Chapter 220 Take advantage of your youth and love boldly
The two of them were enjoying the grilled fish while chatting with their water friends.
Lin Feng: "I think we can live broadcast in the future and help brothers answer their emotional problems while eating hot pot."
Yu Huanshui nodded, but Gongping's brothers were unhappy.
Damn,
Putting poison late at night,
No one cares, no one asks!
Lin Feng: "You guys, you guys treat me like your emotional trash can and dump garbage on me every day. What's wrong with me having a hot pot to relieve my stress?"
"I disagree!"
"I disagree!"
"I disagree"
The protests that filled the screen made Lin Feng roll his eyes.
Your sister,
The protest is invalid!
Next one.
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor."
It's a boy.
Lin Feng took a bite of potato chips and asked cheerfully: "What's wrong, buddy, what's the problem?"
Boy: "Military advisor, I know a girl I like very much."
Lin Feng: "Where did we meet?"
Boy: "We met at a fraternity party in college."
Lin Feng: "College students, from the same school?"
Boy: "No, but the two schools are quite close."
Lin Feng: "After the friendship, did you have high-frequency chats with each other?"
Boy: “It’s quite frequent, we talk every day.”
Lin Feng: "Do you want to call me?"
Boy: “I don’t make phone calls, but I often send voice messages.”
Lin Feng: "What are you talking about?"
Boy: "Just some daily life."
Lin Feng: "Will the other party take the initiative to find you?"
Boy: "She is the one who talks to me."
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Lin Feng: "It's obvious, buddy, I'm interested in you, what else do you want to ask me?"
"Mainly I'm worried about a few issues."
Lin Feng: "What are you worried about?"
Boy: "First of all, it's me. I'm about to start school in September. I'm going to another province to study for graduate school. She's one year below me and is starting her senior year. If she confesses her love now, she'll face the problem of a long-distance relationship."
Lin Feng: "So you have concerns?"
"Yes, and I will see her for the last time tomorrow during the day, so I am very anxious to contact the military advisor. The second worry is that during the time we spend together, are the emotions in place?"
Lin Feng: "How long have you been ambiguous?"
"Three months."
Lin Feng: "Brother, let me ask you one last question, do you like her very much?"
"I like her very much. Her appearance and personality are what I like very much."
Lin Feng put down his chopsticks: "Then what the hell are you still talking to me about? It's almost 12:30 now. Go to bed quickly and dress energetically tomorrow morning. Buy another bouquet of flowers and confess your love to me."
ah?
this. . . Is this good?
Lin Feng: "You're so fucking annoying, you're not going, right? Give me her school address and I'll go."
Well. . .
Lin Feng: "Brother, let me tell you, at the age of 22, you are 22, right?"
"Yes!."
Lin Feng: "You are 22 years old. You have just graduated from college and are about to go to graduate school. You haven't entered the society yet. What practical issues are you talking about?
If you like it, rush,
Express your love.
What a simple thing!
Let me tell you, even if there is no good ending in the end, we will have no regrets.
All your current concerns, all your trade-offs, all your submissiveness and timidity come from not being passionate enough.
Brother, remember,
Sometimes it's not the damn traffic lights that defeat you.
You may feel that if that traffic light could take care of you, you might end up with her.
But what is the truth?
The fact is that what defeats you is not the traffic lights, but your countless timidity and fear.
No regrets, okay buddy?
Your age, 22, is the age for falling in love and experiencing experiences.
Don't think about anything.
Just charge first and that's it.
Remember the words of the military advisor,
You only have one youth, be bold,
Love who you want to love, do what you want to do,
Instead of waiting for all things to sprout, for crows to speak, for the season of snow falling in the sky,
It is better to take advantage of the right time of youth to shape yourself into the image of love.
Looking back without regret is rebirth. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"It's better to take advantage of your youth" "Shape yourself into the shape of love"
Oh my God!
"Lao Tie has sublimated again (crying to death)."
"So don't be afraid, be bold. Youth will always have regrets. No matter what choice you make, instead of expecting a good ending, it is better to enjoy the process. When you recall your youth, you can say frankly that you have no regrets."
"Brother, you really translated that looking back without regret means rebirth."
“That’s awesome (like it).”
"I cry out every day that I want a partner, but I dare not talk about it. I am sensitive and have low self-esteem. I feel that I am not good-looking. I feel that no one will always love me. I refuse habitually. I feel that I am suitable for only one person (crying) death)."
"Brother, you can go wherever you want. There is no need to feel inferior. Life is unique. Be more confident and you will definitely shine. There will always be someone who sees you, sees you with light, and loves you wholeheartedly (come on)."
