Chapter 197 These two brothers are invincible
On the barrage.
"Holy shit! I'm getting goosebumps!"
"It's so scary."
"It was as if I had seen the life of a scumbag."
“It’s so picturesque.”
"Not all of them will survive to a nursing home, and some will be killed by a mistress. That's what happened to my family. They were sent to heaven early."
Nani?
"True and False (Horror)"
"Happy."
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"Good luck picking you up!"
Damn it!
You~
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Brother, don't think I'm an alarmist. You can look at your friends around you or some of the stories you heard in the news and newspapers.
Any man who betrays his marriage and his family will not end well.
Why?
Very simple.
Because such men cannot escape three painful prices in the end.
The first one has a bad reputation and is betrayed by everyone.
You are messing around outside,
First of all, your reputation in your circle of friends will be ruined.
Even though your friends usually laugh and laugh with you, they will criticize you behind your back.
When things are revealed and your reputation is ruined, you will definitely be betrayed by everyone.
Second, your bad behavior will directly affect your children and the elderly at home.
Your children will be laughed at by their classmates and feel inferior because of you,
Your parents will also live in the gossips of the neighbors all day long. The most important thing is that they are over fifty and cannot hold their heads up.
Your wife will never love you again.
Third, wait until you have nothing left, then walk back like a lost dog, eager for your wife's forgiveness.
Maybe she would maintain this marriage because of the children, but she has long been heartbroken.
It is no longer possible to show 100% love and trust.
Especially when you get older and start going to the hospital, you will suffer a lot because no one will care about you.
So your final destination can only be a nursing home. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"The military adviser is absolutely right. Men pay great attention to integrity when doing business outside. If the character of this partner is not good, basically everyone will guard against him. I remember what my boss said before. He said that he doesn't even care about his wife. Do you have integrity for your partners? ”
"You think all your friends will say you are awesome, but in reality, the things they say about you behind your back are all making fun of you."
"Anyway, you really can't make money by messing around, and it's gone right away. There are people like this around you, and it keeps going downhill."
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Man: "Thank you, military advisor. You put it so straightforwardly. I know what to do."
Lin Feng: "Okay, let's live a good life with my wife."
The wheat is hung up,
Lin Feng turned back to Yu Huanshui and said, "How about Brother Shui, I saved another one, am I awesome or not?"
Yu Huanshui nodded: "Awesome."
At first, he thought the live broadcasts were all the kind of ignorant online beggars.
Sitting here, he truly felt that Lin Feng was doing something very meaningful.
Not only Yu Huanshui said he was awesome.
The barrage that fills the screen is all awesome.
For a time, all kinds of gifts filled the live broadcast room.
Lin Feng took a sip of water, patted the big whiteboard behind him and said to the live broadcast room.
"Brothers, keep the picture I drew today firmly in your mind. When you can't control it, just think about this picture.
My wife hates you,
Your parents blame you,
The child disowns you,
You may even get sick and die.
Aren't you afraid?
The rich will become poorer if they are unfaithful, and the poor will become poorer if they are unfaithful.
All this is caused by desire and greed.
Don't think how good the women outside are. If she was really good, she wouldn't be entangled with a man with a family.
So wake up.
Once you base your happiness on your partner's pain, you will be left with only a broken home in the end,
A devastated marriage,
A ruined body,
And a rotten reputation.
Heed the advice of your military advisor and return to your family as soon as possible before your lover completely gives up on you. ”
OK.
This topic ends here.
The strategist is now extremely logical.
Hurry up and get the next one.
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor."
It's a girl.
Lin Feng: "Hello, tell me about your situation."
"Military advisor, I am 26 years old and he is the same age as me. We have been married for two years and have a child."
Lin Feng: "In a married family, how old are the children?"
"One year and three months old."
Lin Feng: "So what problem are you encountering now?"
"I have no problem with my husband, but I have a little problem with my mother-in-law."
Lin Feng: "There is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Do you and your mother-in-law live together?"
"No, we live separately now."
Lin Feng: "Who will take care of the child? Is it the mother-in-law?"
"No, no, I will take care of it myself."
