Chapter 236 Mom, stop hitting me
After Lin Feng finished speaking,
The barrage collapsed.
Various voices came from everywhere, slowly forming two voices.
A statement supporting Lin Feng, believing that parents should reflect on themselves and be less restrictive.
The other insists that children are spoiled and must be dutiful sons under the stick.
For a moment, the two voices were at a stalemate.
Lin Feng didn't want to talk about this topic anymore, but then a barrage caught Lin Feng's attention.
"Hello, Military Advisor, I am the school psychology teacher of a beautiful classmate. I would like to say a few words."
Lin Feng raised his eyebrows and reported the teacher to the microphone.
"Hello, teacher, what do you call me?"
"Just tell me to be quiet."
Lin Feng: "Teacher Anjing, are you the school psychology teacher of that sister just now?"
Jing Jing: "Yes, when I was giving psychological counseling to my pretty classmate, you told me your story all the time.
She said that during the time when she was depressed, she could only find a little happiness and laugh by watching your videos.
Later, your live broadcast style changed, but many of the things you said touched her heart even more, allowing her to regain her strength little by little.
I'm very curious about what kind of person the Atong brother she talks about is.
In fact, I have been watching your live broadcast room for a few days.
I particularly agree with many of your points.
The most important thing is your ability to empathize, which touches me so much.
I feel like I am a student in front of you. ”
Lin Feng smiled and shook his head: "Teacher Jingjing, please don't say that, otherwise the brothers in the room will think you are a trap for me."
Jing Jing: "It's not a request, it's not a request. Military advisor, you may not know that Liangliang was diagnosed with severe depression when she was a freshman in high school. The situation was very, very serious at that time,
My suggestion is to take a leave of absence.
But she just watched your video and came out little by little.
I really admire you.
I really have to learn from you. ”
Lin Feng's heart sank.
Feeling the pressure on my shoulders again.
Jing Jing: "Especially the conversation you just had with Liang Liang and her mother, it really inspired me so much, so I just wanted to come up and thank you."
Lin Feng: "Teacher Jingjing is so humble."
Jing Jing: "I'm coming up, and the second thing is that I saw a lot of people beating their children if they didn't obey on the public screen, so I especially wanted to come up and say a few words.
Lin Feng: "Then I invite the school psychology teacher from the best high school in the city to teach the brothers a lesson."
Jing Jing: "No, no, no, I don't dare to take classes casually in the military advisor's live broadcast room,
Well, let me tell you a story, a story that I personally experienced.
Actually, I didn’t study psychology at first, I was a Chinese teacher,
At that time, there was a child in my class who suddenly became emotional and wanted to commit suicide in front of me.
I chased him from one end of the corridor to the other. He was very excited and wanted to jump down.
I held his hand tightly, but he kept resisting.
he said. . . Teacher, don't stop me, teacher. . . Just let me die,
After I die. . My whole family is quiet.
I. . . I. . My parents will never fight because of me again, and they will never beat me again. ”
Teacher Jingjing spoke with difficulty, her voice choked.
"I actually liked wearing high heels before, but since then, I have never worn high heels again when I go to work,
because. . . I don't know when. . Every minute and every second. . . I'm going to rush out and chase the students,
Teacher Jingjing finally couldn't help but burst into tears.
She cried: "In all these years of studying, no course or teacher has taught me how to deal with children with such psychological problems, how to deal with these special situations?
At that time I read a book called Nonviolent Communication,
I taught the children in our class what kind of situations they should face and how to communicate with their parents.
But. . . The child came to me crying the next morning,
he said. . . old. . teacher. . What you taught me is of no use at all,
Woo woo woo. .
he said. . . That dead man and that crazy woman, they pulled me out of bed at around 12 o'clock in the middle of the night,
Nothing original. . . Beat me up,
Then I used the methods you taught me. . . I tried to communicate with them, but it was of no use! !
Teacher Jingjing cried bitterly as she recalled the past.
"That day... I had a two-hour phone call with his mother. His mother told me, Teacher, I'm not even afraid of your jokes... My husband and I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau,
The two of us wanted to divorce, but we had to wait for a divorce.
The two of us still couldn't get a divorce, and then we couldn't get divorced that day. I got angry and beat him up that night. .
after. . . I worked hard for more than half a year, but... . Nothing worked,
I really feel so pitiful for him. . . He's still so little. . . So thin. . .
My body is scarred every day. . .
Woohoo. . . I told him. . . The teacher really has no choice,
Can you study hard, pass the exam, and go to high school somewhere far away? . . Go to college. . . You leave this home. . .
later. . . He jumped loudly. . . Ahhhh. .
