for the breakup?"
Girl: "Actually, there are quite a few reasons."
Lin Feng: "Well, let me ask, how old are you this year?"
"25."
Lin Feng: "So we were together when we were 17."
"Yes!"
Lin Feng: "How old is your boyfriend?"
"Same age as me."
Lin Feng: "What was the trigger for your breakup? It was just one of the reasons why you had a fierce quarrel recently."
"Our two families are relatively ordinary, and his family may be a little worse. In the end, the quarrel was over the issue of the bride price and the issue of buying a house."
Lin Feng: "How much is the bride price?"
"The custom here is 166,000 or 188,000."
Lin Feng: "You still want to have a house, how much is the house price over there?"
"Seven or eight thousand is less than ten thousand"
Lin Feng: "That means a house costs about 1 million."
"Correct."
Lin Feng: "Including the cost of the wedding, let's calculate the total to 1.2 million. Come, tell me, how is his family situation?"
"His... parents are gone."
? ?
Lin Feng: "He is an orphan?"
"Yes! His parents died in a car accident when he was very young."
Lin Feng: "Then who does he live with?"
"With his uncle."
Lin Feng: "Uncle brought him up. This is a kindness. Please tell me how much his monthly income is."
"About five thousand."
Lin Feng glanced at Yu Huanshui, and both of them shook their heads.
Lin Feng: "Come on, sister, let's do the math. If his uncle is unable to provide some help and earns the 1.2 million by himself,
His 5000×12 per month is equal to 60,000.
In other words, he does not eat or drink, and it will take at least nearly 20 years to earn 1.2 million.
But my calculation is actually very, very idealistic.
Sister,
You ask a 25-year-old boy to give out 1.2 million? ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"If you value money so much, you shouldn't find an orphan to fall in love with (I'm convinced)."
"The relationship of eight years was just like feeding a dog (vomiting)."
"Rich people eventually get married, and poor people see it with their own eyes. I can see it clearly (dog head) while sitting on an electric car."
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"1.2 million is not much. I have several hundred million during Qingming Festival. If you don't want it, I'll give it to you (raises eyebrows)."
"You are too small. One pair costs 50 billion (sunglasses)."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Girl: "I really couldn't accept it before, but then I thought about it. We've been dating for eight years, so we must be in love.
I told him that I would buy the house in a few years, and all he had to do now was pay the bride price. ”
Lin Feng: "Does he have enough money as a bride price?"
"It was because of this issue that we had a big fight. In fact, he now has almost 100,000 in savings. I told him to work harder, but he gave me the impression that he was very unmotivated."
Lin Feng: "What does he do?"
"Just work in the factory."
Lin Feng: "Driving screws! Do you know what the average salary in their factory is?"
"It's almost the same, about four to five thousand, five to six thousand."
Lin Feng laughed.
"Come on, sister, answer me a question first, what is your purpose of connecting this wheat today?
I simply wanted to come up and share and complain.
Or are you hoping to get some advice from me? ”
The girl was silent for a while and said: "I'm still a little reluctant to let go. After all, it's been eight years. There must still be love."
Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard and said: "In this case, I have to say something serious to you.
Because if you only come here to complain, I actually don’t plan to say anything more. After all, we have broken up.
But if you want to get back together, let me tell you, you must think clearly that he may have been like this all his life.
With a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, it will certainly be okay to eat and drink, but you won’t be very rich,
As for that 1 million house, don’t even think about it.
It's still okay to find a place with a similar terrain and a monthly payment of one or two thousand. ”
Girl: "Are you saying that he won't make progress for me? But isn't it said on the Internet that if you love someone, you will work hard for her."
Lin Feng shook his head and said: "Sister, you are too young and have a low understanding of reality.
We say that it is right to love someone and work hard for her.
But there is one more thing you need to know.
Not everyone's efforts bear fruit.
In reality, we are used to accusing a person of not working hard enough, but no one tells him the direction of his efforts.
It's like, there are 70,000 people in my room right now.
I sit here and tell them, you have to work hard. You can’t even afford a gift if you just live stream me for free. But where do they go in their efforts?
