Chapter 226 donated 7 million, netizens burst into tears
Lin Feng: "Sister, do you think a single mother can take care of her children well?
I think first of all your thinking is wrong.
Why does she become a single mother?
Do you know what single parent means?
A single parent means raising a child alone, right?
If you think so, too many families are single-parent.
Look around you. How many families have marriages that exist in name only? How many families have children raised by one person?
So first of all, your understanding of single parents is wrong.
There has never been such a thing as a single mother, you are just a normal mother.
Don't label yourself a special group.
I feel like, oh, I’m a single mother, I’m different from you, I don’t have as much strength as you,
You see, you are two people teaching children. You see, you both have companions and are married.
Do you really think he does?
The reality is that there are many people who are only married together, but in fact they have long existed in name only,
You just killed that name.
You don’t have to think about it, you see you are all accompanied by your parents.
Remember, they may not have either.
They just have the reputation of marriage. You are much better than them. At least you don’t have so many troubles in your life.
Because you are raising your child alone, you will have more experiences. You are happy and you are unhappy.
Those of them who are not single parents, I tell you, they are tired of it,
In addition to taking care of the children every day, I also have to fight with my husband. There are many things going on every day,
You are much better than them.
After hearing this, sister, do you feel better?
And the scariest thing is that I have a husband, but I can’t find him.
I had someone to rely on, but where was the money? Not seen yet.
I have a partner, but when the children are being educated, when I need him, he disappears.
People like you don't have to think about those bad things.
Remember,
You are not a single mother, you are an independent and high-quality woman. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"In reality, many family marriages exist in name only" "You just lost that name too"
"I was suddenly cured."
"What the military advisor said touched my heart, and suddenly I felt less afraid of being alone."
"My single parents were divorced and I have been depressed for 10 years. I benefited greatly from hearing what the anchor said."
"Yeah, I really don't think there is any difference. It's just that some people will make irresponsible remarks. Let's just live well by ourselves and don't care about other people's opinions."
"Summary: A low-quality marriage is not as good as a high-quality single."
Very well said.
"How many people are fathers in name only. Although they are not divorced, they only go home a few times a year and never attend any parent-teacher meetings or school activities (ugh)."
"I have a husband, but my husband lives like a single aristocrat. He comes home once a month and never cares about his son's studies. He doesn't beat or scold his son if he fails in the exam. He is very Buddhist. I raise the baby by myself, and I live like a single parent. Mom makes no difference.”
"Sometimes life forces us. For example, my father works in other places to support family expenses and comes back several times a year. Many times it is impossible to go."
"That doesn't count. Your father is also working hard for this family. You have to understand."
Uh-huh.
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Sister, don't be afraid that you can't take care of your children alone.
Let me tell you, a quarter of the scientists and celebrities in the world grew up in single-parent families.
Why?
Because single-parent families may be more conducive to the reverse growth of children. ”
Woman: "Really?"
The voice was full of urgency and disbelief.
Lin Feng: "Of course, but there is a prerequisite."
The woman asked anxiously: "What's the premise?"
Lin Feng: "Be a smart mother."
The woman said firmly: "I listen to you as a military advisor, you teach me."
Lin Feng smiled: "It's actually very simple, just be yourself."
"If you want your child to be healthy, you must first make yourself healthy,
Remember, how you live your life will most likely be what your children will be like in the future.
Because he has no second coordinates to refer to.
So you want him to be healthy, sunny and positive, and you want to be sunny, positive and healthy yourself.
Many people may say that divorce has hurt me so much that I can't bear it myself.
That's no problem, just put the child's affairs aside and straighten things out for yourself first.
Don’t just take care of your children and not yourself,
It is impossible for you to live a mess and hope your children will succeed.
If you feel that something is wrong with you, first ask your parents to help you take a look at your child, then remove yourself, quickly adjust yourself, and then talk about your child's affairs.
Otherwise, you will feel sad, miserable, aggrieved, and broken down every day, and your child will not be able to get healthy.
The second one introduces male characters so that single mothers can be both father and mother in their daily lives.
