Lin Feng: "Let's talk about your cognitive confusion again,
Sister,
Have you ever seen grass seeds?
It’s the kind that comes one by one,
In fact, grass seeds were used for door curtains in ancient times, and later monks also used them to make rosary beads.
Before being strung together into rosary beads, this grass seed was single,
Just like our heart qi, it is piece by piece and fragmented.
Use this needle to thread them together one by one. After making a circle, you will find that it is a chain and that it is a complete thing.
What does it mean when it extends to our lives?
For example, now you think this is a problem and that is a problem, our cognition is also very confusing,
If you string them together, you find it's normal.
But in fact, it does not become broken just because you exist as a single particle.
No.
The grass seeds are complete by themselves, and they are complete when put together. They are always complete.
Can you understand?
You are who you are.
Just because you have confusion or clarity of cognition does not mean you are not you.
What's wrong with depression?
What happened to the split?
I've made it through differently.
Because I know,
I'm not a weirdo,
I'm no worse than anyone else.
I am an ever-blooming flower.
In the heart of my majestic life, there is a skeleton of a migratory bird,
My roots are rooted in the soil, and my heart is flying on the white clouds.
Don't worry that I will die in the footsteps of travelers, because I have faith that will never land.
I bear the heavy rain,
I also learned to dig into the soil and become a late-germinating seed next year.
Sister, please remember.
No matter how small or broken I am, I am still complete. We who are small will eventually go to the big world. ”
After Lin Feng finished speaking, the girl burst into tears.
The barrage scrolled wildly.
"I'm numb and have goosebumps."
"I'm not a weirdo, I'm no worse than anyone else... Oh my God, I'm crying to death."
"I am a flower that always blooms and remains undefeated... Who understands this sentence? It is so powerful (cover your mouth and cry)."
"No matter how small or broken I am, I am still complete... What kind of fairy anchor is this (shocked)"
"Listening to my elder brother's words, sometimes I laugh till I go crazy, and sometimes I burst into tears (wry smile)."
Say no more,
"Light up your cigarettes, brothers from all over the world."
Light up a cigarette!
. . . . . . .
The girl couldn't control her emotions and sobbed and shed tears.
Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette and said: "Cry if you want to, it doesn't matter if it's louder.
In fact, we are all the same. Many people are in chaos before they have their own career and their own economic framework.
His thoughts, including his life, are actually a mess.
At this time, my views on things are easily affected by public opinion, because I have never experienced it myself.
When people say east, I go east; when people say west, I go west.
Just like me,
When I first joined the circle, my cognition was also confusing,
I have just started a career, and my professionalism is not strong. When I face some seniors in the profession, I tend to be timid, so I am submissive.
Even relatively speaking, I am just a little groveling and have a somewhat please-pleaser personality, which is normal.
Have you ever heard of Zhuangzi’s intention?
A perfect person's intention is like a mirror, which does not oppose or oppose, responds without hiding, so it can overcome things without harming them.
Sister,
Imagine you have a mirror in your hand.
If you look at this flower in the mirror, there will be flowers inside.
If you use this mirror to look at daddy, there will be a lump of daddy inside.
But after looking at the flowers, does the mirror smell fragrant?
Not fragrant.
After taking care of daddy, does the mirror smell bad?
Not smelly.
I have taken care of flowers, but I will not refuse to take care of daddy. No matter what you are, it will be reflected as you are.
This is the characteristic of the mirror.
Zhuangzi said that the mind is like a mirror, which is to turn your mind into a mirror.
Never label yourself.
Because every moment is the reality of life.
They are all my best.
What kind of environment I belong to at the moment is what kind of person I am.
I am the kind of person I meet.
But I'm still me. Flowers don’t smell good if they shine on them, and cakes don’t stink if they shine on them.
I don’t make assumptions that there must be something wrong with this. I shed tears when I feel uncomfortable, and laugh when I feel happy.
There is no problem, and don’t doubt that there is anything wrong with you. ”
. . . . . . .
On the barrage.
"I shed tears when I'm sad, and laugh when I'm happy. There's nothing wrong with me. I'm so warm and touched (flowers)."
"A perfect person's intention is like a mirror. He will neither hold back nor go against his will. He will respond without hiding, so he can conquer things without hurting them. (Thumbs up)"
"Flowers don't smell good after being held in their care, and cakes don't stink after being held in their care. This is the mentality we should have in life (awesome)."
"No, what does this guy do? I'm obviously searching for the king, why do you do this to me? (Confused)"
"Yes, my eldest brother is the king (dog head) in the emotional track."
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Lin Feng: "There are some things that we are too obsessed with in our own thoughts, so it is easy to have psychological problems,
Because you are exhausted from thinking and thinking, and your energy is gone after thinking about it, you really have a problem.
Really,
People are always thinking about it, and gradually problems arise in this way of thinking,
In fact, most people really don't have any big problems.
Are you stressed about the college entrance examination?
It is normal for us to have some escape mentality and some depression.
Because this is human nature.
When I encounter danger, I will naturally run away,
When I encounter darkness, I am afraid, so I go less often.
For example, if I look at the water by the river, it is green and black, and I know it is very deep, I will be afraid, and I will naturally stay away from these things.
It's okay to want to escape. Don't assume that you have a problem.
These are human nature, everyone has it the same, you didn’t do anything wrong.
It does not mean that those children who are willing to jump in and swim when they see the water is very deep are brave.
No.
Being timid has its benefits, being brave has its benefits.
I'm just being myself, I'm not hurting anyone.
No matter what kind of personality you have, that is your characteristic.
Don't deny yourself.
I think if people want to get some peace, get some peace.
The most important thing is to slowly learn to be in harmony with yourself.
Acknowledge yourself slowly. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage
"No matter what kind of personality you have, it is your characteristic. Don't deny yourself... I declare this is the most encouraging word I have heard this year (thumbs up)."
"I thought I was sick, but it turned out to be my nature (to cry to death)."
"So who defined timidity as a shortcoming and bravery as an advantage? Who defined pua as a disadvantage for me for so many years. (Angry)"
"I declare that I will refuse pua from today on! Anyone who says anything bad about me is a bad person (smile)."
"Since I followed Big Brother, I also had an epiphany. I am an eccentric person, unique and maverick (dog head)."
Hahahahaha.
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[Military Advisor’s remarks: When I was a child, my family and relatives always said that I was too introverted, didn’t like to talk, and didn’t know how to have relationships.
Later I realized that it was because you have been sensitive to the fact that these people are neither close nor understand you since you were a child.
Just some fake relationship.
They want a child to provide them with emotional value. You are not introverted and don't like to talk, you are just authentic.
You smell fake and intuitively don’t want to pretend and get close to them,
Precisely because you are smart, real and keen, you choose to be introverted and avoid these superficial family relationships and relatives.
And when you are too genuine, you will be ostracized by fake people and suppressed and labeled.
Don’t believe it, let alone fall into the trap set by this false adult world.
There is no distinction between introversion and extroversion,
It’s just a matter of being aware of the texture of the relationship and whether you choose to open the antenna of the connection.
Remember,
You are a good kid, don't believe their lies, please be yourself! 】(End of this chapter)