Chapter 196 How the scumbag came ashore
"Masters, if you can take it up, put it down, and don't make any noise."
"Okay, let's go down."
"Thank you, military advisor."
The wheat is hung up,
Lin Feng said to the live broadcast room:
"This guy lacks some masculinity. You can't say that falling in love with you is like finding a best friend.
When he opened his mouth, he sounded like a fucking turtle.
Who can bear this? ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Turtle Sound"
Oh woo~
Little Meimei~
Little Meimei~
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha.
"Does this kind of people only appear on the Internet? This reality makes me laugh to death when I encounter it."
"I have a friend who keeps talking in a turtle voice (grin) and says he is a young girl. I really..."
"Hahaha, why do people still want to learn this kind of voice? (laughing)."
"I just like the double-faced turtle, who knows (crying to death)."
"Not sisters, are you serious?"
"Why can't you think about it?"
"Because she just turned eighteen~"
There is a picture.
Poof~
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Lin Feng: "Having said that, regarding this relationship just now, I see that many people on public television have different opinions.
Some say girls have no conscience,
Some say boys are irresponsible.
In fact, everyone has his own focus in life, and they are different.
Just like what I said during Lianmai, one of them is a love brain and the other is a career brain.
No one is right or wrong.
This is all caused by everyone's different growth experiences, different personal living environments, and different family backgrounds.
Essentially,
The more a person lacks something, the more he actually wants it.
If a child from a poor family is really poor, what he actually wants most is to get ahead,
What I want most is to transcend classes,
What they want most is freedom of wealth and realizing their own value in life.
As she slowly grows up and enters society,
He will become very, very enterprising.
At the same time, she is bound to be weaker emotionally.
So for a person like this, he actually thinks it's okay no matter who is by his side.
Because he doesn't put his heart into running a relationship, relationships are actually dispensable to him.
Because all his attention and energy are focused on his career.
He couldn't take care of the emotional aspect.
The other way around,
If a person has not had love since childhood, his entire life will focus on finding a relationship, or a partner.
Then at this time, relatively speaking, his ambition will be slightly weaker.
If he meets someone with a stronger ambition, then they will definitely not be able to understand each other during their relationship.
So I say they are people from two worlds.
To be honest, these are all personal life choices, there is no right or wrong.
It’s just their past experiences that we can’t really evaluate,
You can only break up if it's not suitable, don't torture each other.
However, my personal suggestion is that if you are a love brain, it is really not suitable to find a career brain to fall in love.
Because compared to people who are very ambitious, he doesn't care who is by his side. He only needs this one person.
Moreover, people who are very career-minded are less likely to choose love.
He will choose a partner who can help and support him in his career.
This partner must have good resources, or good connections.
To put it bluntly, this kind of person is relatively snobbish.
To put it nicely, they are more able to realize their self-worth quickly.
So oops, how do I talk about this?
In order to prevent brothers from encountering this situation in the future, I suggest that you ask someone directly next time you meet him,
A good partner and a good career, which one would you choose?
Then if he chooses a career, then you will know that he is not suitable for you.
Because the focus of his future life will not be on you,
Even if you are angry, he will not say that he is very patient to comfort you.
Therefore, it not only depends on what you want to choose, but also what the other party wants to choose.
In fact, no matter which choice we make, we have nothing to complain about.
Well, if your family background is a bit different, you might also choose a career, right?
In short, if you are a love-minded person and you meet a career-minded person, you should turn around and leave immediately.
Because he can't give you the love you want.
You also need to find a love brain,
Some people say that the love brain and the love brain are together, so don’t live life and just fall in love?
Not really.
When your love brain and love brain are together, you will think about how to manage the relationship with him, how should I pamper him,
He is angry, what should I do?
Moreover, if the love brain and the love brain are together, they can fight together.
They are willing to fight for our little family.
Therefore, two love brains can manage their relationship and struggle together when they are together.
But his career brain is different. He is indeed more realistic,
Regardless of whether he is a boy or a girl, because he is more self-centered, he doesn’t care much about your feelings, and he doesn’t care much about managing the relationship and family.
And the career brain won’t like the love brain,
Because your love brain will create an obstacle to his world, which will not help at all and will also hinder him.
Being together means tormenting each other.
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"This is a good idea. Before falling in love, ask the other person whether they are career-minded or love-minded."
"Haha, when you ask a question about love, you talk about cold violence."
"Hahaha, clicked."
"I really don't understand. People nowadays are either pretending to be in love or pretending to be i-people."
