Chapter 216 If the dog barks again, everyone will be kicked out
Lin Feng: "Brothers, what do you say about this thing?
In fact, many times people can't communicate with each other, not even couples.
You said from a boy's perspective: I work hard for my career, for social connections, and for my family, to make progress and work hard so that my family can live a better life.
Maybe from the woman’s perspective: I’m tired of leaving the house alone, I’m free and happy outside, I don’t take a shower when I come back, I don’t care about my body, who cares about you if you get sick all the time. ”
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On the barrage.
"With a salary of 3,000 yuan and socializing every day, of course I will complain about you. You have a salary of 3,000 yuan. Do you see if there are any complaints (dog head)."
"Wrong. I am a 40-year-old person who has not drank alcohol for half my life. I can balance work and family."
"Brother, that's just your industry, or you are very capable, but others are not you. You may be able to do something with two glasses of wine. I want to drink until my stomach bleeds. Can you say that I don't want to do it easily? ”
"Yeah, maybe you have a good education, a good job, and even good family conditions, but I don't. If I don't pretend to be a grandson, who will care about me? Now I have to find a related household to sweep the streets (cry to death). ”
"It really hurts my back to stand and talk. I was negotiating with my boss about the order, and the person on the other side said that if you drink 10 of this 52-degree cup, I will give you the work of the container. Do you want me to drink it or not (grin)?"
"Yes, people are different. You can't use your work style to trick others. After all, the circles are different, the bosses are different, and the Party A is also different."
Stop making noise!
Let me summarize.
The river flows: "To make money is called socializing, and to make no money is called fooling around (smile)."
Brother,
Heartbreaking.
Hahahahaha.
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Everyone on the public screen has their own opinions.
Lin Feng touched his stomach and felt a little hungry.
"Brother Shui, how about some takeout?"
Yu Huanshui looked at the time: "It's more expensive to order takeout. I'll go back and see what's left in the refrigerator. I'll make some."
"That's great."
Lin Feng has tasted Brother Shui's craftsmanship, so he has nothing to say.
"Okay, you live broadcast first, I'll bring it over when I'm ready."
"OK! By the way, here's the door key. Take it with you. I won't have to open the door for you later."
"Okay!"
Yu Huanshui took the key and stood up to leave.
Lin Feng stretched and Lian Mai continued.
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor."
It's a boy.
Lin Feng: "Hello, buddy, what problem have you encountered."
"Hello, Military Advisor, I am 28 this year and she is 25. We have been married for two years."
Lin Feng: "Do you have any children?"
"Yes."
Lin Feng: "How big is it?"
"Seven months."
Lin Feng: "What's the problem now?"
"At that time, the average price here was 1.2 million, so I gave him 700,000, so the relationship between her and his family was not good."
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Raymond Lam: "What kind of thing has an average price of 1.2 million?"
"It's just a gift."
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Lin Feng: "You're going to get a fucking wife from Mars for a gift of 1.2 million."
"I couldn't afford 1.2 million, so I only gave 700,000."
Lin Feng: "700,000 is scary. No, buddy, where are you from?"
"My FJ's."
Lin Feng looked at the live broadcast room: "Is this place so awesome, brothers?"
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On the barrage.
"FJ dared to ask for 1.2 million, so the dowry should be quite a lot."
"A serious girl from F state, if the bride price is 120, congratulations on making money, the dowry will definitely be several times that."
"Yes, my nephew gave me 2 million as a gift when he married his wife, but in return he received a BMW and a house."
"Why did our in-laws, FJ, only have a bride price of 200,000 yuan (confused)?"
"There are more than 100,000 yuan in the urban area, and it is close to the high point of the coastal town."
"The man gave 1 million, and the woman paid back more than 1 million."
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Lin Feng: "It seems that is indeed the case for you, but brothers, we don't have to take less dowry, right?"
Boy: "What dowry? Zero, no."
Lin Feng: "No, there are no quilts?"
Boy: "Yes, I don't even have a quilt. I bought them all myself."
Lin Feng: "Is the other party's family condition very good?"
“Absolutely so.”
Lin Feng: "Above you?"
"No."