Lin Feng: "If we live separately and take care of the children by ourselves, there shouldn't be any conflict with my mother-in-law."
"It's just that I'm too tired to take care of the child by myself. I need her to help me take care of the child for two or three days a month, but my mother-in-law refuses."
Lin Feng: "What's the reason?"
"Because we have a small factory ourselves, and she needs to be busy with the factory work, and also needs to cook for the apprentices we hired. She also has a small vegetable garden, and the most important thing is that my sister-in-law is only 11 years old. He needs Take care of your daughter.”
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Lin Feng: "No, sister, you have made it very clear. It's not that my mother-in-law doesn't help you with it, it's because she is too busy!"
"I know, but I feel uncomfortable!"
Lin Feng: "Don't feel uncomfortable, sister, since the other party has a factory in his home, your husband's income should be pretty good, so there is no need to make this matter so complicated. Just hire a nanny.
As for how to communicate and get along with elders, to put it bluntly, the best way to get along is not to get along with them.
For the elderly, as long as we fulfill our filial duty, we should not ask the elderly to pay anything more for us. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage. "The military advisor said it very well. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is indeed not good. The best way is not to get along."
"I am not afraid of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but I am most afraid of a husband who wants his wife and mother to stay together."
"Really, my husband just wanted to take it easy for himself, so he left us at home so that his mother could not go to work and take care of the baby with me. As a result, there were a lot of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law."
"Actually, it's better if your mother-in-law is not strong. If your mother-in-law is strong, it will be annoying to have a husband who makes you and your mother-in-law get along for a long time."
"It's enough to treat each other with respect and treat each other as guests. It's good to give gifts during the holidays and have dinner together. If we really live under the same roof, it won't be a good family."
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Girl: "Military advisor, listen to me. I've been watching your live broadcast for a long time. I don't know who to talk to about this. I want to tell you about my own family situation, which is a bit special.
My parents died early when I was little, and I only had one grandpa.
My brother got autism because my parents died early, and there was absolutely no one in my family who could help me.
When I used to work, my grandma was ill, and most of my money was used to treat the elderly person's illness, and I didn't have much savings.
So I have no source of income.
I really have no say in the family. I also want to hire a nanny, but my parents-in-law disagree.
My child was allergic to cow's milk protein after he was born. He grew up drinking amino acid milk powder. He has a very serious allergy.
He didn't sleep much at all until he was seven months old, and I took care of him all by myself, really from the time he was born until now. . . ”
Lin Feng raised his hand to interrupt: "Sister, you are suffering from postpartum anxiety.
If you explain it to me now, as long as you say the first sentence, you will start to think about your original family and your current pain,
You can't control your emotions now. I think it's necessary to ask your husband to come and listen. ”
Girl: "My husband hasn't come back from the factory yet. He works very hard every day. He goes to work at 7 a.m. and doesn't come back until 11 or 12 p.m."
Lin Feng: "So after you give birth to a child, it will be you and the child at home?"
"Yes!"
Lin Feng frowned: "No wonder, sister, you are suffering from typical postpartum depression. You need to let your husband know."
Girl: "I have started to see the baby in the past two days, and I feel very irritable. My head hurts and I can't sleep."
Yu Huanshui came over and said: "It is indeed postpartum depression, and it looks very serious."
Lin Feng nodded: "Sister, please stop thinking so much now, you must enter the treatment of a psychiatrist.
This is really important.
Because if you suppress it for too long, pathology will definitely remain,
And next you will find that your child is now one year old, and the one-year-old child is at a critical point that requires early childhood education from the mother,
If you are in a bad mood at this time and the care you give your child is not stable enough,
Your child is bound to have character flaws. ”
Girl: "Military advisor, friends, can you please stop scolding my husband? My husband really works very hard every day. It can be said that more than two-thirds of his income comes from his work. The money he earns is given to us. Bought a car and a house.”
Lin Feng: "Sister, you are communicating with me, don't read the barrage, listen to me, see a psychiatrist, and hire a nanny.
Do you know why I asked you to hire a nanny?
It's not about having a nanny help you take care of your kids, but having someone help you take care of your kids.
