Chapter 324: Others don’t go empty-handed, and the elder brother doesn’t return empty-handed
Lin Feng: "Playing means playing, laughing means laughing,
Brothers, call me big brother, I still want to teach you some real things.
In fact, among relatives, you don't have to worry about whether he is good with you or not, whether he loves you or not.
Obsessing over these things is the most useless thing.
I don't know if you can understand.
Because the relationship between relatives is very realistic.
There is no need to deliberately maintain it or others to say good things about you. You only need to do one thing, which is to make more money.
Improve the economy.
Relatives and friends come to your home during the holidays.
Like you, during the two years when I was at the peak of my live broadcasting, including when I entered the entertainment industry, I rarely visited relatives,
But during the holidays, more people come to my house than I go.
I always call when I have nothing to do, saying that the holiday is coming soon and I will bring something.
Many relatives with whom we had not had much contact before were called several days in advance.
On the day of the festival, some of the seven aunts and eight aunts had never met before, and they didn’t know what to call them.
People come to your house with gifts,
What kind of relationship is this? You don’t need to maintain it at all.
But you don’t have the strength, and you can’t maintain this relationship by force yourself.
My career has been in a downturn since then, and I can no longer do it.
During the holidays, there will be no one at home.
At that time, even if I licked my aunt, my cousin, and my cousin every day, it was useless.
If your own conditions are not good enough, others will be less likely to take care of you.
That's what kinship is.
You don’t need to deliberately reflect and say how can I invite this person, invite that person, or protect someone?
No need,
Once you take care of your career and life, people will come to your door with gifts. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"The poor man is playing with ten steel hooks on the cross street, but he can't hook the flesh and blood of his relatives. The rich man is in the deep mountains and old forests, swinging a wooden stick and can't beat away the unjust guests and friends (grin)."
"The old truth is, if you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you, but if you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives (laughing to death)."
"If you don't believe me, just look at the wine in the glass. The rich people (sunglasses) should be served first."
"You have enlightened (dog head)."
Ha ha ha ha.
"Sincerity does not need to be maintained deliberately, and maintaining it deliberately cannot bring you sincerity."
"The vast majority of relationships in the world rely on one's own strength, and people should do things first."
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Lin Feng: "Many older generations of parents are deeply influenced by this kind of thinking, and they will forcefully maintain relationships,
Even if my family is in debt, my brother’s family will need help, my sister-in-law’s family will need help,
Even if I borrow money, I have to help.
If there is anything at home, even if I don’t have to do anything at home, I will first help my relatives and friends to do it at home.
As it turns out, the people are pretty good.
But what's the matter with you? People won't come to pick you up,
There are many people like this among the older generation.
If something happens to your brother at home, even if your family can't survive, he will lend money to his brother immediately,
Or if something happens to a cousin at home, he is more anxious than anyone else. He is more anxious than his own family, so he helps others do it first.
But,
People should still offend you and look down on you.
Unless you are really that kind of big family, and there are interests between you, then it is still possible for you to give it a try.
But for most ordinary families, relatives are often the most superficial.
In fact, I don’t need to explain this thing. Anyone with some life experience should understand it clearly. ”
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On the barrage.
"My father is like this. He has to help my aunt's family even if he doesn't care about his own family. We are not in our hometown usually. As a result, my house was flooded for three days. No one from my aunt's family came to help. It was the neighbor who told me (grin)."
"The same goes for my dad. My dad helped his brothers all his life and brought his brother's children to my house to raise. As a result, my house ended up in such a mess that I cried to death."
"Actually, if that kind of good guy can't become a good guy, no one will pay attention to him. A good guy actually doesn't want to be a good guy, but he has no choice. That's his only way to survive."
“But in fact, many people don’t want to see a good old man come to visit him (dog head).”
Real and heart-wrenching. . . . . . . .
Lin Feng: "I am not trying to make you indifferent, nor am I trying to denigrate the worthiness of family relationships. I am trying to make you see the reality clearly.
If you want to maintain a good relationship with relatives, the best way is to take care of yourself. ”
"Brother, my parents don't listen to this. They always force me to visit relatives. It's very annoying."
Lin Feng: "What's the trouble? If you can refuse, just refuse. If you can't refuse, just go with it.
Don't get too caught up in it, lest you don't want to go when you have the time.
Let’s tell the truth,
I really went, can I come back empty-handed?
In the past, my mother always liked to take me with her when visiting relatives.
Later I stopped bringing it.
Do you know why?
Because I always take other people’s things,
My principle is, either I don’t go, or I can’t go back empty-handed.
I usually drive there when I go there, and to be honest, the trunk is full when I come back.
We don’t pick or choose, we just take whatever is available.
You are like one year when my mother took me to my uncle’s house during the Chinese New Year,
When I went there, he showed off to me and said how beautiful his root carving was.
It is said that the ancient trees on the mountain withered, and many people carried them down from the mountain together.
I forcefully carried it into the trunk while they were eating.
After putting it in, I locked the trunk directly.
Later, when I was leaving, I told him that this was quite beautiful. I would take it back and keep it for two days, and then I would send it to you.
Anyway, I took it back and never gave it back. ”
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On the barrage.
"Either I don't go, or I can't go back empty-handed."
"Hahahaha, others don't go empty-handed, but big brother doesn't return empty-handed. I laughed so hard. Hahaha."
"He carried people's things in the trunk while they were eating, hahahaha."
"The main focus is on surprise (face covering)."
"Big brother's life is really happy, without any ideological constraints (laughing and crying)."
"Hahaha, it's so funny. I will have to do this in the future. I will get something from various sources and not suffer any loss, hahaha."
"I can't, I'm still too thin-skinned (cover my face)."
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"You are thin-skinned? What if your relatives turn against you?"
Lin Feng glanced at the barrage and smiled: "If you fall out, you can fall out, I don't care.
Then if you want to say that you have to lift it down, then I will open the trunk. Anyway, if you have to lift it yourself, I will not help you lift it.
And you even opened your mouth to go back. If you are so stingy, I won’t come next time.
The purpose is achieved if it is correct or not.
Either I never come again, or I come and take it again.
The initiative is mine, and if there is internal friction, it is also your internal friction.
And most elders can't open their mouths because they are more concerned about face.
He said you can take it, take it, take it back and put it away for two days. If I really take it back, can I still get it back for you?
funny.
And let’s tell the truth,
I took something from you and took advantage of you, what's wrong?
Lao Deng is so old, you may not leave one day,
Then let these things be enjoyed by young people. ”
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On the barrage.
"Lao Deng may not leave one day hahahahaha."
“Take someone’s things and curse them hahaha.”
"Brother has such a bandit temperament that he is full of me (face covering)."
Ha ha ha ha.
"Brother, you really made me laugh to death (laughing to tears)."
"My husband also likes to take advantage of me. I used to hate him for being like this, but now I see that he is really transparent and I am a fool (laughing to death)."
"Big Brother's Quotes: If you are thick-skinned, you will eat enough (dog head)."
Poof~
Hahahahaha.
(End of chapter)