Lin Feng: "Finally, I want to say a few words to my aunt's daughter. Of course, she may not see my live broadcast.
But I still want to say a few words.
In the eyes of our parents, it doesn't matter whether we young people love us or not. What matters is that we get married.
It doesn't matter whether you live happily or not, what matters is getting married.
They simply like to watch the fun and see newlyweds getting married and having children and grandchildren.
Everything is just for your own perfection.
And there is a high probability that they will not defend your wrong marriage.
Just like when we were young, we said we wanted to raise a kitten or puppy,
My parents would advise me, no matter how old you are, take care of yourself first.
Or can you afford it? Do you have the ability to take responsibility for it?
A puppy is also a life, you have to think clearly.
But we never said that when we had children.
You are 26 this year,
Master degree.
You have been abroad and seen a different world.
Your life still has infinite splendor and unknowns.
This is probably why you don't want to come back.
I admire your courage and appreciate your rebellion.
Next time mom urges you to come back and get married,
You don't have to talk to her about work anymore, just talk to her openly.
I am not a non-marriage person, nor am I a single person.
I am happinessism, I am happinessism.
If you push me now, it will only make me more determined. I don't want to become an adult like you in the future.
I don't want to start a family like this.
I don’t want to live like this anymore,
I've had enough, and I've been too afraid.
All my efforts and struggles now are for the day when I can confidently tell my children:
Mom didn't become rich, it had nothing to do with giving birth to you.
Mom's bad life has nothing to do with you.
The failure of mom and dad is not because of you.
My relationship with your father is not good, and it's not your problem.
Sister,
Don't be afraid to flip the table,
Turning the table over is a prerequisite for harmony.
Because parents actually expect a strong answer from you.
Expect you to push them hard.
Tell them out loud: I can handle my own life.
Believe me,
Filial piety and rebellion are not contradictory.
I love you, but I really don't want to copy your life.
So I don’t want to repeat your life and expect different results.
Ordinary family, ordinary background.
If you expect the same result.
There will definitely be a lot of rebellion and misunderstood behavior in the early stages.
Just like me at this moment,
Many of you criticized my remarks on public screens.
But a few years later, if people can see the self-introduction of ‘Marriage and Rebellion’ in advance,
I will definitely edit this paragraph of my proposition into a pdf file, hang it in my live broadcast room like Spring Festival couplets, and update it irregularly every year.
I am not going to criticize my parents or the generation older than us. People are just tiny individuals caught up in the torrent of the times.
What kind of background will generate what kind of ideas, and they will be iterated.
Including us now.
Right or wrong is secondary.
Everyone is responsible for their own lives.
Who wants to get married, whoever wants to get married,
If parents really yearn for marriage, let them get married for the second time. If they are not satisfied with the second marriage, they can have a third or fourth marriage. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Really, when I was a kid, I wanted to raise a puppy but I couldn't keep it alive. Why did I keep pushing to have a baby? Are kids easier to raise than dogs? (Smile)"
"My dad passed away from stomach cancer. My mom said it was because I was so angry that I couldn't have a child. It's been a year now. I asked her if that was really the case. She said I was so worried about whether I should have her. Die? (Submitted)"
"Stomach cancer is often caused by poor gastrointestinal problems and eating problems, so whoever cooks for your dad is responsible (dog head)."
Awesome!
Ha ha ha ha.
"I am a mother with a 21-year-old son, and my son also thinks the same way. I once thought that children's prejudices about life were due to naive thinking, or even a lack of understanding of family affection.
When I saw your live broadcast today and what you just said, I felt like it unlocked a blank area in my brain. It turns out that our generation is too accommodating and cares too much about other people's feelings. In the final analysis, we live for others, which is a mistake in itself. of.
What reason do I have to let my children copy my life?
You are right. In this life, which lasts only a few decades, you should be as happy as you want. You are responsible for your own life.
Your live broadcast today shocked me. I can’t say it completely changed my mind, but it made me re-examine my views on future life. ”
"Children are lucky to have such enlightened parents as you!"