Lin Feng: "Does this 1.2 million include a house?"
“We don’t buy houses here, we all build houses by ourselves.”
Lin Feng nodded: "How many floors are there?"
"Fifth floor!"
I knock,
Big villa, man.
Lin Feng: "700,000 gift, plus a five-story villa, what the hell do you need a bicycle for?"
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On the barrage.
"Let me tell you the truth, FJ people, are all your five-story villas?"
"My house has an elevator on the seventh floor (dog head)."
"Sisters, are you looking for a son-in-law? One whose last name is yours (wink)."
"Sister, I am your half-sister. Let me live here too (shy)."
"As a Fujianese, I didn't believe it at first, until I went to Quanzhou and really saw many five- and six-story large villas (envy)."
"How on earth do they make money? (Confused)."
"You can do business if you are smart."
"I'm sorry, there are two kinds of people in FJ, the rich lucky people, and the poor people like me (smile)."
"I am the same as you, but a little different. I am a Jianren (sunglasses) without blessings."
"Then I am the fourth type, a Jianren who has neither money nor fortune (crying)."
It breaks my heart, old man.
Ha ha ha ha.
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Lin Feng: "No matter what, you have been married for two years and have children. What other problems are there?"
Boy: "I don't know either. She used to be on the phone with her mother all the time, and she didn't quarrel with me very much at that time. She stopped calling me recently, and she quarreled with me every day."
Lin Feng: "What are you arguing about? There must be something specific, right?"
Boy: "Let's just talk about last night. I just didn't wash the dishes, so you made trouble with me,
Because I do cross-border business, I am quite busy, and I may not be in a good mood, so I get impatient.
Then I ignored her today. I went out to socialize in the evening. I haven’t gone back yet. I’m on the side of the road and don’t want to go back.
Then she NMS me vigorously on WeChat and asked me if I was on the road, ouch. ”
Lin Feng: "Brother, please stay off the road. I can hear the cars whizzing by. It's so late at night, and I'm afraid something will happen to you."
Boy: "It doesn't matter. I didn't drive. I was parked on the side of the road. Let me tell you a military counselor. When we first got married, we had no money because my pockets were all empty."
Lin Feng: "Didn't you bring back the 700,000 yuan gift, buddy?"
The boy smiled: "How can I bring it back to you?"
Lin Feng: "Isn't it also in your wife's hands?"
Boy: "Yes, it's all in the hands of her parents."
Lin Feng shook his head: "You said that when we start a new family together, the purpose of the bride price is to use it for the couple's joint expenses and raising children after we get married.
But some girls think that if this gift is placed in the hands of their parents, it can be used as a guarantee for my marriage.
Once you divorce me, at least I will still have 700,000 guaranteed.
But it turns out that 700,000 cannot guarantee anything, nor can it determine your future happiness in life.
I often tell my brothers that a couple working together and being of one mind is the foundation for happiness. ”
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On the barrage.
"I was in a first love relationship for five years. The bride price was 180,000 yuan, and the engagement fee was 66,000 yuan. In addition, her name was written on the real estate certificate. She said that the bride price and the real estate certificate were to protect the woman. I fell silent after hearing this. I gave the woman the security. But who will protect me?”
"You thought your friendship would allow you to talk about feelings, but you didn't expect that in the end it was a deal (smile)."
Why!
"Actually, I think a girl should not only take home the bride price, but her parents' family should also accompany them half of it. They live a good life for their children, not a poor family or a rich family."
Like.
"Haha, let alone bringing it back, my dad would be happy if I could bring half of it back."
"My mother is the same. She keeps the bride price in her own hands and doesn't give her a dime. I'm so angry. I won't support her in her old age in the future. Let her keep the money to support herself in her old age."
"Shouldn't the bride price be the start-up capital given by the parents to the new couple to start a small family? Is there anything to discuss about this?"
"But some people don't think so (dog head)."
Got it!
It's all selfish!
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Boy: "When we had a fight, she would bring up the gift and said I had a bad attitude." Lin Feng laughed: "What kind of attitude do you need for a gift of 700,000 yuan?"
