Chapter 56 Brother, you care too much
For a time,
The public screen was covered with barrages.
Various crusade calls continued.
Lin Feng said lightly: "Brother, do you still need me to tell you what causes you to be like this?"
The man was silent for a while and said: "Maybe it's because I care less."
Lin Feng shook his head.
"Not really."
"Whether your wife helps her younger brother or makes investments without telling you, what she needs is family value."
"Financial women are very enterprising, and these people are very independent.
Because she married you, she had to give up her career and depend on you in life.
This is a kind of tolerance and suffering for her.
Now, yes, that's right, she used your 200,000 to plug the holes in her brother's business.
I lost hundreds of thousands in my own investment.
But you have ignored the dedication and sacrifice this woman has made for you in the 8 years of marriage.
He deserves it, man. ”
"To put it bluntly, you are not willing to divorce. You are afraid that after divorce, she will divide half of your kingdom."
………
On the barrage.
Xiao Wan: "Men struggle not to divide half of the country. Women endure it for the sake of their children."
Dudu: "Then he said that he couldn't let go of feelings."
Yuyu: "Then what should I say? Just say that you are worried about money? Can you be honest if I ask you?"
Little Rabbit: “I don’t want to share the money, and I don’t want to run a family. I just want to do good things.”
Yaoyao: "Reading comprehension: I have 10,000 yuan, so I gave my uncle 20 yuan. I was unhappy. My wife thought I looked down on her, so she wanted to prove herself, so she invested without telling me, and ended up losing more than ten yuan. I am even more unhappy and want a divorce, but she will give me 1,000 yuan in divorce. I am a little reluctant to let it go. Is this what you mean?”
You know how to summarize.
Nothing wrong.
………
The screen is filled with ridicule,
However, what surprised everyone was that the man did not deny it.
He said directly: "Just because I saw this, I thought it would be better not to go to this step as a last resort."
What is last resort?
Lin Feng: "Brother, you said that compared with dividing you over ten million, does tens of thousands count as too much?"
"Divorce is divided into 10 million yuan. Don't say 10 million yuan. If you use 1 million yuan to comfort and care for your wife, your relationship will be repaired.
Do you really want to lose big at the expense of small things?
Dude, you care too much.
Why do people make money?
It is to improve our quality of life and make our family happier. When the marriage is not happy and the family is not good, no matter how much money you make, it is just a piece of paper. ”
Man: "Maybe it's my concept since I was a child. I think men do things outside and women stay at home..."
stop!
Lin Feng interrupted him directly: "Brother, what age are we in now? It doesn't mean that I am outside and let you have enough food and clothing,
You have ignored a woman’s inner feelings as a good wife and mother in marriage,
That's right, it's very tiring for you to make money outside,
But she has closed herself off at home. She is not a tool for your marriage!
Brother, remember, marriage is not about who controls the other, nor is it about who occupies a high position and manipulates the other. It is about supporting each other, about giving each other companionship and warmth, and about heart-to-heart communication. ”
………
On the barrage.
"Women close themselves off at home" "Not a tool for your marriage"
Time flies: "This male blogger can actually feel for us housewives, my God."
Xiao Wan: "Sister, you are new here. You will know after watching it a few times. The military advisor is very considerate and has a very positive outlook. He only focuses on the problem itself and does not take sides with boys or girls. This is what we like about him. Reason. "Qingna: "There are many people with upright views, but only bloggers really speak out for us housewives."
Yuanbao’s mother: “I almost want to cry when I hear this.”
Awan: "Many men cannot feel the intangible value created by housewives."
Xiaohe flowed: "Tiezi really sympathizes with the weak. What this man actually wants is how to transfer property and how to give himself an excuse to get a dignified divorce without suffering the condemnation of conscience. But the military advisor directly bypassed these and let Give your wife more love.”
Little Cake: "This bad guy also wants to use the military advisor as a spearman."
………
The man must have seen the barrage and hastily hung up the microphone.
"@strategist, I am very confused whether I should focus on material things or feelings when getting married."
Lin Feng: "This question is difficult to answer. From my personal point of view, I think it depends on what you are after. Is it for money or feelings?
If you are looking for love and two people have each other in their hearts and love each other, then don't let material things become an important factor that prevents you from getting together.
If what everyone values is whether the other party is rich in material things, then don’t talk about feelings and just clearly mark the price.
But you have to understand one thing. If you only value material things, it depends on your personal value. I can’t say that I have nothing. I want to find someone who can give me everything.
I am not a fool either,
Most rich people will look down on you.
These are market rules!
So, if you want to have a marriage without so much pressure, then rely on your own ability to fall in love freely,
Rely on your own personality charm to attract others.
Although many girls nowadays are more materialistic and realistic, it does not mean that people do not have emotional needs in their hearts.
If you have the ability, make her fall in love with you wholeheartedly. As long as she falls in love with you, the conditions are not that important.
As the saying goes, money is a skill, and so is emotion.
Everyone just depends on their abilities. ”
………
On the barrage.
Xiao Yunduo: "Key emotions are volatile, money is more stable, and risk avoidance is a natural choice for people."
Someone: "It should be said that everything is changeable. But what is more difficult to earn than money is the human heart. Earning the human heart is equivalent to earning everything, and money cannot buy the human heart."
Akang: "To be transparent, you still need to have feelings."
321: "It's too idealistic. If you don't have money and just talk about love, it will collapse."
Xiao Wan: "It can only be said that love belongs to those who believe in it, and those who do not believe in it will not get it."
The river flows: "Brothers, listen to me, money, time, and energy must all be spent on yourself.
If you lose your hair, go for a hair transplant,
If you are fat, just lose body fat,
If you are a thin dog, just drink it to make yourself gain weight.
If you don't have a figure, go to the gym to build muscle lines.
If you have bad skin, go for cosmetic surgery and buy skin care products and apply them all over your face.
Didn't you hear what the military advisor said, you need to improve your personal charm.
Instead of buying a woman a bag and treating her to food and drinks, you also have to look at her face
Remember,
Spend the money on yourself and let women lick you. ”
Brother, awesome!
Hahahahaha.
………
Lin Feng was also speechless. No matter what he said, it all changed when it came into the mouths of these idiots.
Forget it, let's continue to connect wheat.
"Please invite the next great grievance!"
(End of chapter)