Chapter 6039: Be kind to yourself
Yang Ruoqing’s words came from the bottom of her heart.
Parents love their children and are willing to work as cows and horses for them. This is human nature and it is only natural.
But no matter how much you love your children, you cannot love without a bottom line or love so much that you forget yourself.
Not to mention that excessive doting will break the wings of children, making them become flowers in the greenhouse that cannot withstand wind and rain, and are ungrateful. At the same time, it will also make their own love humble and low.
"Qing'er, I made you laugh." Yang Huamei smiled bitterly, scooping water to wash the pot and preparing for the next dish.
"After these few things, Shuanzi and I have also figured out that children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. When they grow up, it is not just about feeding the stuttering ones when they were young. When they grow up, they will grow up. I have big ideas and have things I want when I grow up. Shuan and I No matter how much ability you have, you can’t give it to me.”
“As for Dabai, my father-in-law and I secretly went to Zhangjia’s shop to see it. It was indeed a waiter there. His complexion looked rosy. It's not bad, but if he doesn't come back, I won't Don’t look for him anymore, he just needs to eat.”
“As for Xiao Hei, he is still studying and will take the government exam soon. If he passes the exam, our old Wang family will become a scholar. ”
“If he fails the exam, it’s up to him to It's my wish. If I want to study, Shuanzi and I will grit our teeth and support it for another two or three years. If we don't miss it anymore, let him go home and take over his father's hoe handle to do farm work. A fourteen- or fifteen-year-old man It’s time to support your family.”
"We elders at home can't be miserable on our own. We occasionally eat good food to replenish our bodies so that we can live longer and help their brothers more throughout the day."
What Yang Huamei said It can be considered a heart-wrenching one, telling all the bitterness and helplessness of a middle-aged mother, her expectations for her children, her disappointment, and the last bit of luck.
Yang Ruoqing was a little touched.
Aunt Mei'er is obviously only thirty-two years old, not thirty-three, and there is a age gap between her and the forty-six-year-old Sun.
But when the two of them stood together, the wrinkles at the corners of Yang Huamei's eyes and the forehead wrinkles above her eyes were only more than Sun's, not less.
"Aunt, you and Uncle Shuanzi are right to think this way now."
Yang Ruoqing continued, "After living for decades, be kind to yourself."
"Well, Yes," Yang Huamei nodded, "Is this really going to take you back?"
"Yes. Ah, before I asked my aunt to stay with her because she was worried about her. Now that my aunt is well, it is more convenient for her to go back to live there. "
In this case, Yang Huamei did not stop her, "It's fine for your aunt to go back and live there. It’s too hot to share a bed with me on a hot day here.”
"Besides, it's not very convenient to take a bath. After all, my father-in-law still lives in this yard. Every time you take a bath, he asks me to stand guard at the door. The windows are also closed tightly. After taking a bath, the house is full. The heat is like being suffocated in a rice cooker."
As she spoke, Yang Huamei couldn't help but laugh.
Yang Ruoqing also laughed.
The little old lady has a very strong sense of self-protection.
However, she may have overestimated her femininity.
With her figure, I guess she wouldn't even be interested in giving Wang Hongquan a ticket to watch her. After giving birth to so many children, her front has become two pieces of skin, which can be used as a mouse pad.
While Mrs. Sun hadn’t come over yet, Yang Huamei asked Yang Ruoqing about Zhang Ji’s bun shop in town.
"Qing'er, a few days ago I secretly went to Zhang Ji's steamed bun shop in the town. I didn't go in, so I hid opposite the steamed bun shop and peeked."
"I saw Dabai seemed to be doing quite well as a waiter there, smiling when he came in and out. He was much happier than before at home."
Yang Ruoqing listened carefully and did not express her opinion.
Dabai is also a weirdo. He was left to pay off his debt after eating the King's meal, and ended up getting a job in charge of food, drink and housing.
"Qing'er, I'm thinking, should I go find Dabai again and tell him that I know his situation and forgive him. If he wants to continue to work in the shop, he can stay. If he wants to go back, It's okay to come and see him, so that he won't panic and think that I haven't forgiven him yet and he won't dare to go back. ""Auntie, go to Zhang Ji and tell him what you just said to me, I have no objection."
“But you have to remember what you said before about being kind to yourself. Don’t let Dabai say a few words to soften your mind when the time comes and let him get whatever he wants. . ”
“No, I am sensible again, and this time I am determined to let him suffer some hardships outside and get some good exercise.”
"That's fine, I hope he can understand your painstaking efforts soon."
...
Sun is back, she is alone, Tan did not follow.
Yang Ruoqing knew that the old lady couldn't save her face.
“Mother, have you packed everything?”
"Well, you don't have many things to breastfeed, so you have to pack them up."
Ms. Sun turned to Yang Huamei in the kitchen and said, "Ms. Cai just changed into a pair of trousers. I want to take them with me." Wash it off, mother didn’t let me.”
It’s definitely not because I feel sorry for her third daughter-in-law, but because I’m embarrassed.
The old lady also wants to save face when she farts.
"It's okay, I'll go take a shower later." Yang Huamei said immediately.
"Okay, it's not so hot outside at sunset in the evening. Your third brother will come over to pick up my mother."
"Okay!"
"Why don't third sister-in-law and Qing'er have dinner at my house?"
"No, I have things to do at home and I have to go back."
"Okay, then I'll see you off."
After seeing off Sun and Yang Ruoqing, Yang Huamei turned around and went to the main room to call them for dinner.
Wang Hongquan was lying in the room. The old man was not in a good mood at this time because the second daughter-in-law had not been seen since the quarrel with his son and daughter-in-law. But the old man didn’t know what to do, so he kept holding it in The body feels bad over and over again.
It was the time when the rice in the fields outside needed to be taken care of. The old man couldn't bear it once he went out. Wang Shuanzi had no choice but to go to his cousin Wang Hongtao's house next door to ask for help, and let his uncle and his two cousins Please help me get through this moment first.
Yang Huamei first went to say hello to Wang Hongquan and Tan, and then went to Wang Hongtao's house next door to call Wang Shuanzi back.
"We have to ask your cousin and two cousins to help us with the crops. We will invite them over to have a drink together later." Wang Hongquan reminded Yang Huamei.
Yang Huamei responded: "Yes, I understand."
After Yang Huamei left, Wang Hongquan came out of the room and sat down at the table. Mrs. Tan was already sitting upright at the other end of the table, with two eyes in her eyes. Covered by a cloud and mist, his face was elongated.
"My mother-in-law, would you like some tea?"
As the master of the family, Wang Hongquan was embarrassed to sit face to face with Mrs. Tan, so he coughed lightly and asked.
Tan's nostrils twitched, and the corner of her mouth twitched and she began to sarcastically say: "When your family is busy with farming, our men from the Yang family often come over to help, and you have never let them have a bite. "Fan, how come you, the cousins from your old Wang family, are so polite?"
(End of this chapter)