"I'll go to Chengdu tomorrow to express my feelings, brothers." "Come on!!"
. . . . . .
Boy: "Mainly, I feel that I am not good enough now. I want to work hard to become better."
Lin Feng: "Brother, this is something you should think about only after you are determined to be in love.
Remember my words, by the time you become good, everything will have changed.
When you are 30 years old and you buy something you liked when you were 18 years old, you will no longer feel the same way you did when you were 18 years old.
A good relationship allows you to become excellent while being in love.
There is not so much future in this world, only things are unpredictable and good times cannot be expected. ”
The boy was silent.
Lin Feng: "If you don't chase, buddy, the military advisor will predict something for you today,
You are 22 this year.
When you were 22 years old, you met someone you liked,
You want to be with her, but you have too many concerns,
I will come back to him when I think I can become better,
Always thinking that the future is long,
I even feel that I will meet a lot of interesting and suitable people.
So you turned around and left without looking back.
When you are 24 years old, someone confesses to you.
If you think that you are idle, you might as well try talking to her,
Don't tell me, she is really nice to you.
But you feel that there is always a little bit of heart-pounding meaning missing.
At 25 years old, you are mature and sensible, and you want to have a relationship with the purpose of getting married.
Do you think that as long as you work hard, you will be able to do it?
But people at that age are very busy, busy with life and work, and in the end she even forgot to marry you.
So you are particularly unwilling. You think I love her so much, why can't I get it in the end?
At the age of 28, you find that you have been single for a long time, and it seems that you have become accustomed to living alone,
I feel like it doesn’t matter whether I have someone with me or not, I don’t care anymore.
Time flies to 30 years old.
You find that you really seem to be of age to get married,
But there is no suitable person around me,
You are too lazy to meet a new friend of the opposite sex,
So you have to admit that after a certain time, the impulse for love when you were young really disappears.
If you fail others, you must repay the debt.
If you fail yourself, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
One day, you suddenly realize that the reason why you broke up with her when you were 20 years old seemed very far-fetched and very funny.
If you had been gentler and braver at that time, wouldn't you have been married long ago?
Looking back at your youth, you find that you were very stupid and ridiculous in the past.
It’s all my fault that I was too young and didn’t know how to cherish it and didn’t know how to get along with others slowly.
I always think that there will be someone suitable for you waiting for you in the end.
In the end, you will be empty-handed and unable to cry,
I found that my youth was gone and so was my love.
Dude,
That's how people are.
When you are 20 years old, you can afford toys that you couldn't afford when you were 10 years old, but you no longer have the same sense of expectation.
When I was 30 years old, I had the courage to pursue a girl who I didn’t dare to chase when I was 20 years old, but the girl has been a wife for many years.
This life is very short, if you miss it, you will only regret it.
And what is the scariest thing about regret?
You thought you missed just one person, but in fact, you missed a whole life. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage
"Good guy, just give me a whole network to suppress the clouds at night."
"Although I am not of the age where the military advisor said it, I really heard it from my heart."
"I'm glad that he and I have known each other for ten years. We cried and broke up during the period, but in the end we never separated. From the age of 20 to 30, we still held hands and walked together."
"Not many people are lucky, hope you cherish the rest of your life."
"I lost her when I was 19. Now I'm 23 and don't dare to think about her anymore. I can't bear it."
"If you fail others, you need to repay your debt; if you fail yourself, you will regret it for the rest of your life."
"I will regret it for the rest of my life..."
"I wish I could have heard this a few years earlier."
Why!
. . . . .
Raymond Lam: "Why do we all envy the male and female protagonists in movies and TV dramas?
I think it's probably because no matter how loud they argue,
How big the contradiction is,
How far is the separation,
How long has time changed?
How impossible it seems,
Off-screen, we all know in our hearts that they will end up together.
But where can I find this kind of sense of security that I am destined to believe in in this unreliable real world? ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Where to Find"
Damn it!
I'm always worried.
"There is always kindness in movies, allowing people who have missed to meet again."
"But in reality, you have actually met some people for the last time a long time ago, but you just don't want to admit it."
"The movie always goes around and around us, and we say goodbye and never see each other again."
"Yes, if we really break up, even if we live in the same city, if we don't have a common circle of friends, it will be difficult to meet on the street once in a lifetime."
"The collision between cars is a car accident, and the collision between people is love. But cars always give way to each other, and people always miss each other."
"Reality is often like this."
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[Military Advisor's remarks: Are you afraid? This life is what the previous life said will be the next life. . . 】
(End of chapter)