Chapter 117 Phoenix Man
On the barrage.
"Do you know where your final destination is" "Shaolin Temple"
Hahahahaha.
Made me laugh so hard.
Gouzi: "What happened to Shaolin Temple?"
Ah Hao: "You laugh at the monk for not eating meat, and the monk laughs at you for not having A6."
Lu Jiu: “I only eat vegetarian food for three meals a day, and Audi is just a substitute for transportation.”
Young monk: Master, what kind of temple is this?
Monk: This is the Merced Temple, this is the Laoli Temple, this is the Aima Temple, and this is the Aimai Temple.
Stranger: "All the wishes I made in the temple were fulfilled by the monk!"
I can’t stand it any longer,
Hahahahaha.
. . . .
The wheat is hung up,
Lin Feng said to the live broadcast room.
Love Paranoia,
To put it bluntly, it is the inner desire to have a relationship with others.
On a deeper level, it is a person’s extreme desire for relationship,
The reason for desire,
In fact, it is because I have never received it.
Therefore, these people are usually extremely lacking in love.
Encountered,
Just smile in private.
Don't escalate to a personal attack!
Okay,
Please invite the next Lianmai guest.
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor."
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Hello, do you have any emotional problems?"
"Military advisor, I'm more emo lately."
Let me first talk about our basic situation,
First of all, on my side, I am an only child.
My parents are both working-class people, and the fixed assets at home are 300 to 4 million.
The other party is 28. His parents are from rural areas and he has no ability, but he has a strong ability to make money.
I bought a house in the city on my own.
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"No ability" "Just strong ability to make money"
? ?
"Does this sister have some misunderstanding about abilities?"
"His parents are incompetent, not him."
"Yes, she wants to say that the man's parents are incompetent."
“Look down on rural people.”
Haha
. . . . .
Girl: "We met in a company, one of the top 500 companies in the country,
However, my position is not as high as his. My annual income is 10 to 12 W, while his is 40 W.
Then my parents together have 200,000 a year,
The other party's parents have almost no income, they are just farmers. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
40w a year?
Let me tell you something.
"Phoenix Man!"
"But don't you think it's strange? She said her own salary doesn't matter, why did she say her parents'?"
“This is also the first time I have heard my parents’ salary calculated.”
"The reason why I feel disgusted with the other person's family."
"That is, say rural areas on the left and farmers on the right."
Head down.
. . . . .
Lin Feng: "I have a general understanding of your personal situation. Tell me about your relationship. How are you getting along?"
Girl: “Although we are in the same company, we are in different cities and can only meet every weekend.
As for him, he is very introverted and doesn't talk to others very much. He stays at home after work.
But he is very good to me, because I have a more willful personality, and he gives me enough emotional value, so he is very good in all aspects,
I never cook when we are together, he always cooks,
But when we had been together for a year, I discovered that he had a particularly bad habit. ”
Lin Feng: "What bad habit?"
"He likes to play games and top up money."
Lin Feng: "What game?"
"It's like the Three Kingdoms."
Lin Feng: "How much did you charge?"
"When I found out, in addition to all his own income, he also had 400,000 yuan from the Internet."
Lin Feng: "Online dai is also for recharging money to play games?"
"Yes."
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Sati?"
"Three Kingdoms Strategy Edition (Dog Head)."
“I also spent tens of thousands playing Three Kingdoms.”
“I just recharged 3500, and I’m starting to feel bad.”
"I don't recharge money, I just save candies (laughing and crying)." "I only know how low the price of King is after playing other games."
"So I still don't understand those who scold the king for being cruel. They really haven't played other games (dog head)."
Other games: Too many people
King Pesticide: There are many people who use krypton
Ordered.
. . . .
Lin Feng: "Besides playing games to recharge, is there anything else you can do?"
"When I found out about this, he asked me to forgive him once, and then I forgave him,
But my condition is that when you repay the money, you have to transfer your house to me and then buy me a car.
Then you can get married.
He said yes.
But recently I found that he started to top up money again.
This time he doesn’t play apps anymore, he plays WeChat mini-programs, that little strategic game,
He took out another loan of tens of thousands without telling me, and then I broke up with him. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
“It’s scary to spend hundreds of thousands to play a game.”
"I charged six yuan and was scolded to death."
"Three Kingdoms is a powerful force worth a house."
"I'll go, online game hero (laughing and crying)."
"It has the same nature as du."
"Run away if you encounter this."
. . . . .
Girl: "After the breakup, I couldn't get out. I have a good relationship with the general manager of our company. We are fellow villagers.
I told him this and I felt like I had been lied to for two years.
I said I wanted to transfer out of the branch and go to another city,
But the boss didn’t agree and still wanted us to continue to reconcile,
My mother also meant that he was usually very nice and willing to spend money on me. He was a good person.
But after the breakup, he felt that he had no shame to come to me again,
What he means is,
He doesn’t know if he can change it either,
He thought that if he could change it, he would come to me after he had saved up money.
That's probably it. Military advisor, can you give me some advice? ”
After hearing this, Lin Feng frowned.
He opened his mouth several times, but stopped talking.
After thinking for a while, he said: "Sister, I'm not targeting you. Just all the description you just gave, including the details and your tone,
After I say these next words,
It will probably set everyone off to a rhythm.
I'm thinking about whether I should say these things. . .
Pause for two seconds.
Lin Feng said: "Forget it, let's use logical lines to reason."
First,
Your family background and your personal abilities give you a sense of superiority.
This sense of superiority makes you look down on the other person's parents.
But in fact,
Under such family conditions, the other party can still achieve an income of 400,000 yuan a year, which shows that his personal ability is very strong.
Here, it doesn’t matter whether his parents are farmers or not,
Even,
His annual income alone exceeds that of your entire family combined.
So please put away those so-called sense of superiority.
This is the first thing I want to say to you.
Then, let’s talk about this person.
In addition to his very strong personal abilities, he is also a giver in this relationship,
For example, it provides you with emotional value, such as cooking for you, and giving you gold coins.
And you also said that he is a very introverted person and doesn't talk to others very much.
But for such an introverted person, not only the leader respects you, but your parents also agree with you.
It can be seen that he is a down-to-earth and steady person in life and work.
You two have been together for two years. If he has other shortcomings, he will definitely not be able to hide them from you.
In other words,
Let’s put aside the bad habit you mentioned for now,
There is nothing wrong with this man.
Definitely a good man.
Do you admit this? ”
Girl: "I admit it, but..."
Lin Feng waved his hand to interrupt: "Don't speak yet, listen to what I have to say."
For such a man, you just used one word and said that he lied to you for two years.
But is this really the case?
I don't think so.
You can say that in this relationship, he failed to save money and his spending habits were very bad, but he did not feel sorry for you,
Why?
Because I use my own money for my own consumption, why am I sorry to you?
Don’t forget, we are just boyfriend and girlfriend.
If you insist that you are rushing to get married and he has not considered your future, that is fine.
You can even say that I broke up with him because I despised him playing games.
Nothing wrong.
But where do you start from saying that he lied to you and is sorry for you?
(End of chapter)