Lin Feng: "The comments on the barrage said that they couldn't keep up with my thinking. It was probably the same thing. I was criticizing the parents first and then the children.
I feel like I can’t understand it.
That's not the case, brothers.
When you listen to things, you can’t just listen to the questions, nor can you just listen to what netizens say.
You need to understand something.
Anyone who comes up to talk about issues must be very emotional.
As long as there are emotions, people will magnify problems infinitely.
This is like a friend or best friend complaining to you about her partner. After hearing this, you become anxious and complain about her partner for nothing.
Finally, when we actually met, you realized something was wrong.
It’s not like what my best friend said.
This is the problem of emotional amplification.
So you often say that I am sober and that I hit the nail on the head.
That's because I never listen to their stories, because I know that a large part of them are their mental activities and not the truth.
In fact, each of us is the same. When expressing something, we will automatically edit it,
Make choices about the information inside,
Reset their relationship.
Everything he likes will be enlarged, and everything he rejects will be deleted.
It's like he remade a story to tell you.
Then you believe that it is true and feel great emotion there.
That's called being brainless.
That's how people are.
So remember, there is no absolute truth in what others say.
What to do?
I only listen to details.
This detail is that her father is usually very good to her and lives a quite happy life.
Do you think such a good father can not feel distressed when his child is beaten?
So in the final analysis,
It was this sister who amplified her emotions.
If I couldn't stay awake, I could easily be led into a ditch by her.
Otherwise, I will be like you. When I heard that she was slapped in the mouth by the teacher, her father did not support him.
Good guy.
You all put it on the public screen and started cursing.
All kinds of curses on other people’s dads.
I was convinced too. ”
. . . . . . . .
On the barrage.
"It's over, I have no brains (covers face)."
"Me too (grin)."
"Summary: If you have something to say, keep it to yourself and don't let your big brother laugh at you (dog head)."
Ha ha ha ha.
"Big brother is really awesome. Watching his live broadcast feels like he is helping me grow my brain (laughing and crying)."
"People tend to speak from their own perspective (thumbs up)."
"So what we see is not the truth, but the perspective (sunglasses)."
Been taught a lesson.
. . . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Having said that,
Still the same sentence.
Everyone has a time to bow to power.
Look, I'm like this now. Let me tell you, if I can't guarantee that I will meet a great god one day, I will have to bow my head.
When facing something, everyone will feel powerless at times.
You can’t say that I can resist everything and defend my rights,
Very difficult.
Normally, after you get out of society, you can make money by just lowering your head. This is already the simplest thing.
Many times if you just lower your head and put down your self-esteem, you won't be able to make any fucking money.
This is the hardest part.
Do you understand?
It's a customer who scolds you and gives you shit, but you just can't make any money from him.
There are so many people who deliberately come to make things difficult for you,
There are many people who make it impossible for you to earn their money.
Then you will find that it is a great honor for me to be able to earn money even though I have been offended.
Adulthood is probably a kind of compromise.
Who was not passionate when they were young?
Sometimes when faced with something, we realize that, to put it mildly, not to deal with the problem so rigidly is actually to protect ourselves.
Because sometimes, whether you resist or be too tough, in fact, in the end you will find that nothing can be changed, and you are the only one who gets hurt. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
“It’s a great honor to be able to make money by lowering your head (crying to death).”
"Adulthood is probably a kind of compromise (crying)."
"I didn't understand those people who compromised easily before. It wasn't until I grew up that I realized that it was the helplessness of reality. If you can't be yourself, then just live a comprehensive life (ah)."
"Later I discovered that life is what everyone wants, but not what I want (covering mouth and crying)."
"The compromise of adulthood is half understanding and half forgetting. So in the end, many things are not really resolved, but forgotten."
So true.
. . . . . . .
Lin Feng: "It's like when someone provoked you and bumped into you on the street, what did you see?
Start working right away,
Just normal.
But now that you are older, have children, a family, and a career, you can’t just fight with them.
If you say they really arrested you, what will happen to the child?
So if someone asks you what you are looking at on the street, then you just want to forget it. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, and apologize to them.
In the eyes of the child, the child will think why the father is so cowardly, it is so embarrassing.
In fact, it is your father who has carried the burden of life with his shoulders and dignity, you just don’t know it. He is also enduring humiliation and taking some things into consideration.
You said that if he didn't think about children, of course he could do what he wanted to do, and of course he was bold.
But because you are here, my father may apologize to others, compromise with others, or even beg for mercy,
But in a sense, it doesn't mean that he is really cowardly.
He just carried the burden of life.
