Chapter 217 A man who acts like a spoiled brat has the best life
Boy: "Although I don't earn much now, I will definitely have no problem if I can ensure the expenses of my wife and children."
Lin Feng: "Even the salary will help support the family, right?"
Boy: "What is a subsidy? I gave it all. She doesn't need to ask for it. I handed it all over on my own initiative."
Lin Feng slapped the table: "Then look at it, what kind of attitude do you need? 700,000 yuan in gift, a five-story villa, and all the salary will be handed over. There is nothing wrong with it, buddy."
Boy: "I think there's nothing wrong with her, but she always doesn't understand me. I see a lot of people saying I have a problem on public screens. What's wrong with me? I'm so fucking frustrated."
The boy actually started crying as he said that.
Lin Feng pointed at Gongping and said: "You little fairies, look at it for children, let me tell you,
Male,
What are the demands in marriage?
Most men don’t ask their spouse to be good at making money in life. What does he want?
What he wants is the warmth and adoration you give him at home.
Some of the work he does outside, no matter how hard or tiring it is, is something he feels should be undertaken by him.
This is what he wanted when he got home.
Warmth,
A sense of adoration.
Have you noticed it yourself? Almost every man after marriage has such an experience.
Even after work, he would park the car in the basement and not go upstairs.
Then he stays in the car for half an hour and an hour, which is his own independent space.
Because when you are in a company, you have to make your boss happy, your employees happy, your investors happy, and your customers happy.
When I get home, I have to make my wife and children happy, and my parents happy.
After marriage, a man has to play various social roles, but the only one he is not qualified to play is himself.
So every married man will have this experience. He will park his car in the basement without him getting in, and then he will light a cigarette in the car and smoke for half an hour.
Why doesn't he go back home?
Because outside the car is family and work, and inside the car is your own time.
After returning home, I faced my wife's incomprehension, thoughts, and even various accusations.
Then who wants to go home?
So sometimes I think about the person next to you saying to you after you get home, "Oh, my husband is off work. Thank you for your hard work. Are you hungry? Let me cook you a bowl of noodles."
That is the core of what impresses a man!
You said that I was out working all day long, and you were angry with me because I didn’t wash the dishes when I got home,
I was late socializing outside, and you sent me frantic NMS messages and asked me if I was on my way out.
Which man can stand this thing of yours? ”
After Lin Feng finished speaking, the man burst into tears.
"Brother, you understand me, you really understand me, woo woo woo."
. . . . .
On the barrage.
“Are all men really like this (I don’t understand)?”
"Let's put it this way, home is not a place to rest, it is a job. Going to work is my job as an employee, and when I go home, my job is my boyfriend/husband/father. It's just walking from one job to another. The real rest The places are tree tops, parking lots, and trash cans (smile) ”
"It could also be the corridor or bathroom at home."
“Really, when I sit by the trash can, sometimes I can’t tell whether it’s me inside or me outside.”
"Only that brief moment can truly feel like your own time."
"But most men actually spend their time in the voice of their wives accusing them of being useless."
Damn it!
Defense broken!
"Haha, you are so tired, you have to work, take care of the family, and coax your husband (grin)."
"No, no, sister, you are just talking nonsense. You will not suffer any loss. You will not be tired after a long time. You are natural and human. You can experiment and see if it works."
"Haha, I can't make this money, just make it yourself."
"Are you hungry? I'll cook you a bowl of noodles. This is the key to impressing me as a boy. If he doesn't peel the mango, I'll let him eat the mango peel and core (smile)."
"Haha, then you are so awesome (rolls eyes)."
"So the demands of the sexes are different."
"But life is about mutuality. If both care about themselves and are unwilling to do more for each other, they will get divorced sooner or later."
"It's really not easy for all living beings to walk around and meet someone who can understand each other."
"I also have a job, but it's easier than my husband, and I have to get off work earlier. Every time my husband comes home, I throw my arms into his arms. After eight years together, he still cares about me. Come home and stay with me as soon as you get off work.”
"Envy!"
"Let's start the class, sisters."
"What kind of class are you on? Don't they say that after get off work, you just stick in your husband's arms?"
"Still fluttering his arms (grin)."
"So cute, who can't love (dog head)?"
"Hahaha, it's out of the picture."
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "But buddy, I understand you, but your wife's situation may be different from others."
Boy: "Why is it different?"
Lin Feng: "Let me ask first, is your wife not working now and taking care of the children at home full-time?"
"Yes."
Lin Feng: "Are you alone? Are there any elderly people to help or a nanny at home?"
Boy: "There is no nanny. My parents have their own affairs and are not here."
Lin Feng: "So, buddy, the baby is only 7 months old. Your wife is taking care of the baby at home, so she may have postpartum depression.
No kidding, I had several in a row this night.
Brother Shui went to make supper. He's not here. Otherwise, let him give you some popular science.
It is normal for a woman to have ups and downs of emotions during this stage of lactation, including pregnancy.
I feel it is necessary for you to communicate correctly with your wife and express your current uncomfortable experience to her accurately.
