Chapter 666: Which is more important and which is less important
Suddenly, Ning Weimin spoke.
“Oh, it’s so hot today. I’m sweating just sitting in the room with the fan on. Everyone drank a lot of hot tea. No wonder it’s so hot.”
Following him, he also made fun of District Chief Xu.
“Leader, do you think it’s time to treat everyone to some cold drinks to cool down the anger?”
But his nonsense joke was perfectly timed.
Not only did it successfully shift the focus of the scene, it also effectively relaxed the atmosphere.
"Yes, the weather is hot, yes. It's better to have a cold drink."
District Chief Xu, who was already in a dilemma, immediately woke up and responded in a humorous manner.
Then he breathed a sigh of relief, giving Ning Weimin a look of approval, and immediately turned around to make arrangements.
"Who is that... Xiao Wu, go to the cold drink stand at the door and buy some popsicle soda. Let everyone cool down."
As for Ning Weimin, his smile did not diminish, but he followed the trend and persuaded Here comes the director of the Temple of Heaven.
"Director, look at our district director, he treats guests as he says. Where can I find a good leader who is so good at understanding the people's sentiments? I really don't want to flatter our district director, I think , Even if you are unhappy, you can’t blame me, District Chief Xu.”
“Our Tan Palace cannot be where we are today without the support and help of District Chief Xu.” Thanks to District Chief Xu, the District Chief also helped us with publicity. It’s not a big deal.”
“Being angry is not harmful to your own health. Okay. There are hundreds of people in the Temple of Heaven pointing at you, and you are the backbone of everyone. If you are sick, who can they point at? Especially at this critical time, you don't want us to be in trouble. Are all your efforts in vain? ”
Then he turned back to explain to District Chief Xu.
"Leader, I have to say a few words for the principal in front of you. First, I was able to drop what I was doing and come here on time this afternoon. It was all because of the principal's urging me. He kept insisting on me on the way. Tell me not to just be busy. I must pay attention to the district's requirements and do my best to implement them."
"Secondly, our work tasks this summer are relatively heavy. The banquet hall of Beishen Kitchen is ready to open. At the same time, we also plan to join forces to organize a summer book fair that will be large-scale and have a certain influence and can be held every year. To be honest, I am so busy recently. It’s a bit unbearable. The principal is over 50 years old, so it’s inevitable that he can’t bear it.”
“So, today I just rushed to the district for everything. During the meeting, his attitude was very upright and he was definitely not negligent. I think he was angry just now because of some misunderstandings caused by his rush words, and secondly, he was too busy with work recently and was exhausted. , don’t mind.”
Everyone has self-esteem.
In fact, sometimes it doesn’t matter what you say. What matters is how you say it.
Like the conflict just now, that is the worst typical example.
Both parties in the negotiation ignored the dignity of the other party, which resulted in bad results.
Ning Weimin, who is well versed in the world, understands this.
So what he said was that he was trying to save face for the district director and the principal.
What does it mean to prescribe the right medicine?
This is called prescribing the right medicine.
Naturally, it had the miraculous effect of rejuvenation, and the atmosphere at the scene was completely out of embarrassment.
"I don't mind. We are all old friends. We used to criticize each other. Why do we care about this? It doesn't matter. I can understand that everything happens for a reason. It's all for work."
District Chief Xu immediately made a magnanimous gesture as there were steps under his feet.
Such a broad mind is a quality that a leader should have.
"Old Xu, I'm sorry. Just now I was saying something that I didn't mean, and I was not talking about the person. In fact, if you think about it carefully, I directed all my pent-up dissatisfaction and resentment against you. This is not good for you. Fair.”
Although the director of the Temple of Heaven has a careless temperament, he can still take it and let it go.
I am the kind of person who respects me as much as I respect others.
Following the same trend, he got off the slope and expressed his apology to District Chief Xu.
In this way, the two of them were in harmony as before, and now only these people in the special department were isolated.
It seems that he has become a villain and needs to take responsibility for today's unpleasantness.
In this situation, once Ning Weimin took advantage of his strength, he expressed his refusal.
So at least today, it is definitely difficult for the special department to achieve its expected goals, and it will definitely fail.
But the problem is that Ning Weimin knows what the future will look like. He is fully aware of the great significance of this special department to the country, and he also knows what is the general trend.
How could he, who was so good at dealing with people and dealing with people, create a formidable enemy for himself?
So naturally I didn’t forget to send a ladder to Director Duan.
"Director Duan, it is a great honor for us to meet for the first time today. From the bottom of my heart, I respect your work and career. In fact, let alone a special department like yours. As long as you wear I admire all of you who wear this uniform, because only when the country is stable and the society is stable can everyone live and work in peace and contentment. In my opinion, the contribution of those who wear this uniform is very important and indispensable. Thanks to you, the safety of our lives and property has been effectively guaranteed..."
I didn't expect that he was just trying to show off his charms to a blind man, saying how nice Quan Bairao was.
Director Duan is not an easy person to get along with, and he doesn’t accept this trick at all.
"But what? Are you going to say the word 'but' next?"
Director Duan actually interrupted Ning Weimin with a sneer on his lips. His eyes showed a kind of displeasure and alienation towards him, and he even deliberately continued to ridicule Ning Weimin with his words.
"Don't just keep talking and talk around in circles with me. I can't stand hypocrisy, I want something real. In front of me , Tongue Lotus, just saying nice things is useless. I advise you to be straightforward and give me a clear attitude. Are you willing to cooperate with our work? Or do you not agree to it now? Just answer. Don’t blow up nice words like a balloon. If it blows up, we will both be embarrassed.”