With my ability and value, even if I change my job, my salary may only be four to five thousand,
Many people may only earn a salary of five to six thousand in their lifetime.
There are people in their 40s who only earn a few thousand yuan in salary, and this situation is extremely common.
There is no other way. He does not have a particularly high degree of education or skills, and he may not encounter any big opportunities in life. He can only live a mediocre life.
For another example, two people get married and earn a salary of five to six thousand yuan. After paying off the loan, they have more than three thousand yuan left in their hands.
You say starve to death,
Not even that.
You say he is really lazy and doesn't work, but he doesn't.
He is also working,
And be serious and responsible.
But if you say you want him to cross the class immediately, that's really not possible.
Because there is no such opportunity.
It's the kind that can't reach the sky, can't reach the ground, and is stuck in the middle.
So the problem you face now is not whether he is willing to work hard for you.
But assuming that this is what he is doing all his life, with a monthly salary of five thousand yuan, would you still be willing to be with him?
If we can be together, then be together.
If that doesn't work, then withdraw.
Don't have the kind of expectation that you think well before marriage and feel that everything will be fine in the future, or that after marriage, he will work harder and everything will be fine.
No, sister.
To put it more sadly, in the past two years, many people who are motivated have gone into debt.
Because times have changed,
Nowadays, many people have less money the harder they work.
Because of the hassle, doing business, investing randomly, getting up early and working late every day,
Do you think he works hard?
Definitely work hard.
But there is a high probability that the harder you work, the more you will lose.
And not everyone has a direction for their efforts. It doesn’t mean that if I tell you to work hard, you will earn more money next month.
No,
Many people have worked hard, but he can't make more money. He is stuck there.
You said that people are not like cows and horses. If you really work eight hours a day, it is almost enough. It is very tiring.
You can work overtime. Even if you work overtime for two hours, you will be exhausted. No matter how much the salary increases, it will only reach the maximum of 6,000 yuan.
You can't change reality, do you understand that?
And we always ask each other to make progress, maybe he will succeed,
But have you ever thought about another question, why would he choose you now that he has become better?
Don’t believe it,
This is human nature!
When you land on the shore, you will kill the person you want with your first sword.
So if we have a chance to make money, do it on our own.
If we have the idea to make progress, we can make progress on our own,
Rely on yourself to fight for the life you want, and don't put your expectations on your partner.
So if you think about it clearly, if he earns a salary of 5,000 yuan for the rest of his life, would you accept it? ”
After Lin Feng finished speaking, the girl fell silent.
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"Those who have been motivated in the past two years" "Many people are in debt"
Damn it!
So true!
"So it's not enough to be self-motivated, and it's not enough to have no brains. I see that many blind efforts to start a business have been in vain."
"It doesn't matter if you have brains. Making money is all about playing tricks. Brains, hard work, opportunity and luck are all indispensable."
"Yes, there are a lot of smart people, and 90% of entrepreneurship will fail. It has a lot to do with luck and opportunities."
"Hey, I failed and my girlfriend broke up. I am willing to admit defeat."
"The military counselor's meaning is very simple. If you can accept it, stay together. If you can't accept it, just break up. Don't ask others to make progress."
"So what is ambition? High-quality cattle and horses? Or King Juan?"
Insightful!
Ha ha ha ha.
"If you ask someone to make progress, I will stay flat and you will work hard to make progress and make money to support me (dog head)."
"Most people want each other to become better, but why not make themselves better? (Don't understand)"
"Summary: It's easy to whip someone with a whip, but it's impossible to whip yourself (sunglasses)."
Damn it!
One word awakens the dreamer.
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Sister, wait a moment,
I saw someone on the public screen saying, ‘Do you still have a salary of 5,000 yuan now? ’
‘As long as you work hard, let alone 70,000 to 80,000 yuan, your monthly salary can easily exceed 10,000 yuan’
‘If the salary in your current job is low, just change to one with a higher salary’
Damn it!
Dude,
Then why don't you change to a higher-paying job?
What do you install in the live broadcast room?
You are so awesome and I didn’t even look at you giving me a rocket!
What do you have to show off?
You are not him, and you have never even met. Why do you say that he doesn't work hard?