At that time, I really felt that the existence of the teacher was really a joke. . .
I used all the knowledge I had learned and all the efforts I put in, but I couldn't help him. . .
I can't save him either. . .
So I quit my job and majored in psychology again. I hope I can help children. . . ”
After An Jing finished speaking, the public screen was silent for a long time.
After a while,
The barrage collapsed.
"I have spent all my life's learning but I can't save him (I cry to death)."
"Oh my God, how desperate he must be. He said without hesitation that I should die in front of the teacher (crying)."
"I don't wear high heels anymore because I don't know when I will run out to chase students again (I cry to death)." "I am paying attention to this teacher. This teacher is really a good person."
"You should go farther in the exam and leave this home. This is the best way the teacher can come up with (woo woo)."
"But I can't pass the exam, so..."
"Divorce is not on the agenda, so we have to beat the children??"
"What the hell kind of parents are these? (angry)."
"So the group of people who don't want to have children are exactly the kind of people who are most suitable to be parents."
"Really, because they know the responsibility is heavy."
"Because they have suffered too many grievances, they understand what correct education is, but the more they know, the heavier their hearts become (ugh)."
. . . . . .
Lin Feng took a deep breath: "Thank you, Teacher Jingjing, for sharing this story with us."
"Thank you too, Military Advisor. Thank you for giving me this opportunity. Military Advisor, you are really good. Your language skills can help many people.
I hope you keep doing this. ”
Lin Feng's nose felt sour.
"Okay, let's work together."
"Well, goodbye, military advisor."
Teacher Jingjing turned off the mic.
Unknown user: "Isn't that how we all grew up at that time? Today's children, even if they are spoiled, are spanked less. If spanked a few more times, they will become obedient."
Lin Feng stared at this barrage and frowned: "Brother, you are so disgusting.
Really,
You are a disgusting person.
If you feel proud of beating others, are you worthy of being a parent?
Violence education, you are hurting others, the child will be scared and cry loudly when you beat him,
And in your heart, you don't have any sympathy for this kind of crying, you just feel obedient,
Then you might as well get a dog.
Dogs are more obedient.
Remember,
We are not born to be other people’s pets, and we are not born to be beaten by you.
Depend on!
Some people even say on public screens that the spanking method is wrong and teach others how to spank their children.
How to spank children more scientifically?
Brothers,
Just tell me how bad the environment is for us parents.
Even this can become an object of learning.
Teach you how to beat a child scientifically?
I'm really fucking convinced.
Sometimes after you spank your child, have you ever asked yourself a question?
Why did the child reconcile with us 15 minutes after we beat him?
And maybe after half a month or a month, we would still tell everyone about spanking our children, treating it as a joke or showing off to everyone.
Any idea why this is happening?
Why?
Because our children love us far more than we love our children! ”
Hiss~
The group of people who were shouting on the barrage just now all fell silent.
"Because our children love us more than we love our children"
These words. . .
There's really no way to argue with that.
Because for a child, his parents are everything to him, but for adults, everything is more than just children.
So what qualifications do you have to say that you spank your children because of love?
"I always ask my son, if your mother is sometimes cruel to you, do you still love your mother? He said: I do. Although you are sometimes cruel to me, I still love you very much (crying to death)."
"That's me. Tears fell down when I heard it (woo woo)."
"For those who can't help but take action, next time you change the angle and ask your child, child, how much do you think your mother loves you? I asked my daughter. When you get the answer, I believe you will be the same as me. , forcing myself to make changes.”
Hiss~
My heart aches just thinking about it.
. . . . .
"@strategist, what do you think about falling in love with a man with a family?"
Raymond Lam: "It's ugly, blind, fair, 53,000 people, all fucking looking sideways.
All men are dead, why would you fall in love with someone else’s husband?
And you fucking. . . We are just talking about family education,
What a profound and heavy topic.
You come up and say you want to be a mistress?
You are so fucking insufferable. ”
Poof~
Hahahahaha.
Not to mention that the girls had this moment, and the originally tense atmosphere immediately became much more relaxed.
Lin Feng: "Let's talk as little as possible about such sensitive topics in the future. There were 56,000 people in the live broadcast room just now, and I killed 3,000 people with just one microphone.
Damn it,
Next next.
Attached
[Military Advisor’s Remarks: Every child was once an angel!
They once lay on the clouds and carefully selected their mother,
They picked you,
Then throw away the countless treasures in the sky, come to you naked, like a little beggar with nothing.
He was like a slow snail, he couldn't use chopsticks, and couldn't even tell the difference between his left and right hands.
But they love you inherently. 】
(End of chapter)