But emotionally, emotionally, and even in terms of thinking about doing things, we can only provide children with a female perspective.
Therefore, it is necessary to introduce some male roles into children’s lives
This man can be the child's grandfather or uncle. In short, you must authorize the men around you to provide some male education to the child.
In this way, the child's personality and emotions can become more complete.
Third, be sure not to give up on your own emotional life.
Remember, the military advisor is talking about love life, not marriage.
Do you hope that your children will get married in the future?
Do you hope he will have a happy marriage in the future?
Do you hope he will have a good love life in the future?
If you want it, then you have to give it a try.
Let the children know that it is not terrible if the marriage fails, but the terrible thing is giving up the pursuit of love.
Don’t think that I am divorced and I raised my children by myself. How great and powerful I am.
You are just moved by yourself.
In fact, you will blame all this on your children later.
Let your child feel that you are doing this for him.
The pressure is too much, sister, and the child cannot bear it.
And it is impossible for children to have a correct and healthy view of emotions.
He will not learn how to manage relationships or marriage in the future.
Here, you are not necessarily asked to go out and find a boyfriend.
But the most basic thing you have to do is not to say bad things about your ex-husband in front of him.
It is up to the child to judge whether his father is good or not.
Your hatred for your child's father is a conflict between you two adults. Don't impose it on your child.
How to be a smart mother?
For example, the next time you meet your ex-husband and his girlfriend in the mall, you can openly tell your child that you see dad has found his own happiness, and mom is also looking for her own happiness.
You can also tell your children that dad and I are the blue bird and the big fish. The blue bird lives in the forest, but the big fish can only live in the sea.
Now you can live in the forest or the sea, and we will love you forever.
This is the way to give your children the right love.
So let your ex-husband go.
Now you just need to take care of yourself, and you can actually give your children a better future. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage
"As long as the mother is positive and happy, the children will be fine too. Divorce is actually not as scary as imagined."
"It turned out that I was going in the wrong direction. I was not in a good state myself, and I still wanted to manage my children first."
"Me too, I quarreled with my family (crying to death)."
"The father of the child passed away in an accident when the child was one and a half years old. Now that the child is over three years old, he is unwilling to remarry and doesn't know how to make up for it."
"No need to make up for it, as long as you give him enough love, he will be great."
"Really, mother will bring about changes in everything around her and just be her own sun."
Well said
. . . . .
The woman was silent for a long time: "Commander, I understand, thank you." That's it.
Go down and live a good life!
At this time, Yu Huanshui handed the phone to Lin Feng.
Lin Feng glanced down and frowned.
He said to the screen: "Brothers, I feel very uncomfortable when I see this data."
Then he picked up his mobile phone and said to the live broadcast room:
"This is what Brother Shui just found. As of the second half of last year, 70% of single-parent families in our country have children living with their mothers.
The number of single mothers has reached 20 million.
And 63.5% of single mothers have a monthly income of less than 4,000 yuan.
In fact, I have been watching the public screen just now, and I found that there are many strong and brave single mothers among my fans.
Their difficulties come not only from financial pressure, but also from time poverty, poverty and other challenges.
When a single mother raises a child, her responsibilities and labor are much heavier than those in a two-parent family.
They need more support from all aspects, including psychological, legal, nurturing, etc.
Really,
I think every single mother should admire herself, love herself, and affirm herself from the bottom of her heart. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"This is just big data. In fact, there are many mothers who live with their children without custody rights. I am one of them. The other party does not pay living expenses, but how can my child not feel pain (crying to death) .”
"My nose felt sore when I saw your experience, my mother."
"I am also a single mother with a boy. I have been raising a boy for six years, and my monthly salary is just over 3,000. I can't survive many times (ugh)."
"My monthly salary is 2,900 (crying to death)."
"I am widowed and have been raising my children alone for 7 years. I have no relatives to help me and I have to work hard to support myself. I have to take care of my children and work from dawn to dusk to move bricks."
. . . . .
Lin Feng's eyes swept across the barrage.
"Brothers,
I think I need to do something,
I promise here that I will do something for single mothers. ”
On the barrage.
"Does the military advisor want to do public welfare?"