It has provided some guarantees for our lives and created a better life for us,
This is also a sign of responsibility.
You can't possibly say that I don't care about my wife and children, and I just go ahead and fuck with them.
Then you have no sense of responsibility and you are a reckless person.
Just like many people who come up to Lianmai and say that their father has been in it since he was a child.
His father just fucked people, was tough with them, and finally got himself in. Do you think he has a lot of backbone?
Actually very irresponsible.
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He doesn't care about his wife and children,
He went out to fight with others and was detained,
In the end, my wife ran away with someone, and no one took care of the children.
The child hated him forever.
Is this true?
So you will see the mediocre father, or the father who you think has no backbone and dare not be tough with others,
In fact, in a sense, he is also a mountain. ”
. . . . . . .
On the barrage.
"That father who looks mediocre and even seems spineless to you is actually a big mountain in a sense..."
"Oh my God, I burst into tears, oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much."
"The dissatisfaction that has been in my heart for many years suddenly makes me feel so stupid. I'm sorry, Dad. I miss you so much."
"A decision that seems very weak and cowardly to you may be the most reasonable choice that the father made after considering his wife and children, but he would not say anything and silently shouldered everything..."
"He used one person's humiliation to protect the interests of the whole family (cover mouth)."
"No brother, I'm here to eat melons, don't stab me, oh oh oh oh."
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Many mothers are the same. Some people say that my mother is too thrifty and always wears old clothes. Every time I buy new clothes, I don't wear them and even have to return them.
Sometimes the two of them would quarrel fiercely over this.
My mother is so unenlightened.
To be honest,
Your mother feels sorry for you.
Who the hell doesn't want to wear new clothes?
Who doesn’t know that it’s good to dress beautifully?
Who can afford not to have a beauty treatment?
The problem is that there is no money.
She also knows that it is not easy for you to make money now, so your mother will not spend your money casually.
Your current clothes can still be worn, you are still young, and it is not easy for you to make money just now. Mom wants you to save more.
How much does a piece of clothing cost? Do you think your mother is ungrateful?
This is all true.
So sometimes you will feel that the ungrateful mother and the relatively useless father
Maybe they have shouldered most of the burden in life and they are just dragging you up. ”
. . . . . . .
On the barrage.
"A ungrateful mother...a somewhat cowardly father..."
"This is my first time here. The anchor's words are really good. You gave my father a boost (thumbs up)."
"I finally understand my father's heart, but it's a bit late. I don't have a father anymore (crying to death)."
"I don't have a father anymore."
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "You see, every time other people's fathers have a big brother in their hands, they ask a bunch of brothers to stand up for themselves.
Look at my dad again, why is he so timid?
I apologize when I meet someone,
It was clear that someone was bullying me, but he still went to apologize to the bullying father, shook hands with me, and told others to get along well with his classmates,
It makes me lose face when my father says such things.
Later, when you become a father, you will find that it was your father's best effort.
You may think that your mother is very outdated. Why was she so out of touch with the times when she was in adolescence? How could she be so ignorant?
You will find that if mom is really willing to spend money, she can also buy cosmetics and dress herself up beautifully,
There are even microphones in my room, and some people say that my mother only cares about her beauty and doesn’t care about the life or death of her children.
Not nothing.
She just wants to live and use all her conditions on you.
That’s why you can accept so much fresh information, wear such beautiful clothes, and have the opportunity to dislike your mother for being clumsy and your father for being cowardly.
So I say that parents misunderstand their children deeply, and children misunderstand their misunderstanding parents deeply. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"I have experienced it all. I feel that my classmate's dad is so majestic, but my dad is so useless."
"We were all fearless teenagers in the past, but later we became timid family men (crying)."
"My mother always wears old clothes, and sometimes she wears my old clothes. When I see her with my classmates after school, I feel so embarrassed. I even get angry with her when I get home."
"My parents' shoulders are the observatory from which we see the world. They lift me above my head to see the world. However, after seeing the world, I feel disgusted with them..."
"Damn it, I won't watch anymore, I can't stand it anymore."
"I'm so tired from work and just want to relax. Can you tell me this?"
"Damn, I, a grown man, was made to cry by a young man, so I withdrew."
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[Military Advisor’s Remarks: Someone asked me what fatherly love is?
I think it's probably like, if there is a dish you like to eat on the table, your mother will keep putting that dish for you, but your father will not touch that dish.
My dad passed away on May 3, 2019. I always felt that he was not blessed and left at an age when he should have been blessed.
It wasn’t until these two years that I realized that I was unlucky.
Because what I lost was not only my father, but also the man who loved me most in the world. . . 】(End of this chapter)