"Why did I watch the live broadcast for my mother? My mother said that the military advisor was talking nonsense and told the military advisor to get lost (face covering)."
Military Advisor: Why didn’t I tell you to get out (smile)
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Okay,
Next one.
Ding~
"Hey!"
? ?
Lin Feng: "I'm not a sister, why are you sighing? You sigh when you come up, you witch, you suck my yang energy."
Lin Feng pinched his nose immediately, followed closely by Yu Huanshui.
The woman was stunned for a moment and laughed like crazy at the barrage.
"Hahahahaha, you suck my Yang Qi."
"Are you two serious about pinching your nose? (laughing to death)"
"I was dozing off, so I woke up with a smile, hahaha."
"Yangqi? This anchor is so funny!"
"Come and suck on the new crown (dog head)."
"Suck away the yang, and the rest is yin (sunglasses)."
"Specializes in sucking Xiaoyang people (covering face)."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Lin Feng: "Just kidding, sister, I know you have something on your mind when I hear you sigh, I am just trying to make you happy."
Girl: "Thank you, Strategist. I'm really tired recently, so I want to talk to you about emotional issues."
Lin Feng: "You have come to the right place to talk about feelings. Don't feel bad, sister. I believe in the strength of the military advisor."
Girl: "Okay! But don't scold me, because I do have a bit of a love brain."
Lin Feng: "Don't worry, sister, I usually don't scold the love brain, because the love brain is used to kill."
Well. .
. . . . . .
"I usually don't scold" "Kill directly"
"I would rather kill the wrong person than let go (the dog head)."
Ha ha ha ha.
"I'm really not jealous of the money a military advisor makes (sunglasses)."
"Hahaha, he should earn the money to bring Love Brain out of the sea of misery."
"That's not right, because I used my voice instead (raised eyebrows)."
"There is also an increasingly insane mentality (crying to death)."
"Quotations from military advisors: The world and I have to be crazy, right? (smile)"
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "Come on, sister."
Girl: "It's like this. My husband and I have been married for 12 years and have two daughters. My husband is a model husband and father in everyone's eyes,
He is indeed honest in everyone's eyes, simple and kind, very family-oriented, and very responsible, but. . He cheated. ”
? ?
Lin Feng: "No sisters, you turned around and turned directly on my big crotch. Is this a normal human expression?"
Well. .
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"This reversal went directly to my big crotch"
"There was so much foreshadowing, but the last sentence derailed me (grin)"
"Frog fun! This reversal was caught off guard (face covering)."
"It's not just that I was caught off guard, it's almost impossible to guard against (wipe away sweat)."
Ha ha ha ha.
"Sister-in-law has cooked breakfast for so many years (dog head)."
"A true model husband (sunglasses)!"
"Emphasis: Be honest, kind, and kind (raise your eyebrows)."
"Explode!"
“It’s quite explosive in the entire explosion world (thumbs up).”
. . . . .
Lin Feng: "Who is the cheating partner?"
Girl: "She is his subordinate, and then rumors came out in the work unit that in order to become a full-time employee, this female subordinate greeted him in all kinds of ways, bought him breakfast, and treated him well in various ways,
Then this time last year, I discovered their ambiguous chat on WeChat,
What he told me at the time was that fortunately I discovered it in time and he stopped at the brink, so I forgave him. ”
Lin Feng: "Let me tell you this, there is no such thing as spiritual cheating.
A person's mental cheating has already opened his bottom line and opened a door for him to fortify,
Again, there is no distinction between cuckoldry and cuckoldry.
Moreover, they have been chatting like that on WeChat, and when they meet in real work, do you think that the actual conditions are mature, the right time, the right place and the right people, won't something happen between them?
Remember, mental cheating is a precursor to physical cheating.
There is no such thing as pure mental infidelity.
Everyone starts with chatting and interacting.
Of course, there are those kinds of animals that don’t need to be exchanged, and you can even spend some money to get them,
But many people are chatting about problems.
