Chapter 150: No topic is the beginning of sublimation of love
Lin Feng:
"Now to answer your second question.
You said you feel guilty and regretful?
In fact, there is nothing to regret.
Dude,
You have seven years of youth of a girl,
You shouldn't regret it,
You should be laughing and having fun.
Because in this era, few girls are willing to devote all their youth to a man,
You might say that it is not only her seven years, but also your seven years,
But obviously, as you said, during the seven years of this relationship, the other party has been tolerating and accommodating you along the way.
You lack emotional care for the other person,
I have always said that relationships need to be managed, rather than being centered on me and letting them develop.
I always feel that if I fall in love with the other person, the other person should be nice to me and tolerate me.
Dude,
In the past seven years, this girl has been extremely kind and righteous.
It's you who didn't cherish it!
Seven years, now I am 30 years old.
Dude,
You are not authentic! ”
The man was silent.
Lin Feng: "As for you asking me if I want to redeem myself?"
Dude,
When you say this sentence,
Don’t you already have the answer in your heart?
One last word for you: I have nothing to say when we are together, it is more sad than losing you.
Go down.
. . . . .
"Having nothing to say together is more sad than losing you"
Woo woo hoo,
So good to cry.
"There is a cliff going forward and backward."
"So I would rather lose you."
"It's not that I have nothing to say, it's because I have told others what I wanted to say."
"Huh? I feel like some people just don't have the desire to share. They don't mean to be silent."
"But you weren't like this at first."
Well. . .
"This Lianmai is unreasonable and makes me look like a torturer (dog head)"
"I'm like this too (dog head)"
"Then why are you like this?"
"Why are there so many (dog heads)"
"We just hope that everyone can have a peaceful time (dog head)"
6
. . . . .
Lin Feng:
"Brothers,
Good love is measured by depth, not length.
Being together for a long, long time just sounds shocking and romantic, but the tacit understanding between the two people may not be as good as some couples who have just been together.
I won’t go into too much discussion of the various factors involved in long-distance love without getting married.
I personally think that if you don’t have the urge to get married even during the period of love, it will be difficult to get married again in the future,
Most of the people we see who are successful in long-distance love races are preparing quietly.
What I said is relatively absolute.
I hope you will be the exception.
Let’s talk about the problem of the other party suddenly becoming cold in this relationship.
This is called the dull period in relationships.
All brothers in our live broadcast room, listen up.
The flat period is not a violation of heaven's rules, nor is it terrible.
We say that whether it is falling in love or getting married, it all has a process, and this process is the beating heart at the beginning,
Then comes the ambiguous period,
Love period,
Passion period,
Then to the dull period.
It has such a process.
Everyone will face this process, and as long as you are human, there will be no exception.
Because the feeling of freshness is the pounding of hormones,
This thing will not and cannot exist forever.
So when two people encounter a dull period, first of all, don't think that the other person doesn't love them anymore.
This is actually a very normal process. The key is how you deal with the cooling-off period.
Some people may choose to give up on the relationship, or simply give up on the relationship.
Of course,
You have the right to give up.
But in my opinion, this is irresponsible behavior.
Because when you feel that this relationship has no freshness, you choose to give up and find another one that is more fresh to you,
No matter who you are with, no matter how beautiful or in good shape she is, you will be wiped out by the trivialities of life.
When the novelty disappears again, you will fall into an endless loop.
At this time,
What should we do?
I think,
Love someone,
Choose her,
Even if the relationship has entered a dull period, you should experience new things with her, discover new fun in life, and get back the original feeling.
Rather than showing off and doing nothing, or choosing to give up.
I'm telling you buddy,
Heartbeat is the original instinct of human beings, and loyalty is the choice.
When the novelty wears off, true love begins to emerge!
The absence of topics is the beginning of the sublimation of love.
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"No topic is the beginning of sublimation of love"
Damn it!
Enlightenment.
"@小孭, I understand. Let's work together to get through this dull period. I will slowly correct my mistakes. Are you willing?"
"Okay!"
“@小惠子, baby, let’s spend the dull period together.”
"Got it baby."
“@Nainai, I really want to have a long future with you, let’s work hard again.”
"Yeah."
"@雪儿, princess, I came across a live broadcast room that is helpful to our emotional situation. You can take a look at it during your busy schedule. I hope everyone knows, and you are well."
"..."
The river flows: "Tie Zi Niubi has been sublimated again."
. . . . .
"@strategist, do you have any practical tips?"
Lin Feng: "Share more daily to create new topics, and live life with a sense of ritual... Well, in fact, just remember more about what you did when you first got together.
For example, when you first cross the road and wait for a red light, you can’t help but want to send a text message to the other person,
Even if the online taxi arrives in 30 seconds, and you see the beautiful morning glow on the horizon, you can’t help but take a photo and send it to her.
In fact, many people say they are busy,
How busy can it be?
Isn’t it brothers. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
“Not only can I take photos in 30 seconds, but I can also adjust settings and think of a copy (dog head).”
"It turns out that you can do so many things in 30 seconds. How can I have nothing to say? I really just don’t want to go back (cry to death)"
"I can do a lot of things in one minute while I wait at the red light, so why don't I have time?"
"But I have an iPhone+mobile, Yanzi (crying)"
"What do you mean?"
"iphone + mobile = motionless (dog head)."
"It's really immobile. I also have an iPhone+mobile phone, and sometimes the message only comes five minutes ago."
"Yes, the iPhone will be delayed. You can see the message outside, but it will take a long time to appear in WeChat."
“In 30 seconds, my broken phone can’t even fit into the camera (helpless)”
"This is not just a missing person. I can only chase the swallows on foot (crying)"
Damn it!
I'm so fucking sad.
you. .
poisonous!
Hahahahaha.
"But I have an iPhone+China Unicom, Yanzi (cry)"
"But I am an iPhone + telecommunications, Yanzi (cry)"
"I can't move, I can't connect, I can't trust..."
Got it,
Stop chasing anyone.
Hahahahaha.
(End of chapter)