Lin Feng: "As all old fans know, I was a class monitor when I was in school.
Why can I be the monitor?
Because I study well?
No.
You see someone on the barrage said it's because the eldest brother is the head teacher's bastard, hahaha.
Just haha.
Nothing.
Let me tell you, although it is a fact that I am the head teacher’s loser.
But there are too many bad guys in the school.
Why am I the only one who can be the monitor?
That's because I'm confident.
I actively fought for the position of monitor.
At that time, the class teacher asked in the class if there was anyone who wanted to be a class leader and recommended himself. Responsible students could come up on their own.
At that time, no classmates dared to attend,
I was different, I just stood up and went up.
Why am I so confident?
Because in the eyes of my mother, I am very good. She says every day that I am born to be a leader.
So at this time I didn't hesitate at all.
I'm standing on the podium.
The teacher asked a few more times, and it was still me.
There was no one competing with me, so I was the first class president,
So this is what I came for myself.
It's not a side effect of being a bitch.
This is the effect of confidence.
Can you understand?
If you blindly suppress your children and ask them to be honest and responsible, then the children will not rush to the podium at this time,
It might have been his own interests, but he wouldn't fight for them, and he would just look like a coward for the rest of his life. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
“I like the big brother’s mentality so much (refill).”
"I was raised in a repressive education since I was a child. I have very low self-esteem, timidity, and introversion. When I was looking for a job for a while, my boss always told me that I was too introverted and inappropriate. (I cried to death)."
"But my mother beat me every day when I was a child. After junior high school, my mother praised me every day. She praised me, but now she is autistic (crying to death)."
"Why do you become autistic if you praise me? (Doubtful)"
"Because external feedback is inconsistent with self-perception (dog head)."
Ordered.
. . . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Some people may say that you can just be a bad monitor and collect homework for everyone. What's there to show off?
Then I can only say that you are naive and do not understand the importance of this right at all,
There was a comment by a buddy just now that summed it up well.
I am not the squad leader to serve you. I am only responsible for the source of my power.
What does it mean? Let me give you an analogy.
First of all, after I became the class president, my relationship with the class teacher became closer, and I could enter the teacher's office.
I usually take the initiative to help the teacher clean up the table and clean the table for the teacher.
I help her put away the biscuits and other things on the teacher's desk.
I ate what I didn't finish.
Does this save pocket money on snacks?
Even when it's my turn to be on duty, I will take a broom to the teacher's office first, help her sweep and mop the floor, and then go back to the class to clean.
Because I know how to get into trouble, the head teacher will definitely take more care of me.
Then if you were not the monitor, could you just enter the teacher's office?
Even if you want to clean, it's not your turn.
You say I lick.
I laugh at your ignorance.
This is called being responsible only for the source of rights.
When I get the right, I will remember whose name I want to remember.
Are there any objections from the students?
Is there anyone who hates me?
There certainly is.
This is the negative impact of rights, but I don't care.
So what.
They still can't unite as one, and some people still play with me.
Although I bully others with my power, I bully others with my strength.
But there will still be classmates who play with me.
Because I can let you copy your homework.
If you come in the morning and you haven't done your homework,
I tell the truth,
I don't have a good relationship with you. I'll put away my homework now and take it all to the office.
I also want to remember your name and type your report.
But if you have a good relationship with me, I will pick out a book for you to copy, and you can copy my homework for you.
So how about hating me? How about going against me? You cannot overthrow me.
I am only accountable to the source of my power.
The head teacher gave the rights, not you.
Hate what's wrong with me.
Do you think I like you very much?
I remember that at that time, the physical education teacher chased our class teacher and asked a friend to buy lychees for my class teacher. It was not like now, where you can eat lychees and longans as you like.
At that time, we were all luxuries, and we had to use that to freeze them.
The head teacher ate a little and said he felt a little angry, so he stopped eating.
I took out the lychees and took them to the class. I gave them to my classmates.
It looked like it was a lychee from the head teacher, but it was actually a favor from me.
Originally, the head teacher asked me to throw it away because the lychee might have gone bad and it had been a while. He said, take it and throw it away.
I won’t throw it away,
I transferred it to the class and gave it to the classmates who hated me.
What can you do,
You have to say thank you to me after eating it. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"It sounds very useful to me. Finally, you can fix this thing for me (covering your face and laughing)."
Check out the 16-9 book bar and see the correct version!
"Me: I'm lucky I wasn't in the same class as my eldest brother when I was a kid."
"The teacher told me to throw it away, and he gave it to his classmates (grin)."
This guy is too cruel.
Ha ha ha ha.
"I used to say that he had bad views, but now I envy his mental state."
"I also want to praise my daughter, but I am afraid that she will float, so I dare not."
"It's better to be conceited than to feel inferior (dog head)."
"As the military counselor said, having low self-esteem will lose many opportunities to gain benefits."
Been taught a lesson.
. . . . . . .
Lin Feng: "I just said a lot. Let's analyze the specific issues in detail. Sister, you continue to talk."
Girl: "I became depressed when I was 18 years old, and there was also the split. It doesn't matter what my family of origin is like, it may be a bit innate,
Then I stayed at White Coat for a few months, and then went to a junior college,
After graduation, I found many jobs, but during these years, I have been in a state of cognitive confusion,
So I didn’t learn anything or grow or anything.
But it wasn't until last year that my mother decided to try her best for me. After she took me to a different city, things seemed to be getting better.
I don’t know what’s going on, but suddenly I seem to slowly realize that the intersection of all aspects of society seems to have become normal,
I can’t remember this process very clearly,
I have found a job now, and the working status is much better than before. It is completely different from before.
But now when I get along with my colleagues at work, I am very submissive and I don’t dare to say anything.
It may not be until you have been working for about half a year and become familiar with them that you feel more comfortable with them. ”
Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard and said: "Listen to what I'm telling you, sister. From now on, don't mention depression and splitting again.
Don't keep it in your mouth, just tell it to everyone.
Let me tell you,
For your disease, if the doctor says that it has been completed and all related treatments are cured,
Then the disease is cured and no longer exists.
If you still feel that you are not energetic enough or have a weak sense of strength,
That’s not a disease,
It's because you've exaggerated your emotions too much.
In fact, there is nothing at all, they are all normal things.
Don’t always think there’s something wrong with you,
I am not comforting you,
You think about it yourself,
As a normal person, he just joined the job,
Before he was even familiar with his work,
He must be submissive in front of those old employees,
He always has to be cautious when asking others for advice.
Sometimes you may worry that asking the same question again will make people impatient.
But gradually I became familiar with the work,
As you said, after we have been working for half a year, our professionalism in our work has improved, and we feel as if we have adapted to this job.
In fact, this is a process.
Anyone who just joins the job will go through this process,
This is normal and not your problem.
Because self-confidence does not come from being empty.
There must be a fulcrum that can support you.
Your pivot is mastery of job skills.
Even if I didn’t have high spirits and a weak sense of strength before, what’s wrong?
Life is a process of constant breaking and reinvention.
Do you understand?
People can constantly reinvent themselves, constantly overthrow their past selves, and say goodbye to their past selves.
Sister,
Your illness has healed and you can move on. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"Confidence does not come from being empty. You must find a fulcrum. My mother said it so well."
"Life is a process of constant breaking and reshaping (thumb)."
"I cried when I heard the last sentence. Brother is really healing girls (so touching)."
"How long does it take to reshape myself? I will reshape myself (crying)."
"It's just a thought (dog head)."
Enlightenment. (End of chapter)