So when you first discover that he is mentally cheating, you must let him know that it hurts,
If you don’t pursue the issue, just say a few words and forgive me,
It means that you gave him the opportunity to cheat on you physically. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"A cuckold is divided into dark green and light green? (Dog head)"
"You have to choose the one you like (sunglasses)."
"Children only make choices, and they should all have to raise eyebrows."
What the hell
Ha ha ha ha.
"It's just chatting on WeChat, but actually there must have been a lot of physical contact at work (grin)."
"Directly matched with (dog head)."
"I won't go to the biology class tomorrow morning, I found a better teacher (sunglasses).
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Girl: “He said nothing happened and just chatted on WeChat.
Later, he also deleted her WeChat account in front of me, and then also blocked that female Douyin,
But this year when I was checking WeChat bills, I checked his previous bills and found a problem. ”
Lin Feng: "Sister, your IQ is worrying. What does it mean if he deletes WeChat?
They work for the same company, and we see each other every day. The two of them may spend more time together every day than you do. ”
The girl was silent.
Lin Feng: "And let me tell you, you are just too stupid and have no brains.
Isn't your husband paying attention to this girl's fighting voice? You should remember her ID at that time and follow her secretly later.
Why?
Because you can judge a person’s character by his voice,
If your husband is already having an affair with her, you can open her TikTok at this time
I found that she is the kind of girl who always wears skirts that cover her hips and are very tight.
He also likes to lean on the door frame, deliberately sticking out his chest and buttocks,
If her works are like this, I tell you, she will not let your husband go.
Not only women do this, but men as well.
If the brothers in the room find someone deliberately chatting with your girlfriend or wife,
And this man’s Douyin works are all like bright and big cocks,
Wear tight jeans and show off your abs at every turn,
Don't worry, he won't let your wife go. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Tight hip-hugging skirt" "Leaning on the door frame"
"This kid looks at the dog head all the time."
"The eldest brother is a surfer (sunglasses)."
Ha ha ha ha.
"There is something like this in the live broadcast room. Feel free to send it to me (raise your eyebrows)."
"I'm going to see my girlfriend Douyin right away."
"Big bright cock (dog head)."
Cack?
Hahahahaha
. . . . . .
Girl: “But I heard my husband say that this woman had an affair with a man from his work unit, and then his wife came to the door. She is the type with a criminal record.”
Lin Feng smiled: "Do you really believe it, sister?
Your husband is making fun of others!
Because only in this way can we clean up the relationship with him. You see, this woman is not a serious person to begin with.
She must have taken the initiative to seduce my husband.
He is trying to divert your attention.
Why am I so sure?
Because everyone who has worked in the unit knows it.
The boss's woman, the people below dare not touch her.
There are no secrets in the office.
Your husband works in the same company as her, and they flirt with each other every day, and every little move is noticed by others.
Everyone knows the boss's woman, but who among the employees below would dare to touch her?
If your husband throws dirty water on her now, he must do it after eating, and it is a blame-shifting behavior.
Sister, your husband is not a man and has no responsibility. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"There are no secrets in the office" "The leader's woman dare not move"
"Sharp!"
"The analysis is too real."
"Every sentence is a classic!"
"Trivia: The most beautiful girl in the unit is not something you can imagine (dog head)."
"Why?"
"Famous beauties already have their owners, and wage earners just need to be safe and be themselves."
"Come here, there is nothing new under the sun (raise eyebrows)."
Words of wisdom!
. . . .
Girl: "She and my husband are in the past tense, now my husband..."
Lin Feng: "Your husband, your husband, if you don't believe me, just wait. What is supposed to happen will definitely happen."
The girl was silent for a while and said: "Actually... it has already happened."
Lin Feng rolled his eyes: "Then you still don't allow me to say that your husband is not good?
If you love your husband so much and tolerate him so much, don't come up and ask me.
Some people’s husbands are crystal husbands.
