Chapter 210 He who wins his mother-in-law wins the world
On the barrage.
"Hahaha, I took down the mother-in-law again (laughing)."
"Uncle: It's not enough to take away my daughter, but also take away my wife?"
"My father-in-law: stabbed someone in the back and stole the house?"
OK OK.
"The betrothal gift is doubled, three golds are turned into five golds, and the most important thing is that now three bedrooms and one living room are not enough, I have to buy a villa (smile)."
Hahahahaha.
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Lin Feng: "So I'm telling you, buddy, don't give me a necklace, don't step on this." Remember, don't pick this
Boy: "The key necklace was chosen by my girlfriend."
Lin Feng: "It's not important, buddy. Neither of you understands the ways of the world. After you gave me the necklace, my dad gave you a red envelope worth 20,000 yuan. Tell me what the meaning of your gift is?
It makes no sense,
And people will definitely not be happy to know that? Because this is a fucking exchange. ”
Boy: "The military advisor is right."
Lin Feng: "Yeah, you can't send this thing to people's hearts. Why do you think you are sending it to me?"
Boy: "Actually, when I first started giving gifts, what I wanted to express was that I valued them."
Lin Feng: "It's okay, buddy. We're not short of money anyway. I'll give you another plan. Don't return the necklace. Just give it to your girlfriend and let her find a suitable time to give it to her dad. ”
The boy's eyes lit up: "Then the military advisor means to use this necklace as a secondary gift and replace it with the first gift?"
Lin Feng: "Yes, my first gift to my mother is a set of skin care products, beautiful."
Boy: "Okay, listen to the military advisor, but I still have a question."
Lin Feng: "Say."
Boy: "I just want to express how much I value her, because when we fell in love, we were actually rushing to get married."
Lin Feng: "This thing is simple. Don't say it directly after meeting. When we are at the dinner table, you will greet the old couple first. After the greetings, you will bring a glass of wine.
Do you understand this?
You are in the process of raising this cup, and then repeat what you want to say,
After saying that,
Just say uncle, I respect you, don't worry, I will definitely love her well in the future, and then you drink, this glass of wine will have the effect. ”
Boy: "But the problem I have now is because her situation is more complicated. Her mother thinks she is in her late teens..."
Lin Feng: "Stop talking, buddy, I understand. Then when you meet the other person's parents next, you must seize this opportunity to tell the other person's parents your plans for the future and the plans of the next two of you."
Boy: "Yes, she told me that her father wanted to know about me."
Lin Feng: "It is definitely necessary to understand, but this understanding, brother, don't get me wrong, her father does not want to understand you, but wants to understand your family. You have to understand this."
ah?
The boy was confused again.
Lin Feng smiled and said: "What the hell do you know? Her daughter can't speak for herself about her work and character, and what kind of strength can you have if you are twenty-seven?
Since your parents want to examine your future son-in-law, they must focus on examining your family background.
You remember,
We are really getting married,
He definitely doesn’t look at how you are, he must look at what your home is like,
So, buddy,
When you chat, talk more about home,
Our family is not short of money and we will give you our advantages, just tell them.
What is the character of your parents at home? What do you think of girls? You should try your best to beautify them.
In short,
Let’s chat based on whether we can help out at home after we get married.
This way the other parent can feel more at ease and feel more at ease. ”
Boy: "I'll go, the military advisor is really awesome. If you didn't say this, I wouldn't even realize it."
Lin Feng smiled and said: "It's rewarding, right? Remember to give me a sports car when you go down."
"A must."
Lin Feng: "Okay, if there's no problem, let's go down."
"Waiting for the military advisor, I found out that her father was an official. I was a little nervous."
Lin Feng: "Damn it! Second generation official, man, this is a good thing, you are so nervous."
Remember buddy,
There is another human touch here,
Let me ask you, what is the most important thing for an official?
The boy thought for a while and said: "Face."
Lin Feng: "What else is there besides face?"
The boy thought for a long time and didn't know.