"Hey, this enthusiastic puppy of mine is about to have breast nodules. He really can't give me any emotion at all. I feel wronged. He thinks I have too many things." "As a business person, I want to say Yes, it is true that we are more selfish as we are career-minded, especially those with poor financial conditions at home, and we can be very picky, but career-minded people are not suitable to be together with career-minded people. If two people do not manage their relationship, sooner or later the relationship will break up. , so the career brain also needs the company of the love brain.”
“I just want both!”
"That's too unfair to the love brain."
The river flows: "To put it simply and concisely, when your material world is rich, you will look for things in the spiritual world. When your spiritual world is rich, you will look for things in the material world. In the end, people will feel that they are both. All lacking.”
Brother, this is so insightful!
. . . . .
Next.
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor."
It's a boy.
Lin Feng: "What's wrong, bro, have you encountered any emotional problems?"
Boy: "Military advisor, as a scumbag, I really want to return to my family, but sometimes I can't control myself, so I want to learn from you how to control myself, whether it's this kind of emotion or desire. ”
Lin Feng raised his head and glanced at the camera: "You want to ask me how the scumbag got ashore?"
"Yes, yes, yes."
Lin Feng: "Then let me ask you a question first. What is the starting point for us to fall in love? Or what do you want to gain in a relationship?"
Boy: "Commander, let me tell you first, I already have a happy family."
? ? ?
Lin Feng: "Even if you are married, your extramarital life is still colorful?"
"Yes, yes, yes."
Lin Feng: "Brother, then you don't want to be a scumbag, you are a scumbag!"
Well. .
The boy was silent for a while: "Okay, I admit it."
I am indeed sorry for my wife and my family, but military advisor, can you understand this contradiction?
I like this colorful life, but at the same time I feel huge guilt and guilt, and I am afraid of the impact of family changes on my future life.
I'm just worried, I want to control it, but I can't. ”
Lin Feng: "Brother, let me tell you a question. Do you know the difference between humans and animals?"
For example, cats and dogs,
When small animals get angry,
They will randomly choose to smell the little butts of kittens and dogs first on the street, and then take advantage of them when the other person is not paying attention, you know.
This is a dog!
And people, why are they called people?
Because people have the ability to regulate themselves.
When you do not have this ability, but are blindly pursuing freshness and excitement,
Believe me.
Your final end is destined to be loneliness and loneliness.
Because you will never feel the meaning of working together in a marriage.
The ups and downs that two people have gone through along the way and the feeling of becoming each other's psychological support.
Tell the truth, bro,
In fact, I refuse to answer questions like yours in the live broadcast room,
Because I have personal bottom lines and principles,
I taught you that it's not fair to treat another girl.
But I think you really want to return to your family. Can you understand? ”
The boy nodded: "I understand, thank you, military advisor. I really want to return to my family, but sometimes I can't control it."
Lin Feng: "Well, the military advisor will tell you a cruel truth today."
With that said, Lin Feng looked back at Yu Huanshui.
The latter understands,
Immediately push the big whiteboard behind you.
Lin Feng walked to the whiteboard,
While drawing with a water pen, he preached.
"Brother, to put it bluntly, your awareness of marriage is not strong enough and your loyalty in relationships is not high enough. This is a waste for yourself,
Because you will fall into an endless cycle of pursuing novelty.
You remember,
It is human nature to pursue novelty.
But loyalty is a human choice.
If you persist in pursuing novelty, you will find that there is always someone better,
There is always someone who will bring you different excitement.
What's the result?
The result is that you can't win anyone's heart.
Your wife will divorce you.
Your children will disown you.
Even your relatives and friends around you will stay away from you.
Your final end is to lie on a hospital bed in Yanglao Hospital with no one around you.
Of course,
It’s not like there’s really no one there.
There are also helpers.
But don't be happy.
Are the nurses here to take care of you?
Wrong.
When you shit your pants pockets, when you don’t take medicine and sleep.
He will beat you like crazy.
He'll hit you over the head with a stainless steel bowl.
He will slap you 100 times in half an hour.
When your face is swollen, your teeth are missing, and your mouth is full of blood, he will laugh at you crazily, you old man, you have no family anyway, no one will care even if I beat you to death.
At that time,
When you think back to the first half of your life, do you regret it? ”
As Lin Feng finished speaking, his last stroke was also made.
Move sideways to get out of the way.
Under the camera, a creepy picture appeared on the whiteboard.
That was the life of a prodigal.
From the days of debauchery and debauchery when I was young, I never go home at night.
In middle age, wives and children are separated, and family wealth is exhausted.
In the end, he became seriously ill in old age and lay alone in a hospital bed in Yanglao Hospital.
The young waiter next to me was arrogant and abusive.
Not far away, old men of the same age were lying or sitting, all describing themselves as emaciated and with numb eyes. . . .
(End of chapter)