You are pure and pure, without any criticism. It was all because of someone else who seduced your husband. It was someone else who took the initiative,
Your husband is a moral gentleman.
Your husband is honest and kind.
Then he is quite calm,
First there was the mental derailment. I predicted that the mental derailment would definitely be followed by something more extreme.
Now that my prediction has been confirmed, you are still putting this aside.
If you give him another reason, you two will be together for a hundred years. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"I wish you two a happy marriage, hahaha, the military advisor is so angry."
"I'll choke my crystal husband (laughing to death)."
"Bingqingyujie's husband cheated on her (dog head)."
"Are these sisters here to name their husbands?"
"Lock it directly and wish 99."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Girl: "After I discovered the bill this year, I discovered that he had transferred 200 and 500 yuan every month for the two years before I discovered it. For a total of two years, he transferred about 30,000 yuan and 520 yuan."
? ? ?
Lin Feng: "No sisters, isn't your husband very handsome?
If you pay 200 or 500 a month, will this girl follow your husband?
Where are the beggars sent? ”
Girl: "Sometimes, 950 yuan was given out on the first day, and 50 yuan was given out the next day, so I collected exactly 1,000 yuan. I was also baffled. I didn't know why this happened, and then he still refused to admit it."
Lin Feng: "Your husband must have promised her something, otherwise who would agree to such a small amount of money?
Your husband must have promised to help others with his rights,
For example, helping her become a regular employee and giving her some conveniences in terms of authority,
She would be given priority to sign major contracts, and occasionally she would be allowed to take a leave of absence.
Also, your husband must have used some rhetorical tactics,
I suggest you confront this girl directly. Maybe it was your husband who first seduced someone else, and it was not this girl who came to seduce your husband. ”
The woman stopped talking again.
Lin Feng said angrily: "I have told you that some of these people are crystal husbands. Tell the truth, is your husband really handsome?
Am I handsome?
To be honest, I don’t even have the fucking confidence to pay 200 or 500 a month to make a girl follow me wholeheartedly.
You have been married for 12 years, have two daughters, and he is a company leader.
I usually socialize and drink every day,
That beer belly is probably bigger than when you were pregnant,
To be honest, I can't walk without pulling my waistband up a little because of my belly.
The leather shoes were polished every day and were even brighter than his forehead.
When the company goes to KTV for team building, they have to say a few words before singing.
The song has been looped 18 times and I haven’t finished two sentences yet.
After finally finishing speaking, the songs sung were either mothers or soldiers.
It’s still the same old bel canto tune.
What do you think a girl would like about him?
It must be your husband who used his responsibilities in the company to seduce this little girl by using sweet talk and some deception about power.
Your husband is morally corrupt and a scumbag.
The little girl is ignorant, are you ignorant too?
You have a wife and you are single. It is normal for others to admire you because you, an old man, have certain authority and status in the company.
It’s normal for people to admire you,
But you have a wife and children, and you can’t control yourself
It’s your husband’s problem,
die! ”
Well. .
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"The KTV team building part was too real hahahaha."
"I have died laughing at the leader's singing (haha)."
"My God, my leader sings either mother or father every year at the annual meeting, an authentic bel canto style (laughing to death)."
"We may be from the same company (sunglasses)."
Ha ha ha ha.
"When it comes to the belt part, Brother Shui is acting from behind (covering face)."
"Hahaha, I saw it too."
"Like Brother Shui, you are so cooperative."
"When the pants were pulled up, Brother Shui didn't seem very smart (dog head)."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Girl: “But my relative told me that my colleague’s wife went to their workplace to cause trouble, because my relative also works in his company, and I heard from my relative that this woman had a criminal record.”
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Lin Feng: "Your husband doesn't even shy away from it. He even lets his relatives know about it. Everyone in the work unit knows about it. He has no concern for your face. Your husband deserves to die even more."
Well. .
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"Hahaha, the military advisor is energetic again."
"The main thing is to scold (dog head)."
"Study hard."
"My sister-in-law can't handle the little talk of the military advisor."