Boy: "Because she asked for 1.2 million, but I didn't give it to her. Her father said angrily in the end that she didn't necessarily want 1.2 million, but just wanted to see my attitude. Then my wife became even more angry with me."
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Lin Feng shook his head: "Brother, please wake up and don't be misled."
As he spoke, he knocked on the small blackboard and said: "Do you know the logic behind this? It's like someone asking you whether money or face is more important?
Let me tell you, the answer is definitely money.
For example, if a person with an annual income of tens of millions gives you a gift of 500,000 yuan, this attitude seems not very good, right?
And for a person with an annual income of 50,000 yuan, if he gives you a gift of 80,000 yuan, this attitude is beyond words.
So which one do you choose?
No fool would choose 500,000.
Therefore, this so-called attitude is nothing more than a fig leaf for marriage sellers.
The so-called attitude of giving money and gifts is used to embarrass the poor.
I say I don't care about your poverty, I only care about your attitude of loving me, but the price has already been marked in my heart and actions.
He has decided on you and knows that you have no choice, so he uses marriage to knock you off.
Because if you directly say you are poor, you will appear snobbish, so I will label you as having a bad attitude.
He is just being cool and profitable.
For the rich, betrothal gifts and attitudes are value exchanges.
They dare not ask the rich people directly for the price, because others will see through their intention to sell their daughters to get rich.
What to do?
Show your attitude. Rich people can give as much as they want, and they don’t dare to make mistakes.
After all, rich people have no shortage of partners. If this one is missing, just change it to another one.
Just like when you were a child, you studied very hard, but as long as your grades failed to improve, your parents and teachers would definitely say that your study attitude was not correct.
Is it really a matter of attitude?
There's absolutely no way you can refute it.
Because what they want is just the final score, not the process, not the attitude.
If you look at other people's couples who are seriously in love, marriage usually involves both families and the couple serving the family together,
The man gives a bride price and the woman gives a dowry, which contains the love and blessings of the parents, and they are taken back to the family together,
The money stays in the hands of young people and has nothing to do with their parents.
The so-called attitude is just a fig leaf for bargaining.
On the one hand, he wants face, and on the other hand, he wants money.
After all, being so incompetent that he relies on selling his daughter to make a living is a shame in itself,
But with the word attitude, the feeling immediately changed.
It's reasonable to dig into your pocket.
Therefore, people who use the word attitude to kidnap others are generally hypocritical and greedy. ”
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On the barrage.
Qingnan: "Oh my god, has this man been hurt by a woman?"
Gouzi: "Have you ever been hurt by a man (smile)?"
Xixi: "Oh, I understand. It means that the girl's parents will help you raise her for free. When she grows up, she will be sent to your home, and she will also take care of your whole family, right? (vomiting)."
Xiao Wan: "Sisters, which daughter-in-law is serving the parents-in-law now? Don't look for trouble."
Yaoyao: "That's right, and what the military advisor said is that some parents of girls should not bring them in (thank you)."
Shi Chen: "If you don't want to give a bride price, you can just not get married, and you won't have to face such a problem (rolls eyes)."
Stranger: "You don't need to get married, so you don't have to quarrel with others (contempt)."
Xu Xiansen: "I'm sorry, why did such a female punch suddenly enter the room!"
Brother Long: "Commander, please speak more leisurely, you will lose fans!"
July: "Just drop it, I'm not a big fan anyway."
Xiaohe flowed: "We have reached the point of discussing marriage. It is impossible for a woman not to know the man's financial level. Under such circumstances, a girl who still proposes a high betrothal gift that is unbearable for the man, I just want to say that of course money is important. But you are worthless, and the time spent with you is like feeding a dog! The same question is asked, which one is more important, a husband or a bride price? ”
"What I said is so good (applause)!"
“Comfortable (haha).”
"The last rhetorical question, absolutely (thumbs up)!"
Hahahahaha.
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Lin Feng glanced at the barrage and said: "I can only say that there is a gap in thinking about this thing. You must say there is something wrong with what these girls said, right?
Neither.
It's nothing more than trying to gain more benefits for myself.
But what's the problem now?
You can't confuse concepts.
If you talk about feelings, then we all think about each other. You can't say that you know that the other person doesn't have that much, but you still insist on it.
