Chapter 146 When they fart!
Today’s lunch was eggplant, braised beans and stir-fried shredded pork.
Last time I made stir-fried shredded beef, this time I made it with pork. If you eat too much beef, you will get tired of it. On the contrary, the texture and taste of pork are more in line with the eating habits of Jiangbei people since childhood.
"Recently, the teachers seem to like asking me to get up to answer questions." Chen Qiyun complained while eating.
Chen Jingle stopped his chopsticks: "Don't you like it?"
Chen Qiyun pouted: "Of course I don't like it. If I answer the wrong question, it will be very embarrassing."
"Why do you feel embarrassed?" Chen Jingle asked knowingly.
Chen Qiyun looked at him like a fool: "If you answer the question wrong, other students will laugh!"
Chen Jingle asked with a smile: "Are they always right?"
"No, they are worse than me." Chen Qiyun hummed.
"Then what right do they have to laugh at you?"
"Who knows, they just laughed anyway." Chen Qiyun was unhappy.
"Do you have a good relationship with them?"
"No."
Chen Qiyun thought that if she was a good friend, she wouldn't make fun of her.
At least not laughing too loudly.
She may not realize that this is a common problem she encountered when she was a student.
Chen Jinngle did not continue to ask, but talked about other things: "Before I went to school, I had many friends in the village who were good at playing. When I was in elementary school, I also had many friends who were good at playing. In junior high school, high school and even university, I had many good friends. A good friend.”
"But after graduation, at this age, there are very few people who still keep in touch. It can be said that there is only one out of ten. Many people appear again after many years, and I may not remember their names. Maybe you can't understand now, but This is true.”
"Don't take others too seriously. Most people just pass by your world and may not leave any traces. There is no need to waste your expressions on these insignificant people. It's not worth it. You are the most important thing. .”
"On the premise of not causing adverse effects on others, just focus on your own experience. Do you understand?"
Chen Jingle asked her.
Chen Qiyun thought for a while and nodded.
"Just like this bean."
Chen Jingle picked up a piece of green beans: "Some people like it, and some people don't like it. Because liking is a very subjective thing, we can't control other people's thoughts. If he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it. My beans are not made for He ate.”
"I like to eat beans and make them delicious. This is something I can control. What I can control, I will try to do my best. As for people who don't like to eat, do I care about them? They are considered old How many?”
"It's the same with people. There will always be people who don't like you for various reasons. Even if it's money, some people don't like you. If you don't like it, then don't like it. If they don't like you, just ignore them and everyone will be fine. . If someone targets you, scold him back!"
Chen Jingle feels that it is better for people to be a little aggressive. If you are too old and kind, you will be bullied easily.
Chen Qiyun nodded again. This example was much simpler and easier to understand.
At least she can understand why people are different.
Chen Jingle continued: "Furthermore, they laughed, and then what? Will you lose a piece of meat because they laugh at you? Will you become a centimeter shorter because they laugh at you? None. So why should you care about their opinions? What?”
"They are just a group of people who are not as good as you and will only laugh at you with malice when you make mistakes. Maybe there are well-intentioned people who don't understand and follow the crowd, but these are not important. None of them are important, you You are the only one who is important.”
"Just think they are farting! If you know the fart smells, you hold your nose and stay away, instead of knowing it is a fart and taking a deep breath and smelling it. You can't even remember how many times you have farted in your life, so you still have time to remember other people's? ”
"The key is the teacher's questions. This is what you need to pay attention to. This is the knowledge you can learn. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake once. Just remember not to make the same mistake in the same place next time. Do you understand?"
Chen Jingle looked at her.
Chen Qiyun thought for a while and nodded again.
"So, don't worry about other people's bad opinions, let go of the so-called face, life will be much easier."
Chen Jingle tapped the plate with the tip of his chopsticks: "Okay, let's eat!"
Chen Qiyun stopped talking and lowered her head to eat.
However, she successfully listened to what Chen Jingle just said and thought about it in her mind. Yes, there was really no need to care about the opinions of those insignificant people.
After I figured it out, I immediately felt much more relaxed.
……
Chen Jingle said so much just because he saw the shadow of himself in Chen Qiyun's complaints.
In addition, I happened to watch a similar family education video in the morning. A child was ridiculed by other classmates in school. The child's mother, who is a psychological counselor, taught him and netizens a lesson.
From this, I deeply feel the importance of family education.
The lack of education in rural families is undoubtedly an objective fact.
In the past, when he was studying, Chen Jingle would blush with shame because of trivial things or mistakes, and he would still feel resentful about it long afterward.
This all stems from one's own lack of confidence.
But the problem is, who cares about this except him?
Do you remember that a certain mediocre classmate in your class ten years ago was called by the teacher to answer a question in class, but he failed to answer and was laughed at by his classmates. He felt so embarrassed that he couldn't eat or sleep because of this?