Lin Feng clicked on the blackboard and wrote two big characters.
‘Praise’
Lin Feng: "They like to be teachers, and they prefer to listen to flattery, so when you chat with her father, the main focus is to ask for advice, listen more, agree, and flatter her."
The boy was stunned.
Lin Feng: "Finally, remember one thing, buddy. This is also the most important point. When you meet the girl's parents for the first time, there is a high probability that they will not accept you.
This is human nature.
Have you ever seen any parents who have raised a daughter for more than 20 years. When she brings a boy home, the parents will say, Hey, you are finally here. I have wanted to get rid of my daughter for a long time.
Give, give, give.
If you hear what the other person’s parents say, you won’t be frightened to death.
Wondering if there is something wrong with her daughter?
Because everyone knows that good things cannot be given to you casually.
Brother, your taste,
Is this true?
So when you go to meet your parents for the first time, you need to be mentally prepared.
It’s impossible for the woman’s parents to treat you like an uncle as soon as they leave, and they can’t provide for you.
People may even be a little indifferent.
But remember, if someone can have a meal with you or talk to you, that’s already very good.
After all, their precious girls were fucked by pigs, do you still want them to smile at pigs? ”
Well. .
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On the barrage.
"The Girl Was Fucked by a Pig" "You still want me to smile at the pig?" 》
Hahahaha, so philosophical.
"Really, in the first year I went, my father-in-law was very indifferent and threatened me. But in the second year, things got better. He greeted me with a smile and gave me a red envelope (laughing)."
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"Me too. It was not good to pick me when we first met, but things got better the second time we met. The third time we met was the day before yesterday, and they gave me 1,000 red envelopes (haha)."
"Haha, it's so true. In the first year when I went to my fiancée's house, my father-in-law said one thing to me the whole time. We were still a few months away from getting married. During the Chinese New Year, I was given red envelopes and cigarettes. I was confused."
"Haha, father-in-laws are the same all over the world (laughing to death)."
"I went to my girlfriend's house for the first time. Her dog is my best friend (poor)."
“I specifically asked my girlfriend, she doesn’t have a dog at home (crying to death).”
"Can't you bring a dog with you (sunglasses)?"
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Hahahahaha.
"Wrong, it will be like this if you raise it for 20 years, but it won't be the same if you raise it for 30 years (dog head)."
"You are so right. My mother gave me a big red envelope (grin) the first time she met my partner."
"I wish I could get married right here (covering my face and laughing)."
"Brothers, have you heard it? Let's talk about going to 30 before going (sunglasses)."
You boy,
Hahahahaha.
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Lin Feng: "Okay, buddy, let's get down."
"Yeah, thank you, military advisor."
The wheat is hung up,
Lin Feng said to the live broadcast room:
"Brothers, if you are a social terror because you talk stupidly and others are stupid, then when you meet the girl's parents for the first time, you must pay attention to the gift.
There is no secret to giving gifts to elders.
Just remember three words: a waste of money.
What a waste of money?
It's just a waste of something they think is a waste, but they really want it.
As for what they want most, it depends on your girlfriend.
Let her go and inquire with her parents, mainly chatting with them, and then come back and tell you quietly.
But don't be like my buddy's girlfriend just now, who didn't ask questions when she didn't understand, and just thought about it on her own.
After thinking about it, but before the gifts were given out, I told my parents what my boyfriend bought and how much it cost.
Isn't this just out of mind? ”
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On the barrage.
"I used to sneer at it, but now my boyfriend and I analyze it coolly and learn it coolly (grin)."
"Really, my boyfriend bought a bunch of medicinal materials for making wine, and my mother said no, but in the end, she was thinking about making wine."
"Haha, it means you got the right gift."
"It made me laugh. It reminded me of the first time my brother-in-law came to my house. He brought me two large boxes of snacks and bought gifts for my parents. After my brother-in-law left, my dad said he was here to see me. , or are you here to see your little sister?”