If you don't give it, say that the other party has no attitude.
So tell me what is attitude?
It's just a waste of money, and I owe you a lot of debt. I'll make up for the betrothal gift for you.
After all, what you are after is money.
Then make it clear, I won't marry without the money.
You can't give others the label of not loving them enough when you ask for money.
Aren't you just a hooligan?
When talking about money, mark the price clearly, and don’t miss a penny.
If you can get it together, do it; if you can't, get it together.
straightforward.
When talking about relationships, you must take into account the actual financial conditions of the other party. Everyone should be tolerant of each other and work hard together. Don't talk about what's yours and what's mine.
Right, brothers?
Some of these girls are just stupid and don’t have their own opinions.
My family wants 180,800 yuan, while his family wants 168,000 yuan.
what to do?
So what do you say?
You damn well know that his family only has 168,000 yuan.
What can you do with a difference of 20,000 yuan?
What can you do with more than 20,000 yuan?
You all know that he doesn’t have the 20,000 yuan, yet he still insists on saying that you don’t love me enough,
You said you pushed him hard,
Even if he tried his best to collect the 20,000 yuan, he must have been holding back his anger before the marriage.
Because you don't understand me.
Then I will definitely find fault with you after marriage.
Can you think about it for yourself?
The reason why you chose to marry him in the first place was because you fell in love with him as a person and wanted to live with him. If life becomes difficult again in the future, or if I get sick, will he always take care of me and be good to me? .
You said, isn't this what you should investigate?
As a result, you are now investigating the bride price.
Let me ask you, if I give you the 188,000 yuan, how many years can I guarantee you?
Isn't the most important thing that the couple is of the same mind and stays together through thick and thin?
Now you are insisting on the betrothal gift, constantly embarrassing him, and thinking that he will be gentle and considerate to you after marriage, don't you just want to take it for granted?
I saw someone on the public screen saying that if everyone else is 188,000, why should I be 168,000?
Doesn’t that mean you put a price on yourself?
Are you worth 188,000?
If you really count money, let me tell you, as a person, you are definitely not measured by money.
So no matter how you calculate it, you will still lose money.
The key depends on what you think.
If you think that this man wants to spend his whole life with me, love me all his life, and put me first, tell me what are you losing?
Now you focus on money, you put a price on yourself, and you devalue yourself.
Do you think you are fucking stupid?
It’s not that he didn’t give it, he really didn’t.
You knew he didn't have any, yet you asked his whole family to lend you money to collect the dowry.
If you pay it back with the whole family after marriage, people will definitely have complaints against you in their hearts.
What the hell are you planning?
While clamoring for women’s rights and equality, why are they not equal now?
Tell a few truths and just scream.
Call, call, call,
Call you sister! ”
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On the barrage.
"Hahaha, kill me like crazy, kill me like crazy."
"The military advisor is so jealous!"
"Kick them all out if they bark any more."
"I think what the military advisor said is one-sided. It's okay to not ask for a bride price when you meet a good man. But when you meet a bad man, if you don't want a bride price, you are digging a hole for yourself."
"What are you digging? You said he is a bad person. Will he become a good person just because you asked for a bride price?"
"That is, you are an adult, and you must have the ability to withstand risks. As the military counselor said, you cannot say that men and women are equal while emphasizing that you are a vulnerable group."
"If you feel that this man is wrong and risky, then don't marry him. As someone who has experienced it, I can tell you that if there is a problem in a marriage, it must be a problem with the person, not a problem with the bride price."
That's so true.
Gouzi: "A woman listened and I ate my phone."
Yang Hua: "I heard it. Please eat your phone (smile)."
Lemon: "I also heard it, eat two (roll eyes)."
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Gouzi:. . .
Hahaha.
Xiao Wan: "Sisters, I really don't blame Brother Gouzi. Look at those people upstairs. They are very malicious in their words (laughing)."
Daimiao: "I understand. Actually, it's because my parents don't listen."
Ruhua: "Yes, and I have been watching this anchor for two days. He has very upright views and often speaks for us girls."
Uh-huh.
"Welcome to join the family of military advisors."
(End of chapter)