Chapter 204 You don’t want to give up, right? Give me your boyfriend’s phone number
Lin Feng: "Brother, I've given you the answer. You have to figure out what to do."
"Thank you, military advisor."
The boy left.
Yu Huanshui: "What about the fourth and fifth years?"
People on the public screen were also asking curiously.
Isn’t it a five paragraph message?
Why only three paragraphs?
Lin Feng smiled and said: "Because this is the third year."
Everyone was stunned.
. . . . .
On the barrage
The first letter: In my heart, I have already married you once.
Second letter: I hope you are happy, because that is my greatest wish.
The third letter: If the world is noisy, then we will hide and be happy quietly.
We are waiting for the next two letters, a five-year appointment, and we will see you next year. .
"No, don't you think it's cruel to leave five voice messages for boys? I was about to come out, but the dead memories suddenly attacked me, over and over again, and I was tortured for five years."
"Yes, this woman is so cruel. She will be stabbed once a year (horrible)."
"This is not a recording, this is a sharp knife. Every knife cuts straight into the heart every year."
"Have you ever thought that men live five more years?"
"If you say so, then why not leave 10 voices and 20 voices?"
"Because she just wants the boy to gradually forget the pain of losing her and start a new life again. She doesn't really want him to remember her all the time."
Correct answer!
"And without that voice, the boy might have gone with the girl and died the night after the funeral.
"This is the proper comment, thank you stranger."
"Wow, wow, I'm so touched, I've already started fantasizing about my girlfriend (crying)."
Go against Tiangang!
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Lin Feng:
"Love can't defeat death, but it can warm death, and maybe... is there a miracle?"
Come on buddy!
Come,
Cheer up,
Next one!
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor!"
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Hello, do you have any emotional problems?"
Girl: "The question I want to ask is how to get over a breakup. Military advisor, please don't scold me."
? ?
Lin Feng: "Why should I scold you?"
Girl: “Because I just begged him hard not to break up, but I still failed.”
Lin Feng shook his head: "Sister, when we say that a person's value is definitely not improved by begging another person to change his mind,
Your personal charm and personal value must be reflected when you leave him.
You have to understand,
When does someone love you most?
That must be the time when I don't love him, he loves me the most.
Why?
Because when you don't love him, you can focus more time and attention on yourself, and only then will you be attractive. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"When I Don't Love Him" "He Loves Me Most"
Damn it!
It seems so.
"Summary: Ruthless people will only become obsessed with more ruthless people."
Ordered.
"The less interested you are, the more attracted he will be to you."
"When you really fall in love with someone, you won't be happy most of the time. Do you believe it?"
"Trust. Because of the desire for gain and loss, possessiveness, worry about gain and loss... the whole person's movements and thoughts have been deformed (smile)."
"So is the end of love really disgust?"
"Wrong! It was disgusting. I felt like I was blind at the time."
Ha ha ha ha.
. . . . .
Girl: "But when it came time to break up, I found that I couldn't control myself. We broke up because I saw him chatting with another girl, which was like a national karaoke, but he and he were the only ones in the room. The girl was chatting, and I was very angry,
They chatted for a long time, so I asked him if we could discuss it,
But nothing came out of the discussion that night, and the result was that he was unwilling to change.
We had a cold war like this for three days, and I couldn't help it, so I went to find him,
He said he just chatted, nothing happened,
He was really tired when I was so suspicious.
He just said he didn't want to fall in love anymore. ”
Lin Feng: "Sister, don't you understand? It's not that he doesn't want to fall in love, he just doesn't want to talk to you."
The girl was silent.
Lin Feng: "Sister, there is a concept here. Don't be brainwashed by him. He thinks that he has not cheated and is just chatting with the opposite sex.
But in love, a person should keep a distance from the opposite sex around you after you start a relationship,
This is something all adults must do.
If everyone thinks that I am just chatting with another person on the Internet, treating this thing as a communication state of myself, and ignoring the feelings of the other person,
Then you are dead wrong.
Don't think that just because you haven't flirted with someone, you're doing nothing wrong.
Let me tell you, as long as you are in love and you do not keep a distance from the opposite sex, you can chat with other members of the opposite sex and just say ‘Are you there?’
It's all original sin!
Why?
Because this is behavior without any sense of boundaries.
There are no restrictions or requirements on oneself.
It is also disrespectful to your significant other.
Some people may say that to love someone is to trust them.
good!
Just because you may not have any thoughts about someone does not mean that another person is not attracted to you,
You can control yourself, but you can't control another person's lust,
So,
The fundamental thing is to put an end to this.