We are not just leaving our children to the nanny.
You will find that when there is someone who can help you, or there is someone else next to you, you will not be so anxious inside.
And let me tell you a very practical problem. Enjoying the services of others is a very effective way to make you feel better quickly.
Why?
Because I spend money to let others do things in our home, my status will be high,
At this time, when I watch others doing things for me, I will have a sense of superiority, which will also have a good effect on my mood.
This is human nature.
Trust my sister. ”
Girl: “But I don’t know how to communicate with my parents-in-law.”
Lin Feng pushed the microphone to Yu Huanshui: "You tell her."
Yu Huanshui: "There is no need to communicate with my sister."
Girl: “But our salary is just the way we are paid. It doesn’t mean we are given how much we earn.”
Yu Huanshui: "Is your husband's salary not enough to hire a nanny?"
Girl: “Because my child consumes that milk powder, which costs more than 5,000 yuan a month.”
Yu Huanshui glanced at Lin Feng.
Lin Feng said angrily: "It's up to you to see what I do."
Yu Huanshui: "Sister, if it doesn't work, just sell the diamond ring."
Lin Feng nodded,
Men with life experience are different.
Look at Brother Shui's thinking.
Yu Huanshui: "We sold all the diamond rings and hardware, and we all live together. Why do we keep those things? We might as well solve the current problem,
Right? Small. . Ahem, strategist. ”
Lin Feng: "Nothing wrong."
But my sister,
Sell the hardware,
But when it comes to hiring a nanny, you must let your husband take a firm stand and let him talk to your mother-in-law.
Just let him say it's what he's looking for,
The reason is also easy to explain.
It means that when I come home after a hard day at work, my wife has to take care of the children, so I can’t take care of the housework. My wife can’t take care of it, so I have to do the housework myself.
I've been working for a fucking day, and I'm so tired. What's wrong with me asking a nanny to cook for me at home and take care of the housework?
The reason is completely valid! ”
Girl: "Yes."
At this moment, she seemed to suddenly become enlightened.
Lin Feng: "Yes, sister, this method is more difficult than difficult. As long as you and your wife work together, life will get better and better."
Yu Huanshui raised his hand: "Military advisor, I have something to add."
Lin Feng: "Come and tell me."
Yu Huanshui: "Sister, Brother Shui has been here before. Let me tell you, postpartum anxiety is a mental illness.
If you can't alleviate it, you will find that your demands on your husband will gradually increase in your marriage.
You will throw all your irritability with the children, dissatisfaction with your mother-in-law, and some other messy troubles on your husband.
His life will definitely not be easy.
You will find that you will find fault with him for various little things. Even if he throws away the garbage incorrectly, you will lose your temper with him. ”
Lin Feng nodded: "Brother Shui is right, this is a disease, so don't think it is a trivial matter, it is very serious,
Because if a woman is self-isolated at home, she must sanction another person to achieve her inner sense of security,
Then your husband will suffer in the future.
And you also said that he is very tired from going to work every day.
This is likely to be your relationship crisis. ”
ah?
What should I do?
The girl was obviously panicked.
Lin Feng glanced at Yu Huanshui: "Come here, tell me."
Yu Huanshui: "First of all, you must tell your husband about your situation and let him understand you, and then see a psychiatrist to take medicine when it's time and provide counseling when it's time.
My husband can’t be so busy anymore and put his work aside
Ask him to accompany you for a walk in the park, watch a movie, buy some beautiful new clothes, and dress up your sister, and your mood will naturally improve. ”
"Thank you Brother Shui, thank you Military Advisor, thank you so much, woo woo."
The girl actually cried with excitement.
. . . .
On the barrage.
Damn it!
Gouzi: "I actually cried when I heard it, wuwu."
Stranger: "Hey, it's not easy for women either."
Xiao Wan: "I know the military advisor is so warm, but I didn't expect Brother Shui to be so warm too (crying to death)."
Brother Long: "These two are amazing! If I don't say anything else, I will be a big fan of our room from now on (awesome)."
The river flows: "Two big men made a girl with depression so obvious that it's really cool!"
Hahahahaha.
(End of chapter)