"Then are you satisfied (dog head)."
"Look at my little sister, hahaha."
"Her dad said that he has recently fallen in love with a Cadillac."
"Why, her dad wants to wash her feet."
"Find a relationship and ask her dad to be the security guard (dog head) of the 4S store."
"If there's nothing wrong with you, just go and see (sunglasses) every day."
Get out!
Hahahahaha.
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Lin Feng: "To be honest, brothers, whether the first meeting can be successful depends entirely on whether the gifts are given properly,
Remember,
Everyone is real and real,
Human nature is a thing that is hard to handle,
When your financial conditions allow, you give your father-in-law wine, you can rectify the situation, try your best to rectify it,
Although in person, parents will say: Oh, my children, why are you coming home to buy these things? It’s just a waste of money. It’s not easy for you young people.
But don’t worry,
When you leave, they will immediately go to the cigarette shop to ask,
Asked how much the wine cost.
Regardless of whether he scans the QR code at home or asks relatives and friends outside, he will 100% ask,
If this gift is well given, he will think that the boy is quite generous, which is good.
Then your success rate will skyrocket by hundreds of percentage points. ”
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On the barrage.
"Whatever you buy for the first time, you can't lower the grade for the holidays later. You can taste it yourself."
"What do I mean? I pulled my marriage certificate and took something (a dog head) from my father-in-law's house."
"If we really get married, his girl won't even let her buy it."
"Haha indeed."
"Brothers, with a monthly income of 8,000, what should I give as a gift when I go to meet each other's parents immediately?"
"Wangzi gift package, Coke, Sprite, soy milk, her brother is so happy."
"My brother-in-law is the only one who agrees, right?"
Ha ha ha ha.
"Then with a monthly salary of 2,000, what kind of wine can I buy to meet my father-in-law?"
"Don't buy wine, just get a B-ultrasound order, and it's the kind that's already formed and can't be taken."
"Remember to dye your hair yellow."
"Don't say harsh words (sunglasses) before leaving."
Damn it!
It's poisonous, you guys.
Hahahahaha.
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Lin Feng: "Can you guys be serious? I'm going to teach you how to deal with your future father-in-law and mother-in-law. Are you going to listen?"
Listen to it. . .
The brothers in Gongping immediately became honest.
Before Lin Feng could continue to speak, Yu Huanshui had already understood and pulled the big whiteboard behind him closer.
Then taking the pen that was handed to him, Lin Feng stood in front of the whiteboard and started the class.
"Do you really think I was joking when I told that guy to take down my mother-in-law?
Do you know what this is called?
Lin Feng wrote in several big characters:
This is called the mother-in-law who wins the world!
If you can take down your mother-in-law, I tell you, there is no girl who says she can’t take her off.
So how can we win over the mother-in-law?
Just giving gifts,
Send to death.
Give her whatever she likes.
Don't waste your time on daily necessities, food and drink.
Do you remember, what is mother-in-law first?
It's a woman!
There is no woman in the world who doesn’t love beauty and dressing up.
Skin care products, beauty products, clothes, shoes, bags.
No matter how beautiful it is, you can give it as a gift.
You can’t just give the gift itself,
You have to be careful, it's best to write a letter and stuff it inside.
It doesn't matter if you can't write this letter.
There are many people writing copywriting on Taobao. If you transfer 99 yuan to them, then this project can take off for you.
So this is a detail, and his emotions must be brought into place.
If you feel it's not enough, you want to do better.
Then you not only want to send it to your mother-in-law, but also to your mother-in-law’s best friend.
If you can take down your mother-in-law's best friend, this latitude is completely different.
If you can figure out this card clearly, let me tell you, then you will be in trouble.
As for how to give gifts to mother-in-law and best friends?
It's definitely not sent directly from you.
You have to tell your mother-in-law: Auntie, I bought a little too much. Do you have any sisters, or do you have any best friends? You can give this to your best friend.
Remember,
Borrow your mother-in-law's hand and give it to her best friend, and your mother-in-law's reputation will immediately rise to a new level.