You said that I am also a human being, and I am not an animal, and then you always boss me around. I feel very uncomfortable now, so I have to express it to the other party.
At the same time, I think you must pay attention to the issue of caring about your wife's mental health.
Why?
Because you are dealing with a seven-month-old child,
If your wife does not have an outlet for her emotions in your home, she will definitely vent her emotions on you.
There's no way, man.
So what do you want to do? She has no one to talk to, so she can't let her digest it by herself.
Over time, lesions will develop. ”
Boy: "But she and her mother have been on the phone all the time. They were fine and nothing happened."
Lin Feng: "Yes, her mother was her outlet before, so she wouldn't lose her temper with you. Then tell me why she doesn't talk to her mother on the phone now?"
Boy: "It's about the bride price."
Lin Feng: "Look, essentially your wife still stands with you. Now she doesn't call her mother because of the bride price. She is very aggrieved. If she doesn't vent to you, who will she vent to?
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You can't vent to your children.
He is only 7 months old and can’t understand it. ”
The boy was silent.
Lin Feng: "One more thing, buddy, have you never taken care of a child alone?"
The boy nodded.
Lin Feng: "So I say you really have to experience it for yourself before you can understand. If you are raising a child at home, you have to hold it even when you go to the toilet. You are afraid that if you look less, the child will fall off the bed or sofa. .
Why?
A seven-month-old child can already roll over and crawl.
Maybe when you are halfway to the toilet, half of your child's body is already outside the bed.
I don't dare to leave the child alone in the bed.
I can only eat cold food or leftovers.
Why?
Because you can't cook for yourself.
You can't live without it.
You said you left the child alone in the bedroom and went to the kitchen to cook?
Impossible dude.
So if you are raising a baby alone, you can only eat bread, biscuits, or leftovers.
There were also children who were crying and making trouble.
You said that a child who is just a few months old won't be able to say what's wrong with him.
Sometimes I cry for half an hour.
You don’t know if he is hungry or thirsty, or if he feels uncomfortable or sick.
I'm telling you, people really break down in that situation. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"My man, I have taken care of children, and it is three times more tiring than working. It's true! You can take a break while working, but you can't take care of children. If you don't pay attention, you will fall and bump into people. The spirit will be tense all the time and it will be really tiring.”
"My son was born two months ago. I went out to earn money. My husband worked as a stay-at-home dad for two years. I found out that my husband was not only depressed, but also had schizophrenia. I was so scared that I immediately quit my job and took care of myself. He went out to earn money. When he got money, I found that he worked very hard to make money. Maybe he was exhausted from raising a baby for two years (smile) ”
"Really, let alone a man who has been raising a baby for two years, I think my husband will have a schizophrenia after raising a baby for two months at home. I went to postpartum recovery for two hours, and before I even got home, I heard Dabao yelling at him. , I found out after asking, he said he really wanted to sleep for a while, but the second child wouldn't let him sleep, and had to be carried away, so he finally rocked the second child to sleep, and the boss woke up the second child with a loud voice. Really broke down (laughing to death)”
"Haha, the fact is that whoever takes care of the children will be depressed, regardless of the parents or the parents-in-law."
"Really, whoever takes care of the child is crazy."
“The most annoying man is telling his wife how tiring and difficult it is to raise children, and at the same time he says it’s not easy for my mother to raise me (smile).”
"Accurate, one hit (dog head)."
"So, if the other person doesn't understand you, just throw the child into his arms, let him feel it, and go out for a day to eat and drink."
This can be done!
Ha ha ha ha. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Brother, do you understand that your wife is only tortured by her children?
Why do I often say that love is mutual, you hope she understands you, she hopes you understand her,
If neither of them bravely accepts the fact that the other party collapses, and both expect the other party to love themselves first, wouldn't this mean that both people are competing and selfish. ”
Boy: "I'm too tired, brother."
Lin Feng: "Which man is relaxed? We are all tired, man."
"I really can't stand it any longer."
At one point the boy started crying.
Lin Feng: "Cry if you want, buddy. After you cry, go home. My wife has been tortured by the children for another day at home. She may not even have a hot meal. Go to the gate of the community and pack her a fried rice."
After Lin Feng finished speaking, the boy suddenly stopped crying.
"Brother, I'm going back now and I'll get her something delicious."
Lin Feng: "That's right, we are men, why are we arguing with our wives? The harder we suffer, the harder it will be. We men can handle it, but how do we break the ice after we get home?
The military advisor has two final words for you: Pretend to be drunk! ”
Boy: "Brother, I'm good at this. I'll buy two bottles of wine later and drink them first before going up."
Lin Feng smiled and scolded: "You are good at shit. The point is not to be drunk, but to pretend to be pitiful. Do you understand?
Not two fucking bottles, half a bottle at most.
After finishing half the bottle, you carry the warm snack home.
When you get home, hold your wife's hand and don't say anything, just cry.
Your wife was originally angry, but seeing you crying like that made her confused.
After being confused, I started to feel sorry for you.
Oh, husband, what’s wrong with you?
Why do you drink so much?
Is business difficult?
Isn’t it uncomfortable?
