Chapter 137 Find a big brother for your dad, right?
On the barrage.
Staged needs: He has no better choice.
Core needs: What he likes in his heart is not like you
"When you go to the supermarket when you are hungry, you can buy a lot. If you go to the supermarket after a meal, you will get what you really want."
"That's right, instant noodles taste delicious when you're hungry, but you don't even bother to look at them when you're not hungry."
"I want to eat steak! (laughing and crying)"
"So the first thing to be beheaded when we got ashore was not the person we wanted to kill, but the tool person."
"It hurts my heart, old man."
"There is a high mountain and a long way to go. In the end, it all depends on conscience, morality and personal qualities."
Ordered.
. . . . . .
Ding~
Even the microphone comes in.
"Hello, Military Advisor."
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Hello, have you encountered any emotional problems?"
"Military advisor, I am 28 years old this year and my boyfriend is 24 years old. There are so many people and I am so nervous..."
Lin Feng smiled and said: "Sister, treat them as air, ignore them, put your phone next to you, don't look at the public screen, just listen to my voice and communicate with me."
. . . .
On the barrage.
Xiaowan: "Treat us like cabbage."
Little cake: "You are called "Not Nervous" and we are both "Air" (dog head)."
Gouzi: "Hot knowledge: Comments can be turned off."
Stranger: "What should I do? It's my first time to be in the air, so I'm a little nervous."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Girl: "I am engaged in the art industry, which is painting. Before him, I had a very ambiguous relationship with someone who was 30 years older than me.
I don’t know why my relationship with him suddenly turned into a relationship where I would say good night. Of course, I don’t deny that I have been greedy myself, because people will buy my paintings. ”
Lin Feng thought he heard wrongly: "Sister, did you just say how much older he is than you?"
"30!"
Lin Feng: "I'm not my sister. Are you looking for a big brother for your dad?"
Well. . .
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Take the young man?"
Holy shit!
30 years older! !
"Is it OK for a 60-year-old? I have a pension, which is enough for the two of them to be 30 years old."
"Being 90 is not about having three (dog heads)"
Xiu'er!
Hahahaha, six flies up.
. . . . .
Girl: "Because he always buys my paintings, and the price every time is higher, and then my relationship inexplicably turns into a very ambiguous relationship. Maybe I am greedy myself, I admit it myself."
Lin Feng: "No, if you are greedy, don't you need to examine the other person's age and actual situation?"
30 years older!
Holy shit!
"Sister, did you like the gold teeth in grandpa's mouth?"
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Look carefully, grandpa has gold teeth (dog heads) in his mouth"
"This shows that what people are talking about is a man who has gentlemanly charm, speaks with humor, owns a house and a car, not just a man who is 30 years older."
"Haha, you said Po Tian, he also smells like an old man."
"No, buddy, what does it smell like to be old? (laughing and crying)"
"It smells like old bacon."
"I met a girlfriend who had a milky smell on her body. Later I found out it belonged to her son." "What does her son's milky smell have to do with her?"
"His girlfriend gave birth to a son, and he happened to not know it yet. How sad."
Help!
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Girl: "Military advisor, this is not actually a relationship, because we have only been ambiguous for a while."
Lin Feng: "This must not be a love affair, what kind of love? It's purely an industrial chain."
Let me tell you,
You just miss the gold teeth in other people's mouths.
Well. . . .
Lin Feng: "Okay, let's not talk about the ambiguous partners in the past. Let's talk about your current relationship."
"After that relationship ended, I met this, we got together last October,
His university is very good, and he majors in architecture. In fact, he has already done an internship, but this year he is preparing to take the postgraduate entrance examination.
Military Advisor, I feel like I fell in love with them both because of the suspension bridge effect in both relationships. ”
Lin Feng shook his head: "You don't call this the suspension bridge effect, you are a sex brain."
Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard and said: "Through your description just now, I can clearly feel that you are creating some external halo for these two people, or that you are attracted by some of their own achievements and identities, < br>
This is not called the suspension bridge effect.
You have a habitual thinking and like to regard love as the most important social relationship,
When you get along with anyone, the first thing that comes to your mind is that you have a sexual relationship with this person.
And ignore that you may be colleagues or customers, you ignore this layer of relationship. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"I know about sex brain, but it's just peach blossom brain disorder. What is the suspension bridge effect?"
"An illusion produced when the heart beats faster."
"For example, when you are walking on a suspension bridge and your heart beats faster, and then a person walks across from you, you mistakenly think that your heart beats faster because of this person, and your heart starts to beat faster."
"I bought a car that can accelerate from 0 to 100 kilometers in 3.3 seconds for this suspension bridge effect."
"I just said why I can't impress girls because my car accelerates from 100 meters to 100 meters in 33 seconds."
"Why can I only go to 25 yards?"
"He's talking about electric cars and you're talking about electric bicycles. How the hell can they be the same?"
ah?
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Girl: "Maybe."
Lin Feng: "Tell me, besides his good school and good job, what else do you like about this boy?"
The girl thought for a moment and said, "Now that I think about how good he is to me, it's because he helps me solve some problems in life perfectly.
Because he had to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination, he stopped working for the time being and came to my place to accompany me. ”
Raymond Lam: "Who pays more in terms of consumption."
"Me, because he just came out of school and hasn't worked for long. My financial situation may be okay, so I will provide some food and clothing for us. Sometimes I will give him some gifts, but he doesn't want them. , so I feel that he is a very good person.”
Lin Feng: "I almost understand the situation. Now let me tell you your problem."
"We got along very well at first, but then he went back to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination, and the two of them started to quarrel wildly."
Lin Feng: "What exactly were you arguing about?"
"I feel like he has less contact with me, and he doesn't really want to talk to me."
Lin Feng: "Is it because the other party is preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination and has no energy?"
"I don't know, maybe I'm more sensitive. I belong to that kind of highly sensitive people. If something is wrong at all, I won't be able to do it.
I am very anxious. I will call him or something, hoping that he can respond to me,
But his response was very cold. Every time we had a fight, I could feel that there was more of a gap than before. I was most afraid of this gap. ”
Lin Feng tapped on the small blackboard.
Write a few words quickly.
My sister was diagnosed.
You are a typical anxious personality.
To be more precise, you have an attachment-anxious personality.
(End of chapter)