You pretentious guys
I felt that I was better than him, and that I could just change my job and find it at my fingertips.
But in the perception of some people, there is just no way for him to change.
Just like many migrant workers cannot get paid, can you say they are lazy?
Can you say that his work is not tiring?
You can say that you change the place, you change the construction site.
Is it possible that besides this one, he didn't even know that the second construction site was also hiring?
We talk about gaps in cognition, vision, structure, connections, resources, and information.
Everyone is different.
You haven't considered other people's actual situations, so why are you pretending to be so cool?
I discovered that some people have deep evil roots in their bones.
What is bad nature?
It is when people are having a bad life that they start to show off their superiority.
For example, I came across a video yesterday,
A mother bought some salmon for her daughter to eat and said that it was her first time to eat salmon.
The mother is happy and the woman is happy eating.
In fact, they are just Douyin, recording a beautiful life.
But I clicked on the comment section, and there was a bunch of pretentious people.
They said it was salmon offcuts, and none of our cats would eat it.
Then post a picture below, showing off the whole salmon at home.
There was also a table of lobster and crab.
I want to ask, what are you pretending to be?
I also said that my dog won’t eat the food you eat at home. Do you believe it?
As long as your family has always had this condition, you wouldn't pretend to be cool under others.
He just likes to show off his sense of superiority when facing vulnerable groups, just like he is a nouveau riche.
Or when I see someone eating some potatoes, green vegetables or something, I immediately post a table of delicious food below. Wow, my son has so many dishes for dinner.
Nowadays, there are always these pushy people on the Internet, and they have no sympathy for the people at the bottom.
People's lives are not easy, so they are called lazy.
Then why don't you be more diligent?
Why don’t you make a million dollars a year?
There is a big boss in my room who makes a million dollars a month. Why don't you compare with him?
Silly dog! ”
. . . . . . .
On the barrage
Xiao Wan: "When others are hungry, chewing softly is also a virtue."
Yaoyao: "That's very well said."
Gouzi: "I haven't even eaten the trimmings of my salmon (picking my nose)."
Aaron: "I'm a native dog, and I haven't eaten it either (grin)."
Xu Xiansen: "I really admire the military's eloquence, and it speaks to my heart."
Stranger: "It is difficult for people to respect others from the bottom of their hearts."
The river flows: "Above oneself, all living beings are equal. Below oneself, there are distinct classes."
Brother,
Insightful!
. . . . . .
Lin Feng looked at Brother Shui and said: "On the streets and alleys outside our community, there are many family hotels that cost forty or fifty yuan,
When I first saw it, I thought who would live in a place like this?
Later I found out that my parents would live there.
Don’t my parents want to stay in a good hotel?
And why should I assume that no one lives in these small hotels? Isn’t it unfair to those who run hotels seriously?
Later I understood that it was just that we had not understood their lives at all and were unconsciously superior to them.
This guy, what would you do if it were you?
Would you point your nose at your dad and ask, why don’t you try to stay in a hotel?
Would you point your finger at the boss and ask, why don’t you work hard to open a hotel?
So brothers,
When you want to criticize others for not working hard,
You have to remember that not everyone in this world has the conditions you have! ”
. . . . . . .
On the barrage.
"On the day of my postgraduate entrance examination, I had to book a hotel in advance, so I booked a family hotel closest to the examination room for 52 yuan. When I got there, I admitted that I felt a little disgusted.
The boss is an old man, he looks about 60 years old, but he still cares about me charging 20 yuan for the air conditioning fee,
I was reluctant at first and thought about booking a good hotel, but it was too far from the examination venue.
Seeing his submissive look, my heart suddenly ached, and I said I was willing to live,
The uncle was as happy as a child in an instant. The room was very clean, and he cleaned it himself when he checked out the next day. ”
"You are a warm person, and so is uncle (refill)."
"I went to the city to take an exam alone a few days ago, and the double bed cost 38 yuan. I'm sorry I didn't work hard enough (I cried to death)"
"38 yuan... it refreshed my knowledge again."
"I will never have a bad mouth again (grin)."
Hahahahaha. (End of chapter)