"As expected of my favorite anchor."
"A man of positive energy must support him."
For a time,
Gift effects that fill the screen.
But there is also another voice.
"Haha, it's this trick again."
"Brother, don't you watch the news? These are all scams by anchors. In order to gain traffic and cheat gifts, many rooms have been blocked."
"You commit crimes against the wind, you are also awesome (contempt)."
"@official, strictly investigate the anchor!"
"This hot chicken thing should be banned!"
"The live streaming industry is a mixed bag, and the country should have taken action to rectify it long ago."
"Strike! Strict investigation! Severe punishment!!"
. . . . .
Brother Shui was a little anxious: "Military advisor, this..."
Lin Feng glanced at the barrage and saw that none of the shouters had fan signs.
They were all little black fans passing by.
Lin Feng didn’t waste any time and directly picked up his phone and posted a screenshot of the transaction:
Imperial Han Hong Charity Foundation
-
2,000,000.00
Transaction successful
Payment method: Modu Nancheng Bank Debit Card (3219)
,
Ten,
Thousand,
Wan,
One hundred thousand,
million. . .
Hiss~~
2 million! !
When everyone was shocked, Lin Feng posted another screenshot.
National Anti-Cancer Charitable Foundation
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5,000,000.00
Transaction successful
Payment method: Modu Nancheng Bank Debit Card (3219)
Damn it! !
5 million! !
Even Yu Huanshui next to him was shocked.
He looked at Lin Feng in disbelief.
Charity donation letter.
Mr. Lin Feng,
Thank you for donating 5 million yuan to the National Anti-Cancer Charitable Foundation’s social rescue strength improvement plan.
Your loving participation is the warmest thing in the world.
. . . . .
On the barrage.
Damn it!
"It turns out that the military advisor is a rich second generation!"
"Live streaming is here to experience life."
"No wonder I've been watching his live broadcast for so long and he never asks for gifts (Niuban)."
Xiao Wan: "Is it important (smile)?"
Gouzi: "Yes, buddy, are you focusing on the wrong thing?"
Yaoyao: "The military advisor can spend 7 million for charity. Isn't this something worthy of respect and admiration?"
Stranger: "And compared with the 7 million donation, Tiezi's live broadcast content is more meaningful and directly helps everyone with emotional problems."
July: "It turns out that the real name of the military advisor is Lin Feng. It's such a handsome name. I love it (hehe)."
Brother Long: "I'm convinced. I'm really convinced. After watching the live broadcast for so long, Military Advisor is the first anchor that I admire from the bottom of my heart."
The stream flows: "I've been watching this kid's live broadcast for five years, and I've never won a PK, but I've never lost a show-off."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Lin Feng put down his mobile phone and said: "My old fans still remember that I even contacted a cancer patient before.
She is my biggest fan.
At that time I was thinking, what can I do for her?
Later, I found a friend who worked in a bank and asked her to help me select qualified and reliable charities.
The charity foundation also gave me news today.
I almost forgot about it, thank you guys for reminding me. ”
Lin Feng smiled and said: "In order to relieve the pressure of cancer patients and allow cancer patients to receive timely and effective treatment, for cancer patients in need,
By relying on their ID cards and case certificates and passing the review of the Anti-Cancer Charitable Foundation, real cancer patients can apply for a free one-time application of RMB 10,000 to RMB 30,000 from the Charitable Aid Foundation.
Patients in serious condition can apply for the assistance fund two or three times.
I have put the application link on the homepage. Brothers who have difficulties or needs must remember to apply. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"I'm in tears, the military advisor is so warm."
"Can I really apply? I have lung adenocarcinoma. I will have my second round of chemotherapy tomorrow. My family's savings are really almost spent (crying to death)."
"My breast cancer has cost me almost 200,000 yuan in the past few years. Taking targeted drugs costs about 2,000 yuan a month. I am from a rural area and I can't afford it (woo woo)."
"Is this true? My son has leukemia, and I am borrowing money from everywhere. I am almost dying of anxiety (woohoo)."
"You are such a life-saving person (woo woo)."
(End of chapter)