Chapter 124 Your 19-year-old is different from my 19-year-old
Lin Feng: "Are you studying now, or are you already working?"
"She is doing an internship, and I have been working in society for two years."
Lin Feng nodded: "So what went wrong?"
"Military advisor, there is no problem with our relationship itself, including our views on love and three things. There is also no problem with these. It's just that the family problem is bigger.
In fact, the main problem should still be on my side, because my parents have encountered relatively big changes in their business in recent years. ”
Lin Feng: "The family is in decline?"
"It can be said that her parents have always been strict with her."
Understood.
Lin Feng: "The other party's parents know that your family is in dire straits, and they are worried that the girl's future with you will be very uncertain."
"Yes, that's right."
Lin Feng tapped on the small blackboard.
Come on buddy,
Listen to me tell you.
First of all, your puppy love in middle school is also called the heartbeat of young teenagers,
This kind of relationship can last for five years,
It shows that the girl is really right with you.
Why?
In fact, I told my brothers in the live broadcast room yesterday,
Because at this age, the logic of children's thinking about emotions must be a possessive desire from their own perspective.
It has no sense of planning for feelings,
It’s easy to change your mind when you see different things,
It’s easy to abandon the old person when you meet a new person,
This is how children feel.
It is not easy for you to persist for 5 years!
So I personally think your relationship is very good.
They are also people who deserve to work hard for each other,
This is the first point.
. . . . .
On the barrage.
Xiao Wan: "Can anyone really make it to the end of the heartbeat in junior high school?"
Frappuccino: "We went to the same school from sixth grade to senior year. Later, both parents found out and disagreed. Then she moved. The night before the move, she sneaked out and put it in the window of my room. A note: I'm moving away, goodbye, my little prince (crying)"
Gouzi: "Oh my god!"
Broken!
Little Fairy: "My parents fell in love in junior high school."
Stranger: "So did you get married in the end?"
Little Fairy:? ? ?
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Second point, you are 19 years old now, and the other person is also 19 years old.
At your age, it is too early to think about the future.
You said that your family was in decline, and you were worried that it might affect your relationship.
In the final analysis,
It's still a matter of money.
The other parent does not trust your ability to support a family.
But you are only 19, you have time to work hard for it.
You go save money,
When you save money and have the ability to marry each other, all your family problems will be solved. ”
over!
The boy was silent for a while and said: "Military advisor, the problem now is that her family wants her to be separated from me."
Lin Feng smiled and said: "Brother, her parents are her parents. You and your girlfriend still need to express this. It is useless for you to communicate with her family.
Because when you have nothing, if you negotiate with the other party's family, no matter how good your negotiation is, it will still be an ineffective communication.
What you need to do most now is to stabilize your girlfriend.
You tell her, we are still young now, and if we want to get the certificate, it will take two years,
In the past two years, just look at how hard I have worked,
Two years later,
If I really can't do it, then you can abandon me.
But you can't help but give me a chance to work hard. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"If I really can't do it" "You abandon me again" "But you can't help but give me a chance to work hard"
Oh my God!
Cry! !
"But in fact, in this era, working hard is just trying your luck. If you work hard, you will definitely get results."
"It's true. After working hard for so long, I still failed. I don't regret it, and I have no regrets, but I am sad, very sad."
. . . . .
Boy: "Military advisor, but I think it's time for us to talk about marriage."
Lin Feng: "Not yet, buddy. You are only 19 now. You are not of legal age. You can't get a marriage certificate even if you go to the Civil Affairs Bureau. Be obedient. Just work hard in the past few years." Boy: "Military advisor, I understand you I mean, in fact, I have worked hard in this area, and my savings are relatively high among my peers. I now have 200,000 in my hand.”
? ? ?
Lin Feng: "How much?"
"20w."
Lin Feng looked surprised: "Damn it, are you so awesome? Brother, you have 200,000 yuan at the age of 19? When I was 19 years old, I was still thinking of ways to defraud my mother for living expenses."
. . . .
On the barrage.
"19 years old" "Deposit 200,000"
Damn it!
Can't smile at all!
"25 years old, deposit 8,000, not embarrassed (laughing and crying)"
"I owe Huabei 2100 when I am 26 years old."
"29 years old, 300,000 in debt."
. . . .
"A girl has a deposit of 2 million at the age of 24."
"Do you still want a son? Mom."
? ? ?
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Boy: "That's why I'm worried. I'm afraid her family will have an impact on our relationship."
Lin Feng: "Brother, be more confident. You can save 200,000 at the age of 19. How awesome is that."
Boy: "But she is avoiding me now. She expressed that she really wanted to be with me, but due to family pressure, she chose to escape."
Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard again.
Dude,
Now the opponent's backbone is obviously not very strong!
We really can't sit still and wait for death.
We have to take the initiative.
You are like this,
Take a screenshot of your deposit and go directly to the other person’s parents,
This is the time for us to show our determination. ”
Boy: "Okay military advisor, but I still want to know something from you. There are some details that I don't know much about. Do you have any suggestions from his parents, or what should I pay attention to?"
Lin Feng quickly wrote two words on the small blackboard:
"Face."
The boys seem to understand.
Lin Feng: "It means that you have to give the other person's parents enough face. You need to let her parents know that it is a very honorable thing for her girl to find you.
How to reflect it?
Don’t go in empty-handed, man.
Boy: "Oh oh oh, I understand this, don't worry, military advisor."
Lin Feng said with a smile: "Bring some good things to my parents, don't mess with the souvenirs."
Boy: "No, no, it's definitely full."
Lin Feng was amused by Brother Kid.
"Raman?"
"Brother, if you reach your age, you must have a Will-O-Wisp."
ah?
Ha ha ha ha.
. . . .
"Okay, let's do it."
"Thank you, military advisor."
The wheat is hung up,
Lin Feng lamented in the live broadcast room:
You can save 200,000 at the age of 19,
Have the awareness and ability to save money,
Really awesome.
I originally thought his 19-year-old was about the same as our 19-year-old.
Brothers,
Do you know why I just said let him talk to his girlfriend first and stabilize his girlfriend first?
That's because I think everyone at this age is just a child, and it's useless for you to communicate with the other person's parents.
As a result, he said that he had 200,000 when he was 19 years old.
Damn it!
Then it will be useful for you to contact the other person's parents now.
Lin Feng was sighing when he suddenly saw a barrage.
"Military, I saved 1,000 when I was 25 years old. I feel that life has lost its fun."
Lin Feng smiled.
Not buddy,
What do you have for 1,000?
Happy beans!
(End of chapter)