The sense of boundaries is a required course for all adults when starting a relationship. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Sense of Boundary" "A Compulsory Course in Adult Love"
The military advisor said it very well.
"A person who has no sense of boundaries will only feel that you are restricting him. He does not feel that what he has done is wrong."
"The sense of boundaries is respect for me and respect for this relationship."
“Currently, we are faced with the same problem, and I feel like I don’t know where to start. It makes many mistakes.”
"Same, if you don't say you feel uncomfortable, you will definitely quarrel (ugh)."
"Never bet on trust. If you have boundaries, they will not cross them."
So well said!
"Two people who have a sense of boundaries will have fewer conflicts living together. This is the case with my husband. I have no male friends, and he has no so-called female friends. Occasionally, when he goes out and picks up the wrong mobile phone, he won't rush back to change it. All of this The passwords are all our anniversaries or related to me.”
envious!
"I have recorded the screen and will show it to my girlfriend tonight."
. . . . .
Girl: "He also said something today. He said that he had thought about it seriously and he hadn't figured out why he had the desire to share with other girls, but he didn't have the desire to share with me. He said that he still doesn't have the desire to share with other girls. Figure it out.”
Lin Feng: "I can't think of letting him die!"
Well. . .
Lin Feng: "Sister, after a breakup, everyone will dump their problems on the other party,
After we broke up when I was a kid, I would also feel that it was because of something I didn’t do well that led to our relationship breaking up.
Later I found out it was all fucking farts,
It's just that you can't help yourself, you have changed your mind, you don't love me anymore, it has nothing to do with me.
Sister, don’t be emotionally drained.
Remember one sentence,
We should not always look for faults in ourselves in relationships,
It's obvious that you don't love me anymore in your relationship, but you don't dare to admit it.
Why should I find fault with myself?
Find out if I didn't do well enough or did something wrong that led to him breaking up with me.
When I meet this kind of person, I ask directly, if I do this well, will you love me again?
If you don’t believe it, just ask.
When asked, no one said a word. It's all fucking blame-shifting.
So sister, you have to recognize the reality,
The reality is that he doesn’t love you anymore, and we have to accept it.
After accepting it, you must understand that I am not obligated to you.
I am only in my 20s this year. There are many better boys than you. I am not bad either. It’s not like I can’t find new ones. Why do you think I’m so cheap? ”
Woo woo woo. .
The girl suddenly burst into tears.
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Can you love me if I change?" "Ask no one and say nothing"
That’s so right!
"She forced me to lose my temper, then said that I had a bad attitude and so on, and then completely denied me (crying to death)."
"I can tell my conscience that I treat her seriously and sincerely. After the breakup, they said I was disgusting and that everything was my fault. I set up a pitiful persona among my friends, which made me doubt myself (ugh)."
"After the breakup, I saw the worst side of myself (crying)."
"Yes, you don't think about my good points at all, but only talk about my bad things. All the problems are thrown at me. I ask myself, am I really that sinful?"
"Everyone, please wake up. Just remember that when you break up, the other person will say it's your fault, and it's all your problems that led to the breakup. So don't think too much, it's his problem."
. . . . .
Lin Feng: "Don't cry, sister, don't make yourself so humble, you have lost your charm.
Think about why he pursued you in the first place?
Why would I be nice to you?
It’s because I can’t get you.
So the less I can get you, the more willing I will be to get closer to you.
All the charm of anyone in a relationship comes from not getting it yet. Only when you don't get it will you want to understand and explore.
So sister, don’t doubt yourself,
Stop all your thoughts about him,
Stop all your memories,
Stop analyzing any of his social interactions and the words he responds to you.
Don’t live in the sweetness and past,
If you don’t love it anymore, you don’t love it anymore,
Some people just like to find some high-sounding reasons,
hypocritical!
It’s obvious that you don’t love him anymore, but you don’t have the courage to admit it, so you have to find a fault with the other person,
Wouldn't it be nice to say it openly?
Every time you break up, you have to say what you did wrong that led to the breakup. If you want to quit, just quit and quit with dignity.
Then if you say that you take out one thing and solve it, can you get back together with me?
Can you fall in love with me again?
cannot!
Why?
Because essentially I just don’t love anymore! ”
Woo woo woo. . .
After Lin Feng finished speaking, the girl cried even harder.
Lin Feng glanced at Yu Huanshui.
The latter also shook his head, looking helpless.
Lin Feng sighed: "You are so determined not to give up, are you? Come on, call me."
The girl suddenly froze.
