Chapter 57 Don’t lose the people who are looking at you
Ding~
"Hello, anchor."
Another boy
Lin Feng: "Hello, brother, tell me your story."
"We started our romance on campus and have been dating for 11 years."
Raymond Lam: "We haven't gotten married after 11 years of dating. What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for a breakup?"
Well. . . .
"She has been studying before and has studied abroad for several years."
Lin Feng: "How old are you?"
"26!"
Lin Feng: "Huh? So we were together when you were in junior high school?"
"Graduating from the third grade of junior high school."
Lin Feng: "Brothers, we have a long-lasting relationship. However, long-term relationships can easily run out of stamina. If there is no identity change between the two parties, such as getting engaged and meeting parents, if you continue to be in love like this, the ending will definitely be a breakup."
"Yes, I am facing this problem now. Two days ago, she suddenly told me that everyone should calm down for a week and consider whether to be together."
Lin Feng: "Did you tell me the reason?"
"She thinks she can't develop permanently if I'm here."
? ? ?
Lin Feng was puzzled.
"When we are together, she always feels that I am supporting her. No matter what she does, there is a cost of trial and error."
Lin Feng nodded: "I understand. In other words, you have been keeping things secret these years. You are her backing and supporter."
"Yes, that's what it means."
Lin Feng: "But now she says that you have hindered her development?"
The man smiled bitterly and said, "Actually, I'm confused too. You know, military advisor, even if she doesn't work in the future, I'm fully capable of supporting her. But what she means now is that she doesn't want to rely on me anymore and wants to start her own business."
Raymond Lam: "Pursuing the realization of self-worth in life?"
"Yes, that's what it means."
Lin Feng smiled: "This impure person has not been polished by society."
"She just returned from studying abroad this year, and she has just entered society."
Lin Feng: "In a word, I'm tired of it.
"But she didn't break up directly. She also said that we had crossed a foreign country and the time difference, and now we can live together, but this kind of life has no room for her to grow."
Lin Feng: "So, do you want to make the other person a canary?"
"I don't want to."
Lin Feng: "Then do you support her work?"
"I support her, I support her without reason."
Lin Feng: "Brother, this is the problem, you give too much love."
ah?
The man was obviously taken aback.
Lin Feng: "To put it bluntly, you feed the other person too much and feel too safe. There is no routine for two people to get along, just like cooking with special seasonings."
"She is now showing that she doesn't want to break up with you, but she doesn't want to continue, because she still has some conscience to remember your goodness, and she feels guilty, so she gives various excuses, hoping that you can take the initiative to say break up."
The man was silent.
………
On the barrage.
Nonsense: "The military advisor is right, this girl is too well protected and has never tried life outside, so she is ready to make a move."
Mu Xin: "You gave her the confidence at first, but after 11 years, she studied abroad and became better and better. She felt that she had caught up with you or even surpassed you, so she didn't need it anymore."
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Look slowly: "To put it simply, when your eyes are healed, you throw away the crutches."
Little Turtle: "But she may not know that he can still spoil her like this. He may be the only one in this life."
As promised: "I was lucky enough to experience it when she loved me the most and when I didn't love her the most."
Little Freckles: "Human nature is like this, you want to be completely sincere, but human nature doesn't accept it."
Xu Xiansen: "So what are we going to do? If you treat her badly and she says you don't love her, she will run away. If you treat her well and she says it's great, she will run away." The stream flows: "So it's better to be single."< br>
………
The man was silent for a while and said: "Maybe her family is a bit high-pressure. I know this. It's just that her family never knew that I existed."
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Lin Feng: "You have been dating for 11 years, but her parents don't know you exist?"
"Yes!"
Lin Feng: "Does your family know about her?"
"I must know."
Lin Feng frowned: "Oh, I'm so annoyed."
………
On the barrage.
Xiao Wan: "It's outrageous. Even if you fall in love early, after the age of 20, your parents won't know that the boy exists. Why?"
Ah Yue: "My family didn't know about my boyfriend until I was 23 when I was 25. But judging from what the man said, he gave me too much confidence and felt confident that he would be favored. That's why girls say that experiencing life limits their development. ”
unbelievable!
………
Lin Feng: "Brother, to be honest, you may have been just a tool for her life and study in the past 11 years."
"If someone wants to make her own way, just respect her. Maybe she won't know what she needs for you until she really loses you and how hard she can let go."
Man: "But she said she would give us a week..."
Lin Feng: "Brother, when she says this, it means she no longer needs you."
"But... we have so many beautiful memories in the past, how can she just say no and just say no, woo woo woo."
The man couldn't control himself, broke down and cried.
Lin Feng sighed and said: "Memories cannot be used as food, and memories cannot be used as life. Man, this society is such a reality."
"If you can't figure it out, just go out for a walk. You are only in your 20s now, and you have time for everything.
Want to know why she changed her mind? It was better to see with her own eyes the world she had seen.
As for her,
Just let her be polished by society and experience everything you have experienced in the past few years.
Life exchange, still in love, maybe there is a chance,
Even if not,
I believe you will make great achievements when you return from studying abroad. ”
………
On the barrage.
Mi Niuluo: "I am not satisfied with this support anymore. I need a higher platform and support."
Ayi: "This way, she will be honest after two months. When nothing is accomplished and no one will accommodate her, she will become anxious."
Yaoyao: "I haven't informed my family in 11 years. This time I am a boy."
Stranger: "It is always hard to meet deep love. Love is like a comedy show. It is always difficult to meet the right one."
Xingchen: "A dedicated boy will not be cherished. Regardless of whether he is a man or a woman, he still has to live a valuable life for himself. I hope he will not turn around."
Little Freckles: "How can we have such a boy?"
Xiao Wan: "First of all, you must improve yourself, skin care, fitness, and expand your circle of friends. If you are excellent, excellent people will naturally chase you."
Little Freckles: "Then I'll just be my native dog."
Hahahahaha.
Attachment:
[Military Advisor’s words: Don’t hurt the person who has eyes for you, because you don’t know one day you will regret it.
In this life, God may arrange for someone to have eyes for you just once.
He comes to you and loves you more than himself,
If you accidentally lose him, you may never meet such a person again...】
(End of chapter)