Ha ha ha ha.
. . . . .
Girl: "Later, I also found this woman because my husband transferred 30,000 yuan to her. I asked her to pay back the money, and then she said she had no money, so she paid me back 5,000 yuan a month. Now she has paid back 10,000 yuan." .”
Lin Feng: "You are also an awesome sister. Your husband transfers 200 a month. To be honest, this money is not even enough to wash your feet.
In the end, you got your money back.
Help your husband have sex for free?
You are such a good wife.
Just for this reason, I wouldn't be able to divorce you. You are so virtuous. ”
Well. .
. . . . . . .
On the barrage.
"I cheated on you for two years and spent 30,000 yuan. Do you want the money back? (Confused)"
"The King of White Prostitutes is Born (Dog Head)."
"What is ability (thumb)."
"This is the first time I feel sorry for my mistress (laughing to death)."
"The world has finally become something I can't understand (grin)."
Ha ha ha ha.
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "I'm about to get sick of stupidity. Sister, just tell me your problem."
Girl: "The problem is that I am quite internally consumed now."
Lin Feng: "You deserve it!"
? ?
Lin Feng: "The problem all lies with your husband, but you don't dare to pursue it, and you talk to me for a long time,
It's not that the girl has a criminal record, or that the girl is misbehaving.
What kind of girl is she? Have you really proven it?
Isn’t that what your husband and your relatives told you?
You heard your husband say that your husband must have passed the blame.
Anyway, I've been sleeping for two years and I'm tired of it.
You heard your relatives say that, do you think your relatives will turn to you?
When people work for your husband, even relatives who are close to you will help your husband cheat on you.
Why?
He has to eat.
Your husband is his god of wealth and his bread and butter.
If we break up the two of you, will he be able to keep his job?
You should not say that your relatives are realistic, because human nature is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.
Look at you, aren’t you the same?
It's obvious that your husband is cheating on you, but you don't dare to have any emotions towards him.
Don't quibble.
If you have the ability, go ahead and make fun of him,
Do you have the ability to ask him to write a property agreement for you?
If you have the ability, do something about him,
You don't dare.
From what you just said, I can basically tell that your husband may not have even sincerely apologized to you, but just admitted it perfunctorily,
But you can forgive me. ”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
"You deserve it, you deserve it, you two are made for each other."
"The military advisor was right in his scolding."
"She just doesn't dare to tear her husband apart."
"You shouldn't have a job, right?"
"It's possible."
"She wants to come here to seek peace, but this live broadcast room is not suitable for her."
"Lock it up."
. . . . .
Lin Feng: "Although my words are a bit sharp, believe me when I hit you, I am definitely healing you and have no ill intentions towards you."
Girl: "I know."
That's good.
Lin Feng grinned: "Sister, get ready, I'll start."
? ? ?
The girl looked confused.
What the hell?
Haven't you already finished scolding?
What started? ?
The girl looked confused, and Lin Feng's gunfire started.
"Your crystal husband and her beautiful female subordinate in black silk stockings are in the office every day, loving each other and being extremely gentle.
As a result, when I get home from get off work, I will scorn you and lose my temper with you.
You think your husband was seduced, then do you think your husband took off his pants by himself?
No way,
Do you believe this?
That girl may have a bad taste**** (omit 800 words here)
younger sister. ”
. . . . . .
On the barrage.
"Oh my God, what a tiger and wolf word!"
"My mother!"
"Help hahahaha."
"For the first time, I have a new understanding (face covering)."
"Hahaha, is it so specific?"
"So what are the 800 words that were saved? (Dog Head)"
"Please look at vcr!"
"Hahahaha, Brother Shui is holding the blackboard in the back and laughing to death."
"The two of them are playing a double act here (smile)."
"Not a word is mentioned, every word is yellow (dog head)."
"My sister-in-law was even more internally distraught after hearing this."
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Lin Feng: "It's okay, sister, everything is over. Just reconcile the two of you. It's okay."
girl:. . . (End of chapter)