It would be great to remember that there was such a person in the class!
The truth is that no one cares!
The vast majority of people don’t care about anything other than themselves!
Unless it is something extremely exaggerated and impressive, such as a social-dead situation like a certain classmate farting in the classroom and knocking everyone out. Chen Jingle thinks that he is not so defiant. In the eyes of his classmates and teachers, he has always been the kind of person who is not as good as his superiors but more than his inferiors.
Ordinary, unremarkable.
If there isn't much that will be remembered, don't worry about whether it will be embarrassing or not.
Even if it does happen, it will only be awkward for a while when everyone talks about him or sees him. No one will always hold on to other people's embarrassing things.
The difference between joking and malicious targeting is very obvious.
If you are really targeted, then fight back!
……
After dinner,
Chen Jingle sent a message to Li Beixing: "Teacher Li, how is Chen Qiyun's performance in school today?"
Li Beixing had also just finished his meal. When he saw the news about Chen Jingle, he was happy at first, and then frowned: "Didn't you agree that you can just call me by my name?"
Then she replied: "It's pretty good. She listened carefully to the class and was able to answer class questions accurately. I think she also completed the homework assigned during the holiday very well. What's wrong? Do you have any questions?"
"Well, when talking about your work-related topics, I think it's better to refer to your job title."
Chen Jingle told what happened during the meal: "It's like this. During lunch, Chen Qiyun talked to me about the fear of answering wrong questions in class and being laughed at by classmates."
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"On the one hand, her character is not confident enough. On the other hand, I would like to ask, how does the school usually do in guiding students to establish correct three views and how to get along with classmates? Has the head teacher emphasized these in the class?"< br>
"I think this matter needs to be taken seriously. For a child, an unintentional laugh from a classmate in childhood may be a scar that she needs to heal for a lifetime. You should be able to understand what I want to express."
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Li Bei , discuss with other teachers how to deal with this problem, and also report it to the school leaders.”
"Thank you, I'll leave this to you."
"You're welcome."
"..."
"I feel more and more like a qualified baby daddy."
After exiting the conversation, Chen Jingle sighed in his heart.
Even the videos that Doushou recently pushed to him are all kinds of parenting lessons and all kinds of cute children.
Outrageous!
He is still a young lady!
"Since the country promotes procreation, why can't you just give me a cute baby? The baby you give birth to may not be cute. What if you give birth to an ugly baby..."
Chen Jingle muttered in his heart.
It is perfectly normal for children to fail to inherit their parents’ good looks and high IQ.
Furthermore, there is no such thing as a smooth and quick birth.
He doesn't hate children, he hates naughty kids.
On the other side,
Seeing that Chen Jingle did not send any more messages, Li Beixing silently closed the dialog box and began to think seriously: "I have to make it clear to other teachers. It is best to hold a class meeting to discuss this issue."
Even if it was not Chen Jingle who asked the question, but other parents of students, she would take it seriously.
This is an educational issue that affects students' lives. We cannot say that it is not important if it does not cause big problems.
Maybe it's not that there hasn't been a big problem, it's just that the problem isn't big enough and hasn't been disclosed.
In fact, there are many such situations online.
Afternoon,
After arriving at school, Li Beixing first told the teachers in the office about this matter, and it really attracted everyone's attention.
After all, student education these days is no longer what it was ten or twenty years ago. If something goes wrong and causes trouble online, it's easy to lose your job.
In the past, it was Master Yan who gave birth to brilliant disciples, but now Master Yan is being fired.
Everyone is doing this job carefully and to the best of their ability.
In most cases, teachers choose to respect the fate of others, put aside their feelings of helping others, and let flowers become flowers and trees become trees.
The gardener is only responsible for pruning the branches and leaves, watering and fertilizing, but cannot change the species.
"Don't help the mud, don't scald the dead pig, don't cross the road without ambition, don't play the cow harp, don't mend the broken pot, don't turn over the salted fish, don't carve the rotten wood."
This is the realization that many teachers have after working for several years.
But this does not mean that they are willing to see an otherwise good student hurt by something bad.
After everyone discussed it, Li Beixing went to the teaching office with the grade director to report the problem to the leader.
"Since parents of students have reported the situation, the relevant problems should be solved as soon as possible. Don't wait until people get angry and complain."
These are the words of the dean.
If another teacher comes to report the situation, they may need to verify and hold a meeting to discuss. Since it is Li Beixing, there is no need for this.
So,
Following the issuance of the notice from the Academic Affairs Office, every grade and class in No. 8 Middle School began to hold class meetings to discuss this issue. At the same time, the head teacher sent the notice to various parent groups, hoping that parents would cooperate with the education work.
Neither Chen Qiyun nor Chen Jingle expected that their casual mention would turn this matter into a school-wide educational work.
Fortunately, for most students, it is not a bad thing.
(End of chapter)