You lie down first, and I'll get you a hot towel and make you hangover soup.
At this time, you hold her.
Just say, wife, I know it’s not easy for you to take care of your children at home alone. You don’t dare to go to the toilet, and you don’t have hot meals. You feel uncomfortable, and you have no one to talk to.
I'm sorry, wife, I didn't take good care of you.
Your wife will cry when she hears you say that.
If she doesn't cry, I'll eat this phone. ”
The boy's eyes lit up when he heard this: "Then I'll start complaining now. I'll tell you how difficult it is for me."
Lin Feng: "I'm telling you about your sister's suffering. What nonsense are you talking about at this time? Look back and see if the child is asleep. If the child is asleep, just pick up your wife and pick her up.
Throw it onto the sofa.
Dude,
Remembered.
There's no need to talk nonsense at this time, just do it and you're done. ”
Well. . .
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"You just do it and it's over"
Damn it!
"Can I, a passing fan, listen to this? (Bread Dog)."
Ha ha ha ha.
"Let me ask, is it really useful for a man to pretend to be drunk and look pitiful?"
"Please, a boy who can cry is really cute (dog head)."
"He! Yes! Green! Tea! Male! But he is so cute hahahaha."
“It’s the same as my family, everyone loves to cry (laughs to death).”
"I really like what to do when a boy cries. One of them is completely controlled."
"Me too, sisters, do you have any solution?"
"You cry before he does, and strike first (dog head)."
"Or give him a multiple-choice question: Do you want to cry for two minutes and then apologize to me? Or do you want to calm down here and express it in writing to me tomorrow? Huh? Puppy (scratches his chin)."
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"Help, why are you so cute (I like it so much)."
"Hey, brothers, have you learned it?"
"Learned halfway."
What does it mean?
"I haven't learned how to pretend to be pitiful, but I can do it (dog head)!"
Poof~
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Lin Feng: "Brother, remember, a man who can act coquettishly has the best luck in marriage.
In reality, many men always feel that men should be the stronger ones due to the influence of traditional culture.
You shouldn’t bow your head,
You should not admit your mistake.
You shouldn’t act coquettishly,
One should not expose one's weaknesses.
I think this is a very cheap and unmanly behavior.
But in fact, in relationships, only a man who is timid can run a family well.
For example, when two people are quarreling and the argument becomes heated, you suddenly become aware of the emotion and the hurt in the words.
You suddenly changed your face and said, "Honey, I was wrong. What you just said was right. Come on, I'll treat you to something delicious."
You said your wife burst into laughter soon.
The problem may be solved.
Also, when you and your wife are chatting together, don’t be so serious, don’t be condescending, don’t teach,
It is appropriate to say my wife, I miss you, my wife, please give me a hug.
Using this gentler and more intimate way can enhance your relationship,
Another thing, have you seen it? In a good marriage, they can tell the quality of their relationship through their titles.
For example, when it was sweet, what was stored on it was the invincible dear baby in the universe, but after the quarrel, it was directly changed to two words: idiot.
Isn't it interesting to smile like this?
Finally, there are men. There is a lot of pressure in life. Sometimes when you are tired, many people think that men should not shed tears easily. They should not expose their weakness and depression.
But you have to know that home is the safest and warmest place. If you really love her and believe her,
You can expose your weakness in front of her.
You can tell her, wife, I've been under a lot of pressure and tired recently. Give me a hug, and my wife will let me lean on you.
Rather than saying that you are too tired to go home, you park your car on the side of the road alone in the middle of the night, sit in the car and connect the microphone to me,
Tell me you're under a lot of pressure and you can't stand it anymore.
The girls were crying again.
I'm not your fucking wife. What's the use of complaining and crying to me.
You drive home now.
Listen to me,
Carrying a small midnight snack, I cried as soon as I walked in the door. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"A man who acts like a spoiled brat has the best life, hahaha."
"My boyfriend has learned this trick a long time ago, it's useful (sunglasses)."
"Really, my husband loves to act coquettishly. My wife is hungry and my wife has a toothache (laughing to death)."
"The same goes for my husband. I get used to it when he acts coquettishly. Haha."
"My wife sticks to it (kiss)."
"I'm going to try. If I don't come to the room tomorrow, please remember to help me raise money for my medical expenses tomorrow (please)."
"Go ahead, it won't cost you more than a few days in the ICU."
"Hahahaha."
"You guys just laugh. If you have a wife, just laugh."
Well. .
"We are just netizens and you have crossed the line (smile)."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Boy: "Then what if she ignores me?"
Lin Feng: "Just run to her and cry, put her arms around your waist, hold her, and cry,
If she turns her face away, you turn her over,
If she doesn't move over, bite her neck.
If she doesn't laugh, I'll eat this computer too. ”
Boy: "The military advisor is broken."
Lin Feng: "What's wrong?"
Boy: "My wife said she has something to tell you."
? ?
Lin Feng: "Aren't you on the side of the road? Is your wife at home?"
Boy: "Yes, but my wife is also in the live broadcast room."
? ? ?
Damn you. . .
(End of chapter)