This emotional value, you can directly fill it with your old mother-in-law.
Because after she gives it away, if people in the circle around her say oh, this guy is really good, then you have won, buddy.
So why do I say that giving gifts directly determines the favorability and success rate of the first meeting.
Because there are too many things here.
A smart person will win as soon as he takes action.
And you are still foolishly thinking about conquering the other person's family with your own personal charm.
Of course,
If you're really that charming, just pretend I didn't say it. ”
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On the barrage.
"He who wins the mother-in-law wins the world" "Not only the mother-in-law, but also her best friend"
I'm kidding!
Really improved my knowledge.
"It means catching the thief first and catching the king first (laughing to death)."
"I have a question, what should I do if my mother-in-law falls in love with my son-in-law (smile)."
"You guys really dare to think!"
Ha ha ha ha.
"Why didn't you say this earlier? I won't see it until I lose it."
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Lin Feng: "If you learn this trick, you can basically win over 80% of the families in the country. The other 20% will be the father who is in charge.
This requires us to distinguish who is the king in the family.
If it is a family relationship where the father-in-law is the dominant one.
Then we have to find a way to hold the old man down first.
How to press?
Or give gifts.
Men are much simpler than women, just smoking and drinking.
Don’t send frivolous things at this time, just send the wine directly to Moutai,
Brothers, never be stingy at a critical time,
If you send Wuliangye at this time, you are stingy, you know,
At this time, Maotai is a must. As soon as Maotai comes up, the whole person loses his hair.
If you smoke, it must be Huazi,
Never buy a hard case, buy a soft case directly and get it right in one step.
Not only that, you have to remember several festivals a year.
Not only do I need to prepare gifts for my girlfriend, I also need to prepare gifts for my mother-in-law.
I want to give them all this Valentine’s Day and Children’s Day.
But you can’t give gifts directly to your mother-in-law. You have to give them to your father-in-law and let him deliver them.
At this time, the emotions are in place,
You have helped him maintain his relationship and take care of his wife's emotions,
Then my daughter’s emotions must be more in place,
My father-in-law will definitely be relieved and satisfied with you.
Listen to my brothers, I tell you there is no mother-in-law or father-in-law that you cannot win.
Do you know what this is called?
This is called fission in service marketing!
How about it guys.
Do you want to do something useful or not?
Awesome or not?
You can also hear it in the Military Advisor live broadcast room. ”
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On the barrage.
"Helping my father-in-law prepare holiday gifts"
I'll be a good boy!
"Is this what normal people can think of?"
"I don't believe you when you say you haven't had a hundred and eighty girlfriends."
"I seriously suspect that this guy has raised the bar for face-to-face gifts (dog head)."
Ha ha ha ha.
"A box of Maotai, two soft sticks, La Mer's full set of skin care products, bird's nest and donkey hide gelatin, these are all standard. Then buy some things according to your hobbies, remember your preferences, and prescribe the right medicine. You want the lining to be lining, and you want to have face to have face. What's the matter? No, it’s just about whether you have enough rice in your wallet.”
“A box of Maotai???”
"Brother, are you lacking a partner? Your gender is stuck."
Ha ha ha ha.
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"@strategist, apart from preparing gifts, what should I pay attention to when I go to my girlfriend's house first? I will go tomorrow, hurry!"
Lin Feng: "No, buddy, don't your adults teach you about this? Come here and ask me this late at night."
"Dad!"
OK!
Lin Feng smiled and nodded: "Then I will teach you."
There was laughter on the public screen.
Sure enough, there is no man that dad can't handle.
Military advisors are no exception!
Ha ha ha ha.
Lin Feng: “It’s the first time I go to the woman’s house. As an inexperienced boy, it is true that many details are easily overlooked.
Don’t go if you say things like ‘not thinking about it’ or ‘just take it one step at a time’.