Lin Feng: "You can't let it go, can't you? I'll help you let it go."
The girl didn't know what Lin Feng was going to do, but she still sent a private message from her boyfriend's phone number to Lin Feng.
Du~
Du~
Du~
After three rings, the call was connected.
"Hello, who's there?"
A male voice came from the opposite side.
Lin Feng: "Hello sir, a friend who claims to be a passerby asked you a song."
"What? I don't know this person."
Lin Feng: "Sir, you misunderstood, you are a passer-by in the relationship."
"No, who are you? Couldn't you just say his name? It's so confusing to me."
Lin Feng: "Sir, the girl has a message."
"What message? Okay, then you say it."
Lin Feng: "She said that I appeared as a passer-by, loved you for a long time, chose you once, but missed you for many years. If you meet someone in the future who can humble you and entangle you, you will understand how I feel now. .”
"Oh! I know who it is."
The male voice was full of boredom.
Lin Feng: "Sir, don't get me wrong. She is not here to pester you. Please be patient and listen to this letter."
The man hesitated for a moment: "Okay, hurry up then."
Lin Feng: "In order to keep you here these two days, I have said nothing but despise myself. I begged you so humbly, but you still don't plan to come back.
I beg you humbly, I beg you humbly, I will save you without any bottom line,
In fact, it’s not how mean I am,
But I am grateful to meet you,
Be grateful for everything about you.
I abandoned my principles and bottom line to keep you, and tried to please you in a humble and cowardly manner. I just wanted to be with you,
It’s not about how good you are,
But I only see you in my eyes.
But reality is always reality, not a movie. If you miss it, it will really be gone.
Since you never thought about being serious with me, why did you provoke me in the first place?
Looking back at what we were like back then, and then looking back at our current state where we are strangers than strangers, I feel no regrets at all for having no hesitation and full of joy at the time,
I'm not sorry at all for the initial encounter.
Even I envied your ruthlessness and cruelty, which made me collapse. You made me understand what it means to be deeply in love, and what it means to be worthless.
Do you really think that by putting aside your dignity and coming to you again and again, you just want to humble yourself and please you?
I'm not.
I just cherish this relationship, I have never accommodated a person like this,
For you, I compromised again and again, and I tried my best to keep you,
It’s not that no one wants it,
But I don’t want anyone but you.
Maybe you will never understand how much courage it takes for someone as proud as me to humbly try to stay again and again. ”
The boy suddenly fell silent.
Lin Feng picked up the guitar,
Pluck the strings. .
"I wasted all my love
Love is sadder than not loving
Every word we have ever spoken is precious. . .
I'm afraid that the scenery will look haggard when I dream back at midnight
How could you not think so
I’ve tasted all the pain without you
It's because I'm too intoxicated that my thoughts follow me step by step. . . ”
Lin Feng's singing was so emotional that the boy lost his mind instantly.
Many scenes from the past emerged one by one in front of my eyes.
. . . .
On the barrage.
"I pay with my love" "Love is sadder than not loving"
"Oh my god, I actually cried."
"Those who have truly loved will burst into tears."
"I'm so carefree that I can't even think of anyone I have truly loved, but when I heard what he said and this song, I burst into tears instantly."
"I haven't been in love either, and I cried too."
"It shows that you are a romantic."
. . . . .
Sing a song.
Lin Feng put down his guitar and said: "Brother, what I want to say next is what I want to say to you.
For the great men,
If you don’t love it, you don’t love it anymore.
Say it openly and exit with dignity.
It's a pity that you take yourself too seriously. You don't understand how to fall in love or break up.
I have to use some cold violence to force the little girl to leave on her own.
Do you think she will pester you?
Or do you want her to withdraw on her own to show that you are not such a scumbag?
Dude, there is no need to think of yourself so unforgettable.
Girls are not as vulnerable as you think, just tell her you don’t like her anymore
You are a hundred times more kind than your unanswered messages, unanswered calls, indifferent attitude, and rotten excuses! ”
The boy was silent for a moment and said: "Xiaomeng, I...I don't love you anymore, I'm sorry."
Dudududu~
The boy hung up the phone.
Lin Feng looked at the screen: "Sister, can you give up?"
Attached
[Military Advisor’s Remarks: No matter how estranged we become in the end, the kindness I once treated you is true,
Even if they are separated eventually,
Don’t live up to the encounter.
I hope you don’t regret knowing me and that you are really happy.
If I could go back to the past, I would choose not to know you. It's not that I regret it, but that I can't face the current ending. . 】
(End of chapter)