Chapter 84 If we don’t solve the problem, we will solve it for you
Girl: "Maybe he is really busy?"
Lin Feng: "Sister, have you seen the way he loves you."
If you don’t understand, just think about the past,
When he first started falling in love with you, he would send you messages while waiting at red lights,
I’ll send it to you even when I’m cooking,
I will also share the happy and sad things I encountered today.
No matter what you do, he will tell you.
Later, a long time passed,
The messages you asked him to send after the party became a report. In the end, he even told you that he didn't want to report it and wanted to have his own private space.
But he forgot,
No one asked him at the beginning, he took the initiative.
So if you don’t love it, you don’t love it anymore. ”
………
On the barrage.
Dumb Girl: "Remembering a sentence, I tried to empathize with you from your perspective, but the more I think about you, the sadder I feel. There are obviously so many ways."
Xiao Wan: "Although it hurts my heart, it is a fact. Many of your self-righteous affections are endless boredom to others."
Yaoyao: "Indeed, it is really obvious whether you love or not love. It's just that when you love him, you put on glasses for him."
Tangtang: "Obviously I was so full of love that I forgot to look in the mirror."
Poof~
Ah hahahaha.
………
After hanging up the mic, Lin Feng said to the live broadcast room: "Everyone remember: Cold violence means not being afraid of losing. If you don't solve the problem, you will be solved. Anyone who doesn't answer directly is rejection.
This formula,
Regardless of boyfriend,
Please take your seats! ”
………
On the barrage.
"If you don't solve the problem, you will be solved"
Slowly: "The military advisor said that is great."
Wanzi: "I was beaten coldly, what should I do?"
Block directly.
Run quickly.
The rules of the world are to break up immediately if there is no contact for three days.
"Already married?"
Do you have a wedding ceremony when you get divorced? I follow the others.
Well. . . .
The stream flows: "Actually, I think that when you encounter cold violence, you have to understand him, become him, and finally surpass him."
ah?
Hahahahaha.
Little Hugo: "It's over. I'm the one who committed cold violence. What should I do?"
+1
+1
+10086
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Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard in the live broadcast room and said: "You may not understand what cold violence is. The essence of cold violence is not caring about your emotions and being indifferent to your needs.
Sometimes, some people choose to deal with it coldly when a quarrel occurs. This is not necessarily cold violence, but may be a cooling-off period.
What is the nature of the cooling-off period?
It is to better solve the problem and give yourself time to digest your emotions and adjust your state.
In short,
If the problem can be solved after calming down, it is called the cooling-off period.
But if calmness alone does not solve the problem, it is called cold violence. ”
………
Very good.
It turns out that I am not cold and violent!
Pinwheel: "I am a girl in the cooling-off period. I don't have to be cold war, but I need time to process my own emotions."
Luo Ye: "I understand you, it's a bit like archiving, temporarily sealing up conflicts, and then do whatever you need to do."
Oh my God,
Found a soulmate.
Seconded +1
+1
+1
"Being calm doesn't mean not communicating, so don't block us."
Put this aside,
I'll come to Hongta Mountain first to calm down. Hahahahaha.
………
Okay,
That’s it for this topic.
Let's continue to connect wheat.
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor"
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Hello, do you have any emotional problems?"
"Military advisor, this is not an emotional problem for me."
Lin Feng was a little curious: "So what is the problem?"
Girl: "I am married and have a two-year-old baby girl. My husband and I also live a very happy life, but there is always a shadow in my heart."
Lin Feng: "Tell me about it!"
"It's just...I was molested when I was a child."
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Lin Feng was dumbfounded.
The water friends in the live broadcast room were also stunned one by one.
What a beast!
Lin Feng gritted his back molars, feeling filled with anger.
…………
On the barrage.
Oh shit.
What a beast!
Adu: "Family members, those with children must be careful not to let girls live with relatives or friends. Don't let girls live with cousins or cousins."
"My personal experience is that I was bullied by my cousin when I was a child, but I was so young that I didn't understand. Later, when I understood, I didn't dare to say anything."
"I've experienced it too, but I haven't mentioned it to anyone."
"I am my stepfather..."
"I thought it was my own secret, but it turned out to be the secrets of many girls, woo woo woo."
"I typed a lot of words and deleted them, forget it."
"Really, alas, sad and terrible."
No one could have imagined that there would be so many girls with the same experience in one live broadcast room.
The river flows: "I have seen many similar reports. Relatives are really the hardest hit, and many of them are acquaintances who commit the crime."
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Lin Feng: "So no one knows about this?"
The girl nodded: "This matter has been hidden in my heart for more than 20 years. I suddenly watched your live broadcast yesterday and felt that you have very upright views and really have ideas for us, so I wanted to I’ll tell you my secret, and I hope the military advisor can help me with some advice.”
For a moment, Lin Feng's heart seemed to have been hit hard.
This sentence is too strong.
Lin Feng was so overwhelmed that he was speechless.
He could only nod heavily and signal the girl to speak.
Girl: "As I grew up, I became more and more miserable. I couldn't understand why my father treated me like that, so I went to a far away place when I went to college.
But I have a younger brother at home who has a very good relationship with me. I couldn’t bear to break up with him, so I returned to my hometown to look for a job after graduation.
I met my husband at that time, and we worked hard together to buy a house in the city and settle down.
Everything was fine until last month.
My mother was not feeling well and came here to see a doctor. As soon as she came, my father came with her. ”
Lin Feng: "Does it mean that two people are living in your house now?"
"Yes, when I see him now, I think of that childhood incident, and I feel very hateful in my heart, but I can't show it on the surface because my mother doesn't know."
Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard and interrupted the girl.
He pondered for a moment, as if he was organizing his words.
Then asked: "Are you sure your mother really doesn't know?"
The girl suddenly fell silent.
Lin Feng sighed softly and said: "Sister, first of all, thank you for trusting me so much and revealing one of your most painful scars in my live broadcast room. The advice I can give you is just two words."< br>
Break off the relationship!
(End of chapter)