Because we may have laid the groundwork for a long time before we met, the impression is very good,
It may turn out that the first time you meet, you fail to notice or ignore many details, causing the interview to overturn.
Remember, if the interview is not a bonus, I would rather not meet.
So how can I get extra points?
It's actually not difficult.
I will only say it once. Brothers in need can record and save the screen. It is recommended to watch it again and again.
Okay,
Let’s get to the point.
What details should you pay attention to when going to your girlfriend's house for the first time?
I summarized ten points.
Dress appropriately and remember to bring gifts, it goes without saying.
Next comes the key point,
First, put away all the exaggerated jewelry and don’t bring it with you. When you enter the house, be sure to give gifts to your parents with both hands,
If the gifts are too many and too heavy, help carry them to the right place in the house.
Second, you should ask your elders if they need to change their shoes. If they say no, you should also say by the way, I'm afraid it will be too hard for you to mop the floor.
These are all details,
Some brothers may not think anything of it because they are so careless, but this is all a plus,
1 point + 1 point. Quantitative changes lead to qualitative changes. It’s really not as simple as you think.
Third, if your elders don’t smoke or don’t take out cigarettes first, you shouldn’t smoke.
Because not every family likes this thing, the mother-in-law’s feelings are mainly considered.
Fourth, when the other person’s parents are cooking, don’t play with your phone all the time. You can go into the kitchen and ask if there is anything you need help with?
But the other parent will most likely say no, and at this time we will come out and clear the table for dinner.
Fifth, when eating, you should wait for your elders to take their seats before you take your seat. If your elders move their chopsticks, then you move your chopsticks.
When sitting, you must have a sitting posture and when standing, do not shake your legs.
It will give people a feeling of instability.
Sixth, when toasting to elders, you should hold the glass with both hands, and the rim of the glass is slightly lower than the other person. Pay attention to your drinking capacity. No matter how big or small you are, don’t drink too much or lose your composure, because you still need to show off later.
Seventh, during the meal, you must bring more food to your girlfriend and say that this is what you like to eat. You must be considerate. Even if you don’t have this habit, you must pretend to be.
Many people may ignore this issue. You may think it's nothing, but your other parent is always observing you and will say you are inconsiderate.
Eighth, don’t talk too much when chatting after a meal, don’t behave intimately with your girlfriend, or be glib and exaggerate yourself, hoping that the other party will think highly of you.
Many people have this idea, but it’s not necessary.
It must be sincere.
Because he is who he is, and lies will be exposed one day,
It will be very troublesome then,
And it will cause the woman to have more and more demands.
In short, don't put yourself too high.
Ninth, when elders speak, listen patiently and think about it before expressing your thoughts.
If the other party says something you don’t want to hear or don’t like, don’t rush to refute it,
You must remember that if you perform well this time, you will have many opportunities in the future.
The last point is the most important. When you mention marriage to the girl’s parents, you must not talk about it directly. You must slowly pave the way. Tell your elders that you have been together for a while and your relationship is stable, and then praise your girlfriend. Advantages, express your love for your girlfriend again,
Then I had plans to get married, and the two of them discussed it.
Then express your thoughts about getting married and tell me about your family background and family affairs,
Don't think about it, just take it one step at a time, don't talk about it, and don't go see it.
If you talk to your elders about something that you have never thought of, you can say that I haven't thought about it yet and I want to think about it seriously.
Remember, marriage is not a matter between two people. It is two families trying to form a third family, so it must be considered comprehensively.
If you don't answer well, it will make people feel insecure and unreliable. Who dares to leave their daughter to an unreliable person? ”
After listening to these things, many brothers may not agree with it, thinking that they have a good relationship with their girlfriends anyway, so there is no need to bother.
But I want to tell you, these are not troubles, they are a person's basic etiquette. The most important thing is that he loves your girlfriend as a manifestation.
Because you love her very much, you want to behave well in front of her parents.
Not so that her parents can compliment you, but after you leave, they will say to your girlfriend, "Daughter, you have really good taste."
(End of chapter)