Chapter 85 Don’t hand the knife to the opponent with your own hands
Broken ties. . .
The girl was silent and didn't speak for a long time.
Lin Feng did not rush and waited quietly.
………
On the barrage.
Meow Meow: "I think her mother should know. I heard the girl said that her mother is not in good health, so she must rely on the girl's father. Her mother neither dared nor had the ability to resist her father, so she had to pretend to be deaf and mute and let her daughter be bullied. , It’s really not a person.”
Lu Kui: "Perhaps because of poor health and unable to satisfy my father, I felt guilty so I indulged him."
Oh my God,
In this case, it would be too scary.
Taotao: "There are many mothers like this, and some are even jealous and resentful of their daughters."
Qiuqiu: "I must know. A woman's sixth sense is so accurate that she can detect her boyfriend's flirtations. How could she not notice at all after living under the same roof for so many years?"
I don’t believe it anyway.
Incompetent mother, inhuman father.
fear!
………
After about five or six minutes, the girl said in a low voice: "Actually, many times, I have had negative thoughts, that is, does my mother know?
Because when I was a child, I lived in a rural area and my family all slept in the same room, so my father would go to my place at night. ”
Hearing this, Lin Feng couldn't help but want to curse: The vegetative state is awake, can't your mother hear it?
However, considering the girl's mood, Lin Feng did not say anything.
Girl: "Military advisor, my concern now is whether I should tell my mother about this matter.
Because her health is not good, I don't know if she can bear it after I tell her. If something happens, I'm afraid she will regret it for the rest of her life.
But if I didn't say anything, my father would always come to my house, and I felt like I was about to split up. ”
Lin Feng: "Sister, you may not understand what I mean by severing ties."
"I'm not asking you to cut off your relationship with your father, but I'm asking you to cut off your relationship with both your parents."
? ? ?
The girl was stunned, not understanding what Lin Feng meant.
Lin Feng: "It's now, and you're still thinking about whether your mother's body can bear the truth?"
Sister, maybe what I say next will be scolded by many people.
But I still have to say to you,
Regardless of whether your mother knew those things back then, she was not a qualified mother.
And only cutting ties with them is the only way for you to completely get out of the quagmire.
Legally speaking, you have the obligation to support your child.
Yes,
It’s okay to pay for medical treatment.
But don't try to interfere with my life.
Don't even think about coming to my house.
Don't think of me saying that a mother is kind and her son is filial, and a father is kind and his son is loving.
Don't even think about acting with me. ”
………
On the barrage.
Stranger: "I'm standing on the first floor, let's see who dares to scold the military advisor."
Dumb girl: "I'm on the second floor."
third floor.
Fourth floor.
The barrage team is uniform,
No one said that Lin Feng was not.
Tangtang: "People with poor health tend to wake up easily while sleeping. Her mother hasn't woken up for so many years. What's wrong? Is it because her ears are bad?"
Little Ah Qiao: "And rural people will not die even if they sleep, because they have to beware of thieves in the middle of the night."
Zhang Zhang: "Yes, I definitely know, what a big movement."
Gouzi: "I saw the news many years ago. A rural girl sued her father. As a result, the whole family blamed her and scolded her."
Meow Meow: "This mother is really not a human, the identification is complete."
………
Girl: "If I break up with my parents, how should I tell my husband?"
Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard.
Write four words quickly.
‘Broken windows effect’
Then he said: "Sister, you must not tell the truth about the matter to your lover. Even if you are very loving and have a good relationship, the incident must be rotten in your stomach." "As for how to explain to him the breakup of the relationship, you can say I don’t have that deep affection for my parents. I’m not used to living with them. I just like our family of three to live behind closed doors.”
………
On the barrage.
"Broken Windows Effect"
What does this mean?
It means you trust someone very much,
You pour out your helplessness and sadness to him.
For example, the shadow given to you by your native family.
At that time, he may have a redeeming heart for you.
But one day when you two have a disagreement,
He will say to you: No wonder your parents hate you, because you really hate it.
In this way, by attacking you by echoing back and forth, across time, and across regions, you will be beyond redemption.
Damn it!
This woman is pathetic enough, if her husband says such things again...
This girl is really beyond redemption.
Little Cake: "So protect yourself and don't hand the knife into other people's hands."
Xiao Xi: "It's good to have some character, but quarrels without character will stab you in the heart."
Daheidou: "My ex-girlfriend told me all her scars. I struggled with her when she broke up with her, but I didn't say anything hurtful to her. I love her so much, how could I be willing to hurt her? I just thought she might want to be with her again." Others have said it once, but I don’t want to give it up.”
Dude,
Bravo.
………
Girl: "I have hidden this matter for 20 years. What I am most afraid of is what others will think of me. I am afraid that I will not be able to bear the pressure."
The girl started to choke.
Lin Feng: "Don't be afraid, the direction of public opinion has begun to change now. You can look at the public screens and everyone's comments. Now everyone is thinking more and more high-minded and living more rationally. No one will think that this is Your fault.”
In fact, this kind of thing is not uncommon and has happened all over the world in various ethnic groups and countries,
What I want to say is that such a person is not the same kind as us,
There must be something wrong in his mind, something sick, something abnormal.
It would be much simpler if the law could punish him and arrest him directly.
But I’m afraid it’s going to be difficult now,
Because there is no evidence and the statute of limitations has expired, the law cannot punish him,
What can be done?
Either beat him to death or stay away from him.
So my suggestion is still to break off the relationship, completely.
How thorough?
It would be best to leave this city.
If there is a problem with your job, you cannot resign easily.
Then move.
Don’t tell your new address to your fellow villagers and relatives who knew you before, including your younger brother.
Don’t tell anyone,
Don't let them find you.
Especially between your father and your husband, there should be no contact information or any WeChat messages. ”
Girl: “But he already has these contact information.”
Lin Feng: "You can block him quietly, and I will teach you a way to block him first and then delete him, so that he will not be able to add you as your husband."
"But my husband will definitely ask me what happened? I don't know how to explain it to him."
Lin Feng: "Just say that my parents favor boys over girls and have suppressed my self-esteem since I was a child. I have no feelings for them."
The girl was silent, obviously still hesitating.
Lin Feng sighed and said: "Sister, breaking off the relationship is not only to protect you, but also to protect the children."
Um?
The girl was a little surprised.
Lin Feng said helplessly: "Sister, there are some things I really don't want to say, but you said that you have grown up and encountered such a thing, how come you don't have any brains at all?"
? ? ?
The more the girl listened, the more confused she became.
Lin Feng was speechless and said: "You have never thought about that person who molested you for so many years. Why did he suddenly stop when you were thirteen or fourteen years old?"
"You don't think it was his conscience that found out, do you?"
Lin Feng said, quickly writing three English letters on the small blackboard.
‘LTP’
(End of chapter)