There is no doubt that the underlying meaning of this is that Director Duan thinks Ning. Defending the people lacks sincerity.
I don't know where his prejudice came from.
Anyway, he was so rude and did not save Ning Weimin any face.
Far inferior to the attitude just now towards the Service Bureau and the Director of the Temple of Heaven.
If you are a young and energetic ordinary person, you need to maintain your dignity and retort at this time.
The result will be similar to that of the director of the Temple of Heaven just now. It will definitely become more and more stalemate, and the words will not be speculative.
If you are a good-tempered person, you can endure such a squeeze and follow the other person's ideas to answer the question.
Then you will lose the initiative in negotiation, and you will be considered as lacking spine by those present, and you will also be looked down upon by the other party.
If you are a naughty person, you will probably use Zuo Guyan's method of avoiding embarrassment by changing the topic.
However, this was just another shameless behavior that the other party had expressed, and it confirmed that the other party's contempt was justified.
So these coping methods are all wrong, and Ning Weimin would not choose any of them.
So what should we do?
After thinking for a moment, I tasted the temperament shown by Director Duan who was hot on the outside and cold on the inside, hating the ingratiation.
Ning Weimin remembered what his master had taught him, "Speak to the brave and rely on courage."
Choose decisively to face difficulties and show courage and argue with reason.
He didn't even bother to say the word "you" as he was supposed to be polite.
"Director Duan, it's not that I'm avoiding the truth. There's something wrong with the way you ask questions."
"What is the purpose of us all sitting together today? Isn't it for Discuss how to cooperate with each other's work? Should you issue an order and we have to carry it out without compromise? "
"Well, since it is a discussion, there must be a process. . We must make concessions and tolerate each other in order to reach a consensus. You are directly obliterating the process and seeking results. "
Director Duan Weimin cannot argue. words.
After a moment of silence, I felt a little unreasonable, and my momentum couldn't help but feel frustrated.
"Well, what you said makes some sense. It seems that I am a little too impatient. So, how do we discuss it?"
Ning Weimin, however, did not hesitate at all and responded decisively.
"Director Duan is a happy person, so I won't be polite. Just a superficial opinion, I want to see if we can reach an agreement first before we can continue talking. In fact, in my opinion, the relationship between both of us is The fundamental purpose is actually not contradictory. The reason why we are currently entangled and doubtful about each other is simply because we are worried that our work will hinder each other and affect each other. So I think that as long as we coordinate possible problems and try to understand each other. . In fact, we can get along well and cooperate happily. Do you agree with this?"
"That's true, and this is what we want to see. But in actual work, it may be very difficult. An ideal balance. So I still have to emphasize that national security is above all else, and if necessary, individual and collective interests must still be unconditionally subordinate to our work.”
Although Director Duan agreed in words, in reality he was still a hard stone, leaving no room for bargaining.
In response, Ning Weimin also shook his head.
"I can only agree with this in a general direction. Frankly speaking, each of us is patriotic, and we are all citizens of the Republic. If there is a situation where personal sacrifice is required for the sake of national justice, At critical moments, each of us will definitely make the right choice, but I think this situation definitely does not need to be like this every day, and it does not happen often in daily work and life, nor can we make a discount at all. The choice of middle method. Usually, there must be room for maneuver."
Seeing that Director Duan was about to speak again, Ning Weimin did not give the other party a chance to interrupt him this time.
"Please listen to what I have to say first. Your work is difficult and its importance is self-evident. We all understand this. But in turn, we also need your understanding. We I'm afraid you may not understand the difficulties. It is said that if you are not in your position, you will not be able to do what you want. But if we both want to cooperate smoothly, we must seek common ground while reserving differences and be more considerate of each other."
"If Director Duan. Knowing how Tiantan Park has come through these years, I think Director Duan can understand the excitement just now. Just as Director Duan's dedication to his duties is admirable, Director Duan is also admirable. He is a good and responsible leader who cares about his employees. Director Duan might as well think about it. The livelihood of hundreds of employees in the park depends on the director. How can he face the expectant employees holding medical expense reimbursement forms? It’s easy to ask those employees to sacrifice themselves, not to mention it is a normal sacrifice.”
"This is the focus issue we all face. Which of our two sides' work is more important? To be honest, both are important. To use an old saying, there is no distinction between high and low in revolutionary work. Our country has never said, We only need military security, not economic construction. These should be things that go hand in hand and are even interdependent. Security work is not only a prerequisite for economic and people’s livelihood, but economic and people’s livelihood is also the meaning of security work.”
"Take us for example, the same is true. Isn't it because the Tan Palace and Temple of Heaven have more passengers now, and the number of foreigners has increased exponentially, so it is necessary for Director Duan to come to us for control. That is equivalent to That is to say, the better we manage, the more practical the control here will be, right? On the other hand, if we run poorly, no one will want to come to Tiantan Park and Tan Palace. Is it still necessary for us to conduct surveillance here? Wouldn’t that be a waste of national resources? "
The logic of this dialectic is more tenable and it does make sense. The concerns of investors in Tan Palace.
The director of the Temple of Heaven and his secretaries, Director Jin and Qiao Wanlin, all had bright eyes and nodded frequently.
District Chief Xu, who was not only watching, showed recognition and appreciation for Ning Weimin.
Even Director Duan's subordinates looked puzzled and were thinking about Ning Weimin's words.
Only Director Duan took a deep breath, feeling somewhat heartbroken.
At this moment, he had a deeper understanding of Ning Weimin's power of words, and felt that he was still a little preconceived and underestimated this young man.
(End of this chapter)