Chapter 50: Picking up rags with you is his unique way of romance
After singing a song,
The girl had already hung up the phone.
The boy is still online, but has stopped crying.
"Brother, wishful thinking can only move yourself. If you give love to the wrong person, you are just being sentimental."
"Thank you, strategist, I know what to do."
The boy gave Lin Feng a Porsche and left.
Lin Feng did not express too much emotion,
Because he has done everything he can.
The rest,
It's up to him.
Pick up your mood and continue to connect wheat.
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor!"
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Hello, do you have any emotional doubts?"
"Strategic Advisor, I just want to ask first, does that avoidant personality have a characteristic that makes him have affairs with many people at the same time?"
Lin Feng: "Sister, that one is not called avoidant personality, that one is called Dog B."
Well. . .
"In other words, with an avoidant personality, he may not necessarily have affairs with many people, right?"
Lin Feng smiled and said: "We talk about avoidant personality, which refers to the inability to solve problems when encountering problems. In addition, oneself is not confident enough. When encountering things, he always avoids them, does not express them, and uses cold violence to punish the other party. Literally That’s probably what I understand.”
"But I have seen a lot of videos on the Internet, which means that avoidant personalities will have ambiguities with many people. It's Neptune."
Lin Feng: "That one is not called an avoidant personality, that one is called a sister who doesn't love you. Her personality and character are not linked."
"Well, then the boy I'm getting along with now has an avoidant personality."
Lin Feng: "Tell me about it."
"It's just me and him, it's sadomasochism. We've been fighting each other for a long time, and we've been together twice, but we can't let go of each other."
Lin Feng: "Come on, tell me how long this stretch lasts?"
"Half a year."
Lin Feng: "Are you sure about your relationship?"
"It was confirmed both times, and he was the one who proposed the breakup in the end."
Lin Feng: "What were the reasons for the two breakups?"
"For example, one time, I posted a photo on my WeChat account of a friend and I going out to eat together. He saw a hand in the photo, which was wearing a men's watch. He insisted that I went out to eat with a boy, which was very... Angry, then deleted me.”
Lin Feng: "Are there many similar situations?"
"A lot. When I went out to change into new clothes, he would tell me who I was going on a date with. On the bus, he said a boy was peeking at me, and he was also angry with me. He also said I smiled at others."
Lin Feng: "From what you just described, this boy obviously has a desire to control you in his relationship and is extremely possessive.
Then some of your actions make him feel dangerous and distrustful.
That's why I broke up with you.
He is an emotional performer. ”
Lin Feng: "Let me guess, every time I break up with you, I will take the initiative to find you and pester you after a while."
"Yes, he's stuck with me now."
Lin Feng: "Then this is not called avoidant personality, it is paranoid personality disorder!"
"What do you mean?"
Raymond Lam: "To put it simply, it means immaturity, sensitivity, suspicion, and repetitive emotions."
"But he said he cared too much about me."
Lin Feng: "What do you think?"
"Probably so."
Lin Feng spread his hands and said: "Sister, since you think so, the military advisor will give you some advice."
"What trick?"
Lin Feng: "Isn't he sensitive, suspicious and insecure? Then you give him a sense of security. Don't dress up when you go out in the future. Wash your hair less. Your oil-stained and shabby clothes will swish when others look at you and vomit. < br>
Don't laugh when you see people, especially the opposite sex. If they dare to talk to you, you will cry. If you tell me not to talk to me, I'm afraid that my partner will feel uneasy.
If it doesn't work, you can clean up the nunnery.
Remember sister, picking up rags with you is his unique way of romance. ”
Well. . . . .
………
On the barrage.
"Collecting rags with you is his unique way of romance"
Hahahahaha.
Mayfair: "My ex is also very suspicious and always wants to control me. He doesn't let me get a manicure or wear a skirt. I told him not to shave and to wear only black from head to toe. I couldn't stand it and left."
Tangtang: "Laughing to death, absolutely amazing."
Fei'er: "He can't do it himself, so why should he care about how I dress!" Xiaowan: "Sisters, the world is sober!"
………
Raymond Lam: "He has paranoid personality disorder and a strong desire to control. You said he broke up with you twice?"
"Yes!"
Lin Feng: "Then when I came back to you this time, did you talk about getting back together?"
"No, he said he only wanted to be alone for the time being, but he kept flirting with me."
Confirmed.
Not only does this person have a personality disorder, but his character is also bad.
Lin Feng: "Sister, you are his choice after he has no choice."
"No, there doesn't seem to be any other girls around him."
Lin Feng: "That's why he keeps grabbing you and driving you around."
"But that's not right. He has good conditions and a good family background."
Lin Feng: "It has nothing to do with that. The point is that he hasn't met a better girl right now."
"Looking back to you now, I have always enjoyed the special value you provided to him. You can understand this value as a physical and emotional value."
Girl: “But he doesn’t want to talk about relationship issues, even if his parents ask him to go on a blind date, he will get angry.”
Lin Feng: "That's what he told you."
I also said that I have never been in love, do you believe it?
Well. . . .
Lin Feng: "Of course, it cannot be ruled out that he is really averse to blind dates, but it does not mean that he is resistant to the opposite sex."
The girl was silent.
………
On the barrage.
Xiaoyi: "My ex is like this. He doesn't love me but won't let me go. I forced myself to let it go."
Xiao Wan: "Such people only love themselves."
Citron: "He just called me and told me to come to me tomorrow. I told him to get lost."
Ha ha ha ha.
………
The girl was silent for a while and said: "I want to torture him."
Lin Feng: "It's very simple. Delete him, make him feel uncomfortable, and make him unable to understand."
"But...I quite like him."
Lin Feng clapped his hands: "Beautiful! A match made in heaven.
Well. . . .
"Maybe, I am the kind of person who gets stuck and finds it difficult to get out."
Lin Feng: "Answer me a question, you broke up twice, who brought it up?"
"Him!"
Lin Feng smiled: "So you are still abusing him? You are abusing him."
"Both breakups were caused by others. Only he can abuse you, you can't abuse his sister.
They've dumped you twice, and this time they didn't even give you an identity. You're not qualified. ”
"Then how should I get along with him in the future?"
Lin Feng was speechless.
"You're still a virgin!"
"You are not his girlfriend. You have no identity now and you are still a virgin!"
The woman felt aggrieved: "Actually, I really wanted to forget him some time ago, so I deleted him and went on a blind date.
But when he found out, he added it back and came to see me again. ”
Lin Feng tapped on the small blackboard.
Write down seven words.
"Occupying the latrine and not shitting"
Then he said: "Do you know what the psychology of domination is?"
"Even if I don't have a new partner, I can't ask you to have a new partner,
Just like a child playing with a toy, I am tired of playing with this toy and I don’t want to play with it anymore,
Then other children came to my house as guests and played with the toys I threw under the bed,
Even if I don’t like this toy anymore, or even if it’s stained with dirt, I’ll be very angry if someone else touches it.
He wanted to take it away, but it was even more impossible.
This is the psychology of domination.
And you are that toy now, understand?
He doesn't treat you as a girlfriend, or even as a person, just as a personal belonging of his. ”
(End of chapter)